Thoughts on a video that claims that women’s spaces should validate trans women?

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On YouTube the other day I was served a video by a trans identified male (Transgender Positivity) who was speaking about his experience of using women's spaces and how he feels about the rise of unisex bathrooms in the UK.

I assume I was shown this video because I sometimes have watched gender critical content. Anyway in this video he talks about how he is disappointed and unhappy with unisex bathrooms because he felt very validated being allowed to use women's single sex spaces and it helped him get over his feelings of "imposter syndrome".

He also said that unisex bathrooms reduce the chance of meaningful interaction and humbling experiences in public spaces and between different kinds of people meaning that even if women object to men in their single sex spaces its basically good for them to have to tolerate men like him in them.

His title literally says "female spaces are my spaces" and the whole gist of his argument is that he no longer feels validated using a unisex bathroom even if it is perfectly safe for him to do so. It also seems he misses the chance to humble and educate women by imposing himself on them in their single sex spaces.

He seems to live in Poland most of the time but is British by birth. He doesn't seem to give a damn about how actual women might feel or what they might want, it's all about him and his desires as per usual.

I don't exist as a prop to validate male fantasies

"Transwomen just want to pee" is being proven incorrect and that it's actually "transwomen just want to use women as validation tools".

Which we said all along.

It's always about the euphoria boner validation for these porn sick men. They can absolutely fuck off.

This is definitely saying the quiet part out loud
Operation Let Them Speak still working as designed I see.

Also, it should be noted that it's impossible to have imposter syndrome when you are, in fact, an actual imposter.

I totally agree and from their point of view I sort of get it, what is even the point of it all if they are still seen as men by society and treated as such in terms of equality law. I can see how that spoils the fantasy for them. The truth is though that they aren't women and never will be and in reality nobody sees them as women, not even they do, hence the massive need for external validation. It has all been clarified and set in law now that they are not legally women and so must for all intents and purposes be regarded as males because they are men and they need to learn to accept that reality and stop expecting everyone else especially women to ratify their delusions.