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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

“Heated Rivalry” author Rachel Reid on J. K. Rowling - “the bar is pretty high in how evil you have to be,” “ I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes”

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YankSplaining · 23/02/2026 17:20

Well, this is disappointing.

”[Reid] has a keen desire not to disappoint her fans, especially when they’re sending her photos of freshly inked tattoos of her words on their skin. ‘I know of another author that a lot of people got tattoos of but then wanted them gone. Like, J. K. Rowling,’ she says. ‘The bar is pretty high for how evil you have to be, but I don’t want to let a single person down.’ I ask if she’s a TERF. ‘No, I’m extremely the opposite of everything she believes,’ she replies.”

Well, too late, she let me down. “Extremely the opposite of everything she believes,” huh? I guess Rachel Reid thinks teenage girls should be forced to undress after PE in front of naked male classmates who gawp as their dicks get hard. Or that female inmates should be locked in cells with male inmates serving time for serial rape.

I don’t expect Reid to agree with Rowling on trans issues. It’s the monstering of Rowling that I take issue with - the “evil,” and the framing of Rowling as so extreme that Reid feels the need to be extremely the opposite of everything she believes.

Edit: title should read “on how evil you have to be”

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thirdfiddle · 27/02/2026 18:36

I would hope that people I interact with on a day to day basis would not treat me differently because of my sex at all. If they do they're probably being sexist. It's not something to aspire to, it's something to discourage. And if it has significant effect on me it's illegal discrimination.

A TW who is mistaken for a woman is also protected under discrimination by perception rules. Or in the more common case that they're not mistaken for women may also be affected by discrimination on basis of gender reassignment which they're also protected for.

The only circumstances you would need to be treated differently is things like single sex spaces or sports which are justified on the basis of allowed sex discrimination under the EA. Confirmed by the SC that sex refers to biological sex.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 18:37

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 17:11

Sex descrimination is social. It is gender-based. It is class focused. Discrimination is not based on the knowledge of one person's gametes by another, it is focused at people grouped by the presumption of sex.

Edited

Wrong. Sex discrimination is SEX-based. It is not 'gender' based.

Chinsupmeloves · 27/02/2026 18:40

Pathetic, immature and plain nasty.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:48

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 18:24

It is not a bad law to keep males out of female spaces. It was enforced easily for a century before the last 15 years. There is no safe and beneficial way to include males in female only safe intimate single sex spaces. And if you were actually a woman, you'd know this.

Agreed. It is not bad law to keep men out of women's spaces. It was enforced and continues to be enforced. Trans people are men, women and in some countries outnumbering binary trans people, both or neither.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:49

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 18:25

Men are biological males. A sex, not a 'social construct'. HTH

Understood. Sex realists do not participate in cultures influenced by social constructs.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:50

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 18:27

No trans person 'changes sex' full stop. And NONE of them claim to.

Except gay people weren't removing rights of women.

Sex Denialism is a tool of conservative men and Mens Rights Movement.

Sex realists align all trans people with mens rights movements. Believing it does not make it true.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:51

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 18:31

The only people who have the ability to become pregnant is the female sex. 'non-binary' doesn't exist. 'Trans men' are women and female.

Socially, trans people and non-binary people exist. Closing your eyes does not make people disappear.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:52

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 18:33

So you admit you are male. Wonders never cease.

I'm saying the sex realist belief that biology is destiny has never had influence on my life as a female or male. Obtuse.

Catabogus · 27/02/2026 18:52

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:22

You're being deliberately obtuse.

I didn’t realise I was being obtuse at all, let alone deliberately! You said these biological experiences of non-menstruation (through pregnancy, menopause etc) would have no impact on daily interactions in shops, public transport or workplaces?

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:53

Coatsoff42 · 27/02/2026 18:35

That’s your belief, the rest of us outside here have a much wider understanding of experiences than you.

"I know you are but what am I?"

TheKeatingFive · 27/02/2026 18:53

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:51

Socially, trans people and non-binary people exist. Closing your eyes does not make people disappear.

Gender non conforming people exist.

Their sex is never in question

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:54

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 18:35

Yes, because transwomen are more dangerous than other males. Sex denialist belief doesn't change this.

Sex realist beliefs constructed the math behind this belief and perpetuate its spread. Not one of the departments or government entities are assisting sex realists in this messaging.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:55

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 18:34

Males are responsible for the conduct of other males. You have admitted you are a male.

Trans people are not responsible for the conduct of men. Sex realist beliefs do not change this.

DontStopMe · 27/02/2026 18:59

Believing it does not make it true

I agree with that!

InconvenientlyMaterial · 27/02/2026 19:01

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:51

Socially, trans people and non-binary people exist. Closing your eyes does not make people disappear.

Dude you're trying to compare inner feelings and self belief to the lived material reality of being a female human.

Rapists don't check gender identity before impregnating their victims and not does the feetilised egg before implantation. Employers don't check gender identity before discriminating against women who have children.

You wouldn't know this, but lots of women are just as special and internally fascinating as you. But reality gets in the fucking way and we live in a patriarchal world where we still have to beg for crumbs of equality. We have less time for your luxury beliefs.

TheKeatingFive · 27/02/2026 19:01

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:55

Trans people are not responsible for the conduct of men. Sex realist beliefs do not change this.

Men are responsible for the conduct of men.

Transwomem are men.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 19:03

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:48

Agreed. It is not bad law to keep men out of women's spaces. It was enforced and continues to be enforced. Trans people are men, women and in some countries outnumbering binary trans people, both or neither.

It is 'irrelevant' if someone is trans. If someone is male they need to be kept out of female spaces. There is no such thing as 'non-binary'.

thirdfiddle · 27/02/2026 19:03

Nobody is responsible for the behaviour of any other individual unless you're their parent or carer or something.

Nonetheless safeguarding rules reduce harm by applying rules to whole groups of people to prevent misbehaviour by a small minority of that group. Transwomen belong to the group "males", and safeguarding rules applied to the group males therefore also apply to transwomen.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 19:03

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:49

Understood. Sex realists do not participate in cultures influenced by social constructs.

Exactly because 'social constructs' are fake, harmful and misogynistic.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 19:05

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:50

Sex realists align all trans people with mens rights movements. Believing it does not make it true.

All transwomen and sex denialists who work to undo sex-based rights are working with the Mens Rights Movement. That's a fact.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 19:05

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callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 19:07

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:52

I'm saying the sex realist belief that biology is destiny has never had influence on my life as a female or male. Obtuse.

The FACT that biology is destiny means that as a male, you've never had to consider pregnancy. You are not and never have been a female, so that part is irrelevant.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 19:08

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:54

Sex realist beliefs constructed the math behind this belief and perpetuate its spread. Not one of the departments or government entities are assisting sex realists in this messaging.

Prison data over four (4) countries proves this. Sadly for you, the departments and government entities do prove this. And there is nothing you can do or say that proves otherwise.

callmeLoretta1 · 27/02/2026 19:09

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 18:55

Trans people are not responsible for the conduct of men. Sex realist beliefs do not change this.

'Trans people' are irrelevant. MALES are responsible for the conduct of MALES. Sex denialist beliefs do not change this.

onepostwonder · 27/02/2026 19:24

TheKeatingFive · 27/02/2026 19:01

Men are responsible for the conduct of men.

Transwomem are men.

I disagree. Now I'm curious, are women responsible for the conduct of trans men?