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The Bluestocking women's Pub- spring is sprunging and MN's name generator can do one!

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lcakethereforeIam · 20/03/2026 12:24

Welcome to the Bluestocking women's pub. Men are directed to the Staunch Ally just down the road. Otherwise all are welcome. Pull up a chair, give your order to the Wait Gerbil or the Gerbil behind the bar.

Don't forget to name change if you wish to.

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MarieDeGournay · 29/03/2026 15:07

You [and perhaps a bit of help] are keeping us very well entertained with Gosie's adventures, Myrtle - very very clever and funny.😄

I suspect Gosie is not drinking a rosé tout court, but a 'rosé pelure d'oignon', which is so named because the colour tends towards the colour of onion skin. But not the flavour😝

ifIwerenotanandroid · 29/03/2026 15:09

Well that's a relief, Marie. You had me worried.

Britinme · 29/03/2026 15:24

How nice to be married to a man who actually cooks! Neither of my DHs has had kitchen capability beyond a limited range, usually involving eggs, bacon and (DH2) pancakes.

Britinme · 29/03/2026 15:25

I’m looking forward to the novel @MyrtleLionand ChatGPT write. Peter Mayle, eat your heart out!

MyrtleLion · 29/03/2026 16:16

Britinme · 29/03/2026 15:25

I’m looking forward to the novel @MyrtleLionand ChatGPT write. Peter Mayle, eat your heart out!

A friend used to be a literary editor and she asked me to write the first three pages of my imaginary novel (as in the one I think I will get round to writing one day, but actually will never ever write) and then get AI to write three pages.

She hated AI's version. Too bland, far too many adjectives and really boring.

She told me she liked my version and she could see immediately how she would edit it.

I use ChatGPT to help write job applications.

Maybe that explains why I haven't got a job yet...

🤔

EmpressaurusKitty · 29/03/2026 16:18

I know my place has a note on all job adverts saying no AI. Although I’m not sure how far that extends.

MyrtleLion · 29/03/2026 16:42

EmpressaurusKitty · 29/03/2026 16:18

I know my place has a note on all job adverts saying no AI. Although I’m not sure how far that extends.

It would be interesting to see how they can detect it.

MyrtleLion · 29/03/2026 16:44

Although maybe the mention of wrangling a team of bar-gerbils and curating the travel blog of a gerbil travelling in the south of France is what gives it away...

😂

EdithStourton · 29/03/2026 17:44

Stop press.
What with it being Sunday, I am allowed booze.

I have just discovered the amazing combo of strong Cheddar and Manzanilla. It hit every taste bud going. Would recommend.

Would recommend so much that we have now run out of Cheddar.

Britinme · 29/03/2026 19:31

As long as you haven't run out of Manzanilla...

WearyAuldWumman · 29/03/2026 20:36

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 29/03/2026 10:16

Large hot chocolate please gerbils, plus a pile of crumpets dripping with butter and jam.

Just coming back to earth after a close relative had a medical emergency during the week. Many hours spent in and out of our local hospital for A&E (blue light job), follow-up appointments, tests and scans. Thankfully, it is looking as though the condition, though serious, is not immediately life threatening.

It's quite scary how, as life seems to be bumbling along quite calmly, all hell can suddenly be let loose.

Just want to echo what others have said, but I'm currently lacking the right words. Thinking of you.

EdithStourton · 29/03/2026 21:01

Britinme · 29/03/2026 19:31

As long as you haven't run out of Manzanilla...

Nope. Still downing the stuff, but slowly.

AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 29/03/2026 21:13

Thank you everyone for your good wishes, they really do mean a lot. Although we have a good support network within the family we are all affected by this situation, so it's good to be able to step outside it for a while. I'm being a little circumspect with details as I know a couple of family members and other connections are on MN and could come across this thread.

My relative is doing quite well at the moment, but still faces some tests and longer term treatment. Despite my initial doubts @ErrolTheDragon the local hospital cannot be faulted on this occasion. Everyone has done a superb job, from the A&E Consultant to the little man who came round regularly with a trolley offering tea and sandwiches when the cafes were closed. He must have been trained by gerbils 😁

As a little light relief, I dipped into the CS thread to see what all the comments were about. Enormous admiration to all the Bluestockingers who have tried so patiently (mostly) to steer UD towards following the science instead of the Loonyverse. I'm afraid I would have been throwing things at my screen long before now........

Boiledbeetle · 29/03/2026 21:27

Ughhhh. I have done virtually nothing today.

But, I did get rid of some stuff and have a shower!

The Bluestocking  women's Pub- spring is sprunging and MN's name generator can do one!
MyrtleLion · 29/03/2026 22:00

It's supper time in Nuance.

Sébastien-André has joined Gosie at her table without making a thing of it. The kind of table that feels slightly tucked away, as if the room has quietly agreed to leave them to it. No one has asked what they want; something arrives that suits them both, and neither questions it.

He isn’t trying to impress her. That’s the point. He’s steady, present, and, crucially, available in the most unremarkable way. No complication, no performance, no faint whiff of someone else waiting somewhere. Just him, here, now.

Gosie relaxes into that faster than she expects to.

They talk, but not in a way that fills space. It’s not a torrent. It’s precise, occasional, and then they let the silence sit between them without rushing to fix it. She laughs properly at something he says; no deflection, no irony, and then seems faintly surprised that she has.

At some point he says something about her work. Not flattery. Not critique. Just something accurate. She pauses, looks at him properly for the first time, and doesn’t brush it off.

The wine is red now, obviously. Something local, but deeper, slower. They don’t discuss it; they just drink it as if it belongs there. The food arrives in stages, shared without negotiation. Bread broken, something passed across the table, fingers brushing once and neither of them pretending it didn’t happen.

There’s no declaration. No pivot into anything defined. But the energy has changed from detached to interested.

MyrtleLion · 29/03/2026 22:01

Posted before adding the image.

The Bluestocking  women's Pub- spring is sprunging and MN's name generator can do one!
AuntieMsDamsonCrumble · 29/03/2026 22:19

Aaah! Antibes 1985. I remember it well.....

<sigh>😍

Boiledbeetle · 29/03/2026 22:20

I want to be Gosie.

WearyAuldWumman · 29/03/2026 22:51

I've had confirmation that the parcels that I sent to Dh's kids have been delivered, so that's that done.

WearyAuldWumman · 29/03/2026 22:52

Hmmm. Gosie, are you sure about this?

Boiledbeetle · 29/03/2026 23:09

WearyAuldWumman · 29/03/2026 22:52

Hmmm. Gosie, are you sure about this?

I fear there will be regret at some point in the near future.

Hedgehogforshort · 29/03/2026 23:18

Boiledbeetle · 29/03/2026 23:09

I fear there will be regret at some point in the near future.

Love matches never work well on here….

Hedgehogforshort · 29/03/2026 23:50

I love that song Errol

MarieDeGournay · 30/03/2026 00:02

Bonne nuit, dormez bien chères amies, faites de beaux rêves - dreams of following in Gosie's footsteps perhapsSmile🌛

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