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The Bluestocking: home of the ice-cold Mojito foot-bath

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MarieDeGournay · 29/06/2026 18:06

Welcome all to the Bluestocking Women's Pub, where food and drink are free as in gluten free, calorie free, alcohol free - but still delicious. And free free too, of course.
Served by highly professional staff who are gerbils.

The Bluestocking Ice-Cold Mojito Foot-bath kept us deliciously cool through the heatwave. Come and join us, in case there's another one🌞

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MyrtleLion · 02/07/2026 22:00

I believe Griselda may be reconsidering late entries if there are other suggestions.

EdithStourton · 02/07/2026 22:02

I'm sorry that some of you are feeling bleaauggggh - is that an accurate representation of how you feel?
Yep.

I know very little Polish, but I do know that dragon is 'smok'. Which, when said by a Polish person, sounds very much like... Smaug.

How about Dougal, Zebedee et al? Or would they fail the drug tests?

AsWithGlad · 02/07/2026 22:12

There are such delightful suggestions - but I wouldn’t want any of them not to win. Especially, not Bagpuss’s mice, so far from their mouse organ.

Poppy, Jemima and Humphrey?

Was it Bill or was it Ben
Which of those two flowerpot men….
(I can’t remember the next line, but presumably it changed every episode)
Was it Bill or was it Ben?

EdithStourton · 02/07/2026 22:32

Batshit update. The Bluey's own Batshit, not Tinkerbell batshittery.

We did a little bit of retrieving in the scrub during our walk. The first dummy out of my bag was a hard orange plastic one for water work, but I chucked it anyway. Brains was straight over the obstacles (brambles, broken branches), and found her way back through a gap next to a tree. Dummy back to hand. Thank you, Brains.

Batshit's turn. She didn't see where the dummy landed, which is par for the course (Sorry, Edith, I wasn't watching...), but I sent her after it and she went through the gap that Brains had found, winded it and headed back to me with it in her gob. Through the nice wide gap, but she managed to whack the end of the dummy so hard on the trunk of the tree that it fell out of her mouth and hit the ground.

Oh Batshit. She looked very perplexed, but nonetheless picked it up and brought it to me. How did that happen?
The laws of physics, Batshit.
The what?
The laws of physics. Never mind....

They were very good girls towards the end of the walk. Brains rounded a wide corner well ahead of me and slammed on point. Batshit copies Brains, so she slammed on too. As I came round the corner I had a split second's glimpse of something very fast and leggy that had just crossed the path and was vanishing into the verge and on into the scrub.

You could see the tension of the point go out of both dogs and feel the vibe from Brains of, You saw that, yes? And she strutted off while Batshit went to sniff where whatever-it-was had gone.

I wasn't 100% if what I saw was a young muntjac or a young hare, but I found a photo on the web that convinced me that it was a mostly-grown leveret: I saw the ends of the ears, and the leggy back end, and the pale sandy coat.

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JanesLittleGirl · 02/07/2026 22:53

EdithStourton · 02/07/2026 22:02

I'm sorry that some of you are feeling bleaauggggh - is that an accurate representation of how you feel?
Yep.

I know very little Polish, but I do know that dragon is 'smok'. Which, when said by a Polish person, sounds very much like... Smaug.

How about Dougal, Zebedee et al? Or would they fail the drug tests?

My Polish DGF was called Zebedee. The spelling had lots more constanents and far fewer vowels but that was his name. I'm proud to carry the kind-of feminine version of his name.

JanesLittleGirl · 02/07/2026 23:13

As a little aside, my bandwidth has been completely taken up by the maddest ET in the history of ETs. Fortunately, there was a break in the mad pyjama party where there was a a discussion about jam and cream on scones. I have always regarded this as a squabble between neighbours. Jam first; cream first. Who cares unless you come from the peninsular? Here in Dorset, some of us put jam on first and some of us put cream on first and some of us call them sconns and some of us call them scowns but it really don't matter thruppence three farthing.

ErrolTheDragon · 02/07/2026 23:20

@AngleOfRepose- and there’s Parry and its variants from ap Harry

ErrolTheDragon · 02/07/2026 23:25

JanesLittleGirl · 02/07/2026 23:13

As a little aside, my bandwidth has been completely taken up by the maddest ET in the history of ETs. Fortunately, there was a break in the mad pyjama party where there was a a discussion about jam and cream on scones. I have always regarded this as a squabble between neighbours. Jam first; cream first. Who cares unless you come from the peninsular? Here in Dorset, some of us put jam on first and some of us put cream on first and some of us call them sconns and some of us call them scowns but it really don't matter thruppence three farthing.

I’ve not been following it but periodically try reading the end of the thread to see if I can get the gist of it (nope) - came across a mention of mint aero scones. Well, whatever these baked goods are I’m sure they taste very nice but are they really scones?

Chickadeeinme · 03/07/2026 02:00

I think Patel is the Hindi version of Smith.

Strictly speaking my married surname should be Smith (it isn't). My husband's grandfather died when his son was very little - under two - and his grandmother remarried. The little boy took his stepfather's name, so that is the surname my husband has. He has a very unusual first name, and as far as we can ascertain from Google there is only one other person in the USA (possibly in the world) with the same first name and surname combination. Sadly it's much too outing for me to tell anybody what it is!

MarieDeGournay · 03/07/2026 10:12

FuzzyPuffling · 02/07/2026 21:19

Marie...
" In winter I get up at night
And dress by yellow candlight.
In summer, quite the other way
I have to go to bed by day"

Morning all I hope the general condition of Bluestockingers is on the favourable side this morningSmile

I didn't know that wonderful little poem, Fuzzy, I had to google it and found it was RLS. It's lovely, thank you, and sums up that childhood experience perfectly.

I didn't mention in my post that one of my mother's stories about what an odd little child I was [said with affection] was that the first time I had to be got up and ready while it was still dark - I think we were catching an early train to visit my granny - I wasn't just annoyed, I was outraged, and proclaimed that it just wasn't right to wake little children up in the middle of the night - my mother said she thought I was going to report her to the ISPCC for child cruelty😁

I don't remember that at all, I must have been very young. And very jealous of my 'human rights' even then!

I'm following the late entries to the Gerbil World Cup with interest - the more the merrier, I say!

I'm moving from room to room in the house, as far away as possible from where the work is concentrated at that time. They say they should be finished on Monday.
I'll have a weekend of peace and quiet and then just one more daySmile

I'm going to look in on the Shirley Temple trib now, I'll catch up with you later.
I'm missing my usual Bluestocking interaction - I like to sit down beside you and find out about what's going on and your cats and your crafts and your digs and your health and your family and your wit and wisdom, but at the moment it's just a general 👋to all.💙

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ErrolTheDragon · 03/07/2026 10:30

I had a sort of opposite experience when the U.K. did its experiment of not putting the clocks back in winter in 1968 for a couple of years. I’d have been 7, and had heard talk of ‘dark mornings’ without necessarily fully understanding. So, I woke up in the dark and thought, “oh the dark mornings have started”, got dressed (rather more quickly than usual because of the novelty) and went downstairs. And that’s how I discovered that my parents and older brothers sometimes had supper at about 9pm, in this case beans on toast which I was missing out on!😮

MyrtleLion · 03/07/2026 12:39

I need to shower and change for a 2.30pm meeting till 4pm and then a meal out tonight. I planned to shower at 1.30pm, but I’ve just had an alarm saying I need to rub in some hormone gel which means I can’t shower afterwards.

But I’m reading the tribunal and the hormones should go in at the same time every time. Frustrating.

EmpressaurusKitty · 03/07/2026 12:48

ErrolTheDragon · 03/07/2026 10:30

I had a sort of opposite experience when the U.K. did its experiment of not putting the clocks back in winter in 1968 for a couple of years. I’d have been 7, and had heard talk of ‘dark mornings’ without necessarily fully understanding. So, I woke up in the dark and thought, “oh the dark mornings have started”, got dressed (rather more quickly than usual because of the novelty) and went downstairs. And that’s how I discovered that my parents and older brothers sometimes had supper at about 9pm, in this case beans on toast which I was missing out on!😮

What a cheek! I hope they gave you some, @ErrolTheDragon.

I’m out with the local Radfems tonight, helping sort stuff tomorrow for a fete next weekend where my cat shelter has a stall, & at the WRN conference on Sunday. Busy weekend.

Waitwhat23 · 03/07/2026 13:08

Love that poem by RLS. Another poem by him, which is one of my favourites -

Where go the boats?

Dark brown is the river,
Golden is the sand.
It flows along for ever,
With trees on either hand.

Green leaves a-floating,
Castles of the foam,
Boats of mine a-boating –
Where will all come home?

On goes the river
And out past the mill,
Away down the valley,
Away down the hill.

Away down the river,
A hundred miles or more,
Other little children
Shall bring my boats ashore.

EmpressaurusKitty · 03/07/2026 13:24

I used to have a children’s book of RLS poems. I’d forgotten all about it until now but I loved them.

Chickadeeinme · 03/07/2026 13:53

That would be “A Child’s Garden of Verses” I think. He wrote them after an illness involving a haemorrhage when he was recovering but too ill to write prose. They’re rather lovely and still go down well with young children today.

We have to take the cats to the vet this afternoon. It’s time for their annual checkup and shots anyway, but one of them is giving us concern. They are 19 now, and Reese is looking skinny although she’s eating and is very lethargic, even by cat standards. Skittles is still feisty (her way of showing affection is to lick you and then bite) and has more energy. Reese is very attached to DH (I get the bitey one obviously, not the cuddly one) and he is very despondent about the state of her. At this age neither of us feel that extreme measures are justified to treat her but it’s still sad to watch her go downhill.

EmpressaurusKitty · 03/07/2026 14:13

It would! I think the cover was a picture of a girl in a sailor dress on a swing but I might be wrong - I might try & find it online later.

I hope the vet appointment goes ok, @Chickadeeinme. 19’s a very impressive age.

DeanElderberry · 03/07/2026 16:15

The Swing RLS

How do you like to go up in a swing,
Up in the air so blue?
Oh, I do think it the pleasantest thing
Ever a child can do!

Up in the air and over the wall,
Till I can see so wide,
River and trees and cattle and all
Over the countryside--

Till I look down on the garden green,
Down on the roof so brown--
Up in the air I go flying again,
Up in the air and down!

I think my mother, or possibly her mother, must have had a copy of A Child's Garden of Verses because I grew up on them.

That one, and the one about Leerie the Lamplighter were particular favourites.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 03/07/2026 16:19

I do enjoy poetry - a couple of times I’ve bought A Poem a Day compilations to read throughout the year, and that’s got me to read things I might not have come across otherwise.

EmpressaurusKitty · 03/07/2026 16:43

DeanElderberry · 03/07/2026 16:15

The Swing RLS

How do you like to go up in a swing,
Up in the air so blue?
Oh, I do think it the pleasantest thing
Ever a child can do!

Up in the air and over the wall,
Till I can see so wide,
River and trees and cattle and all
Over the countryside--

Till I look down on the garden green,
Down on the roof so brown--
Up in the air I go flying again,
Up in the air and down!

I think my mother, or possibly her mother, must have had a copy of A Child's Garden of Verses because I grew up on them.

That one, and the one about Leerie the Lamplighter were particular favourites.

This was the edition I had!

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Hedgehogforshort · 03/07/2026 16:45

Hello all <staggers in with a pint of gin from the tribunal thread>

I am trying to limit my time on t’internet.

the tribunal is batshit stuff, and I think i am addicted because this claimant is a TIM claiming harassment. The details are as multi coloured as the pride flag.

And it seems that the tribunal was in fact instigated by ghosts up on high, and i mean under secretary level. The players in this claim are just patsies.

Anyway pass the duchy @Boiledbeetle

Ah thats better <slurps gin>

Shit i have to be off to my daughters at 8.30am.

Am i the only one who sloths about for an hour or two before contemplating any proper movement from my bedroom?

ErrolTheDragon · 03/07/2026 17:07

slothing about is entirely normal isn’t it?

The name of the RLS book is so familiar that I feel we must have had it.
I had quite a lot of poetry books (and other anthologies which included poems) when DD was growing up - reading poetry to a child is one of the particular pleasures of parenthood and I assume grandparenthood. There’s a trio of anthologies compiled by Anne Fine, helpfully divided by age range, called “Too good to miss” iirc which I’d particularly recommend - they went on a few holidays with us along with whatever ‘classic’ I was reading to DD at the time (she didn’t like reading but loved being read to).

I keep meaning to get into a poem a day habit - it should be so easy to incorporate into slothing time but somehow it

Magpiecomplex · 03/07/2026 17:07

One for the tractor fans. Been at the county show today. I'm now very hot and with a headache, so I'm going to retreat to the mojito pool for a while.

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MyrtleLion · 03/07/2026 17:08

Gerbil World Cup HQ: The Late Entries

Griselda arrived to find two letters waiting, which was, by gerbil standards, already an epidemic. By the end of the week it would be six.

Middle Earth
The first letter was written on paper so old it had gone the colour of weak tea, in a hand that pressed hard enough to nearly go through the page.

Griselda read the squad list twice. Elendil. Isildur. Anarion. Aragorn. Theoden. Denethor. A midfield built almost entirely out of one hobbit, Frodo, listed first. Dwarves on the wings. Elves in goal, on account of the eyesight.

“Some of these players,” Griselda said slowly, “are extremely dead.”

“So was the Hanseatic League’s accountant,” said Gertrude, without looking up. “Didn’t stop her doing the books.”

Griselda considered this a fair point and stamped the letter APPROVED before she could think better of it.

Elendil insisted on being addressed as Elendil, Elf-friend, which the other gerbils found extremely long to fit on a shirt. Isildur took one look at the trophy case and had to be gently walked away from it by her own daughter, Aragorn, who had the tired patience of someone who’d done this exact walk before, several times, over several ages. Theoden trained like a woman remembering she was younger than her knees currently believed. Denethor sat in the stands, ate steadily, and offered opinions on team selection that nobody had solicited and everyone wrote down anyway. Frodo carried the ball everywhere. The ball, mysteriously, always came back to her.

Wimbledon Common United, and, Separately, Sooty, Sweep & Soo
A second letter arrived taped to a marrow, and turned out — on careful, damp-patched inspection — to be two letters stapled together by someone in a hurry.
The first was from Madame Cholet, on behalf of the Wombles, in handwriting so tidy it looked ironed. Her back four were tidying the touchline before kickoff had even been discussed, which Griselda noted approvingly as “the first squad all season with a stronger work ethic than Tournament Operations itself.”

The second was from Sooty, Sweep and Soo, entering as their own separate side. Sooty said nothing and always seemed to be holding a wand nobody had seen her pick up. Sweep squeaked; Gwendoline transcribed it as [Sweep, agreeing] by the third bulletin, having given up on rendering the actual sound. Soo, calm and organised, ran the whole operation without appearing to try.

Both letters were stamped APPROVED, on separate forms, filed in separate drawers — which felt, to Griselda, like the very least she owed them after the marrow.

The Flowerpot Men & Little Weed
Written in two hands and one language nobody at HQ had a translator for, though Gertrude claimed to understand every word and refused, on principle, to explain how. Bill and Ben trained by talking exclusively to each other, at length, in flobbadob, while their coach — Little Weed, listed on the team sheet simply as Weed, capt. — stood between them and appeared to be the only one keeping the whole operation on schedule.

The Clangers
No letter this time — just a soup dragon, curled up outside HQ one morning with a note pinned to her tail. The Clangers communicated in whistles pitched too high for most of the building to hear, which Gwendoline found, on the whole, restful, and wrote up as such.

Bagpuss’s Mice
Small, industrious, and mostly interested in knitting the goal nets rather than defending them. Griselda approved this one on sight, on the grounds that any squad offering to improve HQ’s soft furnishings unprompted had already done more for Tournament Operations than most federations managed in a decade.

The Magic Roundabout
Dougal arrived complaining before she’d even signed the form, which Griselda found oddly reassuring — a captain who complained was a captain paying attention. Zebedee didn’t walk onto the pitch so much as arrive on it, mid-bounce, and refused to discuss her position, preferring, as she put it, “to go where the game needed her.”

Greta’s line appeared under the glass before Griselda had finished filing the last form:
Six new entries. One bracket. Bring several umbrellas.

Nobody asked where she’d been. Nobody ever did.

myrtlelion.substack.com/p/the-late-entries

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Boiledbeetle · 03/07/2026 17:17

Can someone send Gubbins and whichever other young gerbils enjoy playing with the jet washer to sort out the back alley?

It's filthy. My highland cows got dirty.

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