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Sunderland Minster refusing to comply with Supreme Court ruling

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labtest57 · 26/05/2026 22:21

This is from their Facebook page today. No consideration for the women who do not want men in their spaces.

Sunderland Minster refusing to comply with Supreme Court ruling
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StellaAndCrow · Yesterday 11:56

Retiredfromthere · Yesterday 06:25

So a woman who because of religion or race, age (think of young girls coping with first periods, older women coping with heavy menstrual flow who many need to wash blood off), or are suffering miscarriage, or have gender critical beliefs which see transwomen as men (not unreasonable IMO) have to take extra action (call a chaperone) in order to use the toilets with privacy from TW. Counting five types of protected characteristic that are supposed not to be discriminated against there who now have barriers to using a single sex space set up so as to stop discrimination.

Why? So that men claiming trans status can be able to walk into and use the female toilets with no special measure at all. Even men who are known to be predators and have history of violence and threats to women. Think Sarah Jane Baker.

Fund raising for a third space, or chaperoning TW into the male toilets is fairer and more proportionate.

I can see its very difficult if you have a trans son and you wish to protect them, and your congregation may wish to be allies. But I did think that the church was supposed to define inclusion more widely than their own family.

Thinking: Is not Dr Upton's stepfather a Bishop in North of England?

"have to take extra action (call a chaperone) in order to use the toilets with privacy from TW."

Yes, and they're not even getting privacy. They're getting even less privacy, because now potentially there might be a transwoman in there, plus this mocking "chaperone".

StellaAndCrow · Yesterday 11:57

Stoneycold12 · Yesterday 11:53

I'm nowhere near Sunderland, but if I was I would be going to have a look at the Minister, and I would be asking for a woman to accompany me to the loo - ideally a clergywoman.

And of course writing to the Bishop afterwards about this church breaking the law.

Yes, I wonder how they would respond to that in real life?

Their tweet was so mocking and sarcastic - is this how they would respond to women in person? I imagine that at least some of the staff on the ground would be taken aback.

Aisha176 · Yesterday 11:59

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · Yesterday 11:34

Again the total dismissal of women who need single sex spaces.

Do you really not know why, or have you just turned these people subhuman in your mind so you can deride and dismiss them, in your goal of enabling men? Do you really think that makes you a good person?

Whatever you think about the short comings Christianity, my point here is to explain how it conflicts with gender critical views & other exclusionary ideologies. Whether you like it or not it's an inclusionary philosophy that happens to underpin Western Civilisation that you are going to have to reckon with.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · Yesterday 12:00

Mmmnotsure · Yesterday 11:46

Young girls sharing enclosed spaces with potentially any male who claims to be a woman.

Well done, Revd Canon Clare MacLaren, who has presumably never heard of Katie Dolatowski et al and possibly wouldn't care if she had. Championing her own trans son - who therefore is female?

I wonder if CM would want her child put on a male psychiatric ward if, sadly, that were ever necessary?

Young girls sharing enclosed spaces with potentially any male who claims to be a woman...

If they are letting trans-identified girls into men's toilets then they are letting girls share enclosed spaces with any male, with or without a trans-identity.

labtest57 · Yesterday 12:15

TheignT · Yesterday 10:36

Would making all the toilets unisex get round the law? I haven't seen the toilets so don't know if they'd comply.

They dont comply

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WarriorN · Yesterday 12:16

Late to this; this is totally wrong isn’t it?! 🤪

I can’t believe their gaslighting is still making me doubt myself!

Sunderland Minster refusing to comply with Supreme Court ruling
WarriorN · Yesterday 12:22

For context:

a poster asks “is this legal in a public building?” (Feminist)

another replies “not with that sign.” (Feminist)

the male poster posts the reply in the screen shot

WarriorN · Yesterday 12:25

“May” and “must” are key distinctions as in safeguarding law, must is legally binding. If you don’t you will be prosecuted.

should isn’t as legally binding. However it’s still statutory and you risk loosing your job, being sued or being severely career ending criticised by Ofsted/ others/ papers.

WarriorN · Yesterday 12:26

Surely you MUST create either a single sex toilet for women or fully enclosed secure unisex toilets (which we know have their own issues

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · Yesterday 12:28

Aisha176 · Yesterday 11:59

Whatever you think about the short comings Christianity, my point here is to explain how it conflicts with gender critical views & other exclusionary ideologies. Whether you like it or not it's an inclusionary philosophy that happens to underpin Western Civilisation that you are going to have to reckon with.

You still haven't explained how your view of Christianity is that it's exclusionary of women who have reasons why they need single sex spaces?

Can you point me to the part in the bible about 'thou shalt unwillingly but submissively pee for the gratification of a man in a dress?'

SexRealistic · Yesterday 12:29

Ask for a copy of their insurance certificate - and then send all their messages and screenshots to their insurers registered mail.

When their insurance in cancelled they’ll thing again.

They can fuck with the law but their insurers won’t.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · Yesterday 12:29

Aisha176 · Yesterday 11:59

Whatever you think about the short comings Christianity, my point here is to explain how it conflicts with gender critical views & other exclusionary ideologies. Whether you like it or not it's an inclusionary philosophy that happens to underpin Western Civilisation that you are going to have to reckon with.

And my point was actually your derision for and sneering at women who need and want single sex spaces, since you apparently have absolutely no idea why this may be.

If you're into Christianity, it's all people. You're the one conflicting with it, not me. I want equality of facility and consideration for all: to treat others as I would wish to be treated. It does not conflict with Christianity at all. Those on the side of the splintery baseball bats for raping/murdering women for needing single sex spaces on the other hand? That conflicts extremely hard.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · Yesterday 12:32

WarriorN · Yesterday 12:26

Surely you MUST create either a single sex toilet for women or fully enclosed secure unisex toilets (which we know have their own issues

Yes, that's my understanding. You don't have to provide separate male and female toilets, but you cannot just relabel cubicle toilets as 'mixed sex'.

OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · Yesterday 12:32

WarriorN · Yesterday 12:26

Surely you MUST create either a single sex toilet for women or fully enclosed secure unisex toilets (which we know have their own issues

You do. But the batshit is strong in this movement. And basic reading comprehension not so much.

SexRealistic · Yesterday 12:35

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · Yesterday 12:32

Yes, that's my understanding. You don't have to provide separate male and female toilets, but you cannot just relabel cubicle toilets as 'mixed sex'.

Yes per GLP vEHRC.

Every organisation has to have public liability insurance.

Ask for a copy, inform their insurers of breach of the law. Copy in their directors from companies house / charity commission.

Their insurance will be invalidated if they are intentional breach.

Flunkit · Yesterday 12:37

Anyone know which high up to complain to (one in the temporal world ideally).
Also what would I say

WarriorN · Yesterday 12:39

WarriorN · Yesterday 12:16

Late to this; this is totally wrong isn’t it?! 🤪

I can’t believe their gaslighting is still making me doubt myself!

thanks for replies; so this is how many are interpreting it without understanding the ACTUAL legal requirements for the physical loos.

twisting and gaslighting continues.

WarriorN · Yesterday 12:40

SexRealistic · Yesterday 12:35

Yes per GLP vEHRC.

Every organisation has to have public liability insurance.

Ask for a copy, inform their insurers of breach of the law. Copy in their directors from companies house / charity commission.

Their insurance will be invalidated if they are intentional breach.

excellent advice, thank you

Distractable · Yesterday 12:41

Flunkit · Yesterday 12:37

Anyone know which high up to complain to (one in the temporal world ideally).
Also what would I say

The first port of call would probably be the Archdeacon, Katherine Bagnall https://durhamdiocese.org/about-us/leadership/archdeacons/

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WarriorN · Yesterday 12:41

Isn’t this why the code has been published? For the lay person who doesn’t understand law?

clearly reading comprehension is severely impaired in the U.K.

SinnerBoy · Yesterday 12:43

MarieDeGournay · Yesterday 09:48

Thankfully St Paul did not draft Building Regs Document T or EA2010Smile

But he did command the women to learn in silence...

Glamourreader · Yesterday 12:47

Mmmnotsure · Yesterday 10:33

One of the posts on Sunderland Minster fb from a "trans Christian" (interesting linguistically):

God does not make mistakes, and He does not make mistakes when he makes some people trans. To be trans is to be blessed with a sacred calling, to engage in an act of co-creation such that the accident of one's body rhymes with the essence of one's soul. God made neither bread nor wine; He made wheat and grapes and yeast, and gave humans the wit to work out how to make them more than what they were. Likewise, from the beginning of the world He has caused to be created those who feel strongly that our gender doesn't match the accidents of our body, and given us the wit and willpower to do what we can to bring those things into greater alignment. Transitioning is doing God's will, and trans people are sacred. Get over it!

God does not make mistakes (no one is born in the wrong body is a GC view)
but also
the accident of one's body.

Make it make sense.

The "trans people are sacred" line, though, is kind of what we are being sold in the secular world.

(Did someone say something about women in Abrahamic religions?)

Jesus would be rolling in his grave if he had one.

This is just blatantly making it up!

If women are not even supposed to wear clothing made of mixed fabrics there's no way people are supposed to alter their bodies so drastically. Self-aggrandising, self-excusing nonsense!

SexRealistic · Yesterday 12:52

MarieDeGournay · Yesterday 09:48

Thankfully St Paul did not draft Building Regs Document T or EA2010Smile

Another student of the master

CompleteGinasaur · Yesterday 12:56

Pretty sure the premise of this thread mentioned absolutely nothing about Christianity, just the political prejudices of some of its earthly representatives. And anyway, isn't this a perfect example of a case where you should "Render therefore unto Caesar the things which are Caesar's..".

SexRealistic · Yesterday 12:57

WarriorN · Yesterday 12:40

excellent advice, thank you

Their office email since they’ve closed Facebook commmets is

[email protected]

https://sunderlandminster.org.uk/

I would also raise the issue with the safeguarding lead.

If a teenage girl experiencing a period is followed to the toilet and monitored by some random - what safeguarding assessment has been made and given that likely no one should be alone with kids in a state of undress with adults unknown to them - another issue for insurance.

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