https://youtube.com/shorts/o_h9g8PQkK4?si=4BDzczqbHfowkIeL
I follow a YouTuber called akaNemsko who is a female chess grandmaster. She is absolutely amazing at chess.
I recently watched one of her videos that really was upsetting. She was at a chess convention and a man came to her table to have a match. She realised the convention was closing soon so set a time limit to the match. He quickly realised her skill level was much higher and you can see him dithering in the video.
She even gives him tips at one point. At the end he surrendered rudely and refused to shake hands. He walked off with her microphone.
She managed to retrieve it but then he comes back over to have a go at her for “wasting his time” you can tell that she tries to de escalate the situation by offering him a referral membership to a paid chess website. He takes this offer but then tells her “F-you” and gives her the middle finger.
It’s utterly astonishing how fragile some men can be when their masculinity is questioned or torn down by a strong woman. This was all captured on camera! You can only imagine how awful he is without a camera in his face.