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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Jalsa Salana, a huge men only festival in the UK.

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Imdunfer · Yesterday 09:17

This huge Muslim Festival, 50,000 attendees from 100 countries, happened over the weekend in Hampshire. If previous years are anything to go by you will be hard put to find a single woman in any of the photographs. That's because the men and the women meet separately. The women and men are segregated. The women are excluded from taking part with the men, they have a separate conference, they aren't even sat at the back of the men's one.

I honestly never thought I'd be living in a country where women were so excluded from a public gathering of 50,000 people.

I never thought I'd be living in a country where this event will go without criticism and probably actually be praised and celebrated. "MPs, bishops and other public figures are expected to attend." and not one of them, and probably no other prominent public figure either, will comment on this segregation.

It's 2026, how on earth is this country going backwards so far in the treatment of women that this is now perceived to be mainstream and acceptable?

www.theguardian.com/world/2026/jul/25/uk-largest-muslim-event-jalsa-salana-security-anti-muslim-hate-crime#:~:text=Now%20in%20its%2060th%20year,site%20in%20Hampshire%20this%20weekend.

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LejlaKapovic · Yesterday 11:33

Imdunfer · Yesterday 09:17

This huge Muslim Festival, 50,000 attendees from 100 countries, happened over the weekend in Hampshire. If previous years are anything to go by you will be hard put to find a single woman in any of the photographs. That's because the men and the women meet separately. The women and men are segregated. The women are excluded from taking part with the men, they have a separate conference, they aren't even sat at the back of the men's one.

I honestly never thought I'd be living in a country where women were so excluded from a public gathering of 50,000 people.

I never thought I'd be living in a country where this event will go without criticism and probably actually be praised and celebrated. "MPs, bishops and other public figures are expected to attend." and not one of them, and probably no other prominent public figure either, will comment on this segregation.

It's 2026, how on earth is this country going backwards so far in the treatment of women that this is now perceived to be mainstream and acceptable?

www.theguardian.com/world/2026/jul/25/uk-largest-muslim-event-jalsa-salana-security-anti-muslim-hate-crime#:~:text=Now%20in%20its%2060th%20year,site%20in%20Hampshire%20this%20weekend.

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Soontobe60 · Yesterday 11:34

MoistVonL · Yesterday 10:12

Aren't men and women both at the festival but they worship separately? So it's not a men only event, but a religious event where some aspects are segregated in accordance to their beliefs?

Hermione, have you really seen toddlers in hijab? I live in a community with a high Muslim population and I haven't seen a girl wearing a hijab before highschool.

There are obviously many issues about Islam and women's rights, but I can't get worked up about a religious celebration like this.

My primary school is 90% Muslim. Girls in Reception often wear hijabs. By KS2, most of the girls wear them. There are Girls and Boys Muslim High schools in the same area. The boys uniform is regular trousers, blazer, shirt and tie. The Girls uniform is black hijab and abaya. They wear a shorter, white hijab for PE.

Datafan55 · Yesterday 11:36

IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · Yesterday 11:26

As well as the Catholic church as I've already mentioned what about Orthodox Judaism, where women and men sit separately at worship and women have dress codes? Ever spoken up against that, OP? The Plymouth Brethren where women aren't allowed to speak at worship and also have dress codes (headscarves, for instance)?

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Also bad.

Imnobody4 · Yesterday 11:37

Islam is not one thing and we really should beware of tarring all branches with the same brush. This is an extract from one of the closing speeches at the men's conference.
These Muslims are at as much risk from Jihadis as Westerners, they'd be considered apostates.

A person could not be regarded as a true Muslim until they loved and sympathised with others as they did with themselves. The Promised Messiah (as) had advised his followers to purify their hearts, show compassion to all humanity and wish no evil even for those who opposed them.

Instead of seeking revenge, believers should forgive. By showing mercy to those on earth, they became recipients of mercy from heaven.

MoistVonL · Yesterday 11:38

Soontobe60 · Yesterday 11:34

My primary school is 90% Muslim. Girls in Reception often wear hijabs. By KS2, most of the girls wear them. There are Girls and Boys Muslim High schools in the same area. The boys uniform is regular trousers, blazer, shirt and tie. The Girls uniform is black hijab and abaya. They wear a shorter, white hijab for PE.

Our primary school was 40% Muslim, 5% Jewish, 5% Sikh. No hijabs until Y7 (also Yorkshire)

I'm extremely surprised that young children were in hijabs.

IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · Yesterday 11:38

Datafan55 · Yesterday 11:36

Also bad.

Yet why do I never see anyone on MN posting vociferously about those? Only ever Islam?

Imdunfer · Yesterday 11:42

IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · Yesterday 11:31

The Catholic church does not have the influence that Islam does.

Seriously?????

Go watch the film Spotlight and say that again.

Take a look at Iran et al and say that again.

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Limecar · Yesterday 11:44

Islams bad reputation is entirely based on the behaviour we have experienced. We are not going to pretend otherwise.

Datafan55 · Yesterday 11:45

IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · Yesterday 11:38

Yet why do I never see anyone on MN posting vociferously about those? Only ever Islam?

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Because they weren't holding huge events at the weekend, I'd imagine.

Fgfgfg · Yesterday 11:50

Imdunfer · Yesterday 10:50

Because I have no recollection of a gathering 50,000 catholic men in this country excluding women from an event to discuss Catholisim.

I would have exactly the same objection.

That would be the Vatican Council which is held at the Vatican.

Persephonia1966 · Yesterday 11:52

whatwouldlilacerullodo · Yesterday 10:29

Since the event is in the UK, what prevents women who identify as men to attend?

The rulings on the interpretation of the Equality Act which says that if your event is single sex, it has to be single sex based on biology. So single sex events/organisations either have to exclude trans individuals of the opposite biological sex or lose their single sex status entirely. Hence the wailing and moaning and gnashing of teeth from certain people within the Women's Institute, Girl Guides etc.

Under UK law the event is allowed to be segregated by sex and include male only spaces, but are at risk of being done for discrimination if they allowed trans men into those spaces. Since the organisers are probably absolutely fine with that I doubt it's going to be a huge issue.

Walkden · Yesterday 11:52

Well we allow women only services and spaces even in circumstances where the presence of the opposite sex is emotionally distressing rather than dangerous.

As it stands it is proportionate and legal for the conference to go ahead and in line with British value of tolerance and inclusion.

It is not for the British state to legislate religious beliefs and systems so unless legislation is changed this is perfectly legal/ acceptable

We also already allow discrimination against men /trans athletes on the basis that are women are lesser athletes.

Datafan55 · Yesterday 11:52

Fgfgfg · Yesterday 11:50

That would be the Vatican Council which is held at the Vatican.

We can choose not to be Catholic.
However this Muslim event is being held under our noses, in our home country, and its attitudes are taking over councils.

Imdunfer · Yesterday 11:52

Fgfgfg · Yesterday 11:50

That would be the Vatican Council which is held at the Vatican.

Which does not rule Italy, which has a proportional representation parliamentary system.

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IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · Yesterday 11:56

Fgfgfg · Yesterday 11:50

That would be the Vatican Council which is held at the Vatican.

But even then there are regular annual conferences in the UK solely for male priests and deacons. Not in as large a number, of course, but have been going on for hundreds of years. Never seen or hear about any protests outside them.

Imdunfer · Yesterday 11:56

Walkden · Yesterday 11:52

Well we allow women only services and spaces even in circumstances where the presence of the opposite sex is emotionally distressing rather than dangerous.

As it stands it is proportionate and legal for the conference to go ahead and in line with British value of tolerance and inclusion.

It is not for the British state to legislate religious beliefs and systems so unless legislation is changed this is perfectly legal/ acceptable

We also already allow discrimination against men /trans athletes on the basis that are women are lesser athletes.

We also already allow discrimination against men /trans athletes on the basis that are women are lesser athletes

Lord almighty that's a desperate stretch!

No males are descriminated against in sport.

There is no connection between sex categories for sport and sex categories in having power over how the society you live in is managed.

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Imdunfer · Yesterday 11:58

IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · Yesterday 11:56

But even then there are regular annual conferences in the UK solely for male priests and deacons. Not in as large a number, of course, but have been going on for hundreds of years. Never seen or hear about any protests outside them.

Those priests and deacons don't go back into their communities and apply Sharia Law.

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IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · Yesterday 11:58

Imdunfer · Yesterday 11:52

Which does not rule Italy, which has a proportional representation parliamentary system.

It may not 'rule' it, but if you really think the Catholic church doesn't hold very considerable political and social sway (or, that word you used earlier, influence) not only it Italy and the US but a lot of African countries you are being naive.

Fgfgfg · Yesterday 11:58

Imdunfer · Yesterday 11:52

Which does not rule Italy, which has a proportional representation parliamentary system.

Not quite sure of the point you're trying to make. The Vatican is not part of Italy, it's a separate city state. Are you trying to say that this Muslim conference is attempting to usurp parliamentary democracy?

IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · Yesterday 11:59

Imdunfer · Yesterday 11:58

Those priests and deacons don't go back into their communities and apply Sharia Law.

No, they apply Canon Law.

Imdunfer · Yesterday 12:00

IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · Yesterday 11:58

It may not 'rule' it, but if you really think the Catholic church doesn't hold very considerable political and social sway (or, that word you used earlier, influence) not only it Italy and the US but a lot of African countries you are being naive.

I'm referring to the religion being the actual Government. In the modern world I believe that's unique to Islam and possibly the tiny area of the Vatican City.

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Datafan55 · Yesterday 12:01

IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · Yesterday 11:59

No, they apply Canon Law.

Which does not supersede the law of the land, which states that women and men are equal.

Datafan55 · Yesterday 12:02

IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · Yesterday 11:58

It may not 'rule' it, but if you really think the Catholic church doesn't hold very considerable political and social sway (or, that word you used earlier, influence) not only it Italy and the US but a lot of African countries you are being naive.

It holds much less influence than it used to in eg the UK.

This is a post about the role of Islam in the UK.

Datafan55 · Yesterday 12:04

Walkden · Yesterday 11:52

Well we allow women only services and spaces even in circumstances where the presence of the opposite sex is emotionally distressing rather than dangerous.

As it stands it is proportionate and legal for the conference to go ahead and in line with British value of tolerance and inclusion.

It is not for the British state to legislate religious beliefs and systems so unless legislation is changed this is perfectly legal/ acceptable

We also already allow discrimination against men /trans athletes on the basis that are women are lesser athletes.

No one is saying that men aren't allowed to hold events.

We also already allow discrimination against men /trans athletes on the basis that are women are lesser athletes. Because if we don't discriminate against men in women's sport, women's sport becomes men's sport.

Datafan55 · Yesterday 12:05

IdentifyingAsAWoollyMammoth · Yesterday 11:56

But even then there are regular annual conferences in the UK solely for male priests and deacons. Not in as large a number, of course, but have been going on for hundreds of years. Never seen or hear about any protests outside them.

I'm afraid I wasn't alive hundreds of years ago.