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Needspaceforlego · 24/02/2026 09:36

Hoardasurass · 24/02/2026 09:16

Thats the most horrific potential future I've heard in a long time.
The thought of children being grown in a lab with no mother (which btw they bond to in untrine) and the harvesting of women's eggs for this nightmare scenario to be used for anyone who wants a baby (remember denighing gay and/or single men would be illegal discrimination) is just so wrong that I can't believe a woman would say this is a good thing, this is insutionlised surrogacy on steroids and should never be allowed to happen.

Its like something out a horror movie.
Children been born in labs.

Then what happens to them?
Fostered out?
There isn't enough foster homes for children who need them.

If you consider the outcome for children raised in care by the state you'd have them removed. I was reading this morning on BBC, schools in England are refusing places to children in care because of their additional needs.

Well thats really going to help break the cycle for these kids and their future children.

The state is shit awful parents and why do we need to worry about falling birth rates?

Young people can't get jobs, 1000s go on to Uni and still can't get jobs. Or they do end up pulling pints in a pub. And that's before you consider the effect of AI on the job market.

House prices are wild. The country has a shortage of housing.

The NHS has more patients than it can provide for.

Why exactly do we need more people?

WarrenTofficier · 24/02/2026 09:44

The wording is ambiguous. He’s already mentioned the 5,000 women born with no womb, so who are these 15,000 women who’d potentially like to have a womb? Are they women who have had to have their wombs removed? If so why not say that.

Presumably women that were born with a womb but have had it removed for medical reasons make up the the 10k difference between the potential beneficiaries of this surgery and the number born without a womb.

BoudiccaRuled · 24/02/2026 09:44

Ihavelostthegame · 24/02/2026 02:22

Coming no doubt from a fertile woman with kids! You have no fucking idea! Try having a shred of empathy!

This is why it's important to have opinions given from every side of the argument, it's an incredibly emotive subject for many women, as shown by your exclamation marks @Ihavelostthegame Empathy is one thing, costs and ethics are also worthy of consideration. It's not just the mother who is affected.

OrlandointheWilderness · 24/02/2026 09:45

@Oganesson118ah shit. Didn’t spot that 😂 😂

nOlives · 24/02/2026 09:47

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 02:12

"Each womb transplant costs about £30,000 and is fully funded by the charity Womb Transplant UK, including payment to the NHS for theatre time and the patient's stay in a ward." Honestly, I think this is grotesque.

Can't we just accept that, sometimes, women are infertile and can't have a baby?

"Can't we just accept that, sometimes, women are infertile and can't have a baby?"
I think this puts the emphasis in completely the wrong place. Yes, all women are sometimes infertile, but some women are always infertile. It is not merely an inconvenience and they need to be a bit more patient.
It can be the entire personal lifetime of each infertile woman.
I am with the majority here. Someone who was willing to donate their womb when they died has done a great kindness to someone whose womb was not able or available to carry their baby.
So much better than surrogacy.

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Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 09:48

IwantToRetire · 24/02/2026 01:29

Interested to see the response so far, and wonder what others will have to say before I can check back tomorrow (later today)

Have to say I assumed all responses would be about TW begging women for their wombs.

Blush

I'm not sure the male body has space for a womb...

OrlandointheWilderness · 24/02/2026 09:49

@OtterlyAstounding Why do you assume I’m blindly placing faith in doctors!? You don’t know me. You know nothing about me or my experiences, you have absolutely no clue if I’m someone who has never been involved in the medical profession or someone with extensive experiences.
For the record I will take my personal experiences as a foundation on doctors rather than the advice of an unknown voice on the internet.

OtterlyAstounding · 24/02/2026 09:55

OrlandointheWilderness · 24/02/2026 09:49

@OtterlyAstounding Why do you assume I’m blindly placing faith in doctors!? You don’t know me. You know nothing about me or my experiences, you have absolutely no clue if I’m someone who has never been involved in the medical profession or someone with extensive experiences.
For the record I will take my personal experiences as a foundation on doctors rather than the advice of an unknown voice on the internet.

Because you said:

"I’m very very sure that the doctors performing this know far more about organ donation than I do."

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 09:55

BeMellowAquaSquid · 24/02/2026 08:14

Organ donation always makes me feel queasy but this is amazing and if you’ve agreed to donate your womb at death how wonderful it is to now be part of a new life. I wouldn’t be describing any child as a Frankenstein project either that comment was too bad.

Im sure your quesiness would disappear if you ever need a kidney, heart etc.

Middlechild3 · 24/02/2026 09:58

IwantToRetire · 24/02/2026 00:40

Commisseration and support for the family of the woman who died, and happy for the new mother.

But feel sort of uneasy about this.

https://news.sky.com/story/simply-a-miracle-baby-boy-born-from-dead-donor-womb-transplant-in-uk-first-13511093

I think it falls into the just because you can doesn't mean you should category. Not everyone is destined to be a parent. Along with having children from a dead partners sperm, its wrong on so many levels.

Hoardasurass · 24/02/2026 09:59

deadpan · 24/02/2026 08:14

As this is a sex and gender discussion thread, is anyone going to broach the possibility of this transplant being performed on someone not born female? Well I've broached it now, so someone has.

It will never happen for many reasons but predominantly because men dont have the correct vascular system to connect a womb to so there's no point bringing it up.

To those who say that the dead woman concented to her womb being used in this way, you do realise that you dont have the option to decline to have your womb harvested. I asked about this a couple of years ago when womb transplants became a thing that was possible in the uk. If you dont remove yourself completely from the donor register they can take your womb. So this woman 👩 may have been happy for her heart, lungs or kidney to be harvested but not her womb or not wanting to be an organ donor but hadn't known she needed to be removed from organ donation and they still used her womb.
If womb transplants become the norm then their must be a change in organ donation rules so that you can specify whether they can use your womb in this way or not.

Sprinklesandsprinkles · 24/02/2026 10:00

I don't see a problem with it at all. She gets to grow her own baby, way more ethical than using a surrogate. Do the people here with an issue have a problem with other transplants too?!

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/02/2026 10:01

Crushed23 · 24/02/2026 02:22

Here’s hoping! I can’t wait for advances in science to relieve women of pregnancy and childbirth (who want it, of course). It’s not just the 9 months, full recovery can take years.

Being pregnant can be a very life affirming and amazing experience....and an obviously very human female experience. So much so that many women do it more than once.....

Middlechild3 · 24/02/2026 10:02

SingAling · 24/02/2026 02:22

I am full of joy for the happy couple.
We have kidney transplants, cochlear implants, so I see this as another way to help people to have fuller lives.

I dunno, on one hand there's maintaining or improving current life but for procreation, opens up loads of ethical issues.

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/02/2026 10:03

QuornAgain · 24/02/2026 02:46

Blindness is a disability, childlessness isn't

It is if you want children and your body is not functioning in the way it should.

Middlechild3 · 24/02/2026 10:05

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/02/2026 10:03

It is if you want children and your body is not functioning in the way it should.

Don't be daft, its not a disability, it may be an upset, a tragedy etc but its not a disability, you can live a normal unimpeded life.

Imnobody4 · 24/02/2026 10:05

This was following a transplant from a live donor in 2023.
UK’s first successful womb transplant – key questions answered https://share.google/bCVxgscXWbetgrRVV

The donated womb is also temporary and has to be removed after pregnancy.
I feel the same as about surrogacy, it's open to exploitation.

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:05

Nobody dies from not having a baby.
This makes me really uneasy and concerned for the future - women with no womb of ordinary childbearing age doing this is fine but I wonder how it could develop

FrothyCothy · 24/02/2026 10:07

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 09:48

I'm not sure the male body has space for a womb...

Funny you should say this - my teenage DD asked the other day, what is in the space in a man’s body where a womb, fallopian tubes and ovaries are? Are male organs larger to fill
the space or is everything just floating about with more room around it?!

FrothyCothy · 24/02/2026 10:10

CautiousLurker2 · 24/02/2026 09:03

It depends on how they are harvesting the wombs - from whom, why they are donating them or even why they are having healthy wombs removed, whether scouting/money is involved to entice poor women to donate them or whether it is upon death of the donor etc?

I foresee this being just as ethically problematic as surrogacy. Having children isn’t a right - and if a person truly, altruistically, wants to parent there are many routes to fostering and adoption.

Adoption isn’t a neutral act either and raises many ethical and moral dilemmas of its own.

Cheese55 · 24/02/2026 10:10

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:05

Nobody dies from not having a baby.
This makes me really uneasy and concerned for the future - women with no womb of ordinary childbearing age doing this is fine but I wonder how it could develop

I'm sure infertile women feel they can't live a full life without a baby in it.

MTOandMe · 24/02/2026 10:12

Hoppinggreen · 24/02/2026 10:05

Nobody dies from not having a baby.
This makes me really uneasy and concerned for the future - women with no womb of ordinary childbearing age doing this is fine but I wonder how it could develop

Do you people actually think about your arguments when you use mind-numbing phrases such as ‘nobody dies from….’. There are countless procedures that are performed, countless times every day, where ‘nobody would die’ if they were not performed. So, what’s your actual point?

OrlandointheWilderness · 24/02/2026 10:12

@OtterlyAstounding yes I stand by that! Because they do..!? 😂 I certainly do not know enough about organ donation surgery to make an educated decision on it, but I do put my trust in the doctors. The point I was making is that it isn’t blind trust - it is trust I have given them through my personal experiences. Just as I trust my garage to look after my car, it isn’t blind, it is a recognition that they have the knowledge and experience that I don’t have and while I know there are bad mechanics I also know there are very good mechanics and I prefer to judge mechanics on the ones I have known. Same as Doctors, the ones I have worked with and alongside have generally been clever, talented and lovely people.

Shortshriftandlethal · 24/02/2026 10:12

Middlechild3 · 24/02/2026 10:05

Don't be daft, its not a disability, it may be an upset, a tragedy etc but its not a disability, you can live a normal unimpeded life.

Lots of women want a impeded life - if that is what you mean by having children, and the depths of despair they can feel when they are unable to have a child can actual feel like a disability; a lack; a loss; a failure.