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Randomuser2026 · 24/02/2026 06:42

Mt563 · 24/02/2026 06:34

How, from the child's perspective, is this fundamentally different to say ivf? People used to consider that grim and awful.

One of my kids said in relation to being an IVF baby “Oh Thank God, now I don’t have to worry about you and Dad having sex”!!!

supersonicginandtonic · 24/02/2026 06:43

After seeing all the heart break my sister in law went through to have children, I’m all for this and would have donated my womb if I could have.

whatsgoingoninmybrain · 24/02/2026 06:44

Februarysiceandsleet · 24/02/2026 00:57

From the article:

  • "Did the NHS pay for the womb transplant?
No. Each womb transplant costs about £30,000 and is fully funded by the charity Womb Transplant UK, including payment to the NHS for theatre time and the patient's stay in a ward.

The operations are only carried out at times when the NHS is not using an operating theatre, so they do not impact NHS waiting lists.

Surgeons and medical staff involved in the transplant have not been paid for their time."

Are waiting lists affected mostly by theatre time, or ward availability?

Waiting lists are so high because there’s not enough doctors to operate. This won’t affect the waiting lists at all. It’s basically medical research.

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 24/02/2026 07:11

Igneococcus · 24/02/2026 06:26

Is there any data how immune suppressants affect a developing fetus?

This was my thought too.
I had thought that women who had recoeved any form of transplant, were discouraged from pregnancy, due to 1. The added stress it places on their body and 2. The potential risks of the anti-rejection drugs on the fetus.

StedSarandos · 24/02/2026 07:22

This feels way riskier than a regular organ transplant.

Igneococcus · 24/02/2026 07:25

WeMeetInFairIthilien · 24/02/2026 07:11

This was my thought too.
I had thought that women who had recoeved any form of transplant, were discouraged from pregnancy, due to 1. The added stress it places on their body and 2. The potential risks of the anti-rejection drugs on the fetus.

I assume women who are on immune suppressants for other reasons, like auto immune diseases, have babies, there must be some data on this, but levels and kind of drugs might be quite different.

ArabellaScott · 24/02/2026 07:27

Well, if the donor had consented its one thing.

Of course the UK now assumes consent.

deadpan · 24/02/2026 07:29

Organ transplants are normally given to prevent the recipient from dying. It isn't the same in this case at all
I have every sympathy for women who can't conceive, for a good while it looked like I couldn't. But this is way too risky and who is actually thinking about the baby? As always it's a secondary consideration, as with surrogacy.
Transplants are fraught with complications and often are rejected by the recipients body. Even if it was accepted by your body would you really run the risk of something happening with a baby inside. How would you forgive yourself if something went wrong and the baby died? Or would it be a case of blaming it in the Dr who performed the transplant?
Some Drs have a God complex and get ahead of themselves with the next ground breaking idea instead of pushing for better results in things that are already achievable.
There are children already in the world who are desperate for a loving home.

peacefulpeach · 24/02/2026 07:29

Friendlygingercat · 24/02/2026 01:14

As a cure for the falling birthrate one day we will have the science to enable babies to be born and nurtured in a lab. This will enable non-fertile women to have children. It will spare those who wish it the pain and horror of childbirth. Individual women will no longer have to incapacitate themselves and go about like a beached whale for nine months more children might be born. A couple will deposit their seed at the birthing center and go back 9 months later to collect their child. Just like picking up the shopping from Asda.

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Rather than collecting from ASDA, I think it’s more likely to be a Brave New World scenario.. Babies made in labs, early years in labs, owned and brought up by the state. No biological parenting required.

rockinrobins · 24/02/2026 07:30

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 00:49

I think it's horrible. Nobody ever seems to think how the child will feel about it. I'd hate to discover I had Frankenstein-esque origins like this, just awful.

A womb is just an organ.

"Frankenstein-esque" is a horrible way to describe it and if the child does grow to feel any way about it, it's because of the judgement of people like you.

peacefulpeach · 24/02/2026 07:32

deadpan · 24/02/2026 07:29

Organ transplants are normally given to prevent the recipient from dying. It isn't the same in this case at all
I have every sympathy for women who can't conceive, for a good while it looked like I couldn't. But this is way too risky and who is actually thinking about the baby? As always it's a secondary consideration, as with surrogacy.
Transplants are fraught with complications and often are rejected by the recipients body. Even if it was accepted by your body would you really run the risk of something happening with a baby inside. How would you forgive yourself if something went wrong and the baby died? Or would it be a case of blaming it in the Dr who performed the transplant?
Some Drs have a God complex and get ahead of themselves with the next ground breaking idea instead of pushing for better results in things that are already achievable.
There are children already in the world who are desperate for a loving home.

No one ever thinks about the baby / children in surrogacy / IVF / womb transplant or in fact just your common or garden pregnancy. It’s always and only about the adults.

Pabbel · 24/02/2026 07:32

What a wonderful gift, praise to those who agreed to an unusual donation.

rockinrobins · 24/02/2026 07:33

JoeSikoraTommysStory · 24/02/2026 02:42

For all the pps saying it’s no different to other transplants it actually is; other transplants are to save lives.
This is not a life saving operation it’s fucking ridiculous.

What's it to you though? The NHS aren't funding it. Do you feel the same way about other medical procedures that people self fund?

MTOandMe · 24/02/2026 07:33

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 00:49

I think it's horrible. Nobody ever seems to think how the child will feel about it. I'd hate to discover I had Frankenstein-esque origins like this, just awful.

Do you think the same about babies who require organ transplants? Who’d want to be alive with Frankenstein-esque origins?

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 24/02/2026 07:35

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 00:49

I think it's horrible. Nobody ever seems to think how the child will feel about it. I'd hate to discover I had Frankenstein-esque origins like this, just awful.

Well they wouldn’t exist without it so…?

wouldn’t ask a child who’s father only lived to be able to have them because they had a heart transplant from a dead donor how they felt about a Frankenstein father….

Needspaceforlego · 24/02/2026 07:36

RogueFemale · 24/02/2026 02:12

"Each womb transplant costs about £30,000 and is fully funded by the charity Womb Transplant UK, including payment to the NHS for theatre time and the patient's stay in a ward." Honestly, I think this is grotesque.

Can't we just accept that, sometimes, women are infertile and can't have a baby?

Thats probably easier to say for some than others.
Some really struggle with infertility. And the grief for the baby that will never be.

If this is a solution for women. Then why not? Much better than surrogacy and biologically the child is the product of the actual parents. So not got the issues surrounding donor eggs / sperm / embryos

MTOandMe · 24/02/2026 07:36

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OtterlyAstounding · 24/02/2026 07:37

I have to say, I do find it a little disturbing that it doesn't seem to require the dead woman's explicit consent regarding uterus transplantation? It's entirely up to her family? So a woman who is an organ donor but never even considered the idea of donating her uterus, and wouldn't have wanted to, could still end up with her uterus harvested against her will as her family may assume she would have been alright with it?

Or is there a specific thing you have to tick to say that yes, you're willing to donate your uterus?

deadpan · 24/02/2026 07:37

AuntieAgnesPoodle · 24/02/2026 02:49

I wonder if a post-menopausal womb would be worth transplanting?

I also wonder if the strong visceral reaction from some posters is because the article said "dead donor", could it be the word "dead" is upsetting?

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The only dead part of the process that bothers me is the risk for the baby. Any transplant of internal organs is incredibly risky and then of course the drugs the recipient has to take, sometimes for life. You don't only have the woman's life to consider here, but the baby's too.
To liken it to a cornea transplant , as someone has in this thread, is completely ridiculous!!

LoudBlueSeal · 24/02/2026 07:37

peacefulpeach · 24/02/2026 07:29

Rather than collecting from ASDA, I think it’s more likely to be a Brave New World scenario.. Babies made in labs, early years in labs, owned and brought up by the state. No biological parenting required.

Yes, and there could be cultural scenarios where 'freeing' women from reproduction would result in getting rid of women and girls all together...

rockinrobins · 24/02/2026 07:38

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This person is honestly not worth your time. There is so much ignorance around infertility. As someone who struggled with it for 5 years, I've heard every comment going. I just sigh and move on now, and am extremely grateful to modern medical science that I have my son.

peacefulpeach · 24/02/2026 07:38

LoudBlueSeal · 24/02/2026 07:37

Yes, and there could be cultural scenarios where 'freeing' women from reproduction would result in getting rid of women and girls all together...

Exactly

Needspaceforlego · 24/02/2026 07:39

peacefulpeach · 24/02/2026 07:32

No one ever thinks about the baby / children in surrogacy / IVF / womb transplant or in fact just your common or garden pregnancy. It’s always and only about the adults.

Do you really think it matters to a child if the sperm met egg in a dish rather than a fallopian tube?
Its not exactly like you remember where the sperm & egg that made you met.

deadpan · 24/02/2026 07:40

TooBigForMyBoots · 24/02/2026 02:43

Cornea transplants don't save lives.
Womb transplants are not ridiculous.

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Having a small part of your eye replaced is no way the same as having an organ inside your body and then trying to grow another human inside it.

Needspaceforlego · 24/02/2026 07:41

deadpan · 24/02/2026 07:37

The only dead part of the process that bothers me is the risk for the baby. Any transplant of internal organs is incredibly risky and then of course the drugs the recipient has to take, sometimes for life. You don't only have the woman's life to consider here, but the baby's too.
To liken it to a cornea transplant , as someone has in this thread, is completely ridiculous!!

With a womb transplant as long as it lasts 9mths if the body starts to reject it the obvious answer is remove it rather than keep taking heavy drugs