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DeanElderberry · 12/04/2026 18:36

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AngleofRepose · 20/04/2026 21:11

Why don't we get a whole month for that?!!

AngleofRepose · 20/04/2026 21:13

Magpiecomplex · 20/04/2026 21:06

Important public service announcement.

Tomorrow (April 21st) is National Bunion Day in the UK. Please make sure you celebrate responsibly.

ok, so I thought it was a joke, but I just looked it up. What'll they think of next?

FuzzyPuffling · 20/04/2026 21:14

Thanks, Hedgy Yum yum.

Chersfrozenface · 20/04/2026 21:15

Magpiecomplex · 20/04/2026 21:06

Important public service announcement.

Tomorrow (April 21st) is National Bunion Day in the UK. Please make sure you celebrate responsibly.

Obviously I'll be wishing my own bunion a Happy National Bunion Day.

Might even give it an extra dose of ibuprofen or diclofenac. Responsibly, of course.

Magpiecomplex · 20/04/2026 21:15

AngleofRepose · 20/04/2026 21:13

ok, so I thought it was a joke, but I just looked it up. What'll they think of next?

Bunion Awareness Month, obviously! Novembunion? Doesn't scan very well, does it?

ErrolTheDragon · 20/04/2026 21:18

I think I’d rather not be aware of bunions tbh.

Chersfrozenface · 20/04/2026 21:20

We could have January. The name of the month in Welsh is Ionawr, so I give you (drum roll) Bunionawr!

Magpiecomplex · 20/04/2026 21:20

ErrolTheDragon · 20/04/2026 21:18

I think I’d rather not be aware of bunions tbh.

But, but, but... That's literal violence against bunions, Errol. You're being very bunionphobic and I'm disappointed in your lack of kindness.

Magpiecomplex · 20/04/2026 21:21

Chersfrozenface · 20/04/2026 21:20

We could have January. The name of the month in Welsh is Ionawr, so I give you (drum roll) Bunionawr!

Perfect!

AngleofRepose · 20/04/2026 21:22

Chersfrozenface · 20/04/2026 21:20

We could have January. The name of the month in Welsh is Ionawr, so I give you (drum roll) Bunionawr!

Oh, da iawn! Gold star for you!

AngleofRepose · 20/04/2026 21:24

Magpiecomplex · 20/04/2026 21:15

Bunion Awareness Month, obviously! Novembunion? Doesn't scan very well, does it?

Do we get painted crossings on the road that are not crossings, and in beautiful colors ?

Magpiecomplex · 20/04/2026 21:26

AngleofRepose · 20/04/2026 21:24

Do we get painted crossings on the road that are not crossings, and in beautiful colors ?

I think they would have to be footprints, don't you? With bunions, obvs. Beautiful, brightly coloured, bunion footprints.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 20/04/2026 21:29

I'm trying to imagine all this, but I don't even know what a bunion looks like. I will do the work & educate myself.

Magpiecomplex · 20/04/2026 21:32

I should probably disclose that I don't have a bunion. I have an osteophyte which looks like a bunion. Please don't use me as evidence that bunion-having is something one can identify into.

WearyAuldWumman · 20/04/2026 21:35

Magpiecomplex · 20/04/2026 21:06

Important public service announcement.

Tomorrow (April 21st) is National Bunion Day in the UK. Please make sure you celebrate responsibly.

I'd better hide.

I inherited Dad's, caused - for both us - by having the flattest of flat feet. Ironically, I spent most of my days wearing 'sensible' flat shoes, only to find out in my 40s that they were the worst thing for me.

The orthotics were too late to save my feet. By my mid-50s, I could hardly walk.

Dad had to have every single toe broken and re-set; in my case, they only did the big toes, although I also lost a chunk of bone. One foot was left looking like a lobster claw, but at least I can walk.

I liked the look of my feet-with-bunions. I was used to them. They just looked a bit pointy at the joint.

I mourn for my bunions, but not the pain. I mourn for the shoes I used to be able to wear.

Tomorrow, the Day of the Bunion, I shall hide my head in ignominy.

[Footnote...

My pins are supposed to stay in situ. When they did Dad's in the '70s, each toe had a metal rod protruding from the end and each foot was in plaster.

The day he and Mum arrived at West Fife Hospital to have the casts removed and the rods taken out, the HCP apparently said "Now, Mr Wearovich, I'll just give you a local anaesthetic."

Dad, of course, was a 6ft coalminer, toughened in war and the Fife coalfields. He nearly lost both legs to the shrapnel from a German shell which had killed the man standing next to him.

"No, no, ye're fine. Just pu' them oot."

"Mr Wearovich, I must insist. The pain..."

"It'll be fine."

According to Mum, the HCP used pliers to remove the first one and Dad passed out. He was right. He didn't need the local.

In my case, I'm grateful that mine will just stay where they are. However, I cannot in good conscience celebrate the Day of the Bunion since the Wearovich family has unfortunately spurned those proud protuberances.]

Magpiecomplex · 20/04/2026 21:37

WearyAuldWumman · 20/04/2026 21:35

I'd better hide.

I inherited Dad's, caused - for both us - by having the flattest of flat feet. Ironically, I spent most of my days wearing 'sensible' flat shoes, only to find out in my 40s that they were the worst thing for me.

The orthotics were too late to save my feet. By my mid-50s, I could hardly walk.

Dad had to have every single toe broken and re-set; in my case, they only did the big toes, although I also lost a chunk of bone. One foot was left looking like a lobster claw, but at least I can walk.

I liked the look of my feet-with-bunions. I was used to them. They just looked a bit pointy at the joint.

I mourn for my bunions, but not the pain. I mourn for the shoes I used to be able to wear.

Tomorrow, the Day of the Bunion, I shall hide my head in ignominy.

[Footnote...

My pins are supposed to stay in situ. When they did Dad's in the '70s, each toe had a metal rod protruding from the end and each foot was in plaster.

The day he and Mum arrived at West Fife Hospital to have the casts removed and the rods taken out, the HCP apparently said "Now, Mr Wearovich, I'll just give you a local anaesthetic."

Dad, of course, was a 6ft coalminer, toughened in war and the Fife coalfields. He nearly lost both legs to the shrapnel from a German shell which had killed the man standing next to him.

"No, no, ye're fine. Just pu' them oot."

"Mr Wearovich, I must insist. The pain..."

"It'll be fine."

According to Mum, the HCP used pliers to remove the first one and Dad passed out. He was right. He didn't need the local.

In my case, I'm grateful that mine will just stay where they are. However, I cannot in good conscience celebrate the Day of the Bunion since the Wearovich family has unfortunately spurned those proud protuberances.]

Footnote. I like what you did there.

WearyAuldWumman · 20/04/2026 21:39

ifIwerenotanandroid · 20/04/2026 21:29

I'm trying to imagine all this, but I don't even know what a bunion looks like. I will do the work & educate myself.

I didn't know and - apparently - I had them. I thought that my feet were normal.

The first clue that something was amiss was when a GP looked at my feet and said [with something akin to horror in his voice] "Have your feet always looked like that?"

I genuinely thought that everyone had a pointy bit like that. I suppose that I never really looked at anyone else's foot...and I'll have you know that I was a married woman at the time.

WearyAuldWumman · 20/04/2026 21:40

Magpiecomplex · 20/04/2026 21:37

Footnote. I like what you did there.

Thank you. It's nice to be appreciated.

AngleofRepose · 20/04/2026 21:42

WearyAuldWumman · 20/04/2026 21:39

I didn't know and - apparently - I had them. I thought that my feet were normal.

The first clue that something was amiss was when a GP looked at my feet and said [with something akin to horror in his voice] "Have your feet always looked like that?"

I genuinely thought that everyone had a pointy bit like that. I suppose that I never really looked at anyone else's foot...and I'll have you know that I was a married woman at the time.

Oh I am sorry for your feet/pain, I had no idea.

However...

I just read your last paragraph in Victoria Woods' voice, and it sounded so perfectly like something she would have written!

AngleofRepose · 20/04/2026 21:44

Magpiecomplex · 20/04/2026 21:32

I should probably disclose that I don't have a bunion. I have an osteophyte which looks like a bunion. Please don't use me as evidence that bunion-having is something one can identify into.

This bunion thing is just going to run and run isn't it? We'll see it in the next thread won't we?

WearyAuldWumman · 20/04/2026 21:45

AngleofRepose · 20/04/2026 21:44

This bunion thing is just going to run and run isn't it? We'll see it in the next thread won't we?

Sorry. I'll wheest now. It's not often that my subject of expertise comes up, you understand.

Magpiecomplex · 20/04/2026 21:45

AngleofRepose · 20/04/2026 21:44

This bunion thing is just going to run and run isn't it? We'll see it in the next thread won't we?

Quite possibly! I might even volunteer to start the next thread, just to ensure it does. Although the Bluey moves so fast we'll probably be onto something completely different by them.

AngleofRepose · 20/04/2026 21:46

WearyAuldWumman · 20/04/2026 21:45

Sorry. I'll wheest now. It's not often that my subject of expertise comes up, you understand.

No worries, it's giving me some laughs which I really right now!

WearyAuldWumman · 20/04/2026 21:49

AngleofRepose · 20/04/2026 21:42

Oh I am sorry for your feet/pain, I had no idea.

However...

I just read your last paragraph in Victoria Woods' voice, and it sounded so perfectly like something she would have written!

The thing is...My husband never ever said a word...and he used to give me foot rubs for my sore feet, God bless him. (Sorry - too much info?)

The never caused me a great deal of trouble when I was young, except that I kept falling (because of the flat feet and dodgy knees).

I currently wear orthotics and wide-fitting trainers to accommodate said orthotics and preternaturally wide post-op toes.

zips mouth

opens mouth

My man must have been a saint.

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