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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The two questions they all need to be asked

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OhSister · 10/07/2026 17:44

In the midst of the backlash over the Supreme Court decision and EHRC guidance, self-proclaimed 'progressives' who support gender ideology at the expense of sex-based protections need to be asked two simple questions. The 'what is a woman?' question was used to very good effect and in my view, it's time to move on to these:

  1.  Do you accept that being born with female reproductive anatomy is a characteristic on the basis of which people have been marginalised, disadvantaged and abused?
    
  2.  If the answer to question 1 is yes, can you explain why you take the view that this particular marginalised group is one that is not deserving of explicit protection (by 'sex' meaning 'sex') in the Equality Act?
    

I have been involved in these discussion since before 2015 and I know that these points have been made many times over by people more articulate than I am. But like many here, it is particularly frustrating to me when the likes of Amnesty International or the ACLU in the USA position themselves as the defenders of Human Rights while championing such a regressive, misogynist, homophobic movement.

I have rarely if ever heard the question put to anyone in that way, or heard them challenged on why their enthusiasm for intersectionality doesn't at the very least include female reproductive anatomy as a valid intersection with their new definition of 'woman' (but rather re-casts being part of that uniquely marginalised group as possessing 'cis privilege'). I don't subscribe to the idea that there is such thing as a 'woman' gender, but even if I did, logic would suggest that, just as it's reasonable for there to be specific groups or programmes for those who are both women and disabled, or both women and black, or both women and Muslim, it is also reasonable for some things to be for 'women' as genderists would like to broadly understand the term, and others to be for those who are both 'women' and also of the group born with female reproductive biology. But no, oppression on the basis of biological sex has to be completely disregarded as a valid axis of oppression. If JKR had set up a service specifically for women who also had a disability, or were also immigrants, would that service be branded 'anti-rights' by Amnesty?

Sorry for the rant. What do you think of the questions, how would you improved them, and how do we get them asked of the right people?

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Dragonasaurus · 13/07/2026 20:29

I usually ask why they think prisons, changing rooms etc were sex-segregated in the first place. Also highlight how few transwomen have surgery, and most people find the idea of women being expected to strip in front of a man-who-says-he’s-a-woman ridiculous

This is particularly effective with bekind friends who haven’t really thought about what that would mean. It wouldn’t work on anyone who really didn’t care about women…..or worse

SwirlyGates · 13/07/2026 20:38

Cheese55 · 13/07/2026 17:17

They'll say, men Feel like men. Transwomen Feel like women because they were always meant to be one and they are very brave

And you can say, "What does it feel like, to be a woman?" I don't know. I only know what it feels like to be myself. I don't know what goes on in other women's heads, and I don't know what it feels like them, any more than I know what it feels like for men.

What I do know is that we women share a body type, and that determines certain aspects of our lives - whether we might be able to bear children, whether we are likely to grow breasts and menstruate, whether we are more likely to be beaten by our partners, whether we are more likely to be patronised at work, and many other such things.

Cheese55 · 13/07/2026 20:45

I've always wondered why so few have 'bottom' surgery?

Chickadeeinme · 14/07/2026 03:03

Complications from the surgery are frequent and unpleasant and the surgery is irreversible.

Shedmistress · 14/07/2026 06:46

Cheese55 · 13/07/2026 20:45

I've always wondered why so few have 'bottom' surgery?

Because they cut your dick off and for most men, it's a fetish. Hard to get your kicks with no dicks.

SwirlyGates · 14/07/2026 10:21

Chickadeeinme · 14/07/2026 03:03

Complications from the surgery are frequent and unpleasant and the surgery is irreversible.

Complications, yes. But surely the fact the surgery is irreversible shouldn't matter, since they have always known they are trans, and will never want to detransition.

Chickadeeinme · 14/07/2026 14:08

SwirlyGates · 14/07/2026 10:21

Complications, yes. But surely the fact the surgery is irreversible shouldn't matter, since they have always known they are trans, and will never want to detransition.

You’d think, wouldn’t you?

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