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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Town Vs Country and believing in GI.

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CassOle · 10/05/2026 08:52

I was reading the posts of one of our delightful ploppers, and they commented something like 'what world do you live in? The more I read, the more I wondered if they had ever spent time lambing (or similar). Or whether they were someone who had always lived in a town/city.

The fashion choices are all ones that fall away to nothing when you are checking your animals are OK, have water and forage during a long, wet, cold winter. You (regardless of your sex) need proper outdoor clothing for the weather.

The 'sex is bimodal' idea is just stupid when you are selecting Rams, having the vet scan pregnant ewes, and working hard when the ewes are lambing.

So, I'm wondering whether where you live (and what you do) has any impact on how beliveable gender identity ideology is to an individual?

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TransRuralLife · 10/05/2026 17:43

CriticalCondition · 10/05/2026 17:41

Yes, a familiar 'voice'. I also forgot that it's exam season and there's a bunch of teenagers stuck in their bedrooms on study leave.

I'm 45.

TransRuralLife · 10/05/2026 17:44

1984Now · 10/05/2026 17:43

No, sex test results will do just fine.
It's the trans community always banging on about genital inspections, in sport, changing rooms/toilets.

YOU BROUGHT UP HER GENITALS FIRST NO ONE ELSE DID.

EdithStourton · 10/05/2026 17:47

BottomsByTheirTops · 10/05/2026 10:21

I’ve been on this board previously to bemoan the fact that my profession - veterinary surgery - is awash with gender ideology.
My erstwhile sensible, pragmatic, grounded profession now has members who think that a woman can have a penis. They’ll chatter on about ‘but sex and gender are different’ and all the other usual claptrap. These are on the whole those in small animal practice.
It’s absolutely blindsided me that otherwise rational, intelligent people can come out with this nonsense. What I’ve seen neatly described as the ‘Great Endarkenment’.
So, yes, I think on the whole those living a lifestyle close to animals/reality/ rural life maybe more resistant to GI, but I wouldn’t count on it.

In my (admittedly not terribly extensive) experience of vets, the small animal practice ones tend to be less hard-arsed than the large animal vets.

My DC had a fairly rural upbringing, seeing plenty of lambs, foals, puppies etc, but there has been some succumbing to the gender woo - internet, school and uni.

1984Now · 10/05/2026 17:47

TransRuralLife · 10/05/2026 17:42

No need to check any genitalia, that's your peccadillo not mine since you keep mentioning it.

No, you mentioned it. From your earlier comment: "then, whoops, those male genitalia are starting to show". You have absolutely no idea what Khelif's genitals look like, and anything you have to say about them is nothing more than your personal fantasy.

No, Khelif admitting publicly he posseses the X chromosome.

You also possess an X chromosome. Everybody possesses an X chromosome. Do you need to go and do some biology revision?

Kinda relevant in the ring punching women.

But not in the least bit relevant to this thread, which is about trans people in rural communities, which is another reason I've been trying not to be drawn into the subject despite your determination to derail.

My mistake, Y-chromosome.
I'll take my leave.

PrawnAgain · 10/05/2026 17:49

Honestly, in the real world few people care as deeply as people online.

Most people are able to share the world with trans people and refer to them respectfully without believing that people change sex. Most trans people and just trying to get on with their lives and have no interest in parading naked around changing rooms and forcing their way into women's sport.

CriticalCondition · 10/05/2026 17:55

Really, 45, eh? Oh well, I do understand that the old perimenopause can make a woman feel A BIT SHOUTY IN CAPS.Grin Much like a teenager really.

Captainaircoolplatini · 10/05/2026 17:56

PrawnAgain · 10/05/2026 17:49

Honestly, in the real world few people care as deeply as people online.

Most people are able to share the world with trans people and refer to them respectfully without believing that people change sex. Most trans people and just trying to get on with their lives and have no interest in parading naked around changing rooms and forcing their way into women's sport.

And yet astonishingly this quiet group of people who just want to quietly live their life have managed to persuade - checks notes - political parties, the civil service, the BBC, the NHS, local government, pretty much every large charity, most of the big finance and legal firms and universities that they are the most marginalised and vulnerable group ever and that language, policy abd practice must be rewritten to accommodate them

good thing they're so quiet and just want ti live their life eh? God knows what they would have done if they had really wanted ti change things

TransRuralLife · 10/05/2026 17:59

CriticalCondition · 10/05/2026 17:55

Really, 45, eh? Oh well, I do understand that the old perimenopause can make a woman feel A BIT SHOUTY IN CAPS.Grin Much like a teenager really.

Amazingly enough, access to the caps key persists with age. If anything, I think using the caps key to indicate shouting is a bit uncool with actual young people these days, they have emojis for that now. I admit I did lose my temper, but the person I replied to was being really disingenous.

CriticalCondition · 10/05/2026 18:04

I suggest stroking a small animal.

TransRuralLife · 10/05/2026 18:05

CriticalCondition · 10/05/2026 18:04

I suggest stroking a small animal.

Ah yes, your hilarious joke about the emotional support hamster. Is it your normal when you encounter a trans person to try to belittle them?

OpenTraybake · 10/05/2026 18:13

Thanks to interviews, lab reports and medical file excerpts published by various independent journalists, we know that Khelif has an XY karyotype, the SRY gene, male-typical levels of testosterone, and was diagnosed with 5-alpha reductase deficiency (5-ARD), a disorder of sex development that only affects males.

Affected individuals have malformed external genitalia and internal testes. These produce testosterone which means that Khelif and others with the same condition (e.g. Caster Semenya) go through an otherwise normal male puberty, and therefore have male physiological advantage in sports.

Which is why it's so controversial that these athletes have been permitted to compete in women's sports, as it is unfair to female athletes and, in the case of contact sports like boxing, unsafe.

1984Now · 10/05/2026 18:15

OpenTraybake · 10/05/2026 18:13

Thanks to interviews, lab reports and medical file excerpts published by various independent journalists, we know that Khelif has an XY karyotype, the SRY gene, male-typical levels of testosterone, and was diagnosed with 5-alpha reductase deficiency (5-ARD), a disorder of sex development that only affects males.

Affected individuals have malformed external genitalia and internal testes. These produce testosterone which means that Khelif and others with the same condition (e.g. Caster Semenya) go through an otherwise normal male puberty, and therefore have male physiological advantage in sports.

Which is why it's so controversial that these athletes have been permitted to compete in women's sports, as it is unfair to female athletes and, in the case of contact sports like boxing, unsafe.

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Thanks for being so precise where I was imprecise.

TransRuralLife · 10/05/2026 18:17

OpenTraybake · 10/05/2026 18:13

Thanks to interviews, lab reports and medical file excerpts published by various independent journalists, we know that Khelif has an XY karyotype, the SRY gene, male-typical levels of testosterone, and was diagnosed with 5-alpha reductase deficiency (5-ARD), a disorder of sex development that only affects males.

Affected individuals have malformed external genitalia and internal testes. These produce testosterone which means that Khelif and others with the same condition (e.g. Caster Semenya) go through an otherwise normal male puberty, and therefore have male physiological advantage in sports.

Which is why it's so controversial that these athletes have been permitted to compete in women's sports, as it is unfair to female athletes and, in the case of contact sports like boxing, unsafe.

Edited

This is false. We do not know the specific medical diagnosis of Imane Khelif's DSD. While the discredited IBA claimed she has XY chromosomes, they never disclosed the exact test results. There has been speculation that it could be 5-alpha reductase deficiency (5-ARD), but no specific condition has ever been confirmed by Khelif or the IOC or any other source.

This is also irrelevant to the thread topic.

PoeticEnding · 10/05/2026 18:38

Country farming folk are often closer to the complexities of biology, vets are highly educated and know the evidence trail for what we likely know and don't know. We don't know how the brain develops, or why behaviours form across the sexes.
So they are less likely to demand that some people's thoughts, feelings and behaviour are categorically false.
If you believe you know better, then wow. Write a paper present your evidence. People with doubts are not wrong, people with certainties often are.

Captainaircoolplatini · 10/05/2026 18:40

Luckily no one on here is a biologist or vet then isn't it? Oh wait

CassOle · 10/05/2026 18:41

TransRuralLife · 10/05/2026 17:19

"queers the pitch" is a well-known British saying. The meaning of 'queer' has changed over the last couple of hundred years.

Thanks, I know, I speak English. The word "queer" has multiple meanings, one of which remains a derogatory way to refer to LGBT+ people and that commenter used the word in the same sentence in which they were clearly intending to be derogatory about my trans friends which provides some unfortunate context. As I said, I hope it was not deliberate.

This is your original comment:

*I was reading the posts of one of our delightful ploppers, and they commented something like 'what world do you live in? The more I read, the more I wondered if they had ever spent time lambing (or similar). Or whether they were someone who had always lived in a town/city.

The fashion choices are all ones that fall away to nothing when you are checking your animals are OK, have water and forage during a long, wet, cold winter. You (regardless of your sex) need proper outdoor clothing for the weather.

The 'sex is bimodal' idea is just stupid when you are selecting Rams, having the vet scan pregnant ewes, and working hard when the ewes are lambing.
So, I'm wondering whether where you live (and what you do) has any impact on how beliveable gender identity ideology is to an individual?*

I admit I found your post quite hard to understand because it was so full of non-sequiturs but this is what I took from it:

  • by "ploppers" you mean "person who doesn't agree with me" (rude, but ok)
  • You wondered for some reason if this person who didn't agree with you had ever done any lambing or whether they lived in a town/city (never mind that the two aren't mutually exclusive, or that many rural people have never done any lambing either)
  • You then talked about fashion choices. I'd love it if you could explain this one because it was baffling - how are the clothes one might need to wear when working with animals relevant to a belief in "gender ideology" or trans status or anything related? Do you think there's something in the wellies that would cause an allergy or something?
  • I was further puzzled by this statement as a general stereotype of rural people that I don't find to be true, I know some very glam farmers, just because they wear appropriate clothes at work doesn't mean they don't ever dress up in other contexts. The person I know in the world who is most interested in fashion is my cousin who's a pig farmer.
  • You then announced for some bizarre reason that the bimodality of sex is irrelevant when separating breeding stock - in fact it couldn't be more relevant to this activity.
  • You wondered whether where you live has an impact on belief in "gender ideology". I assume you would include anyone who is trans in your bucket of people who believe in "gender ideology" which is why I inferred from this you thought there weren't any trans people in rural locations or industries. Admittedly, this is a tricky one - personally I don't actually think there is any such thing as "gender ideology", I think it's become a buzzword like "gay agenda" in the 90s intended to make the existence of a group of humans sound more sinister or organised than it actually is. But I accept that you believe there's such a thing, so perhaps you could explain what you meant by this category of people and who you'd include in it, if not trans people?

All that to admit that I didn't write "that trans people don't exist in the countryside or rural industries".

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Gagagardener · 10/05/2026 18:58

Can we get back to the interesting bit: in your experience/opinion does where you live (and what you do) have any impact on how beliveable gender identity ideology is to an individual? My parents and grandparents farmed, as did many of their siblings abd offspring. I live in the country, and I think I probably have a lot in common with @CassOle. Our piano tuner 'changed sex', or claimed he had. But seemed no happier and left the area.

CassOle · 10/05/2026 19:24

Having thought about it, there will always be a nature Vs nurture element. It is more complicated than just your environment, as personality plays a part too.

A specific background may well make someone more likely or less likely to have a certain belief, but there will be outliers even so.

I have often wondered why my relative believes in GI, while I do not.

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OViper · 10/05/2026 19:55

TransRuralLife · 10/05/2026 18:17

This is false. We do not know the specific medical diagnosis of Imane Khelif's DSD. While the discredited IBA claimed she has XY chromosomes, they never disclosed the exact test results. There has been speculation that it could be 5-alpha reductase deficiency (5-ARD), but no specific condition has ever been confirmed by Khelif or the IOC or any other source.

This is also irrelevant to the thread topic.

We do. Look at the reporting of Alan Abrahamson and Djaffar Ait Aoudia. The former published parts of the lab report which reveals XY karyotype. The latter published the full lab report and parts of the medical file describing testosterone levels and 5-ARD diagnosis.

Khelif affirmed having the SRY gene and taking medication to suppress testosterone in an interview with French sports daily L'Equipe. Georges Cazorla, one of Khelif's trainers, was interviewed in French magazine Le Point, and corroborated parts of the medical file, discussing how Khelif has a "problem with hormones and chromosomes" and had started taking medication to lower testosterone.

JumpingPumpkin · 10/05/2026 20:05

Mayflower282 · 10/05/2026 09:51

There’s a difference between sex and gender though, right?

I have no idea if there's a town/country split with gender identity, but visceral knowledge of biology through having given birth or being an Oxford/Harvard uni biologist is no protection against gender identity ideology.

Much like other religious beliefs it's a faith based belief system, in this case of a gendered soul, that supercedes material reality.

Alouest · 10/05/2026 20:40

I was born in London and have lived in London almost all my life and I think GI is a load of absolute tosh. As do the vast majority of my friends and family.

TheHereticalOne · 10/05/2026 21:49

TransRuralLife · 10/05/2026 18:17

This is false. We do not know the specific medical diagnosis of Imane Khelif's DSD. While the discredited IBA claimed she has XY chromosomes, they never disclosed the exact test results. There has been speculation that it could be 5-alpha reductase deficiency (5-ARD), but no specific condition has ever been confirmed by Khelif or the IOC or any other source.

This is also irrelevant to the thread topic.

Khelif confirmed having the SRY gene on a Y chromosome and having to lower testosterone levels in order to compete: https://www.france24.com/en/live-news/20260204-boxer-khelif-reveals-hormone-treatments-before-paris-olympics

So far based on those two facts alone - SRY on Y & testosterone levels so high they have to be reduced to compete - we know that this means Khelif could have only 5ARD, CAIS/PAIS or nothing and is simply unambiguously male.

We will generously assume that Khelif is not simply lying about being female while being completely, unambiguously male, and exclude the last one.

This followed Khelif's coach confirming a "problem" with both hormones and karotype and, that Khelif's testosterone was "currently" in the female range and that lowering testosterone has decreased Khelif's performance.
https://www.lepoint.fr/monde/2024-olympics-imane-khelif-was-devastated-to-discover-out-of-the-blue-that-she-might-not-be-a-girl-14-08-2024-2567924_24.php

This rules out CAIS because testosterone produced in that case has no effect on the body and so reducing it would not reduce performance.

We are down to PAIS and 5ARD as possibilities, the difference being that PAIS would mean testosterone produced by the testicles has only part of the effect on the male body one would usually expect in a male (but is still entirely outwith the realm of female) and that the male external genitals are at least partially developed, while in 5ARD the testosterone behaves completely normally on the male body except that it cannot produce enough DHT to produce completely male-appearing external genitals and may appear female on superficial inspection(though male genitals can sometimes become more developed later during puberty).

Even leaving aside the leaked medical report from Khelif's Parisian and Algerian doctor confirming 5ARD, educated reasoning would plump for that condition between the two given Khelif's coach professes Khelif to have been shocked and devastated as late as 2023 (at the age of 23/24 years old) to discover Khelif "might not be a girl". If we're stretching credulity in order to believe this, it must indicate that Khelif has no penis (and, ahem, that lack of menstruation etc. was simply incuriously not investigated at puberty...) meaning that this is not a case of PAIS.

There's the conclusion of 5ARD based solely on Khelif and coach's word, without ever relying on a single test or report (leaked or otherwise) by any outside source.

Boxer Khelif reveals 'hormone treatments' before Paris Olympics

Olympic boxing champion Imane Khelif revealed in an interview with French sports daily L'Equipe that she had undergone hormone treatments to lower her testosterone levels ahead of the 2024 Games, but…

https://www.france24.com/en/live-news/20260204-boxer-khelif-reveals-hormone-treatments-before-paris-olympics

TheHereticalOne · 10/05/2026 21:57

I wasn't raised on a farm or by a vet, but was very clear early on about how babies were made (and how to avoid it) because my mother's philosophy was that age-appropriate honesty in response to questions was always the right approach.

Maybe there's something more general in having an upbringing in which facts are (or have to be) looked unsqueamishly in the face that acts as a protective factor. Farming would certainly be one of those upbringings, I'd have thought.

AllTheChaos · 10/05/2026 22:12

CassOle · 10/05/2026 10:03

I would greatly appreciate it if you would share your definitions for these two things. Some people who identify as trans do claim that they have changed sex. So, sometimes gender is used as a synonym for sex, and sometimes it isn't.

The poster I refer to in the OP, stated that 'sex is bimodal' in the thread "Does the guardian really not see?" They have also made some other claims which you can read, if you like.

So my understanding of it is based in part on reading things like ‘Making Sex: Bodies and Gender’, also Judith Butler etc on gender performativity etc, also my time spent studying sex and gender at university for my first degree a million years ago. My understanding is that sex in humans is broadly binary, with a few outliers like people who are hermaphrodites, and we term that binary ‘male’ and ‘female’. Gender is the performance of that binary in terms of things like clothing, hairstyles, things that are essentially optional, and which are also largely socioculturally determined - eg are trousers ‘masculine’ or ‘feminine’? What about dresses? In some cultures trousers are worn primarily by women, and robes are worn by men. There is nothing intrinsically ‘male’ or ‘female’ about these things. Long hair goes in and out of style for men, at one point high heels were for men not women, blue was for girls and pink was for boys, etc etc. As something that is culturally determined rather than immutable, gender can be fairly ‘fluid’ for the same person over their lifespan, sometimes embracing a more feminine style, other times a more masculine style, and so on. Sex however is determined biologically, and cannot be changed. A transvestite is a person who performs the gender that isn’t considered to match their physical sex in the culture in which they reside. A transsexual is someone who chooses to have their body modified to match the appearance of the sex they truly feel themselves to be, which isn’t the sex they were born as, and was always rare and a very big decision needing years of counselling first (obviously that has changed!), and usually happened somewhat later in life, certainly well past puberty, when someone had felt that way from early childhood, had been living as the opposite sex, and often experiencing self harm linked to this (for instance boys who had been deliberately mutilating their penis because they despised it so much). Having ‘gender’ and ‘sex’ used effectively interchangeably makes no sense, and actually makes it much harder to discuss these issues. A man can be a transvestite without being gay, and without secretly wanting to be a gay lesbian* for instance. To say that a person who isn’t performing the gender attributed to their sex ‘properly’, ie who isn’t conforming to strict (and arbitrary, and socioculturally determined and changeable) gender ‘norms’, is somehow no longer actually the sex they are, and must be physically mutilated to look like the sex that matches the gender they are performing, is reactionary to say the least.

*as opposed to all the non-gay ‘lesbians’ who still have penises they have no plans to get rid of..

CassOle · 10/05/2026 22:14

That's an interesting thought TheHereticalOne. A background of prioritising facts and the truth, as well as valuing critical thinking could well be a factor.

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