I think you’re conflating a few different issues here.
I’ve never seen any Scottish Government guidance that says children are “born in the wrong body because they play with opposite sex toys”. In fact, teaching children that boys can like dolls and girls can like football without that changing their sex would seem to be the exact opposite of reinforcing stereotypes.
Whether someone agrees or disagrees with concepts such as gender identity, schools still have a duty to teach respect, prevent bullying and acknowledge that different people and families exist. That’s not the same thing as telling children they must identify in a particular way. Teachers are held to a set of pretty high standards. They have to remain impartial. Unfortunately the whole debate (which shouldn’t be a debate, trans people exist) is currently being weaponised by political parties on all sides. Homosexuality was only made legal in Scotland in 1980. Similar debates were being had around homosexual individuals in the years running up to that. Society doesn’t like change, or thinking about something that’s ‘other’, or outside of the norm. I am hopeful that in years to come we’ll look back and feel ashamed of how we allowed ourselves to be dragged into a culture war which debated the very existence of some of the most vulnerable people in society. We just aren’t there yet.
You also mention “trans social contagion”, but that’s a highly contested claim. If we’re going to discuss what is happening in schools, it’s probably better to look at the actual curriculum and guidance rather than assumptions about what children are being taught. From personal experience, I don’t see ‘trans ideology’ being pushed on children. I see adults who get their knickers in a twist about this and children who are thankfully a lot more accepting that people can be different for a variety of different reasons.
People can disagree about gender identity, but I think it’s important to distinguish between teaching children to be respectful towards others and actively persuading them to adopt a particular belief.
Additionally, cisgender” isn’t a hate term. It’s simply a descriptive word used to distinguish between people whose gender identity aligns with their sex at birth and those who identify as transgender. Much like “heterosexual” and “homosexual” are descriptive terms, or “right-handed” and “left-handed”.
You don’t have to like the term or use it yourself, but describing it as “hatefully misogynistic” doesn’t make much sense. The term applies equally to men and women and isn’t derogatory towards either sex.
respectfully, we won’t agree - but thank you for entering into the debate in a respectful way without resorting to name-calling. Have a lovely day.