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“Heated Rivalry” author Rachel Reid on J. K. Rowling - “the bar is pretty high in how evil you have to be,” “ I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes”

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YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 17:20

Well, this is disappointing.

”[Reid] has a keen desire not to disappoint her fans, especially when they’re sending her photos of freshly inked tattoos of her words on their skin. ‘I know of another author that a lot of people got tattoos of but then wanted them gone. Like, J. K. Rowling,’ she says. ‘The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don’t want to let a single person down.’ I ask if she’s a TERF. ‘No, I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes,’ she replies.”

Well, too late, she let me down. “Extremely the opposite of everything she believes,” huh? I guess Rachel Reid thinks teenage girls should be forced to undress after PE in front of naked male classmates who gawp as their dicks get hard. Or that female inmates should be locked in cells with male inmates serving time for serial rape.

I don’t expect Reid to agree with Rowling on trans issues. It’s the monstering of Rowling that I take issue with - the “evil,” and the framing of Rowling as so extreme that Reid feels the need to be extremely the opposite of everything she believes.

Edit: title should read “on how evil you have to be”

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TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 24/02/2026 07:21

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 07:12

She's been exclusively on Iran for ages. To what end? Her twitter supporters knowledge 'saving' Iranian women? Or manufacturing public consent for regime change.

The proof is in the outcomes.

There's a movement in Iran who's slogan is Women, Life, Freedom, they've been campaign for years, at great personal cost.

She's been highlighting their justifiable cause. She's following the lead of women in Iran and showing her support for their fight not trying to cause a 'regime change'.

Your grasp on geopolitics really is subpar.

Coatsoff42 · 24/02/2026 07:24

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 24/02/2026 07:09

She's posted about the situation in Sudan, Afghanistan and many other places. Iran is in the process of arresting, beating and murdering it's citizens, especially the female one's, why wouldn't she highlight the concerning situation?

What sort of warped and bitter mind must a person have to criticise her for doing so. 🤢

FYI there is no genocide in Gaza, which might be why she hasn't posted about it.

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I was going to say this @TheywontletmehavethenameIwant JKRs posted articles about lots of countries. Can’t help thinking @Aisha176 has got the top secret list of things women aren’t allowed to talk about that the TRAs keep up their sleeves and use to decide what women are and aren’t allowed to talk about.
I do wish they’d publish it clearly so we can all stay inside their little talk guidelines. I’ll add Iran (forbidden).

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 07:27

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 24/02/2026 07:21

There's a movement in Iran who's slogan is Women, Life, Freedom, they've been campaign for years, at great personal cost.

She's been highlighting their justifiable cause. She's following the lead of women in Iran and showing her support for their fight not trying to cause a 'regime change'.

Your grasp on geopolitics really is subpar.

Your grasp of white women in western countries gnashing their teeth having any impact on Iranian women is subpar. Outcomes?

Other than manufacturing public consent for war/regime change? NIL

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 07:29

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TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 24/02/2026 07:43

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 07:27

Your grasp of white women in western countries gnashing their teeth having any impact on Iranian women is subpar. Outcomes?

Other than manufacturing public consent for war/regime change? NIL

White people exist, get over it.

There is no genocide in Gaza, get over it,.
JKR is a decent, caring human being, get over it.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 24/02/2026 07:44

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If anyone is getting a hard on it’s you, over JKR.

Not sure why you think she owe’s you an opinion on Gaza, Iran, who’s going to win an Oscar or if pineapple belongs on pizza.

nicepotoftea · 24/02/2026 07:45

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 00:53

Ah no. We have nothing in terms of conclusions about trans women offending rates which is the point that you are diverting from.

It is true that the police and courts do not question a claimed gender identity, regardless of when it is claimed. There is no way to distinguish between anyone claiming a trans identity, and that is largely because of campaigning for affirmation only treatment and Self ID.

It is now a completely subjective concept.

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 07:49

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 06:50

Ask yourself why Iran? Why not the multitude of other countries that practice human rights violations of women? I noticed she's recently upped the posting on Iran….& here we go again off to war & regime change. How 'coincidental'.

Why Iran?

I think maybe you missed the state of emergency where no western media was covering the actions of the Iranian regime in the beginning. Did you also then miss how media agencies were not allowed in to report and that one of the ways news spread around the world was because of social media used by people posting from Iran?

Most of her posts at the time were reposts from the rare few posts coming from within Iran when media outlets were still attempting to get confirmation about what was happening before reporting. It must be someone hard of thinking who cannot understand why she would do this.

She posts and reposts about the women and children in Afghanistan too. Or did you miss those? She also posts about women and children in other countries.

Are you so hard of thinking that you don’t understand why she recently ‘upped’ her posts about Iran at a time when protesters were being killed and it was not being reported in the world’s media?

nicepotoftea · 24/02/2026 07:51

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 24/02/2026 07:44

If anyone is getting a hard on it’s you, over JKR.

Not sure why you think she owe’s you an opinion on Gaza, Iran, who’s going to win an Oscar or if pineapple belongs on pizza.

She is a woman who has committed the crime of rejecting the idea that she has to behave like everyone’s mother.

gototogo · 24/02/2026 07:53

She’s big in Canada and a very niche book market, the programme was made cheaply and she and the makers didn’t expect it to go global. She simply isn’t in the same league as jk Rowling so of course she’s not funding things as people are suggesting. She’s also gay herself. How about just let authors be authors and realise they aren’t always that media savvy, they say things in interviews without thinking it through. Or has lost so many fans for speaking out so much, if she’d just quietly funded projects she believed in and been less radical that would have been easier for you, and the flip side is the hockey writer doesn’t know the ins and outs of the implications of trans people in sports, it’s quite complex especially in team sports with a safety aspect, not even just a faster fairness thing

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 07:56

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 06:46

"Could it have something to do with the power difference between male and female people combined with vulnerability in domestic situations? Meaning it is rare that female people attack male partners because female people will rarely overpower that male partner."

It's actually not rare that females attack their male partners in fact the numbers are comparable in studies. The difference is in the severity of violence. But Lesbian partners? There's significantly more severity between them and straight women. Why would that be? I suspect masculine behavioural patterns that more aligns them with male violence. Conversely that gay males are less violent than lesbians might therefore be related to effeminacy.

Cue trans identification?

"Do lesbian women have a greater rate of committing general female on female violence outside of domestic situations?

I'm not aware of studies that show that. From my understanding the studies done are more about intimate partner violence.

"And do lesbians also commit violence at the same rate as the male population in general? By all means, please show those rates.)"

Irrelevant to the point that lesbians are not representative of all women as trans women are not representative of all men.

"You didn't demonstrate anything that was useful to making safeguarding decisions.

I didn't need to as that isn't relevant to the point of false stereotyping by JKR being discussed on this thread.

"The point is also that even if there were sub groups within that segregation characteristic that had a lower rate of risk of committing violence or abuse towards female people, it should not also be up to female people to have to check if the male person accessing a female single sex provision is part of that sub group or not. Hence, ALL people in that segregated characteristic are excluded with no exceptions. ie. all male people above the age of about 8 years old are legitimately excluded."

Irrelevant to the discussion on this thread.

Irrelevant to the discussion on this thread.

It is very relevant to this thread. Because JK Rowling is posting about safeguarding female people and children. Therefore that point is directly related to the topic of this thread and also why there is any discussion about the crime rate of male people with transgender identities.

So, yes, "The point is also that even if there were sub groups within that segregation characteristic that had a lower rate of risk of committing violence or abuse towards female people, it should not also be up to female people to have to check if the male person accessing a female single sex provision is part of that sub group or not. Hence, ALL people in that segregated characteristic are excluded with no exceptions. ie. all male people above the age of about 8 years old are legitimately excluded." is entirely relevant to this thread.

nicepotoftea · 24/02/2026 07:57

if she’d just quietly funded projects she believed in and been less radical

It is not radical to believe that women should have rights.

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 08:02

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 07:49

Why Iran?

I think maybe you missed the state of emergency where no western media was covering the actions of the Iranian regime in the beginning. Did you also then miss how media agencies were not allowed in to report and that one of the ways news spread around the world was because of social media used by people posting from Iran?

Most of her posts at the time were reposts from the rare few posts coming from within Iran when media outlets were still attempting to get confirmation about what was happening before reporting. It must be someone hard of thinking who cannot understand why she would do this.

She posts and reposts about the women and children in Afghanistan too. Or did you miss those? She also posts about women and children in other countries.

Are you so hard of thinking that you don’t understand why she recently ‘upped’ her posts about Iran at a time when protesters were being killed and it was not being reported in the world’s media?

Again, what are the fruits of her actions? Where is she going with this?

War & regime change.

If she was in the slightest concerned about journalistic censorship you may have heard a whisper from her about the systemic murder of a multitude of journalists in Gaza where no independent media has been allowed to report on the ground.

The facts are JKR's 'concerns' & more importantly outcomes align with western imperialism.

She is weaponising women's rights just like the far right do in their sudden interest in women's sports as means to end of their white supremacy.

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 08:04

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 06:46

"Could it have something to do with the power difference between male and female people combined with vulnerability in domestic situations? Meaning it is rare that female people attack male partners because female people will rarely overpower that male partner."

It's actually not rare that females attack their male partners in fact the numbers are comparable in studies. The difference is in the severity of violence. But Lesbian partners? There's significantly more severity between them and straight women. Why would that be? I suspect masculine behavioural patterns that more aligns them with male violence. Conversely that gay males are less violent than lesbians might therefore be related to effeminacy.

Cue trans identification?

"Do lesbian women have a greater rate of committing general female on female violence outside of domestic situations?

I'm not aware of studies that show that. From my understanding the studies done are more about intimate partner violence.

"And do lesbians also commit violence at the same rate as the male population in general? By all means, please show those rates.)"

Irrelevant to the point that lesbians are not representative of all women as trans women are not representative of all men.

"You didn't demonstrate anything that was useful to making safeguarding decisions.

I didn't need to as that isn't relevant to the point of false stereotyping by JKR being discussed on this thread.

"The point is also that even if there were sub groups within that segregation characteristic that had a lower rate of risk of committing violence or abuse towards female people, it should not also be up to female people to have to check if the male person accessing a female single sex provision is part of that sub group or not. Hence, ALL people in that segregated characteristic are excluded with no exceptions. ie. all male people above the age of about 8 years old are legitimately excluded."

Irrelevant to the discussion on this thread.

”Irrelevant to the point that lesbians are not representative of all women as trans women are not representative of all men.”

Errr… this doesn’t make sense. Is anyone claiming that male people with transgender identities are ‘representative of all’ male people? No. We are saying they are part of that general group of male people so should not be treated differently.

Which was the point that I was making that women with the sexual orientation of same sex attraction are not treated as a separate group for the purposes of safeguarding. I was also pointing out that your comparison of domestic violence by women who are same sex attracted has multiple flaws and doesn’t work the way you attempted to claim it did.

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 08:14

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 08:02

Again, what are the fruits of her actions? Where is she going with this?

War & regime change.

If she was in the slightest concerned about journalistic censorship you may have heard a whisper from her about the systemic murder of a multitude of journalists in Gaza where no independent media has been allowed to report on the ground.

The facts are JKR's 'concerns' & more importantly outcomes align with western imperialism.

She is weaponising women's rights just like the far right do in their sudden interest in women's sports as means to end of their white supremacy.

What are the ‘fruits of her actions’ ?

Seriously? She is amplifying women’s voices when there was no media outlet doing it.

It does seem that you have a deep prejudice about her. On one hand you demonise her for not doing enough for political interests of your own, and on the other hand you demonise her for having personal political interests at all.

You also demand that she adhere to standards that media agencies aren’t expected to making disclaimers on articles that some hard of thinking person might take as contributing to negative stereotypes about groups.

I think this post of yours though puts it all into perspective.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 24/02/2026 08:16

She’s a middle aged woman, married to a man, cosplaying at gay identity because it makes the big money right now.

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 08:19

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 08:04

”Irrelevant to the point that lesbians are not representative of all women as trans women are not representative of all men.”

Errr… this doesn’t make sense. Is anyone claiming that male people with transgender identities are ‘representative of all’ male people? No. We are saying they are part of that general group of male people so should not be treated differently.

Which was the point that I was making that women with the sexual orientation of same sex attraction are not treated as a separate group for the purposes of safeguarding. I was also pointing out that your comparison of domestic violence by women who are same sex attracted has multiple flaws and doesn’t work the way you attempted to claim it did.

Errr… this doesn’t make sense. Is anyone claiming that male people with transgender identities are ‘representative of all’ male people? No.

You lie & you know it because its been clearly expressed on this thread & on this forum repeatedly.

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 08:19

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 24/02/2026 07:44

If anyone is getting a hard on it’s you, over JKR.

Not sure why you think she owe’s you an opinion on Gaza, Iran, who’s going to win an Oscar or if pineapple belongs on pizza.

Because apparently she is public property and should act in ways only acceptable to posters like Aisha (and Gretel on other threads - it is almost like Groundhog Day with very similar arguments)

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 24/02/2026 08:22

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 24/02/2026 08:16

She’s a middle aged woman, married to a man, cosplaying at gay identity because it makes the big money right now.

Well I've not read her, and going by this thread I don't seem to have missed out on anything. Trashy homo porn for hetro's, really not my thing, but if there's a band wagon to jump on it does seem like a smart business move to jump on it.

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 08:24

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 08:19

Errr… this doesn’t make sense. Is anyone claiming that male people with transgender identities are ‘representative of all’ male people? No.

You lie & you know it because its been clearly expressed on this thread & on this forum repeatedly.

Where have posters said that the actions of male people with transgender identities ‘represent ALL male people’?

Have you got this confused with the claims that the behaviour of male people with transgender identities fit within the range of behaviour of all male people? Because that is an accurate statement. They are male people so their behaviour are within the range of behaviours for all male people.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 24/02/2026 08:24

....no independent media has been allowed to report on the ground.

Then how do you know about it?

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 08:25

Helleofabore · 24/02/2026 08:14

What are the ‘fruits of her actions’ ?

Seriously? She is amplifying women’s voices when there was no media outlet doing it.

It does seem that you have a deep prejudice about her. On one hand you demonise her for not doing enough for political interests of your own, and on the other hand you demonise her for having personal political interests at all.

You also demand that she adhere to standards that media agencies aren’t expected to making disclaimers on articles that some hard of thinking person might take as contributing to negative stereotypes about groups.

I think this post of yours though puts it all into perspective.

Edited

It does seem that you have a deep prejudice about her.

The premise of the thread is why JKR is considered evil. I'm simply explaining why. That you 'forget' this is indicative of your own bias not mine.

And what exactly has amplifying women's voices in Iran to westerners on twitter achieved? Their freedom? Exactly the opposite: manufacturing public consent to their country becoming an economic basket case like Syria, Iraq, Afghanistan via military intervention that only serves to further enslave women.

Outcomes matter & she's smart enough to know exactly where this is going. Shame on her!

Greyskybluesky · 24/02/2026 08:25

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 08:19

Errr… this doesn’t make sense. Is anyone claiming that male people with transgender identities are ‘representative of all’ male people? No.

You lie & you know it because its been clearly expressed on this thread & on this forum repeatedly.

In which posts on this thread?

TheKeatingFive · 24/02/2026 08:32

Aisha176 · 24/02/2026 08:19

Errr… this doesn’t make sense. Is anyone claiming that male people with transgender identities are ‘representative of all’ male people? No.

You lie & you know it because its been clearly expressed on this thread & on this forum repeatedly.

Where has it been expressed on this thread?

roseyposey · 24/02/2026 08:32

terryleather · 23/02/2026 18:27

It's amazing how many folk have been tripping over each other in their rush to condemn JKR over the past few years...but then what's not to like when you can use her fame to bolster your profile and virtue signal at the same time.

It's a win-win for the unimaginative and the tedious.

Yes, and it’s especially tedious when it’s, what, four or five years after people started jumping on the “JKR is evil” bandwagon.

So not only very unimaginative and clearly desperate to gain points with the alphabet brigade but also very very very slow-wittedly late to the party.