Wow, just wow to this thread.
I was diagnosed with kidney disease in my early 30s, went on dialysis in my mid 30s. Dialysis can keep you alive and relatively well for decades. However, id just got married and we desperately wanted children.
My best friend wanted to donate her kidney to me very specifically to enable me to have children (it isn’t recommended on dialysis).
I had my kidney transplant and two years later had DS1, followed 2 years later by DS2. Both born without complications, at full term and happy and healthy.
You can absolutely take immune suppressants throughout pregnancy with no harm to the baby.
Both boys aren’t aware they’re born into ‘medical chaos’ nor do they know they are ‘Frankenstein’ children. I’m wondering when I should tell them 🤔
They just know that their mummy needed help to have them and her good friend gave up part of her body to enable that to happen, and that’s why they have part of her name.
There are some weird takes on here