This is the Mumsnet "Sex and Gender discussions" Board. That is why most if not all of the discussions are "trans related".
Why are you gratuitously posting stories about abusive relationships which have no relevance to the focus of this Board?
They are patently "off topic" and there are plenty of other Boards on Mumsnet where you could post them.
There is an A-Z list here:
https://www.mumsnet.com/talk