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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Cambridge University ignoring the Supreme Court ruling?

410 replies

yoursweetpotatoesarebland · 11/06/2026 23:27

Dd is going to the Cambridge open day coming up, I got an email through about the colleges and was having a read through. There’s a section about “gender identity” and how it impacts on what colleges you can apply to. There are two women’s colleges but both accept anyone who identifies as a woman!

This is from Murray Edwards:
“At the admissions level, we will consider any student who, at the point of application, identifies as a woman“

How can this still be allowed? It’s self ID too so has NEVER been legal for the purposes of the eqA.

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Helleofabore · Yesterday 08:42

OldCrone · Yesterday 07:59

The poster trying to categorise males as females through behaviours and interests cannot acknowledge that what they say is absurd.

Just looking at the way they have constructed this categorisation:

Sine the beginning of time, people have been categorised according to their sex. (True.)

Some behaviours and interests are more typical of women as a group or of men as a group. (True to some extent, but arbitrary. These behaviours and interests have changed over time and are different in different cultures. Many are imposed on the sexes by the society they live in.)

This poster then concludes that the most appropriate way to classify people now is no longer by sex, but by how well they conform to the "typical woman" profile or the "typical man" profile, and then refer to them as women or men according to how well they conform to the male or female profile.

What he is forgetting is that you first need to divide people into the two sexes in order to decide what a typical male or female profile looks like. If you don't do this, you just end up with groups of people of both sexes who like different things: people who like football; people who like needlework; people who are good at maths; people who enjoy caring for children etc. In order to make any of these things typically male or female traits, you first need to divide people by sex.

Didn’t they once declare having an interest in make up was a female ‘behaviour’.

it is incredibly superficial and really inappropriate.

Seethlaw · Yesterday 08:55

BunnyBunbunbun · Yesterday 08:40

The other flaw in that argument is that transwomen have no traits or behaviours in common with actual women. Same goes for transmen, who have nothing in common with actual men. Everything I see of transwomen screams man, including their crude, simplistic and sexist notions of what women are. Transmen seem to try to emulate teenage boys or young men in their early 20s, but only cool and trendy ones.

Transmen seem to try to emulate teenage boys or young men in their early 20s, but only cool and trendy ones.

Not All Transmen :P Some of us try to emulate mature bears. will forever mourn lack of proper pilosity

FlirtsWithRhinos · Yesterday 08:57

Helleofabore · Yesterday 08:42

Didn’t they once declare having an interest in make up was a female ‘behaviour’.

it is incredibly superficial and really inappropriate.

It's never stuff like feeling obliged to care for aging parents or making sure the bathroom is clean for guests is it?

Not that I consider those things inherently womanly either of course. But I don't think being a woman is defined by "commonalties" rather than sex.

One might almost think that the people placing such weight on "commonalities" do not even have any idea what the actual "commonalities" might be. One might think they are basing their beliefs on the most superficial of observations because they in reality know very little and care even less about the actual social and domestic experiences of and pressures on female people.

Wishesandhorses · Yesterday 08:59

Bornwithasexnotassignedit · Yesterday 08:07

Stop using facts and logic. It’s not fair on people who want to make up belief systems and impose them on people.

If a man wants to be a woman because he once painted his nails and ate toast then yes he should be in a woman’s college. Smith in else is literally violent death.

The frantic attempts using stereotypes are solely to have a group of biological women that transidentified men can then get in with as a group.

As with single sex spaces of all kinds: the desire is absolutely to have something exclusively for and about biological women for these men to be able to have the met desire to join it as proof of their 'real' womanhood. It's about the same reason as wanting sex with lesbians.

To support it, you have to see women as just props and resources for men, and the harms and exclusions to women and the damage to their resources as nothing so long as these men are happy. It's male supremacism basically. Standing on a platform of fundamental disrespect for women (as a sex class).

FlirtsWithRhinos · Yesterday 09:03

Which raises the interesting question of whether the man who transitions at 18 because he sees himself as a soft and sexy anime lolita or the man who transitions at 45 because he likes himself in makeup and tights goes on to experience changing "commonalties" in line with women of his own age as he ages, or if his "woman" persona is specific to and fixed in the "commonalities" he felt when he transitioned?

Wishesandhorses · Yesterday 09:08

The 'commonalities' also vanish when you see: there is zero interest in women, women's lives, women's voices, women's experiences, women's thoughts and feelings - it's never about 'joining' women or 'commonalities' with women, and many of the 'joined' groups ended up being destroyed or going underground to escape men invading them because those men had no interest in being part of the group and wanted merely to own and control it and have access to the women in it. The men who tried to get police to force their access into the private home of one of the women leading a rape survivors group comes to mind, when the group were desperate to escape those men. Who for some reason really wanted to be with women talking about their sexual abuse stories, and for those women to know there would no escaping them.

This is about costume and access to biological women - with no doubt on anyone's part who or what a biological woman is. And forced access is fine, control is writ large on this. As is the frequently very highly sexualised use of costume and behaviours, and the very frequent and fast default to threats of extremely sexual violence.

nutmeg7 · Yesterday 09:09

Baileyonice · 14/06/2026 23:36

Yes I did upthread:

"Yes, the premise of feminism is differences exist but so do commonalities that justify measures to enable gender equality. And it's the commonalities where the disconnect happens for GC feminists in my view.
Highlighting the biological differences justifies measures like reproductive freedom, child care, flexible working hours/parental leave etc that enable access to gender parity. Highlighting the commonalities as in cognitive skills & psychological traits justified anti discrimination laws that enabled access to the same work places. How else would you justify women not being the 'weaker sex'? The same way people of colour were justified not being discriminated against. We are all humans & as such cognitively & psychologically interchangeable.

And once the door to interchangeability opens, so does gender identification. Whilst males & females share psychological traits there are typical behaviours more common to one sex than the other due to genetic, hormonal distribution & environmental settings that create behavioural categories distinguishing males from females. Sex after all is in essence the traits that distinguish males from females which isn't just limited to reproductive traits. I'm not saying behaviour defines sex. I'm saying there are behaviours & inclinations more common to each sex that create categorical gendered differences at population scale.
A trans person is in essence simply saying 'I have more in common & as such identify with the opposite gender category I was born as.'

Of course the schism here is the GC presumption that alluding to typical behaviours is in conflict with psychological interchangeability. But it doesn't because interchangeability & typical behaviours are not mutually exclusive. One does not cancel out the other because individuals aren't necessarily reflective of the norm."

What, in your opinion, are the behaviours, inclinations & experiences of women?

As I mentioned, the sexes share personality traits so behaviours aren't necessarily exclusive to one sex but can be more common to each one.

What are those more common behaviours? That's a whole thread on its own not relevant to this one that you can start & I will gladly participate in.

But you want to organise the world in terms of “typical behaviours”.

If you can’t simply identify these, and claim it would take a whole thread to do so, how is that a practical basis on which to organise services for “men” and “women” where such a division is necessary.

Baileyonice · Yesterday 09:13

This poster then concludes that the most appropriate way to classify people now is no longer by sex, but by how well they conform to the "typical woman" profile or the "typical man" profile, and then refer to them as women or men according to how well they conform to the male or female profile.

No not what I said. The context was personal identity formation where its a matter of self identification so an individual could go either way (sex or gender) dependant on their values or beliefs.

The context here isn't about you & your values/beliefs but how individuals see themselves….which they have every right to an belief/opinion on as you do.

nutmeg7 · Yesterday 09:15

Baileyonice · Yesterday 03:54

They're not allowing trans men to use women's toilets or changing spaces.

The context here is about admission procedures not lavs.

FWIW, I believe it's plainly unlawful discrimination. The men who are admitted are admitted only on the basis of their GR protected characteristic, which is unlawful.

If you seriously believe that if there was a scintilla of hope that admissions was discriminatory Sex Matters wouldn't be all over it in court, I have a bridge to sell you.

Tell you what, it must burn SM to high heaven that they got the door slam particularly 'cause feminism'. That they, the high priestesses of feminism just got told they don't understand it by one of the most prestigious educational institutions in the UK.

SHEESH!

Edited

A bit of vitriol towards Sex Matters there. Careful not to let your spite show.

Shortshriftandlethal · Yesterday 09:16

FlirtsWithRhinos · Yesterday 09:03

Which raises the interesting question of whether the man who transitions at 18 because he sees himself as a soft and sexy anime lolita or the man who transitions at 45 because he likes himself in makeup and tights goes on to experience changing "commonalties" in line with women of his own age as he ages, or if his "woman" persona is specific to and fixed in the "commonalities" he felt when he transitioned?

You only have to look at Eddie Izzard to see how his trans persona is very much fixed. What woman of that age would dress in such a way. His look is not only far too young, but also highly dated - in a 1970s way. Fetishes take on highly specific contours. All of the guys I see have tried to perfect a certain look.

Avezaveza · Yesterday 09:23

I have learnt today that as a biological woman for 45 years I am in fact a man.
Who knew?

Is this correct @Baileyonice

I do not wear makeup I play golf, I work in men’s sport and I have short hair.

Am I a man and if not why not?

Baileyonice · Yesterday 09:23

nutmeg7 · Yesterday 09:15

A bit of vitriol towards Sex Matters there. Careful not to let your spite show.

'Now now it's rude to be spiteful to enablers of misogynistic & racist far right fascism!'

Wishesandhorses · Yesterday 09:25

Baileyonice · Yesterday 09:13

This poster then concludes that the most appropriate way to classify people now is no longer by sex, but by how well they conform to the "typical woman" profile or the "typical man" profile, and then refer to them as women or men according to how well they conform to the male or female profile.

No not what I said. The context was personal identity formation where its a matter of self identification so an individual could go either way (sex or gender) dependant on their values or beliefs.

The context here isn't about you & your values/beliefs but how individuals see themselves….which they have every right to an belief/opinion on as you do.

And, going back to the original purpose of the thread and the SCJ, mixed sex spaces alongside single sex spaces allow everyone to do.

Clearly marked. And honest.

Women's single sex spaces cannot be sacrificed to this, because the women who want and need single sex spaces are equally about how individuals see themselves and their right to a belief too - plus the necessary needs of biological women as a group (of half the population of the planet.)

Shortshriftandlethal · Yesterday 09:25

Wishesandhorses · Yesterday 09:08

The 'commonalities' also vanish when you see: there is zero interest in women, women's lives, women's voices, women's experiences, women's thoughts and feelings - it's never about 'joining' women or 'commonalities' with women, and many of the 'joined' groups ended up being destroyed or going underground to escape men invading them because those men had no interest in being part of the group and wanted merely to own and control it and have access to the women in it. The men who tried to get police to force their access into the private home of one of the women leading a rape survivors group comes to mind, when the group were desperate to escape those men. Who for some reason really wanted to be with women talking about their sexual abuse stories, and for those women to know there would no escaping them.

This is about costume and access to biological women - with no doubt on anyone's part who or what a biological woman is. And forced access is fine, control is writ large on this. As is the frequently very highly sexualised use of costume and behaviours, and the very frequent and fast default to threats of extremely sexual violence.

Many of the guys I'm aware of continue to pursue typically masculine interests and pursuits; still associating and identifying with other men. ( football, gaming, tech)

Wishesandhorses · Yesterday 09:26

Baileyonice · Yesterday 09:23

'Now now it's rude to be spiteful to enablers of misogynistic & racist far right fascism!'

Lindsay Lohan Lol GIF by MOODMAN

Which is absolutely what rights for women are alllll about.

I think that's the final reveal there.

Shortshriftandlethal · Yesterday 09:32

FlirtsWithRhinos · Yesterday 08:57

It's never stuff like feeling obliged to care for aging parents or making sure the bathroom is clean for guests is it?

Not that I consider those things inherently womanly either of course. But I don't think being a woman is defined by "commonalties" rather than sex.

One might almost think that the people placing such weight on "commonalities" do not even have any idea what the actual "commonalities" might be. One might think they are basing their beliefs on the most superficial of observations because they in reality know very little and care even less about the actual social and domestic experiences of and pressures on female people.

Of course, because 'gender' is constructed out of nothing but superficial and imaginal fancies and social aesthetics. Gender is a performance ( Judith Butler).

TheUpperEchelonsOfMediocrity · Yesterday 09:35

‘Community Integration: Trans women actively participate in, contribute to, and form bonds within women's spaces, sports, and advocacy groups’

Possibly not in the way they might have expected to 😂

nutmeg7 · Yesterday 09:45

Baileyonice · Yesterday 09:23

'Now now it's rude to be spiteful to enablers of misogynistic & racist far right fascism!'

Are you saying SexMatters are misogynists?

To be honest, your reasoning powers seem a bit muddled. It’s probably a side effect of all the post-modernism and having to twist your brain inside out to pretend that:

a. Sex is terribly complicated and indefinable (despite us all knowing where babies come from)

b. Men and women are much better defined by their typical/common behavioural traits.

(Although how you work out which traits belong to men and which to women when you don’t accept the biological definition of men and women in the first place is a circular piece of logic that eludes me.)

FlirtsWithRhinos · Yesterday 09:57

nutmeg7 · Yesterday 09:45

Are you saying SexMatters are misogynists?

To be honest, your reasoning powers seem a bit muddled. It’s probably a side effect of all the post-modernism and having to twist your brain inside out to pretend that:

a. Sex is terribly complicated and indefinable (despite us all knowing where babies come from)

b. Men and women are much better defined by their typical/common behavioural traits.

(Although how you work out which traits belong to men and which to women when you don’t accept the biological definition of men and women in the first place is a circular piece of logic that eludes me.)

Edited

I don't think that poster is coming from a post modernist position. Their posts don't have the coherence of an underlying organising philosophy.

No, I think they are coming from the "Haha so now it's ok to say men and women are different is it? Such delicious irony to see Feminists hoist by their own petard! Bet they wish they'd never started with all that 'women are equal to men amd can do the same jobs and shouldn't be banned from golf clubs' malarky. Serves the uppity b*tches right!" side of the house.

SabrinaThwaite · Yesterday 10:09

For anyone who wants to read the Mail on Sunday article BON alluded to, instead of a Turkish pop science ChatGPT version, it’s here:

https://archive.ph/CQmJt

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 10:17

Baileyonice · 14/06/2026 23:04

The working EHRC guidelines that come from them are quite possibly not as
they may violate the European Convention Of Human Rights.

"While the EHRC maintains its guidance aligns with UK law, international watchdogs have raised serious red flags. Key areas of dispute include: [1]
Right to Private and Family Life (Article 8): The European Court of Human Rights (ECtHR) and the Council of Europe Commissioner for Human Rights have warned that denying transgender individuals access to single-sex spaces aligning with their gender could void the practical meaning of their legal gender recognition. Conversely, the EHRC has argued in parliamentary sessions that Article 8 does not mandate blanket trans inclusion in all single-sex services, creating a direct clash of interpretations. [1, 2, 3, 5]

Freedom from Discrimination (Article 14): Article 14 protects against unfair treatment and discrimination. Gender-critical campaigners argue the guidelines appropriately protect women's safety. However, advocates argue that allowing businesses to exclude trans individuals from everyday spaces creates an unacceptable "intermediate zone" that breaches both the ECHR and Equality Act 2010protections. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5]

Potential for Legal Challenge: The UN Human Rights Office (OHCHR) and legal advocacy groups have signaled that if the guidance forces the exclusion of trans people from everyday life, it could result in successful applications to the ECtHR in Strasbourg. [1, 2, 3]"

Since when has Pink News been a source of legal scholarship?

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · Yesterday 10:30

FlirtsWithRhinos · Yesterday 09:57

I don't think that poster is coming from a post modernist position. Their posts don't have the coherence of an underlying organising philosophy.

No, I think they are coming from the "Haha so now it's ok to say men and women are different is it? Such delicious irony to see Feminists hoist by their own petard! Bet they wish they'd never started with all that 'women are equal to men amd can do the same jobs and shouldn't be banned from golf clubs' malarky. Serves the uppity b*tches right!" side of the house.

Edited

So many of these men seem to despise the very sex that they want to become. The MH issues can be seen from space

Bornwithasexnotassignedit · Yesterday 10:31

Baileyonice · Yesterday 09:23

'Now now it's rude to be spiteful to enablers of misogynistic & racist far right fascism!'

Thanks for the laugh.

I slept in my husbands t-shirt last night and farted. I demand to be allowed into gay men saunas forthwith as I am a man and fancy men so am gay. Don’t let my visible pregnancy form part of the nazi racist judgment from said gay men to exclude me from their genital exclusive fetishistic nonsense. I am a gay man and as I am biological and I have the right for a gay man to devour my man vagina.

M husband might object but you know that’s just the coercive mind control patriarchy.

Bornwithasexnotassignedit · Yesterday 10:33

selffellatingouroborosofhate · Yesterday 10:17

Since when has Pink News been a source of legal scholarship?

Well if you are cognitively impaired they may seem inspiring. It’s all a matter of perspective.

SwirlyGates · Yesterday 10:41

FlirtsWithRhinos · Yesterday 08:57

It's never stuff like feeling obliged to care for aging parents or making sure the bathroom is clean for guests is it?

Not that I consider those things inherently womanly either of course. But I don't think being a woman is defined by "commonalties" rather than sex.

One might almost think that the people placing such weight on "commonalities" do not even have any idea what the actual "commonalities" might be. One might think they are basing their beliefs on the most superficial of observations because they in reality know very little and care even less about the actual social and domestic experiences of and pressures on female people.

They obviously don't read the other boards on mumsnet, complaining about men. The women in relationships with men, who complain that

  • she does the housework and look after the kids while he is up all night gaming
  • she does the life admin
  • she runs round after his aging parents, as well as her own
  • she writes Christmas and birthday cards and buys presents, for his family as well as her own
  • when his family or friends stay over, she is the one shopping, cooking, cleaning and making beds
  • she does the school run while he lies in bed
  • she gets up with the baby or other children, while he lies in bed
  • she is left with the jobs at the weekend while he plays golf all day
  • if the kids are sick, she stays home with them, because he can't take time off from his Big Job

And that's before you get into actual abusive behaviour.

I wonder if the trans-identifying men in relationships see themselves reflected here, and if so, which role they play? Though I'm guessing very few have children.

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