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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Does the guardian really not see?

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Theeyeballsinthesky · 09/05/2026 07:37

"We work tirelessly to establish the facts – and when we get them wrong, we correct them. For democracy to survive, for society to progress, we need a shared foundation of facts. If we cannot broadly agree that the grass is green, we cannot have a conversation about what to do about the pollutants that are killing it"

https://www.theguardian.com/media/ng-interactive/2026/may/06/how-to-survive-the-information-crisis-we-once-talked-about-fake-news-now-reality-itself-feels-fake

this is a good article about the importance of facts, connection and how society might navigate the current crisis of mis and dis information

and yet Viner has written the above with clearly straight face while editing a paper that hounded out journalists who said that no one can change sex and continues to relentlessly push the TWAW/ppl especially women who don't believe are nasty bigots and to put it kindly misrepresent the law in this area

dors she reallly not see or is she just as much of a victim of all the things she points out in her article?

How to survive the information crisis: ‘We once talked about fake news – now reality itself feels fake’

In this age of crisis, technology is pulling us apart. At its best, journalism can bring us together again, writes Guardian editor-in-chief Katharine Viner

https://www.theguardian.com/media/ng-interactive/2026/may/06/how-to-survive-the-information-crisis-we-once-talked-about-fake-news-now-reality-itself-feels-fake

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borntobequiet · 09/05/2026 10:36

Aisha176 · 09/05/2026 08:37

A person born male who identifies behaviourally, psychologically & culturally with the typical behaviours of women.

So not a woman.

DialSquare · 09/05/2026 10:37

FlirtsWithRhinos · 09/05/2026 10:19

Word salad aside, biologically female people still exist, are still half of humanity and still suffer physical and social consequences because of our biological sex.

Deciding that "woman" means a social role not us doesn't change that, nor does it make a trans woman any more like us than any other man is.

All it does it take away the language we need to name ourselves and understand our personal and structural experiences of sexism, and obscure our history of who really did what to who.

Sexism which will still happen to us because of our bodies regardless of who you call "women".

So while yes, you may have the subjective view that none of the above matters, I would counter that that view is morally abhorrent, not because I have sone sort of pearl clutching about men in dresses but because it requires the unconscionable act of undefining the female half of the species as a meaningful social group, and reifying the social sexism of Gender in its place.

Got Talent Yes GIF by TV4

This sort of response is why TRA’s hate this board so much.

HenriettaSwanLeavitt · 09/05/2026 10:40

Sausagenbacon · 09/05/2026 10:34

The Guardian, wrong about everything, all the time.
I once had a mug with that on.

I must admit, I do find all the hand-wringing about the Guardian a bit strange. I thought everyone knew how biased it has always been (well since the '80s anyway), same as all the other newspapers. If people are only just waking up to that fact, then that may be because the Guardian has always reflected/formed their worldview, and so they believed they were reading 'the truth'.

GeneralPeter · 09/05/2026 10:40

Aisha176 · 09/05/2026 10:31

Its irrelevant in terms of being to draw meaningful conclusions about trans violence if we can't get an accurate account of male offending which we can't for most if not all crimes & 'Male' is a very broad category that doesn't address how sub categories differ.

‘If’

Yes. But we can with homicide, with a 90% detection rate. We know who did it and whether they are male or female. Witt a near 100% homicide reporting rate we can know who was killed and whether they are male or female. Then the maths is easy.

Knowing the rates for trans is harder because of contested definitions. I would argue this is a prime example of the thing the Guardian claimed, ie consensus on labelling things is necessary for proper policy debate.

PriOn1 · 09/05/2026 10:42

Aisha176 · 09/05/2026 08:51

On average behaviours that differentiate them from men. For example, like the violence that GC women like to claim should disqualify men from using their spaces.

Lol! Men who claim they are women wrongly think they have some womanly essence, but their continued male-pattern behaviour shows they are completely deluded on this, as in every other false claim.

BonfireLady · 09/05/2026 10:44

borntobequiet · 09/05/2026 10:36

So not a woman.

But how anyone would know they were born male? I was assigned female at birth... Someone else could be assigned male at birth.

But this doesn't mean that I actually am female or that someone else actually is male.

There is literally no difference between someone who is AFAB and someone who is AMAB other than what is written on the birth register following a genital inspection.

So as long as Aisha is with me and supports me as the transwoman that I now know I am, then I'm 100% with Aisha on this definition of what it means to be a transwoman.

Edited for punctuation and (ironically) accuracy.

Womanofcustard · 09/05/2026 10:46

To paraphrase Don McLean “They weren’t listening then, they’re not listening now”

MouseQueen · 09/05/2026 10:53

Aisha176 · 09/05/2026 09:15

You don't seem to understand the difference between stereotypes & typical behaviours. Stereotypes are social expectations as opposed to on average behaviours that differentiate men from women as a group like a propensity for violence. Social expectations are different from naturally occurring behaviours.

You don't seem to understand that you're being horrifically sexist.

Being a woman has no 'typical behaviours'. Why? Because women aren't a monolith of femininity and each one has their own likes, dislikes, aspirations, hobbies, e.t.c. Women don't conform to the same neat little box, you can't be 'more' or 'less' womanly than another.

And when a TIM 'transitions', what do you think he does? He follows gendered stereotypes, and claims that makes him a woman. Because he thinks being a woman means following such stereotypes.

Now, some homework. What do you consider to be the typical behaviours of a woman, and what's your excuse for that not being misogynistic?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/05/2026 10:59

Aisha176 · 09/05/2026 08:51

On average behaviours that differentiate them from men. For example, like the violence that GC women like to claim should disqualify men from using their spaces.

Yes, and “trans women” are at least the same as other men in that regard, so how is it helpful to your fanciful claim?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/05/2026 11:03

Lalgarh · 09/05/2026 09:49

In a similar vein 👀

https://nitter.net/GoodLawProject/status/2050923389888426230#m

Again and again, we’re seeing men use legal loopholes to keep in the shadows while they shut down the women who call them out. Help stop men using the courts to silence women 👇

Yep. Labour have done it too before. It’s a deliberate tactic.

MarieDeGournay · 09/05/2026 11:03

I think Aisha176's posts are different from 'the usual'.
There's a different tactic going on - it seems to centre around avoiding the meaning of words, shifting the focus, and then arguing on the basis of what they have defined.

TWAW is a slogan so by virtue of that it's a vague statement. The sentiment clearly isn't they are identical to women rather they associate to women more than men hence they come under the umbrella hood of women.

TWAW has been more than a slogan, any opposition to the claim that transwomen are women, 100% women, was regarded as hate-fuelled transphobia, but Aisha says it's just a 'vague statement'.

And all those TWAW activtists didn't really mean it when they said they had to be regarded, in the law, in medicine, in language, in every way as women?

This is playing around with very recent verifiable facts - the TWAW demands are on record for all to see.

So Aisha shifts the meaning of TWAW from an at times aggressive and violent social movement to 'a vague statement', and presents that as an argument.

I could go on. I've been looking at the way trans supporters use language for a few years now, it's fascinating to track the different 'eras' in which words like 'woman' 'trans' 'gender' 'marginalised' 'essence' 'rights' etc etc bob around like corks in a squally sea.

BTW Aisha - if you 'come under the umbrella hood' of someone when they haven't invited you to, you are not welcome, you have no right to be there, and they are perfectly entitled to tell you to feck off from under their umbrella ella ella, and get one of their own.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/05/2026 11:04

MouseQueen · 09/05/2026 10:53

You don't seem to understand that you're being horrifically sexist.

Being a woman has no 'typical behaviours'. Why? Because women aren't a monolith of femininity and each one has their own likes, dislikes, aspirations, hobbies, e.t.c. Women don't conform to the same neat little box, you can't be 'more' or 'less' womanly than another.

And when a TIM 'transitions', what do you think he does? He follows gendered stereotypes, and claims that makes him a woman. Because he thinks being a woman means following such stereotypes.

Now, some homework. What do you consider to be the typical behaviours of a woman, and what's your excuse for that not being misogynistic?

I’d actually be interested to see a genderist answer to that, IME they normally deflect or flounce before they have to give a list of terrible sexist stereotypes.

SlightlySnoozy · 09/05/2026 11:07

GCAcademic · 09/05/2026 08:38

What are the "typical behaviours of women"?

Edited

Well, based purely on what I've read on this board, 'real women':

  • Are less violent than men, and unlikely to initiate physical violence with others.

  • Have been socialised to be less argumentative and try and please others more.

  • Tend to not be attracted to bisexual men as they like their husbands/boyfriends to be macho and dominant and knowing a man has been with another man ruins that.

  • Are quite private, especially about their bodies and bodily functions and it's important they keep those away from men.

  • Are less sexually driven than men and definitely don't like 'weird" sex or kinks - generally much more into nice normal sex and cuddles.

  • Are very liberal when young as they've been told to 'be kind' but become much more conservative as they get older and are likely to become pretty right wing as menopause hits.

  • Are intensely bonded with their children, far more than any man could be, and motherhood is a really primary drive.

No idea if that's actually statistically true of all women, but that's what I've read on this board recently about 'women' or 'real women' or 'most women'. So apparently there is a strong sense here of what constitutes a woman.

HoppityBun · 09/05/2026 11:07

GCAcademic · 09/05/2026 08:38

What are the "typical behaviours of women"?

Edited

When this is worked through, it turns out that I’m not a woman

HoppityBun · 09/05/2026 11:11

BonfireLady · 09/05/2026 10:44

But how anyone would know they were born male? I was assigned female at birth... Someone else could be assigned male at birth.

But this doesn't mean that I actually am female or that someone else actually is male.

There is literally no difference between someone who is AFAB and someone who is AMAB other than what is written on the birth register following a genital inspection.

So as long as Aisha is with me and supports me as the transwoman that I now know I am, then I'm 100% with Aisha on this definition of what it means to be a transwoman.

Edited for punctuation and (ironically) accuracy.

Edited

You were weren’t assigned female at birth. Your biological sex was determined at conception, observed at birth and recorded on your birth certificate.

DialSquare · 09/05/2026 11:18

It seems that some people are not seeing the message behind Bonfire’s posts. She’s been posting here for a very long time.

Theseventhmagpie · 09/05/2026 11:23

Aisha176 · 09/05/2026 09:01

Thank you for your opinion. As I mentioned this issue is about values that are underpinned by how different individuals view the world & because we are all individuals we don't all view the world the same. Whilst you & many others believe women are defined by their reproductive characteristics others don't. Ultimately we are talking about beliefs about how things should be understood which isn't the objective truth you think it is.

And this is where all the trouble begins. We need facts more than values when considering if something is true.

PriOn1 · 09/05/2026 11:27

Aisha176 · 09/05/2026 10:24

This isn't offending rates. 'Reporting' like incarceration doesn't prove anything not to mention when you don't have accurate offending rates of the male population you don't have any way of an accurate comparison to trans women. There's also the issue of statistical irrelevance of trans people.

And on top of that different groups in the male population offend at different rates. Wealthy/white/older/gay males offend at significantly lower rates than poor/ coloured/ young/ straight males. Lesbians offend at higher rates than straight women AND Lesbians offend at higher rates than gay men. See where this is going?

“Lesbians offend at higher rates than gay men. See where this is going?”

By your definition, the group “Lesbians” incorporates a great many straight, perverted men. I expect they skew the figures quite significantly.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/05/2026 11:28

SlightlySnoozy · 09/05/2026 11:07

Well, based purely on what I've read on this board, 'real women':

  • Are less violent than men, and unlikely to initiate physical violence with others.

  • Have been socialised to be less argumentative and try and please others more.

  • Tend to not be attracted to bisexual men as they like their husbands/boyfriends to be macho and dominant and knowing a man has been with another man ruins that.

  • Are quite private, especially about their bodies and bodily functions and it's important they keep those away from men.

  • Are less sexually driven than men and definitely don't like 'weird" sex or kinks - generally much more into nice normal sex and cuddles.

  • Are very liberal when young as they've been told to 'be kind' but become much more conservative as they get older and are likely to become pretty right wing as menopause hits.

  • Are intensely bonded with their children, far more than any man could be, and motherhood is a really primary drive.

No idea if that's actually statistically true of all women, but that's what I've read on this board recently about 'women' or 'real women' or 'most women'. So apparently there is a strong sense here of what constitutes a woman.

And again, how would that apply to the men calling themselves “trans women”?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/05/2026 11:29

HoppityBun · 09/05/2026 11:11

You were weren’t assigned female at birth. Your biological sex was determined at conception, observed at birth and recorded on your birth certificate.

She’s parodying TRAs to make a point.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 09/05/2026 11:30

MarieDeGournay · 09/05/2026 11:03

I think Aisha176's posts are different from 'the usual'.
There's a different tactic going on - it seems to centre around avoiding the meaning of words, shifting the focus, and then arguing on the basis of what they have defined.

TWAW is a slogan so by virtue of that it's a vague statement. The sentiment clearly isn't they are identical to women rather they associate to women more than men hence they come under the umbrella hood of women.

TWAW has been more than a slogan, any opposition to the claim that transwomen are women, 100% women, was regarded as hate-fuelled transphobia, but Aisha says it's just a 'vague statement'.

And all those TWAW activtists didn't really mean it when they said they had to be regarded, in the law, in medicine, in language, in every way as women?

This is playing around with very recent verifiable facts - the TWAW demands are on record for all to see.

So Aisha shifts the meaning of TWAW from an at times aggressive and violent social movement to 'a vague statement', and presents that as an argument.

I could go on. I've been looking at the way trans supporters use language for a few years now, it's fascinating to track the different 'eras' in which words like 'woman' 'trans' 'gender' 'marginalised' 'essence' 'rights' etc etc bob around like corks in a squally sea.

BTW Aisha - if you 'come under the umbrella hood' of someone when they haven't invited you to, you are not welcome, you have no right to be there, and they are perfectly entitled to tell you to feck off from under their umbrella ella ella, and get one of their own.

Absolutely.

HoppityBun · 09/05/2026 11:31

DialSquare · 09/05/2026 11:18

It seems that some people are not seeing the message behind Bonfire’s posts. She’s been posting here for a very long time.

Sorry if that’s meant for me. I don’t hold this all in my head and have to take things at face value.

Shortshriftandlethal · 09/05/2026 11:32

Aisha176 · 09/05/2026 09:41

But they do & you do this yourself everyday without even knowing when your unconscious mind determines sex based on exterior characteristics & behaviours. Sorry to break the news to you but you are 'hard wired' to make such instantaneous gendered categorisations whether you 'like it or not'.

Edited

You are confusing what have come to be known as 'gender stereotypes' and expressions with the actual and measurable reality of biological sex - which is the same the world over and throughout all of human history.

I suggest this confusion arises from the teachings of people such as Judith Butler, who suggested that there was effectively no truth other than the truth of what you feel. That sex itself was a performance.

Your unconscious mind doesn't determine your sex. I'm really uncertain how you came to this conclusion?

We are hard wired to note physical and biological characteristics as being male or female - just like all other creatures. Wearing clothing that has been socially coded as opposite sex cannot disgsuise these instinctive recognitions at the level of biology. We are all capable of recognising when someone is role playing 'opposite sex' .

Shortshriftandlethal · 09/05/2026 11:35

Aisha176 · 09/05/2026 10:08

How would you know for sure? Do you conduct follow up gametal after to check your accuracy?

Don't be daft!

borntobequiet · 09/05/2026 11:50

SlightlySnoozy · 09/05/2026 11:07

Well, based purely on what I've read on this board, 'real women':

  • Are less violent than men, and unlikely to initiate physical violence with others.

  • Have been socialised to be less argumentative and try and please others more.

  • Tend to not be attracted to bisexual men as they like their husbands/boyfriends to be macho and dominant and knowing a man has been with another man ruins that.

  • Are quite private, especially about their bodies and bodily functions and it's important they keep those away from men.

  • Are less sexually driven than men and definitely don't like 'weird" sex or kinks - generally much more into nice normal sex and cuddles.

  • Are very liberal when young as they've been told to 'be kind' but become much more conservative as they get older and are likely to become pretty right wing as menopause hits.

  • Are intensely bonded with their children, far more than any man could be, and motherhood is a really primary drive.

No idea if that's actually statistically true of all women, but that's what I've read on this board recently about 'women' or 'real women' or 'most women'. So apparently there is a strong sense here of what constitutes a woman.

Even if all this is true, and I wouldn’t dispute much of it, adopting these behaviours do not a woman make if someone is not actually female to start with. How could it?

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