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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Traumatised by swinging

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guinnessguzzler · 16/06/2026 12:18

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c87q7g48y4po

This brave woman, Ruth O'Grady, has spoken out about what her vile husband and lots of other men put her through, facilitated by a swingers website. It must have been incredibly difficult for her to speak out as she will know the level of doubt and judgement she will now face.

These men. I know I say it every time but what the actual fuck is wrong with them?

Sending strength, love and gratitude to Ruth.

Ruth has dark hair and is looking directly at the camera.

Woman left traumatised by swinging says website 'facilitated abuse'

She wants to warn others after her husband pressured her into sex she did not want, she says.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/c87q7g48y4po

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Ilovebakewelltarts · 25/07/2026 21:58

@UtopiaPlanitia "There are so many porn-addled pervert men in the world these days! These awful men literally don't see women as human beings/people deserving of respect. "

I agree and blame extreme pornography, with people like Ms Blue glamourising it and telling guys that she likes rough sex.
But that's another discussion 🙄

Rainbowclimber · 29/07/2026 16:06

I think she was wrong to out herself as there are a lot of predators out there who will see her as an easy target . Tell her story yes but stayed anonymous for her own safety and well being.

PaperWalkAndTalk · 01/08/2026 21:23

Started listening to this podcast, it is absolutely grim listening.

Only listening to it, because someone tried to (unsuccessfully) persuade me to sign up to the website, and you couldn't find a more diametrically opposed person than me!

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