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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Let's Ignore The Supreme Court and the Rule of Law (or We Hate Women. We Hate That They Have Rights. So We're Going To Break The Law Because We Feel Like It.)

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BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · 26/07/2026 22:18

Just a reminder:

Equality Act 2010 - 16 years ago
Supreme Court ruling (April 2025) - 15 months ago

I'm so angry about all the public services in the UK that are refusing to obey the law, that I thought I'd just start a list of them, starting with the most recent I can think of (and have recent threads on FWR). Please feel free to add any others you find.

Lambeth Council
NHS Scotland
Staffordshire Police
Hampstead Ponds
Bristol City Council

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BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · Yesterday 09:34

Don't forget to add services that are breaking the law to the list! Thanks!

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BettyBooper · Yesterday 09:35

Whisperingwaters · Yesterday 09:29

It might not come down to the entirety of the male sex being discriminated against because for a discrimination case to be successful a disadvantage has to proven. For most males that might not apply but for some like children or trans women it might.

How can males generally not be disadvantaged by not going into female spaces but trans women (trans identified males) might be, when the comparator group for trans identified makes is non-trans identified males? 🤔

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · Yesterday 09:36

Floisme · Yesterday 09:22

Getting back to this list, what about trade unions? I'll start with Unison.

Editing to add: although I'm not sure if they'd count as service providers.

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I feel that unions should be on the list, you're right, but I did also wonder if they can be classed as services?

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Floisme · Yesterday 09:39

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · Yesterday 09:36

I feel that unions should be on the list, you're right, but I did also wonder if they can be classed as services?

I'm not sure either, maybe leave them off for now?

Whisperingwaters · Yesterday 09:40

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 09:28

While it It may also be discriminatory to only have mixed sex provision, from the point of view of the service provider, the more immediate problem is that provision that includes people of both sexes is not single sex and must be managed accordingly. Unisex toilet provision is obviously legal, but the relevant building standards must be met.

Even if you do have a single-sex space, the exclusion must be proportionate, which means that the rights of whoever wants to be in a single-sex space, if they’re complaining, have to be counterbalanced against the rights of a trans person.

The proportionate test is whether the space can exclude people of the opposite sex, not whether it can exclude people who have a particular belief about gender.

For a service to be single sex, it must meet the criteria in the Equality Act. If some people of the opposite sex are included, then in most cases you will be demonstrating that the criteria have not been met so the service shouldn't be single sex.

(Children under 8 would be the obvious example of an exception, but this is a blanket rule for an objectively quantifiable group and at the discretion of the service provider.)

if they’re complaining, have to be counterbalanced against the rights of a trans person.

They might be able to argue that there aren't sufficient unisex/mixed sex provision, but there is no right to use services for the opposite sex. Similarly I can't argue that I have suffered discrimination because of my sex if I can't use a blue badge parking space.

Maybe if it was your personal liability on the line you might understand the legal quagmire they have been forced into.

FWS won the case that clarified the law for most trans people in 2022. If there had been more focus on practical solutions and less on arguing that sex is irrelevant, then service providers would certainly be in a better position now.

For a service to be single sex, it must meet the criteria in the Equality Act. If some people of the opposite sex are included, then in most cases you will be demonstrating that the criteria have not been met so the service shouldn't be single sex.
(Children under 8 would be the obvious example of an exception, but this is a blanket rule for an objectively quantifiable group and at the discretion of the service provider.)

Justice Swift's ruling against GLP did find there was “scope for a strong argument” that allowing a trans woman to use a female toilet did not amount to discrimination against biological men so other exceptions are possible.

They might be able to argue that there aren't sufficient unisex/mixed sex provision, but there is no right to use services for the opposite sex. Similarly I can't argue that I have suffered discrimination because of my sex if I can't use a blue badge parking space.

Its human rights law under privacy that trans people shouldn't be forcibly outed or othered so other established legal precedents matter.

Whatisthisdamnednonsense · Yesterday 09:41

I don’t understand how any publicly funded body has the audacity to say it’s going to flout the law. They’re like stroppy teenagers sticking two fingers up at mum and dad for asking them to be home by midnight. It’s embarrassing and in agreement with a PP it’s a sign of potentially dangerous times. Worst of all it plainly shows the misogyny at the heart of our taxpayer-funded institutions.

Whisperingwaters · Yesterday 09:41

HipTightOnions · Yesterday 09:32

The Supreme Court considered all this. Read the judgment.

Not for specifics like loos they didn't.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · Yesterday 09:42

Berwynnie · Yesterday 09:03

Disgraceful situation. These organisations aren’t above the law.

I’m also wondering how many private sector organisations have quietly ignored the law too. It’s a bit confusing that the SCR relates to services but how many private companies have flouted health and safety law for years because they appplied stonewall law. Many Employees in private sector orgs genuinely are still afraid and avoid speaking out on this issue. If it hasn’t done so already the HSE should be leading- maybe they are, I admit I haven’t checked.

Yes, it has also been bad in employment situations, however, employers are covered by a different law, which has never needed to be clarified. So, you're right- private sector employers who have been allowing males to use women's toilets and changing rooms (as examples) have been consistently breaking the law, without even "confusion" as an excuse. I'd like to see a number of them sued by female employees, then the company can sue Stonewall in turn.

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theilltemperedmonster · Yesterday 09:43

I would include unions. They have a history of refusing to help GC members who have suffered sex and belief discrimination, even since Forstater, which is much older than FWS.

Whisperingwaters · Yesterday 09:44

nutmeg7 · Yesterday 09:28

You are wrong.

The judgement about proportionality comes at the point of deciding to provide the single sex service in the first place. Is it proportionate to provide single sex toilets/changing rooms /domestic violence unit etc ?

Good luck to an individual trans person bringing a challenge against the decision to provide the female sex with separate spaces with the suggestion it is not a proportionate solution to achieve a reasonable goal ie the privacy, dignity and safety of female people away male people.

The point is an individual can challenge the reasonableness of the proportional claim.

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 09:45

Whisperingwaters · Yesterday 09:29

It might not come down to the entirety of the male sex being discriminated against because for a discrimination case to be successful a disadvantage has to proven. For most males that might not apply but for some like children or trans women it might.

From the Equality Act:

733.This paragraph contains exceptions to the general prohibition of sex discrimination to allow the provision of single-sex services.
734.Single sex services are permitted where:

  • only people of that sex require it;
  • there is joint provision for both sexes but that is not sufficient on its own;
  • if the service were provided for men and women jointly, it would not be as effective and it is not reasonably practicable to provide separate services for each sex;
  • they are provided in a hospital or other place where users need special attention (or in parts of such an establishment);
  • they may be used by more than one person and a woman might object to the presence of a man (or vice versa); or
  • they may involve physical contact between a user and someone else and that other person may reasonably object if the user is of the opposite sex.

Children under 8 are not like adults.

The law says that a service can be single sex if it "may be used by more than one person and a woman might object to the presence of a man (or vice versa)". and although there have been extensive threads on MN where people do object to the presence of opposite sex children in changing rooms, it is generally considered that children under 8 are not a threat.

On the other hand, 'trans' is a subjective concept and there is no clear difference between a man who says he identifies as a woman and a man who doesn't. A woman might observe that she is in the presence of a man, but the service provider has judged that this is not relevant, and so the general prohibition of sex discrimination applies.

You aren't allowed to discriminate, but only when you feel like it.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · Yesterday 09:47

theilltemperedmonster · Yesterday 09:43

I would include unions. They have a history of refusing to help GC members who have suffered sex and belief discrimination, even since Forstater, which is much older than FWS.

And there are a couple of court cases ongoing, if I recall correctly.

Ok, thanks and thanks to @Floisme For now, I'll put them under the "Special place in Hell" section 😆

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theilltemperedmonster · Yesterday 09:47

Whisperingwaters · Yesterday 09:40

For a service to be single sex, it must meet the criteria in the Equality Act. If some people of the opposite sex are included, then in most cases you will be demonstrating that the criteria have not been met so the service shouldn't be single sex.
(Children under 8 would be the obvious example of an exception, but this is a blanket rule for an objectively quantifiable group and at the discretion of the service provider.)

Justice Swift's ruling against GLP did find there was “scope for a strong argument” that allowing a trans woman to use a female toilet did not amount to discrimination against biological men so other exceptions are possible.

They might be able to argue that there aren't sufficient unisex/mixed sex provision, but there is no right to use services for the opposite sex. Similarly I can't argue that I have suffered discrimination because of my sex if I can't use a blue badge parking space.

Its human rights law under privacy that trans people shouldn't be forcibly outed or othered so other established legal precedents matter.

Its human rights law under privacy that trans people shouldn't be forcibly outed or othered so other established legal precedents matter.

So, a man who is really well disguised as a woman should be allowed in? That's not creepy at all 🙄.

And he knows what sex he is.

AimsAndObjectives · Yesterday 09:47

Whisperingwaters · Yesterday 09:44

The point is an individual can challenge the reasonableness of the proportional claim.

Well we've disagreed with your assessment repeatedly and this does rather feel like an attempt to derail now. Why don't you trot off and take a service provider to court and we'll stock up on the popcorn.🍿

PrettyDamnCosmic · Yesterday 09:47

Whisperingwaters · Yesterday 09:24

A single sex service that involves toilets or getting undressed is always justified for reasons of privacy, propriety, decency etc. There is no other test of proportionality required.

You don't understand what proportionality means. Proportionality means that rights have to be balanced. In other words, a trans person gets a say in how their rights are are compromised for privacy, proprietary, decency AND safety as well. Proportionality isn't a one way street & case law is yet to prove that particularly for public toilets.

The court will be required to balance the competing rights according to the particular circumstances.

The court will be required to balance the competing rights according to the particular circumstances.

Are you actually in the UK? Your ignorance of our laws is quite staggering.

The Equality Act 2010 permits discrimination on grounds of sex. Women have a right to expect that their toilets are strictly female only. Likewise for men. There are no competing rights as those with a PC of gender reassignment are only permitted in the toilets that match their biological sex not whatever fancy is in their head. Trans identifying men have never had a right to use the Ladies.

Sleepthief · Yesterday 09:47

Babymamamama · 26/07/2026 22:52

Lewisham Council?

What has or hasn’t Lewisham done? Asking because it’s my LA…

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · Yesterday 09:48

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 09:45

From the Equality Act:

733.This paragraph contains exceptions to the general prohibition of sex discrimination to allow the provision of single-sex services.
734.Single sex services are permitted where:

  • only people of that sex require it;
  • there is joint provision for both sexes but that is not sufficient on its own;
  • if the service were provided for men and women jointly, it would not be as effective and it is not reasonably practicable to provide separate services for each sex;
  • they are provided in a hospital or other place where users need special attention (or in parts of such an establishment);
  • they may be used by more than one person and a woman might object to the presence of a man (or vice versa); or
  • they may involve physical contact between a user and someone else and that other person may reasonably object if the user is of the opposite sex.

Children under 8 are not like adults.

The law says that a service can be single sex if it "may be used by more than one person and a woman might object to the presence of a man (or vice versa)". and although there have been extensive threads on MN where people do object to the presence of opposite sex children in changing rooms, it is generally considered that children under 8 are not a threat.

On the other hand, 'trans' is a subjective concept and there is no clear difference between a man who says he identifies as a woman and a man who doesn't. A woman might observe that she is in the presence of a man, but the service provider has judged that this is not relevant, and so the general prohibition of sex discrimination applies.

You aren't allowed to discriminate, but only when you feel like it.

The "reaching" is spectacular, isn't it?

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Whisperingwaters · Yesterday 09:50

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · Yesterday 09:34

I knew this thread would get piled on, because it's a thread started by an angry woman stating the truth about our public services.

For anyone who may be lurking and is still unsure, Whisperingwaters has been propounding this Fake Law on several threads. You may disregard his arguments in their entirety.

THIS IS THE LAW:

a. If a service is deemed "single sex" then it has already passed the "proportionate means to achieve a legitimate aim" test.

b. If a service allows anyone of the opposite sex to use the incorrect single-sex service, they are breaking the law.

c. No service, therefore, can allow a male person (of whatever persuasion) to use a female single-sex service. The end.

d. Case law doesn't come into it.

e. "Case-by-case" means the service, not the individual. See a. above.

f. Whisperingwaters is spectacularly misinformed about the law or Whisperingwaters is deliberately lying about the law.

That's it.

So far we have had two people post on here with less than good faith intentions.

One: It's TOO HARD, don't take them to court, we must change hearts and minds first. (btw, going on the tactics list)

The Other One: You're interpreting the law in a way I don't like (or understand), so I'm going to lie until you do what I say.

To both of them: No. We've seen these tactics a million times. Won't wash. Just no. We're going to sue these useless pieces of crap until they comply with the law. And the JKR fund has more money than you will ever see in your entire lifetime. And women will use it.

The list stands.

If a service is deemed "single sex" then it has already passed the "proportionate means to achieve a legitimate aim" test.

"The reasonableness of a proportionality assessment (often framed as whether a measure is a "proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim") can be directly challenged and scrutinized in UK courts under the Equality Act 2010.

How Proportionality Works under the Equality Act

  • Indirect Discrimination: A defense of "objective justification" requires the respondent (e.g., an employer or service provider) to prove that the provision, criterion, or practice is a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim. Durham Research Online (DRO) +2
  • Justification for Other Characteristics: Proportionality also applies to specific exceptions or justifications under the Act, such as age discrimination or certain single-sex service exemptions. YouTube·STV News +1
  • The Balancing Test: The Employment Tribunal or County/High Court does not simply accept the respondent's word. The judge conducts an objective balancing exercise, weighing the importance of the legitimate aim against the severity of the discriminatory effect on the claimant. Housing Ombudsman +1"

😂

Equality Act 2010

An Act to make provision to require Ministers of the Crown and others when making strategic decisions about the exercise of their functions to have regard to the desirability of reducing socio-economic inequalities; to reform and harmonise equality law...

https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/contents

BettyBooper · Yesterday 09:53

One day, society will return to sanity where those pushing for men to be able to access women's toilets will be considered with the suspicion and derision they deserve.

I have faith.

Cantunseeit · Yesterday 09:53

Whisperingwaters · Yesterday 09:44

The point is an individual can challenge the reasonableness of the proportional claim.

Well go on then, if that’s what you think. Come back and let us know how you get on.

In the meantime we’ll go on adding to the list of organisations who are brazenly refusing to follow the law.

Does South East Coast Ambulance Service NHS Foundation Trust make the list although this is only for staff?

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · Yesterday 09:53

Teribus21 · Yesterday 09:04

The root cause of this is a bloated, arrogant public sector which has got far too powerful and instead of believing in public service, now thinks the plebs are there only to keep them in the style to which they are accustomed. After years of feather bedding, it’s no real surprise they now believe they are above the law while you and I can be locked up for hurty words. Just like the Party in former Soviet Russia, they are the powerful elite who take every privilege going while the rest of us work harder just to get poorer.

Which laws are they going to flout next because they decide they don’t like them?

And what about those MPs who signed the letter against the EHRC ruling while we’re compiling a list?

Which laws are they going to flout next because they decide they don’t like them?

Exactly. This is what a lot of women have been asking for years, and especially since April of 2025.

The answer, apparently, is "as many laws as we think we can get away with, oh, and especially those that might impact on women."

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SadiraOfTyr · Yesterday 09:55

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · Yesterday 09:36

I feel that unions should be on the list, you're right, but I did also wonder if they can be classed as services?

Surely a union is an association under the act (part 7). Although it might in some circumstances also be a service provider (eg when providing legal services to its members) and indeed an employer.

BridgetYourFortyDaysAreUp · Yesterday 09:59

Cantunseeit · Yesterday 09:53

Well go on then, if that’s what you think. Come back and let us know how you get on.

In the meantime we’ll go on adding to the list of organisations who are brazenly refusing to follow the law.

Does South East Coast Ambulance Service NHS Foundation Trust make the list although this is only for staff?

If there's been evidence that they are breaking the law, possibly? Or being taken to court? I suspect most NHS/ambulance services-adjacent organizations have been breaking the law.

I would, however, like to focus specifically on those services who have said outright that they will continue to or are intending to not follow the law.

Otherwise, the list will end up including everyone!

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Teribus21 · Yesterday 10:02

Oh and forgot to mention the Scottish Government.

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 10:05

Whisperingwaters · Yesterday 09:50

If a service is deemed "single sex" then it has already passed the "proportionate means to achieve a legitimate aim" test.

"The reasonableness of a proportionality assessment (often framed as whether a measure is a "proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim") can be directly challenged and scrutinized in UK courts under the Equality Act 2010.

How Proportionality Works under the Equality Act

  • Indirect Discrimination: A defense of "objective justification" requires the respondent (e.g., an employer or service provider) to prove that the provision, criterion, or practice is a proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim. Durham Research Online (DRO) +2
  • Justification for Other Characteristics: Proportionality also applies to specific exceptions or justifications under the Act, such as age discrimination or certain single-sex service exemptions. YouTube·STV News +1
  • The Balancing Test: The Employment Tribunal or County/High Court does not simply accept the respondent's word. The judge conducts an objective balancing exercise, weighing the importance of the legitimate aim against the severity of the discriminatory effect on the claimant. Housing Ombudsman +1"

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"The reasonableness of a proportionality assessment (often framed as whether a measure is a "proportionate means of achieving a legitimate aim") can be directly challenged and scrutinized in UK courts under the Equality Act 2010."

Absolutely, but you would be challenging whether the service should be single sex at all. What you can't do is advocate for a mixed sex single sex space.

It has already been established by the Supreme Court that if a space meets the criteria for being single sex, it is not discriminatory to exclude people of the opposite sex.