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dragonfruit8 · 24/02/2026 02:40

I offered to consider donating my womb, as a living donor, to someone once. I didn't say I'd do it, I said I'd consider doing it and was willing to find out more. They had initially asked about me being a surrogate, which I declined.

I struggle with my iron, so losing my uterus seemed like a potential help to me. I'm not sure this is something that is a good use of medical resources but, if they're doing them and my close relative was asking, I was willing to discuss it.

AuntieAgnesPoodle · 24/02/2026 02:40

Friendlygingercat · 24/02/2026 01:14

As a cure for the falling birthrate one day we will have the science to enable babies to be born and nurtured in a lab. This will enable non-fertile women to have children. It will spare those who wish it the pain and horror of childbirth. Individual women will no longer have to incapacitate themselves and go about like a beached whale for nine months more children might be born. A couple will deposit their seed at the birthing center and go back 9 months later to collect their child. Just like picking up the shopping from Asda.

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Nurtured in a lab???

Who's going to do the nurturing? (Remembers Rumanian orphanages, Ireland's historical wash house/mother and baby homes, Australian experiments on rearing "half caste" Aboriginal children)
shudders

JoeSikoraTommysStory · 24/02/2026 02:42

For all the pps saying it’s no different to other transplants it actually is; other transplants are to save lives.
This is not a life saving operation it’s fucking ridiculous.

AuntieAgnesPoodle · 24/02/2026 02:42

IwantToRetire · 24/02/2026 01:27

What you have written is in fact what Shulamith Firestone an early radical feminist thought would / should be the future to allow women to not be tied to their reproductive function.

She wrote the Dialectic of Sex and was very influential at the time https://teoriaevolutiva.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/firestone-shulamith-dialectic-sex-case-feminist-revolution.pdf

Good grief

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/02/2026 02:43

JoeSikoraTommysStory · 24/02/2026 02:42

For all the pps saying it’s no different to other transplants it actually is; other transplants are to save lives.
This is not a life saving operation it’s fucking ridiculous.

Cornea transplants don't save lives.
Womb transplants are not ridiculous.

SingAling · 24/02/2026 02:45

Can you explain why you think it’s fucking ridiculous @JoeSikoraTommysStory ?

QuornAgain · 24/02/2026 02:46

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/02/2026 02:43

Cornea transplants don't save lives.
Womb transplants are not ridiculous.

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Blindness is a disability, childlessness isn't

dragonfruit8 · 24/02/2026 02:46

QuornAgain · 24/02/2026 02:46

Blindness is a disability, childlessness isn't

The involuntarily childless would probably disagree with you.

JoeSikoraTommysStory · 24/02/2026 02:49

QuornAgain · 24/02/2026 02:46

Blindness is a disability, childlessness isn't

Exactly.

AuntieAgnesPoodle · 24/02/2026 02:49

I wonder if a post-menopausal womb would be worth transplanting?

I also wonder if the strong visceral reaction from some posters is because the article said "dead donor", could it be the word "dead" is upsetting?

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/02/2026 02:56

QuornAgain · 24/02/2026 02:46

Blindness is a disability, childlessness isn't

Cornea transplants replace damaged or diseased corneas with a healthy ones from a donor to restore vision, reduce pain, and treat eye infections. What's so different with a womb transplant?

andIsaid · 24/02/2026 03:04

Friendlygingercat · 24/02/2026 01:14

As a cure for the falling birthrate one day we will have the science to enable babies to be born and nurtured in a lab. This will enable non-fertile women to have children. It will spare those who wish it the pain and horror of childbirth. Individual women will no longer have to incapacitate themselves and go about like a beached whale for nine months more children might be born. A couple will deposit their seed at the birthing center and go back 9 months later to collect their child. Just like picking up the shopping from Asda.

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Child birth is a pretty normal event that the human female body is equipped for. Modern medicine also helps.

Perhaps some women are incapacitated by pregnancy, but world population numbers would suggest that most are not.

You might regard women who are pregnant as "beached whales" but most people would simply consider them as women who are going to have a baby.

The entire process of bringing a baby to term takes time. It gets the parents ready as well as the baby - after all, they will have to work together for the next...15 years at the very least?

Picking one up at Asda, while perhaps attractive to a certain type, will not work out well for the babies/children involved.

dragonfruit8 · 24/02/2026 03:08

andIsaid · 24/02/2026 03:04

Child birth is a pretty normal event that the human female body is equipped for. Modern medicine also helps.

Perhaps some women are incapacitated by pregnancy, but world population numbers would suggest that most are not.

You might regard women who are pregnant as "beached whales" but most people would simply consider them as women who are going to have a baby.

The entire process of bringing a baby to term takes time. It gets the parents ready as well as the baby - after all, they will have to work together for the next...15 years at the very least?

Picking one up at Asda, while perhaps attractive to a certain type, will not work out well for the babies/children involved.

Agree. I remember each of my children in the womb and the magical process of growing them. I mean, sure severe morning sickness of 22 weeks wasn't any fun, one birth was very dangerous for me but I wouldn't want to forgo that process either. There's something very special about the whole process and, once past the sickness, I loved my baby bump, being pregnant and the anticipation.

ProfessionalPirate · 24/02/2026 03:14

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 00:49

I think it's horrible. Nobody ever seems to think how the child will feel about it. I'd hate to discover I had Frankenstein-esque origins like this, just awful.

What a horrible thing to say. Do you feel the same about all organ transplants? If the mother had a heart or lung transplant, would it be equally grotesque to think of those transplanted organs supporting the foetus?

ProfessionalPirate · 24/02/2026 03:23

JoeSikoraTommysStory · 24/02/2026 02:42

For all the pps saying it’s no different to other transplants it actually is; other transplants are to save lives.
This is not a life saving operation it’s fucking ridiculous.

Please explain why you think it’s ridiculous. Many, if not most surgeries performed are not saving lives. I could understand an argument against it being available on the NHS, but if a patient was willing to pay privately for this then why not?

Guerlinade · 24/02/2026 03:29

I see it as that the baby has grown in a it's own sleeping bag (placenta) in a borrowed tent (the donor's womb) but still in Mum's house (the body of the woman who grew the baby, gave birth & raised the baby aka as Mother)

As long as it stays this way & it's only for women who grow the baby, give birth & raise the child - Mum

I would have no problem donating my womb (after I've gone) in this case.
If my own DDs needed my womb then they can have after I've been through menopause & no longer need it.

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/02/2026 03:39

IwantToRetire · 24/02/2026 01:29

Interested to see the response so far, and wonder what others will have to say before I can check back tomorrow (later today)

Have to say I assumed all responses would be about TW begging women for their wombs.

Blush

This is a scientific breakthrough for women.
Feminism centres women.
I'm glad this thread isn't centering men.

AuntieAgnesPoodle · 24/02/2026 04:02

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/02/2026 03:39

This is a scientific breakthrough for women.
Feminism centres women.
I'm glad this thread isn't centering men.

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Yes, I agree it's a scientific breakthrough for women. I thought the article was very interesting and encouraging. The woman who received the donor womb was so happy and grateful. It's nothing like a Frankenstein's Monster kind of creation at all. The womb is a specific organ which Is designed to support and nurture a growing foetus. It is a marvellous organ, like all our organs, and is only found in women. Women get pregnant, grow the baby and give birth. A baby conceived and grown in a donor womb, carried inside its mother, would have the same kind of symbiotic experience as any foetus. I think it is amazing that this womb transplant is possible.

OtterlyAstounding · 24/02/2026 05:32

I suppose if it's a dead donor who explicitly gave her permission for her womb to be used, then that's fine. Why not? Personally, I wouldn't want to ever donate my womb, and I'm uncertain about my other organs - what if they go to someone who's a terrible person? There's a fairly high chance of that, especially if they go to a man.

With live womb donors, I think there's far too much risk, and too many potential negatives (such as prolapse, early menopause, dementia risk, etc) just so that a woman can have a biological child. It's a frivolous, luxury surgery that doesn't improve the recipient's health or physical quality of life at all.

I suppose if people want to do it, it's not much different to cosmetic surgeries...and yet there's something very body-horror-ish about it - that a particular organ which only women have, can be 'farmed' from other women.

FlayOtters · 24/02/2026 06:02

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 01:55

Ask a baby who has been born into such grim medical chaos how they feel. I only know being born of two consenting adults, and even then it was an unhappy outcome.

ok that's a fairly nonsensical answer

Igneococcus · 24/02/2026 06:26

Is there any data how immune suppressants affect a developing fetus?

lollylo · 24/02/2026 06:27

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 02:12

"Each womb transplant costs about £30,000 and is fully funded by the charity Womb Transplant UK, including payment to the NHS for theatre time and the patient's stay in a ward." Honestly, I think this is grotesque.

Can't we just accept that, sometimes, women are infertile and can't have a baby?

Why grotesque? People drop this amount of money and more to buy a car. It’s also what several rounds of ivf will cost on the private market. Often the number of rounds to have a successful pregnancy.

BeeHive909 · 24/02/2026 06:33

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 02:15

Both bad.

Not at all. If you needed any other organ transplant would you take it? Obviously you would so there’s no comparison.

Mt563 · 24/02/2026 06:34

How, from the child's perspective, is this fundamentally different to say ivf? People used to consider that grim and awful.

Randomuser2026 · 24/02/2026 06:41

When I read the statements of the new mother, and the parents of the woman who died I am unable to categorize this birth as Frankenstein.

I find the living donors concept much more disturbing, and open to abuse, frankly.

Lastly, it is abundantly clear to me that even if women “freed” themselves from pregnancy and childbirth (Or alternatively, become socially groomed to deny themselves the beautiful experiences of pregnancy and childbirth), they will still be left with the hard graft of child rearing and mental load and emotional labour. It is hopelessly naive to think that rent-a-womb will lead to men doing more of the labour they currently get for free from women.