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Article on "arguing with a TERF"

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MyAmpleSheep · 05/06/2026 13:18

I love to keep up with the other side, so here's a lot of words just to say "it's complicated." meanwhile he ignores the obvious answer to his own question.

www.fasttrackfemme.com/p/why-you-cant-win-an-argument-with

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ArabellaScott · 25/06/2026 08:29

MedicalConsensus · 25/06/2026 08:25

@Seethlaw
"So what you're saying is that I must center my argumentation around him and his assumption? I don't think so."

No, not at all. You don't have to adopt her assumptions or center her argument.
As I stated earlier, you just have to make it clear what your actual boundary is.
If your boundary is strictly about categorical privacy (meaning biology is the only metric that matters, regardless of statistical safety), you can simply state that.
Once you clearly establish that your boundary is categorical, the debate naturally shifts to address that specific boundary, rendering her questions about statistical risk completely irrelevant to your stance.

You don't need to center your argument around her. But clearly defining your own premises is how you force the conversation to actually address what you care about, rather than talking in circles.

So all these years, as we've slogged through the courts, the media, the court of public opinion, patiently sharing evidence and data and making the arguments over and fucking over again, we were doing it wrong? Who knew! Brilliant you are here to help.

What first attracted you to the job?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:29

ArabellaScott · 25/06/2026 08:19

IKR.

Pull back the curtain and you get a wee man in a stretchy belt and golf trousers saying 'well, actually'. After a few shandies, he starts get hot under the collar and attempts to insult women by saying they are ugly and should all shut up.

Tale as old and tedious as time.

Exactly. Zero patience with it.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:30

Baileyonice · 25/06/2026 03:53

The burden of proof is with the claimant of which you won't be able to provide given countries vary in their approaches.

Your claim mate. You gave a spurious figure, not me.

Seethlaw · 25/06/2026 08:33

MedicalConsensus · 25/06/2026 08:25

@Seethlaw
"So what you're saying is that I must center my argumentation around him and his assumption? I don't think so."

No, not at all. You don't have to adopt her assumptions or center her argument.
As I stated earlier, you just have to make it clear what your actual boundary is.
If your boundary is strictly about categorical privacy (meaning biology is the only metric that matters, regardless of statistical safety), you can simply state that.
Once you clearly establish that your boundary is categorical, the debate naturally shifts to address that specific boundary, rendering her questions about statistical risk completely irrelevant to your stance.

You don't need to center your argument around her. But clearly defining your own premises is how you force the conversation to actually address what you care about, rather than talking in circles.

If your boundary is strictly about categorical privacy (meaning biology is the only metric that matters, regardless of statistical safety)

Again, that doesn't make sense: the category is directly based on the statistical safety, so you can't separate the two. The former is literally the legal application of the consequences of the latter: we separate men and women because men are statistically dangerous to women:

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:34

MedicalConsensus · 25/06/2026 07:57

@Ereshkigalangcleg
"We don't have to use any metrics at all. Female only spaces are not for men... however harmless you and they think they are."

Mhm, by explicitly saying that metrics don't matter and that exclusion applies "however harmless" someone might be, that illustrates the essay's main thesis.
Her point was that opponents often use the language of "physical safety and risk" when what they actually mean is "categorical boundaries and consent." That when this debate is framed around "danger," it acts as a proxy war;
if the answer to the risk question ultimately won't change your stance, there is no reason to pretend that the data would.

"Can I ask why it was so important for you to bustle over here to put us in our place?"

This discussion is about the blog, thus, I'm discussing the blog, mainly, to ensure people don't misunderstand the core observation.
I believe that if a position is truly strong, it doesn't need to rely on misreading the opposing side.

It is one of several issues. He’s arguing in bad faith, it’s a straw man framing and as pp said he also does a pretty shocking “switcheroo” himself. I’m afraid I’m quite familiar with how TRAs argue, no matter how convincing it might be to random mansplainers.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:36

Also I can’t take anyone seriously who is using she/her for male misogynists.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:40

ArabellaScott · 25/06/2026 08:29

So all these years, as we've slogged through the courts, the media, the court of public opinion, patiently sharing evidence and data and making the arguments over and fucking over again, we were doing it wrong? Who knew! Brilliant you are here to help.

What first attracted you to the job?

IKR 🙄

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:43

ByTheRiverside · 25/06/2026 08:28

First off, I know it's AI slop because of the obvious AI images, and the contrasting tone in every sentence.

Second, I don't know what you mean by you would expect better than me, and I would know why.

Are you saying that my arguments against the trans mafia are generally high quality and you think this one's crap?

I think pp is just trying to make out that “they” are watching you.

lcakethereforeIam · 25/06/2026 08:44

Is someone seriously suggesting that if I see a trans-identifying man in a female only space I have to ask to see his risk assessment or conduct a psychological evaluation with him before I may be able to tell him to leave. Or will these 'safe' girly blokes have some kind of mark, like eggs, to show they're of the highest quality. Perhaps it'll be the ones who don't quite clear the woman bar that'll be marked? A red flag!?

ArabellaScott · 25/06/2026 08:45

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Article on "arguing with a TERF"
Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:47

MedicalConsensus · 25/06/2026 08:17

@WaterThyme
"'If the data shows a conviction rate of 3x the baseline, that completely dismantles the author's argument on the spot. '
It proves the risk assessment definitively... Over half the transwomen were sex offenders whereas fewer than 17% of men were."

Thanks for bringing this data to the table. Didn't intend to extend further than what the essay is stating, but I assume I'm asked to go over this:

If we look at the full text of the parliamentary submission this data is pulled from, it goes on to illustrate the problem I mentioned earlier regarding "social self-identification" versus "medical transition."

First, the document notes that the figure of 129 explicitly excludes prisoners who have legally transitioned and hold a Gender Recognition Certificate.

More importantly, the submission includes testimony from Dr. James Barrett, the President of the British Association of Gender Identity Specialists, who explains exactly why this specific prison data pool is so heavily skewed. He states that there is an "ever-increasing tide of referrals of patients in prison serving long or indeterminate sentences for serious sexual offences" who are pretending to have a transsexual status.
He notes that prison intelligence suggests male offenders do this for ulterior motives, such as gaining transfers to the female estate, securing special protected status, or making subsequent sexual offending easier.
This is a textbook denominator error.

This data does not show that 58.9% of transitioned trans women in the general public are sex offenders. It shows that within the already-incarcerated population, a significant number of male sex offenders are utilizing the prison system's self-identification policies to change their status.

This perfectly proves the point I made earlier: if you base a system on "self-declaration" instead of objective medical markers, the data pool gets completely corrupted by bad actors.
To accurately assess the risk of the medically transitioned cohort in the general public, we cannot use a dataset that the experts themselves admit is artificially inflated by incarcerated male offenders abusing a self-ID policy.

That’s what the system is based on though. You seem unable to integrate the information that it is a self ID system. We are just talking about men who at some point have declared that they are women. How do you square that little circle?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:48

ArabellaScott · 25/06/2026 08:45

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👏 🤣 🎯

ByTheRiverside · 25/06/2026 08:49

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:43

I think pp is just trying to make out that “they” are watching you.

Why do you call that person pp?

Makes sense though. Vague threats don't scare me, but definitely do a lot to prove what their movement is really about. Fear and control.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:50

Past poster

ByTheRiverside · 25/06/2026 08:50

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:50

Past poster

Thank you,

I thought you were saying that person is a man and calling him peepee

MedicalConsensus · 25/06/2026 08:50

@Seethlaw
"So the risk assessment must be conducted on transwomen in general. It's not our decision: it's the law and ethics both."

I think there is a crucial distinction between how a scientific risk assessment is calculated and how a legal policy is implemented.

Even if a legal or ethical framework dictates that a government cannot discriminate based on medical status when applying a policy, that does not change the laws of physics, biology, or statistics.
A statistician calculating literal physical risk must separate the cohorts based on the variables that actually cause the risk (like testosterone levels).
If a researcher artificially lumps them together because of a legal policy, the resulting data is scientifically meaningless for determining the actual risk profile of the medically transitioned group.

If the law forces policymakers to lump everyone into one group, then the resulting policy is being built strictly on legal compliance and ethical categories, not on the actual, isolated physical risk of the transitioned cohort.
Which shows the essay's point:
The author was asking a statistical question about physical harm reduction.
By answering that we are legally forced to ignore the specific statistical variables in favor of a broad legal category, you are confirming that the boundary being drawn isn't actually about the actuarial risk data, but about a categorical rule.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:51

ByTheRiverside · 25/06/2026 08:50

Thank you,

I thought you were saying that person is a man and calling him peepee

I do think the person is a man, but I was trying to be neutral.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:53

And on and on like Ariston, or the Duracell bunny. Utterly unencumbered by any understanding of the issue.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:59

@MedicalConsensus

The data we have on specific risk to women of this specific group of men is limited, so that’s why people are giving you information you find inadequate. However, to believe a group of men are less risk to women because they claim to be women is an extraordinary claim, and the onus is on you to back it up adequately, not the people who just cite the known risk of men as a sex class to women.

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 25/06/2026 09:00

ArabellaScott · 25/06/2026 08:45

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That picture is right on the money. It could form the basis of an exhibition

’men who gave not two hoots about the feelings of the women they were talking to throughout history’

MedicalConsensus · 25/06/2026 09:02

@Seethlaw
"'If we're talking the cost to transwomen...' I don't see this cost being mentioned or explored at all in the blog post. How come?"

It is right there: "what is the actual risk... weighed against the actual cost of excluding them."
"Them" refers directly to trans women.
The author is explicitly asking the reader to calculate the real-world harm that exclusion inflicts upon that specific group (for example, the physical danger of forcing a medically transitioned, testosterone-suppressed individual into a men's facility).

"The logical cost here would be to women... And in that case, the answer is: zero."

By deciding that the only "logical cost" to measure is the cost to women, you are essentially stating that the harm to the excluded group doesn't belong on the ledger at all.
This is a perfectly valid, protective boundary to set for a space!
But it fundamentally changes the math. A true statistical cost-benefit analysis requires weighing the impact on all stakeholders.
By zeroing out the other side of the scale before the math begins, you show your stance is based on a categorical boundary, not a universal risk assessment. Which illustrates the essay's core observation.

ByTheRiverside · 25/06/2026 09:04

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 08:51

I do think the person is a man, but I was trying to be neutral.

It would explain the threat he gave me.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 09:05

Men are not “stakeholders” in women’s spaces. See the Supreme Court judgment of April 2025. There doesn’t need to be a cost/benefit case made.

bonfireoftheverities · 25/06/2026 09:07

I've not read all the thread, so sorry if this has been covered, but it looks like MC is the essay writer himself.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 25/06/2026 09:07

Women are not human shields, enriching activities for men or props in their lives. We are people in our own right and we have spaces just for us, regardless of male entitlement and boundary violation.

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