Meet the Other Phone. Protection built in.

Meet the Other Phone.
Protection built in.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Is there ANY concern among Trans Rights Activists for the health wellbeing of adolescents receiving gender affirming drugs that the findings of the Finnish study might be true

1000 replies

mardirousse · 10/04/2026 15:21

You would expect Trans Rights Activists to be concerned about the physical mental health of gender questioning children, yet I haven't seen a single TRA express the slightest concern that gender affirming care might be causing harm to young kids, who they see as transgender. Not here, not on r/transgenderuk, not on x.
They are attacking the credibility of the study, but given its size and the very shocking findings, why aren't at least some of them expressing a little concern that there might be something in it? I mean, these are vulnerable kids, and they're taking really powerful drugs with major long-term consequences, and now it looks like there's evidence that it may be doing the opposite of what it's supposed to...
How could you not be concerned, whatever your agenda? They're kids!
Aren't trans rights activists interested in the right of trans kids to be safe and healthy?
Am I missing something?

OP posts:
Thread gallery
6
MissGendering · 15/04/2026 07:49

onepostwonder · 15/04/2026 00:59

My feelings about this go so far beyond identity. I am not perceived as a man. You have difficulty in believing this and I doubt you will ever be convinced.

My experiences with men are anchored in sexual abuse, physical abuse, intimidation, stalking, constant boundary transgression and it's not worth bothering to start revisiting the other ways sex perception has limited my participation in life. I'm not going to use the word transactional, but before I had longer relationships with men, it felt very transactional.

My experiences with women are inclusive, welcoming, shared, celebrated and made me feel valued, supported and belonged. More importantly I am also able to contribute back.

I know where I fit and so do others.

I am sorry for your bad experiences.

Many women also have similar histories, and for exactly that same reason, don't want men in their spaces.

The vast majority of women polled don't want to share women-only spaces with men, including men who think they are women, pretend to be women, or identify as women.

Women often won't or can't openly share their wishes for male-free spaces. The reasons are a mixture of fear or repercussions, and a socialised desire to 'be kind'.

This is an anonymous internet board, so women are able to speak more freely.

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 07:53

22ztr · 15/04/2026 07:42

Having been on the receiving end of you lot before and losing my shit, the lack of insults back was commendable

I see. ‘You lot’ is dehumanising in nature. hardly respectful. Nor is ‘losing (your) shit’ at people who disagree with you.

The poster in question has been deleted numerous times for personal attack so perhaps that is why that poster doesn’t ‘lose his shit’ here however, it is questionable about whether or not the poster doesn’t insult others.

22ztr · 15/04/2026 07:55

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 07:53

I see. ‘You lot’ is dehumanising in nature. hardly respectful. Nor is ‘losing (your) shit’ at people who disagree with you.

The poster in question has been deleted numerous times for personal attack so perhaps that is why that poster doesn’t ‘lose his shit’ here however, it is questionable about whether or not the poster doesn’t insult others.

Ahhhh context matters.
still applaud keeping their temper.
haha well it was meant affectionately. Love arguing with some of you. Others not so much

NotBadConsidering · 15/04/2026 07:57

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 07:48

He also behaves dismissively about the long term impacts on female people getting these treatments as children or young adults.

There is very little ‘respectful’ about those actions.

Respectfulness is not about passively saying ‘the clincians know what they are doing’, when the clinicians have been heavily influenced by political groups such as WPATH, if they are not activist clinicians themselves and there are now documented declarations that WPATH has advocated for harmful treatment.

Respectfulness is also not dismissing and denigrating those people who raise the issue as onepostwonder has done.

He also behaves dismissively about the long term impacts on female people getting these treatments as children or young adults.

The very first patient in the Dutch cohort, a female, patient B, spoke of her distress and discomfort with her genitals. It wouldn’t surprise me to find that the reason the Finnish cohort still require mental health appointments is to deal with their distress from the effects of testosterone.

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 07:58

22ztr · 15/04/2026 07:40

Im seriously very concerned. That’s why im saying this study is fantastic because it’s highlighted the need for more robust studies to show why transitioning is having this impact and convince the people that matter - parents and doctors.

Many of us are also seriously concerned.

The poster you have praised doesn’t seem to share that degree of concern when he has been asked to explain further though. I think after weeks of discussion with the poster, it is more accurate to say that as a supporter of those treatments, they are more likely concerned that treatment might be shown to be harmful to those adolescents and withdrawn.

22ztr · 15/04/2026 08:01

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 07:58

Many of us are also seriously concerned.

The poster you have praised doesn’t seem to share that degree of concern when he has been asked to explain further though. I think after weeks of discussion with the poster, it is more accurate to say that as a supporter of those treatments, they are more likely concerned that treatment might be shown to be harmful to those adolescents and withdrawn.

The only one I saw being proposed in their model in this thread was as puberty blockers. Which is problematic as we don’t know the impact. I had an ED in my youth. My body was frozen from malnutrition and it never recovered. Ergo I don’t agree with every argument made.
i saw hormones being offered to over 21s and I do have issues with blocking that treatment to anyone as I’m going to be menopausal within the next ten or so years and I want access to those drugs without stupid hoops.
so I’m heavily invested in both sides and interested in the science.
i don’t have context I just have this thread and they came across very well in this one. Clearly learning from mistakes

mardirousse · 15/04/2026 08:02

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 07:58

Many of us are also seriously concerned.

The poster you have praised doesn’t seem to share that degree of concern when he has been asked to explain further though. I think after weeks of discussion with the poster, it is more accurate to say that as a supporter of those treatments, they are more likely concerned that treatment might be shown to be harmful to those adolescents and withdrawn.

Yes, but he's on @22ztr 's side!

OP posts:
Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 08:03

NotBadConsidering · 15/04/2026 07:57

He also behaves dismissively about the long term impacts on female people getting these treatments as children or young adults.

The very first patient in the Dutch cohort, a female, patient B, spoke of her distress and discomfort with her genitals. It wouldn’t surprise me to find that the reason the Finnish cohort still require mental health appointments is to deal with their distress from the effects of testosterone.

I remember. And I remember reading her updates.

The constant dismissal of those negative impacts on female people by male people who find those impacts inconvenient to their political aims is very slowly being reduced. The detransitioners submissions to committees and panels is slowly increasing the width of awareness.

22ztr · 15/04/2026 08:03

mardirousse · 15/04/2026 08:02

Yes, but he's on @22ztr 's side!

i don’t know if they are. They just thanked me for thanking them for their opinions. Let’s see their reaction to my thoughts on puberty blockers

nutmeg7 · 15/04/2026 08:06

22ztr · 15/04/2026 07:31

You don’t need to be. Any undergrad referencing that would need to do the same

No, that is not what peer review means. It is review by others who are of equal standing and expertise in the field.

Undergraduate level reading is not this.

22ztr · 15/04/2026 08:08

nutmeg7 · 15/04/2026 08:06

No, that is not what peer review means. It is review by others who are of equal standing and expertise in the field.

Undergraduate level reading is not this.

Right but same skills. Hence I said ‘like a peer’ not ‘as a peer’.
can we not get into another argument about my word choices? At whatever level of academia you’re at, you’re encouraged to use these skills when you use papers.

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 08:08

mardirousse · 15/04/2026 08:02

Yes, but he's on @22ztr 's side!

Not sure that they are to be fair. Considering how many posters we have at the moment complaining that others on FWR disagree with them or use language that they don’t like to see, it is not an automatic assumption that the poster is on anyone’s side.

Besides, lots of us all have different opinions about aspects of the issue as we, thankfully, are not a hive mind. Of course, can work together really well to achieve things which is fucking awesome.

MissGendering · 15/04/2026 08:09

22ztr · 15/04/2026 08:01

The only one I saw being proposed in their model in this thread was as puberty blockers. Which is problematic as we don’t know the impact. I had an ED in my youth. My body was frozen from malnutrition and it never recovered. Ergo I don’t agree with every argument made.
i saw hormones being offered to over 21s and I do have issues with blocking that treatment to anyone as I’m going to be menopausal within the next ten or so years and I want access to those drugs without stupid hoops.
so I’m heavily invested in both sides and interested in the science.
i don’t have context I just have this thread and they came across very well in this one. Clearly learning from mistakes

Well, onepost has made a lot of posts. I suppose they are informative in a sense. So long as one bears in mind the contradictions and startling assertions.

Also worth noting the dynamic. This entire thread was supposed.to be about young people, but ends up being about onepost's personal stories and claims.

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 08:10

22ztr · 15/04/2026 08:08

Right but same skills. Hence I said ‘like a peer’ not ‘as a peer’.
can we not get into another argument about my word choices? At whatever level of academia you’re at, you’re encouraged to use these skills when you use papers.

Maybe your word choices led to pushback from people before causing you to ‘lose your shit’, in whatever way you meant, previously.

Bagsintheboot · 15/04/2026 08:17

MissGendering · 15/04/2026 08:09

Well, onepost has made a lot of posts. I suppose they are informative in a sense. So long as one bears in mind the contradictions and startling assertions.

Also worth noting the dynamic. This entire thread was supposed.to be about young people, but ends up being about onepost's personal stories and claims.

The reason it's become all about onepost is because an awful lot of posters have latched onto his posts and have been asking questions or demanding he answer them on certain points.

If the reaction had been "that's interesting but we'll have to agree to disagree" and moving on, I doubt the thread would have gone the way it has.

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 08:20

22ztr · 15/04/2026 08:01

The only one I saw being proposed in their model in this thread was as puberty blockers. Which is problematic as we don’t know the impact. I had an ED in my youth. My body was frozen from malnutrition and it never recovered. Ergo I don’t agree with every argument made.
i saw hormones being offered to over 21s and I do have issues with blocking that treatment to anyone as I’m going to be menopausal within the next ten or so years and I want access to those drugs without stupid hoops.
so I’m heavily invested in both sides and interested in the science.
i don’t have context I just have this thread and they came across very well in this one. Clearly learning from mistakes

I think there is also much wider context to be had what any treatment then means for the purpose of female single sex provision.

At what point will the much needed mental health care ensure that a person who has the treatment still is able to function in society without demanding that society treats them as if they have changed sex. Meaning that male people understand that they are still male people and make sure their choices don’t negatively impact on female people.

What has been remarkable is talking to female people who have undergone treatment a very long time ago who still seek to find equitable alternative solutions for their needs when it comes to single sex provision. There are some male
people who say they do it too, yet when they are asked specifically, admit that they will still use female toilets.

Either way, context of people’s reactions is rather important. If you lack the context for the reaction on threads, perhaps ask for clarification.

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 08:31

22ztr · 15/04/2026 07:18

Yeah but I came on to read about why transitioning doesn’t improve mental health outcomes and I read a really interesting response from a person with experience of doing it. I learned a lot about how people view transition, why it might impact mental health, about earlier stories of transition before the internet. I found the way they were argued respectful. And the content illuminating and a ver interesting read.
Did I agree with every point? No. Did I find the contribution very valuable and would I like to hear from this poster again? Yes

Can I ask if you characterise that it is respectful to female people to dismiss what they are saying about their own experiences and needs when you are a male person who cannot acknowledge that he is a male person? or even transgender?

Or is it just the lack of what you perceive as insults that you have characterised as ‘respectful’?

There are a few ways to view ‘respect’ on this thread so it would be good to have clarity about what you consider ‘respectful’.

22ztr · 15/04/2026 08:42

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 08:31

Can I ask if you characterise that it is respectful to female people to dismiss what they are saying about their own experiences and needs when you are a male person who cannot acknowledge that he is a male person? or even transgender?

Or is it just the lack of what you perceive as insults that you have characterised as ‘respectful’?

There are a few ways to view ‘respect’ on this thread so it would be good to have clarity about what you consider ‘respectful’.

I find it really hard. I wouldn’t expect a Christian to back down and say ok Jesus isn’t real. I won’t pray in your country. I’ll constantly pretend my beliefs aren’t real and agree to yours to protect your feelings. Idk where I sit with this one

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 08:43

22ztr

Do you realise that every time onepost uses the term ‘sex realist’ he is doing so with the intention of insulting people? He has been very up front about that from when he started doing it.

Do you think it is respectful in a discussion to dismiss materially real and proven facts of science as belief? Is it respectful to characterise those who understand and believe those facts about human sex categorisation, that have not been disproven, to be effectively believers of cult like thinking and extremists?

I don’t consider that respectful at all. It is a form of gaslighting.

22ztr · 15/04/2026 08:46

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 08:43

22ztr

Do you realise that every time onepost uses the term ‘sex realist’ he is doing so with the intention of insulting people? He has been very up front about that from when he started doing it.

Do you think it is respectful in a discussion to dismiss materially real and proven facts of science as belief? Is it respectful to characterise those who understand and believe those facts about human sex categorisation, that have not been disproven, to be effectively believers of cult like thinking and extremists?

I don’t consider that respectful at all. It is a form of gaslighting.

I don’t know what that term is or why it’s disrespectful.

they are entitled to their beliefs about gender as much as you are entitled to yours. Whether they can legally act on them - or should be able to - is the bit that’s important to me

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 08:51

22ztr · 15/04/2026 08:42

I find it really hard. I wouldn’t expect a Christian to back down and say ok Jesus isn’t real. I won’t pray in your country. I’ll constantly pretend my beliefs aren’t real and agree to yours to protect your feelings. Idk where I sit with this one

You seem to be both conflating scientific fact as religion and acknowledging that the belief that people can change sex is akin to religious belief based on faith and with no historical proof supporting it.

Do some people believe that Jesus is a real entity? That is unprovable.

Do you believe that humans can change sex? That is provable and definable and even logic can answer that. No. They cannot.

If you make your decisions on whether or not someone’s feelings should be protected, that is your choice. However, when that protection of feelings causes direct harm, other people have the right to choose differently.

What person has the right to expect anyone else has to act as if their philosophical belief is material reality when it is not and probably not material reality?

Helleofabore · 15/04/2026 08:57

22ztr · 15/04/2026 08:46

I don’t know what that term is or why it’s disrespectful.

they are entitled to their beliefs about gender as much as you are entitled to yours. Whether they can legally act on them - or should be able to - is the bit that’s important to me

It is a term being used to be disrespectful.

Again, perhaps you have missed a great deal of context.

they are entitled to their beliefs about gender as much as you are entitled to yours.”

Gender? Sure. Sex? Sex categories for humans is based in science and until science changes on what is understood about human sex classification, it is not really a ‘belief’ in the same way. People can choose to not believe the established understanding of that science but that doesn’t mean it is a belief in the same way as religion.

Whether they can legally act on them - or should be able to - is the bit that’s important to me

And to many of us. And onepost has confirmed many times that he will continue to access female single sex provisions as a male person.

to add: and in law, sex is defined now in the UK and in other countries and for international regulation. That definition in UK law has been clarified, it is not belief.

22ztr · 15/04/2026 09:07

Look your trying to pull me into a semantics arguement again. I agree on single sex spaces. You are preaching to the choir. Why not tell me your thoughts on restricting access to hormones because that will impact me. I want all the drugs to go through menopause and I want drs happy and confident prescribing them. If tras get me that by shouting loudly fab.

Myalternate · 15/04/2026 09:08

Onepost can believe whatever he chooses to. What he can’t do is force his beliefs on others.

I’ve 3 children under 6 years old and it is my responsibility as their mother to protect them from being indoctrinated into a belief that they can ‘pick and choose’ their sex.

They can’t. No one can. People that insist they have, are liars.
Anyone that thinks they have a right to lie to children is not someone that I find respectful.

MissGendering · 15/04/2026 09:11

22ztr · 15/04/2026 09:07

Look your trying to pull me into a semantics arguement again. I agree on single sex spaces. You are preaching to the choir. Why not tell me your thoughts on restricting access to hormones because that will impact me. I want all the drugs to go through menopause and I want drs happy and confident prescribing them. If tras get me that by shouting loudly fab.

How tf do you think TRAs shouting will get you HRT?

Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.

This thread is not accepting new messages.
Swipe left for the next trending thread