I agree with you Flirts and Knotty
What bloody annoys me about most public institutions, universities, local authorities, NHS trusts, etc. is that when they drafted their policies, they seemed to look at discrimination law solely from the trans perspective and largely ignored the rights of women.
its seems that they cherrypicked bits of the Equality Act.
For example: one of the key provisions in the Equality Act is s.26. In broad terms, it states that harassment is unwanted conduct that violates a person's dignity or creates an intimidating, hostile, degrading, humiliating or offensive environment. That's sensible law and provides important protection against bullying and genuinely unacceptable behaviour.
The difficulty comes with s.26(4), which states that, in deciding whether conduct amounts to harassment, the following must be taken into account:
(a) the perception of B (the person making the complaint);
(b) the other circumstances of the case; and
(c) whether it is reasonable for the conduct to have that effect.
Most institutions seem to have written their trans-inclusive policies with (a) in mind and forgotten about (b) and (c). The "other circumstances" in (b) include the rights of women in these situations, and (c) is, of course, the million-dollar question.
This is one reason why, in a number of recent cases, the courts have effectively pushed back against aspects of trans ideology. It is not the only reason, but the courts have generally taken a more objective approach, whereas many institutions have adopted a largely subjective one, focused on hurt feelings rather than balancing competing rights.
Part of the reason, I suspect, is that these institutions have been relentlessly lobbied and know they gain reputational kudos for being seen as "kind" and "inclusive". The cynic in me also wonders whether some have simply done a risk assessment based on who is most likely to sue them and concluded that women were the safer bet to ignore.