https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1vooecd/dilating_question/
Last year, I read Nick Wallis' posts about so-called neovaginas and neophalluses - euphemisms for monstrous Frankensteinian "bottom" surgeries, and grim reading. I link below to the one about vaginas.
Today, I read, with some horror, a post on transredditUK, - link above - by a trans-identifying-man who's had the bottom surgery.
It's unclear whether he understands that he has a "deep surgical wound lined with skin" and not a brand new vagina. He just knows he has to "dilate" the hole. His surgeon is ignoring his emails.
His post gets a mere two replies, in spite of his obvious extreme distress, in a purportedly super-supportive forum, and neither of the replies have a clue. One says to look up vaginismus, - something which can only apply to a real vagina. The other suggests 'relaxing' - again, pointless with a wound when it doesn't have muscles like a real vagina.
It seems likely that the OP had or has no idea of the implications of the surgery and the long term effects. He now has a painful, weeping, large wound between his legs, and presumably bits taken off his arms to make the lining of the wound. He has had no post-surgery support from the surgeon. He's not getting any support from the 'trans community'.
Another thing which struck me is that the OP, being a man, perhaps perceives a vagina as simply a hole into which to stick a penis - presumably why he wants a hole?
This type of surgery should be criminalised. It's grotesque.
https://genderblog.net/what-exactly-is-a-neo-vagina-then/