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Reality Rules Parkrun Launch 3 October 2026

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IwantToRetire · 31/08/2026 00:48

Today was another Parkrun Saturday and like every weekend the achievements by women was demoted by men running in the female category.

We are hoping to change this! In only a few weeks time, we will debut Reality Rules Runners UK at Parkrun. We hope that many hundreds (hopefully thousands) of you will join us to send a clear and strong statement to Parkrun about the huge support there is for fairness and sex-based categories at their events.

All sports events are responsible for putting on fair events. This includes free, volunteer run, community events like Parkrun.

So please tell people about Reality Rules Runners UK, as we are hoping to attract lots more supporters before our debut at Parkrun on 3 October.

Thank you! 🙏

https://realityrulesrunnersuk.substack.com/p/another-parkrun-down-only-a-few-weeks

Came across this by chance, so dont know more than this!

They are also on X for anyone on X https://x.com/RRRunnersUK

Another Parkrun down, only a few weeks to go

Today was another Parkrun Saturday and like every weekend the achievements by women was demoted by men running in the female category.

https://realityrulesrunnersuk.substack.com/p/another-parkrun-down-only-a-few-weeks

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murasaki · 12/09/2026 15:32

That's Nell, Simone and Grace to you....😂

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/09/2026 15:54

Not the more exotic MAMILs, the humdrum v 1.0 ones

Helleofabore · 12/09/2026 17:23

The situation with Claire is illustrative.

And yet, how often are we told that it doesn’t matter, it is not competitive and it is not the Olympics. Just compete against your best time and ignore any first finisher published names, don’t speak out and ruin something so wonderfully positive…

It really is a WTAF moment. And perhaps it says more about the attitude of those who are saying it and their own lack of competitiveness than other’s reality. I guess if you are not going to get a first finisher result or a high finish in the category , it doesn’t matter to ‘you’ (general you) and you can just dismiss it. All the while, categorising via implication any female competitor who is competitive and does care as being the problem.

RowsOfFlowers · 12/09/2026 18:35

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/09/2026 15:24

They’re all Neils, Simons and Grahams aren’t they!

Yep, mediocre men!

IwantToRetire · 13/09/2026 01:22

Have no idea what the article actually says. And not prepared to subscribe to find out. But thought the headline quite eye catching!

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/40346434/parkrun-dark-side-trans-rows-punchups/

Reality Rules Parkrun Launch 3 October 2026
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GreenwayHouse · 13/09/2026 08:38

I saw the headline too and wanted to read the article but also wasn’t prepared to pay!

On a side note, I hope parkrun will be monitoring their social media even if they don’t post. My last organisation (a big charity) did. I had one of the Neils/Simons/Grahams telling me not to bother tagging parkrun HQ on X because they don’t use their account anymore.

hallouminatus · 13/09/2026 10:39

I read the Sun article by clicking the link, then disconnecting from the internet before the pay wall kicked in. Not a great read but I've copied the text below. The short section which is relevant to this thread is in bold.

Dark side of Parkrun – the celeb-loved fitness phenomenon plagued by morning punch ups, bitter trans rows & locals’ fury. It is the free exercise behemoth that takes over parks up and down Britain every Saturday morning. But as its popularity reaches dizzying new heights, Parkrun has become a source of major controversies - from trans issues to 'physical attacks'. BRITAIN’S popular Parkrun events have come under attack after a surge in complaints about “unruly”, “chaotic” and “ego-driven” race-goers. The free, weekly runs – loved by celebs from Dame Kelly Holmes to exercise guru Joe Wicks, McFly drummer Harry Judd and fitness fanatics Ben Shephard and Spencer Matthews – have faced a wave of criticism in recent months. Those who visit the parks that host them, tell The Sun of “carnage” and “not much control” over the attendees that can range from the hundreds to more than 1,300 for some of the 5KM routes. Running louts have even forced the temporary closure of some events across the country. In August, one popular seaside Parkrun event was suspended for several weeks over safety concerns, after runners were “barged” into and “tripped”, according to some participants.A number of runners reported that the circuit in Weymouth, Dorset, had been ruined by congestion and “disgusting behaviour.” One runner said the event had become “a bit of a monster” because of its popularity. Another said: “It’s a lot of ego-driven runners cutting you up unashamedly to reach their PB (personal best).”The problem stemmed from the number of participants almost doubling in size – surging from 300 to 600 – during the summer holidays, with tourists staying in the area also joining in.Yet it’s not just the summer months that have caused problems. One jogger who fell trying to avoid being trampled on by fellow Parkrunners in Battersea. Complaints at Parkruns have been on the rise. Since Parkrun has grown in popularity, so too have complaints. More than 4.2million people have completed one in the UK and over 1,451 events take place every weekend across the country.The family-friendly events are run by volunteers with clear safeguarding protocols – but not everyone abides by the rules. In March, Ancholme Valley Way Parkrun in Lincolnshire announced that a runner had been “verbally and physically abused by a fellow participant”.Shocked organisers wrote on Facebook that the behaviour “will not be tolerated whatsoever” but a flurry of responses emerged alleging further and similar complaints. They added: “Parkrun is meant to be an event for everyone and, as such, all that we ask is that all participants please respect one another.” In response to the post, one woman, who described herself as a “slow runner”, complained that another participant had “screamed in my face” as she tried to pass them.A second lady commented that abuse was “happening too often, across all events”, while a third called it “completely unacceptable”. Animal expert Rachel Rogers has also come a cropper with her local Parkrun group volunteers. Rachel, 36, from Cheshire, claims Parkrun volunteers in her local area, Crewe, had blocked her from using the car park where they were hosting a weekend event and refused entry to anyone other than their group. Rachel, who runs a business called Nose To Tail, which trains dogs to find missing animals, says Parkrun members were “rude, entitled and extremely unpleasant”. She told The Sun: “Men in high-vis came over and said ‘You need to move, you can’t park there’ but it was a public place and we had already paid for parking. “I’ve had so many bad experiences with them. They have a sense of entitlement, like their need is greater than ours. They are extremely unpleasant.” She claimed hundreds attended local races and some were so oversubscribed that they were, “carnage, like there was not much control over it”. In 2023, Parkrun was embroiled in a transgender athlete row after it was revealed that trans-women were “setting new women’s records” on their female-only leaderboards. Thinktank Policy Exchange found it had happened three times in a month. Ex-Olympian Sharron Davies argued it was “distorting female rankings”. It led to runners accusing Parkrun bosses of “alienating women” and saying it was “outrageously unfair” because biologically born-men have “many physiological advantages over females”. Yet in spite of all the backlash, Parkrun appears to be running at full speed, expanding at pace and leaving complaints in the dust. Just two weeks ago, The Gentlemen director Guy Ritchie started allowing Parkrun to use Compton Abbas Airfield, in Dorset, which he owns, for races. The event, which started life as ‘Bushy Park Time Trial’, in Richmond, London, back in 2004, has grown into a world-renowned event that happens in 22 countries worldwide. Parkrun told us they are a charity that “exists to bring people together for free” to enjoy exercise in local communities. They said: “We have robust risk assessment and incident management procedures, alongside regular dialogue with our 2,900+ volunteer-led events across the UK and internationally.“The health and safety of participants and other park users is paramount. Any reports of inappropriate behaviour by participants are taken seriously, and are not consistent with the values or expectations of Parkrun. “We work closely with landowners and local communities. Participants are reminded of this and to respect other park users at pre-event briefings, and every event carries out a course check before it starts.”Parkrun told us they are a charity that “exists to bring people together for free” to enjoy exercise in local communities. They said: “We have robust risk assessment and incident management procedures, alongside regular dialogue with our 2,900+ volunteer-led events across the UK and internationally. “The health and safety of participants and other park users is paramount. Any reports of inappropriate behaviour by participants are taken seriously, and are not consistent with the values or expectations of Parkrun. “We work closely with landowners and local communities. Participants are reminded of this and to respect other park users at pre-event briefings, and every event carries out a course check before it starts.”I witnessed ‘carnage’ first-hand with the stampede of runners in London’s Battersea Park, says Sun reporter Josh Saunders. PLUMES of dust rise from the ground as the heavy thuds of more than 1,100 runners march, jog and walk to the parkrun starting line, on a crisp morning in London’s Battersea Park.Yet not everyone has such a positive experience to share.The race here – just a stone’s throw away from The Thames – became the most-attended parkrun event in the world when it began in October 2024 and you can see the appeal. It’s London’s fastest 5km course. It’s so popular it has become known as “the home of the running influencer” and even referred to as “Hinge for runners”, due to the non-stop social media celebratory posts. During my visit, there were 1,138 racers recording their times but I can see disruption before the race has even started.Amid warm-ups, cyclists angrily yell “move!” at the masses of joggers as they try to weave through the hundreds-strong crowds. In a pre-race announcement, runners are instructed to keep alert because of “a few issues with prams”, to “always keep left” and to stick to the five-metre wide road – not the grass.Just seconds after the ‘three, two, one’ race countdown start, three people fall and narrowly dodge being trampled by some over-zealous sprinters, clearly keen for a personal best. One is a teenage boy, who hobbles onto the grass, collapses, and clasps his arm in pain while fighting back tears. Medics are on hand but it’s a scene akin to the wildebeest stampede from Disney film The Lion King. It could have easily ended in serious injury. Seconds later, many runners are on the grass regardless – clamouring for the best position and trying to escape slow-moving traffic. Some swarm around the sides of wheelchair user Phoebe, 93, who cuddles dog Barney and tells me her runner daughter “put me behind the bench so I would be safe”. She’s not harmed but it’s an intimidating sight as the running mob charge towards her.Runners block the roads, leaving park users unable to cross to the central lawns. A panicked dad is forced to grab the handles of his young daughter’s bike, which has stabilisers on, after she nearly edges into the runners’ paths. One who braced the chaos was walker Carole Hazlewood, 89, and her dog Billie, 12. She grimaces when parkrun is mentioned, telling me: “Don’t talk about those runners. I hate it. They are unbelievably rude. “A couple of years ago a runner actually pushed me on the shoulder.” Parkrun is “a big issue” for locals like Carole, who has lived here for nearly 50 years, but she says they feel “helpless”.“Everyone’s really annoyed,” she tells me: “You just want to come into the park but the runners are all so entitled. I know they have to run somewhere but it shouldn’t be here.”Lucy Sandeberg, 56, a local, multi-time parkrun racer, also says there is “a big backlash from residents”, who are annoyed at losing access to a rare green space in London. Overall, she’s in favour of the event but has had issues due to the vast attendee numbers and feels change is needed.The clerk tells us: “I see it from both sides. People get really cross, especially those with dogs and pushchairs. They have to wait ages for the dense amount of runners to pass. “During one event, I was trying to get past them and they were like, ‘Mind the runners, mind the runners’. I was like, ‘Yeah, but it’s a park for people to walk in as well.’“They need to find the right balance for residents. If parkrun keeps getting bigger and bigger then I don’t know what they will do.” Chris Halsey, 64, who was taking his grandson to football practice, believes it’s a case of residents kicking off over nothing though. “No disrespect to them but they think, because they live here, that they are above everyone,” he says. “Like, ‘This is my park, I belong here’. They are the only ones to moan.“You do see arguments – people yelling when runners don’t give way to people – but it’s also hard for runners to slow down with the momentum they have built.” I bump into multiple marathon runner and former Made In Chelsea star Spencer Matthews, 38, who tells me: “I think it’s fantastic, I love it.” He’s not running today but is a regular at this parkrun, saying it’s “brilliant” because of the “nice community vibes”. Within 14 minutes and 59 seconds the first man crosses the finish line, followed by another two seconds later and a third 17 seconds after that. One man barges through two women on the final straight to the finish line, leaving them furiously muttering. By the one-hour seven-minute mark, the final runner has crossed the line. The thousand-plus crowd gathers around, taking photos and congratulating one another. Today’s Battersea Park event saw 119 personal bests set, one person completed their 250th Parkrun and another four achieved their 100th and while there are plenty of smiles there have also been plenty of close shaves.

Helleofabore · 13/09/2026 10:39

hallouminatus · 13/09/2026 10:39

I read the Sun article by clicking the link, then disconnecting from the internet before the pay wall kicked in. Not a great read but I've copied the text below. The short section which is relevant to this thread is in bold.

Dark side of Parkrun – the celeb-loved fitness phenomenon plagued by morning punch ups, bitter trans rows & locals’ fury. It is the free exercise behemoth that takes over parks up and down Britain every Saturday morning. But as its popularity reaches dizzying new heights, Parkrun has become a source of major controversies - from trans issues to 'physical attacks'. BRITAIN’S popular Parkrun events have come under attack after a surge in complaints about “unruly”, “chaotic” and “ego-driven” race-goers. The free, weekly runs – loved by celebs from Dame Kelly Holmes to exercise guru Joe Wicks, McFly drummer Harry Judd and fitness fanatics Ben Shephard and Spencer Matthews – have faced a wave of criticism in recent months. Those who visit the parks that host them, tell The Sun of “carnage” and “not much control” over the attendees that can range from the hundreds to more than 1,300 for some of the 5KM routes. Running louts have even forced the temporary closure of some events across the country. In August, one popular seaside Parkrun event was suspended for several weeks over safety concerns, after runners were “barged” into and “tripped”, according to some participants.A number of runners reported that the circuit in Weymouth, Dorset, had been ruined by congestion and “disgusting behaviour.” One runner said the event had become “a bit of a monster” because of its popularity. Another said: “It’s a lot of ego-driven runners cutting you up unashamedly to reach their PB (personal best).”The problem stemmed from the number of participants almost doubling in size – surging from 300 to 600 – during the summer holidays, with tourists staying in the area also joining in.Yet it’s not just the summer months that have caused problems. One jogger who fell trying to avoid being trampled on by fellow Parkrunners in Battersea. Complaints at Parkruns have been on the rise. Since Parkrun has grown in popularity, so too have complaints. More than 4.2million people have completed one in the UK and over 1,451 events take place every weekend across the country.The family-friendly events are run by volunteers with clear safeguarding protocols – but not everyone abides by the rules. In March, Ancholme Valley Way Parkrun in Lincolnshire announced that a runner had been “verbally and physically abused by a fellow participant”.Shocked organisers wrote on Facebook that the behaviour “will not be tolerated whatsoever” but a flurry of responses emerged alleging further and similar complaints. They added: “Parkrun is meant to be an event for everyone and, as such, all that we ask is that all participants please respect one another.” In response to the post, one woman, who described herself as a “slow runner”, complained that another participant had “screamed in my face” as she tried to pass them.A second lady commented that abuse was “happening too often, across all events”, while a third called it “completely unacceptable”. Animal expert Rachel Rogers has also come a cropper with her local Parkrun group volunteers. Rachel, 36, from Cheshire, claims Parkrun volunteers in her local area, Crewe, had blocked her from using the car park where they were hosting a weekend event and refused entry to anyone other than their group. Rachel, who runs a business called Nose To Tail, which trains dogs to find missing animals, says Parkrun members were “rude, entitled and extremely unpleasant”. She told The Sun: “Men in high-vis came over and said ‘You need to move, you can’t park there’ but it was a public place and we had already paid for parking. “I’ve had so many bad experiences with them. They have a sense of entitlement, like their need is greater than ours. They are extremely unpleasant.” She claimed hundreds attended local races and some were so oversubscribed that they were, “carnage, like there was not much control over it”. In 2023, Parkrun was embroiled in a transgender athlete row after it was revealed that trans-women were “setting new women’s records” on their female-only leaderboards. Thinktank Policy Exchange found it had happened three times in a month. Ex-Olympian Sharron Davies argued it was “distorting female rankings”. It led to runners accusing Parkrun bosses of “alienating women” and saying it was “outrageously unfair” because biologically born-men have “many physiological advantages over females”. Yet in spite of all the backlash, Parkrun appears to be running at full speed, expanding at pace and leaving complaints in the dust. Just two weeks ago, The Gentlemen director Guy Ritchie started allowing Parkrun to use Compton Abbas Airfield, in Dorset, which he owns, for races. The event, which started life as ‘Bushy Park Time Trial’, in Richmond, London, back in 2004, has grown into a world-renowned event that happens in 22 countries worldwide. Parkrun told us they are a charity that “exists to bring people together for free” to enjoy exercise in local communities. They said: “We have robust risk assessment and incident management procedures, alongside regular dialogue with our 2,900+ volunteer-led events across the UK and internationally.“The health and safety of participants and other park users is paramount. Any reports of inappropriate behaviour by participants are taken seriously, and are not consistent with the values or expectations of Parkrun. “We work closely with landowners and local communities. Participants are reminded of this and to respect other park users at pre-event briefings, and every event carries out a course check before it starts.”Parkrun told us they are a charity that “exists to bring people together for free” to enjoy exercise in local communities. They said: “We have robust risk assessment and incident management procedures, alongside regular dialogue with our 2,900+ volunteer-led events across the UK and internationally. “The health and safety of participants and other park users is paramount. Any reports of inappropriate behaviour by participants are taken seriously, and are not consistent with the values or expectations of Parkrun. “We work closely with landowners and local communities. Participants are reminded of this and to respect other park users at pre-event briefings, and every event carries out a course check before it starts.”I witnessed ‘carnage’ first-hand with the stampede of runners in London’s Battersea Park, says Sun reporter Josh Saunders. PLUMES of dust rise from the ground as the heavy thuds of more than 1,100 runners march, jog and walk to the parkrun starting line, on a crisp morning in London’s Battersea Park.Yet not everyone has such a positive experience to share.The race here – just a stone’s throw away from The Thames – became the most-attended parkrun event in the world when it began in October 2024 and you can see the appeal. It’s London’s fastest 5km course. It’s so popular it has become known as “the home of the running influencer” and even referred to as “Hinge for runners”, due to the non-stop social media celebratory posts. During my visit, there were 1,138 racers recording their times but I can see disruption before the race has even started.Amid warm-ups, cyclists angrily yell “move!” at the masses of joggers as they try to weave through the hundreds-strong crowds. In a pre-race announcement, runners are instructed to keep alert because of “a few issues with prams”, to “always keep left” and to stick to the five-metre wide road – not the grass.Just seconds after the ‘three, two, one’ race countdown start, three people fall and narrowly dodge being trampled by some over-zealous sprinters, clearly keen for a personal best. One is a teenage boy, who hobbles onto the grass, collapses, and clasps his arm in pain while fighting back tears. Medics are on hand but it’s a scene akin to the wildebeest stampede from Disney film The Lion King. It could have easily ended in serious injury. Seconds later, many runners are on the grass regardless – clamouring for the best position and trying to escape slow-moving traffic. Some swarm around the sides of wheelchair user Phoebe, 93, who cuddles dog Barney and tells me her runner daughter “put me behind the bench so I would be safe”. She’s not harmed but it’s an intimidating sight as the running mob charge towards her.Runners block the roads, leaving park users unable to cross to the central lawns. A panicked dad is forced to grab the handles of his young daughter’s bike, which has stabilisers on, after she nearly edges into the runners’ paths. One who braced the chaos was walker Carole Hazlewood, 89, and her dog Billie, 12. She grimaces when parkrun is mentioned, telling me: “Don’t talk about those runners. I hate it. They are unbelievably rude. “A couple of years ago a runner actually pushed me on the shoulder.” Parkrun is “a big issue” for locals like Carole, who has lived here for nearly 50 years, but she says they feel “helpless”.“Everyone’s really annoyed,” she tells me: “You just want to come into the park but the runners are all so entitled. I know they have to run somewhere but it shouldn’t be here.”Lucy Sandeberg, 56, a local, multi-time parkrun racer, also says there is “a big backlash from residents”, who are annoyed at losing access to a rare green space in London. Overall, she’s in favour of the event but has had issues due to the vast attendee numbers and feels change is needed.The clerk tells us: “I see it from both sides. People get really cross, especially those with dogs and pushchairs. They have to wait ages for the dense amount of runners to pass. “During one event, I was trying to get past them and they were like, ‘Mind the runners, mind the runners’. I was like, ‘Yeah, but it’s a park for people to walk in as well.’“They need to find the right balance for residents. If parkrun keeps getting bigger and bigger then I don’t know what they will do.” Chris Halsey, 64, who was taking his grandson to football practice, believes it’s a case of residents kicking off over nothing though. “No disrespect to them but they think, because they live here, that they are above everyone,” he says. “Like, ‘This is my park, I belong here’. They are the only ones to moan.“You do see arguments – people yelling when runners don’t give way to people – but it’s also hard for runners to slow down with the momentum they have built.” I bump into multiple marathon runner and former Made In Chelsea star Spencer Matthews, 38, who tells me: “I think it’s fantastic, I love it.” He’s not running today but is a regular at this parkrun, saying it’s “brilliant” because of the “nice community vibes”. Within 14 minutes and 59 seconds the first man crosses the finish line, followed by another two seconds later and a third 17 seconds after that. One man barges through two women on the final straight to the finish line, leaving them furiously muttering. By the one-hour seven-minute mark, the final runner has crossed the line. The thousand-plus crowd gathers around, taking photos and congratulating one another. Today’s Battersea Park event saw 119 personal bests set, one person completed their 250th Parkrun and another four achieved their 100th and while there are plenty of smiles there have also been plenty of close shaves.

Thank you!!!

IwantToRetire · 13/09/2026 19:32

Helleofabore · 13/09/2026 10:39

Thank you!!!

Yes indeed, and the note about disconnecting. Interesting!

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Mycatisfab · 24/09/2026 18:52

Hows the signing up going? I'm signed up to Park Run and I've added reality rules runners uk as my club. It was very easy and you can be a member of up to five clubs.

CroatiaSailing · 24/09/2026 22:04

They have 393 and they want to get to a thousand. Not sure they are going to make it but the average number of Parkruns by each member is over 100 so no one can accuse them of faking things or buying in members who don’t parkrun. The X/twitter following is doing better at 4400. I think lots of people people are finding it a bit complicated/too much effort to register or don’t want to put their name to it publicly for fear of repercussions.

Someone tried to promote it on one of my Facebook parkrun groups and they got absolutely shouted down and accused of being nasty and divisive and then the post was deleted and I think they have been ejected from the group. To be fair it was a new group member who came in quite gung ho with this one issue but I do think that he was treated harshly. I think the moderators just don’t want to be dealing with the strong feelings each way in that group.

PollyNomial · 24/09/2026 22:34

That's ~1/4 of 1% of the average number participating in parkrun who feel strongly enough to register.

TRAspotter · 24/09/2026 22:40

Ereshkigalangcleg · 12/09/2026 15:24

They’re all Neils, Simons and Grahams aren’t they!

They're all Dicks.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 24/09/2026 22:44

TRAspotter · 24/09/2026 22:40

They're all Dicks.

Good point 😂 lesser spotted MAMILs

Mycatisfab · 25/09/2026 15:23

I changed my name with park run before I joined reality rules runners. I said it was for safety and potential stalking , which is true

Witchymadwoman · Yesterday 13:54

RoundedRobin · 31/08/2026 11:02

There comes a point for all runners when they're going to become slower so by 'competing against themselves' they're sure to lose. I took up running 20 years ago aged 40, I'm slower now than I was 15 years ago but I'm fast for a 60 year old woman.

Results based on age and sex enable me to compare myself to runners the same sex and age as me. A man running in the women's category ruins that.

Exactly this.

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