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whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 10:12

Middlechild3 · 24/02/2026 10:05

Don't be daft, its not a disability, it may be an upset, a tragedy etc but its not a disability, you can live a normal unimpeded life.

So is medical care now restricted to only the worst of the worst?

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:13

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 10:10

I'm sure infertile women feel they can't live a full life without a baby in it.

That is not actual death though is it?
People can't always have what they want in life.

OtterlyAstounding · 24/02/2026 10:17

OrlandointheWilderness · 24/02/2026 10:12

@OtterlyAstounding yes I stand by that! Because they do..!? 😂 I certainly do not know enough about organ donation surgery to make an educated decision on it, but I do put my trust in the doctors. The point I was making is that it isn’t blind trust - it is trust I have given them through my personal experiences. Just as I trust my garage to look after my car, it isn’t blind, it is a recognition that they have the knowledge and experience that I don’t have and while I know there are bad mechanics I also know there are very good mechanics and I prefer to judge mechanics on the ones I have known. Same as Doctors, the ones I have worked with and alongside have generally been clever, talented and lovely people.

Some of them do know more, of course. Not all of them will, though, if that's not an area they come into contact with in their daily practice.

And it's good that you don't have blind faith. A lot of people do have blind faith in doctors, because they think they have to adhere to a Hippocratic Oath, or think that they're somehow morally or ethically more trustworthy than the average person, when really neither of those things is true.

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/02/2026 10:17

FrothyCothy · 24/02/2026 10:07

Funny you should say this - my teenage DD asked the other day, what is in the space in a man’s body where a womb, fallopian tubes and ovaries are? Are male organs larger to fill
the space or is everything just floating about with more room around it?!

Men have a larger liver, for a start, but their pelvic cavity is also differently shaped to the female pelvic cavity for the reason that the female pelvic cavity is designed to permit a pregnancy, and then to function as it should in childbirth.

That is why women have a different hip-waist ration to men, and part of the reason that female walk and gait is different to that of the male.

FrothyCothy · 24/02/2026 10:25

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/02/2026 10:17

Men have a larger liver, for a start, but their pelvic cavity is also differently shaped to the female pelvic cavity for the reason that the female pelvic cavity is designed to permit a pregnancy, and then to function as it should in childbirth.

That is why women have a different hip-waist ration to men, and part of the reason that female walk and gait is different to that of the male.

Thank you, I will tell her that later!

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 10:27

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:13

That is not actual death though is it?
People can't always have what they want in life.

Minimising much? There are surgery's people have all the time to improve their life. This is one

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 10:28

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:13

That is not actual death though is it?
People can't always have what they want in life.

But, again, is healthcare only to be limited to things that are absolutely critical?

I can see the argument for not providing it on the NHS, at this point in time. But to suggest it shouldn’t be allowed ever due to this is just odd.

Catwalking · 24/02/2026 10:29

We aren’t short of humans, I feel this is a hugely wasteful way of using precious resources.

MTOandMe · 24/02/2026 10:31

Catwalking · 24/02/2026 10:29

We aren’t short of humans, I feel this is a hugely wasteful way of using precious resources.

Edited

Well, perhaps limit the amount of children some women have? Shall we forcefully sterilise them after one? Two? Who decides?

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 10:31

Catwalking · 24/02/2026 10:29

We aren’t short of humans, I feel this is a hugely wasteful way of using precious resources.

Edited

The UK has a birth rate crisis, actually.

What “previous resources” are being used?

2026Y · 24/02/2026 10:31

JoeSikoraTommysStory · 24/02/2026 02:42

For all the pps saying it’s no different to other transplants it actually is; other transplants are to save lives.
This is not a life saving operation it’s fucking ridiculous.

I am not sure what "Fucking ridiculous" means in this context? What do you actually mean? You think it's immoral? Or dangerous? Or you personally wouldn't have one?

Lots of transplants are done when the recipients life is not in danger. Face transplants for example but there are many.

Pookie32 · 24/02/2026 10:32

andIsaid · 24/02/2026 03:04

Child birth is a pretty normal event that the human female body is equipped for. Modern medicine also helps.

Perhaps some women are incapacitated by pregnancy, but world population numbers would suggest that most are not.

You might regard women who are pregnant as "beached whales" but most people would simply consider them as women who are going to have a baby.

The entire process of bringing a baby to term takes time. It gets the parents ready as well as the baby - after all, they will have to work together for the next...15 years at the very least?

Picking one up at Asda, while perhaps attractive to a certain type, will not work out well for the babies/children involved.

Just to say that the reason I do not want children is due to not wanting to be pregnant. Clearly I also wouldn’t do this process, but lots of women do not want to put their bodies through the process. Whilst the body is technically equipped for it, many women die due to issues from pregnancy (though yes, less so now modern medicine is a thing). Even less severe things like the changes to your hair, the potential damage to your teeth etc etc are incredibly off putting and arguably a reason why the body doesn’t want to be pregnant.

Im not saying I would also like to simply go and collect a child from the shop (I wouldn’t) but to imply that pregnancy is this easy breazy thing that women love isn’t right either. Most women I know who had babies viewed pregnancy as an uncomfortable and painful event.

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 10:32

FrothyCothy · 24/02/2026 10:10

Adoption isn’t a neutral act either and raises many ethical and moral dilemmas of its own.

What are they? A child is looked after by another person because the birth mother and /or their wider family can't. Not morally ambiguous surely.

TigTails · 24/02/2026 10:33

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 09:48

I'm not sure the male body has space for a womb...

and all of a sudden it’ll be very apparent that sex does actually matter!

WarrenTofficier · 24/02/2026 10:33

Catwalking · 24/02/2026 10:29

We aren’t short of humans, I feel this is a hugely wasteful way of using precious resources.

Edited

Ah yes the it's infertiles that are responsible for over population argument 🙄. One or two wanted children are not the problem.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 24/02/2026 10:35

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 00:49

I think it's horrible. Nobody ever seems to think how the child will feel about it. I'd hate to discover I had Frankenstein-esque origins like this, just awful.

I think it's wonderful. There isn't a part of my body I need upon death and should any of if be used to help another human, then fantastic.

2026Y · 24/02/2026 10:38

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:13

That is not actual death though is it?
People can't always have what they want in life.

My mum needs a hip replacement. Should she get one or should she just accept that not everyone gets to go for a walk? She can probably still shuffle around and undoubtedly it won't kill her so maybe she should just accept her lot? What do you think?

CastlesinSpain · 24/02/2026 10:41

While I have no objection to the idea, I am wondering what effect the drugs that the mother would take to stop rejection of the organ would have on a growing baby.

Didshejustsaythatoutloud · 24/02/2026 10:42

FrothyCothy · 24/02/2026 10:10

Adoption isn’t a neutral act either and raises many ethical and moral dilemmas of its own.

What is morally and ethically wrong with adoption? Would you rather vulnerable children with, drug addicted parents should remain in their care? Would you rather a child who's parents were killed and no other family, remained in care homes?

CraftandGlamour · 24/02/2026 10:44

Middlechild3 · 24/02/2026 10:05

Don't be daft, its not a disability, it may be an upset, a tragedy etc but its not a disability, you can live a normal unimpeded life.

Whilst I find the framing here a bit offensive - it is not a disability - I understand the strong feelings of loss at not being fertile but if that is hampering your day to day functioning (like an actual disability), you may need some IRL support. Not meant snarkily BTW.

I don't know how I feel about time and resources spent on this. I know I don't really agree that a womb transplant is just like any other transplant for the simple reason that it involves creating another life via a risky procedure for nothing more than want. I may change my mind about that - anything to stop the awfulness of surrogacy would be a good thing.

TheABC · 24/02/2026 10:45

On the one hand, a womb is an organ, just like the heart or lungs. If there was consent, then it's ethical.

On the other hand, given the abuse we see in the surrogacy world, I can see this being the start of something much worse. We already know about the imbalance of power, sexism, class and money and what it does to poor women. We've already seen doners die from carrying surrogates. What's to stop the Iranian regime from selling the wombs of executed political prisoners? Or girls in Afghanistan being handed over for donor surgery because their families are desperate and they have no other choice?

OtterlyAstounding · 24/02/2026 10:45

2026Y · 24/02/2026 10:38

My mum needs a hip replacement. Should she get one or should she just accept that not everyone gets to go for a walk? She can probably still shuffle around and undoubtedly it won't kill her so maybe she should just accept her lot? What do you think?

You can't take hips from live donors.

The main ethical issue here imo is that, as recent history shows, women are often trafficked, coerced, or pressured to donate their reproductive capacity to people who wish to have babies, whether that be eggs, surrogacy - or potentially in future with more live donation, a uterus.

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 10:46

CastlesinSpain · 24/02/2026 10:41

While I have no objection to the idea, I am wondering what effect the drugs that the mother would take to stop rejection of the organ would have on a growing baby.

Well obviously they're aren't any, that's why it's a viable option.

deadpan · 24/02/2026 10:47

FrothyCothy · 24/02/2026 10:10

Adoption isn’t a neutral act either and raises many ethical and moral dilemmas of its own.

Not for thousands of kids in care in the UK. I'm sure they'd jump at the chance of a loving home.

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:48

2026Y · 24/02/2026 10:38

My mum needs a hip replacement. Should she get one or should she just accept that not everyone gets to go for a walk? She can probably still shuffle around and undoubtedly it won't kill her so maybe she should just accept her lot? What do you think?

Will she use the hip to create a completely new person?

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