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Glinner Bullseye comment on X

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Thatcatsaflippingnightmare · 09/01/2026 20:41

Always trying to explain Glinner to DH, today he showed me on X JD Vance defending murder of the woman by ICE. Glinner had replied something like 'bullseye', as in agreement. I tried to comprehend with "satire?" but he said no he's on Liz truss show these days. I said well he's always been about protecting women and children, he's not suddenly supporting femicide, but the post convinced DH otherwise. Any insights? I'm not on social media

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ScholesPanda · 10/01/2026 16:29

LimpysGotCancer · 10/01/2026 16:19

@ScholesPanda who's his sister-in-law? (If you don't mind me asking.) I've heard mentions of disagreements with various Serafinowitzes, do they have a sister?

I thought Victoria Coren was his sister in law? Did I make that up? Apologies if I did.

UtopiaPlanitia · 10/01/2026 16:30

LimpysGotCancer · 10/01/2026 15:50

I'm not the one urging people to see things from their perspective, or writing about their carmaradarie as if there were bravely carrying on a noble struggle behind enemy lines.

These people aren't your everyday law enforcement officers with legitimacy, they are armed thugs who are terrorising US citizens in their own country. Many of them are literally convicted domestic terrorists. The latest video (of many) I've seen shows a gang of them storming up to an uninvolved bystander, abusing him and threatening to arrest him while shouting out completely fictional laws. This woman has every right to "mouth off" in fact I'd say it's every American's duty.

I'm m sorry if I've hit a nerve but if you "both sides" this kind of thing on a public forum, you can expect some pretty robust pushback.

You seem unable to understand what I’ve said and to be deliberately making out that I’m saying the opposite of what I’m saying.

I'm not the one urging people to see things from their perspective, or writing about their carmaradarie as if there were bravely carrying on a noble struggle behind enemy lines.

If this is what you got from me explaining what I’ve experienced in the past when being regularly intimidated, forced into compliance, and demeaned by armed soldiers and policemen who viewed me as their enemy, your reading comprehension is questionable.

HopeSpringsEternally · 10/01/2026 16:30

persephonia · 10/01/2026 14:44

I have friends who I disagree with on really fundamental issues including abortion, Brexit, tax. Its not the disagreeing with a political position that's the problem. It's the inability to see the point blank shooting of a woman by an armed pseudo police force as tragedy. There are people on the left who absolutely do that too. Eg people making excuses for the assault on KJK with a soup can.
It's hard to explain but its not the belief thats the problem its the tribalism. It's very obvious why Glinner would be succeptible to that. It doesn't make it OK though.

I'm not on X so can't read what he wrote about this incident.
If you are accusing him of something, you should include a quote from him so we can see what you are referring to at the very least.

TempestTost · 10/01/2026 16:30

LimpysGotCancer · 10/01/2026 16:16

Still going on about checkpoints and expecting to be treated as if you know what you're talking about, then?

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What do you know about checkpoints?

Saucery · 10/01/2026 16:40

ScholesPanda · 10/01/2026 16:29

I thought Victoria Coren was his sister in law? Did I make that up? Apologies if I did.

No, she isn’t. She has publicly requested that he leave her alone, however. And that he seeks help.
I’m disgusted by this latest development and whatever residual support I’ve had for him has vanished. I suppose he sees his future as being in the US but shameless toadying like this….he can get to fuck.
I championed his battle about gender issues, bought his book etc but unease did set in with the relentless substack cap in hand when it appeared women were doing the majority of the work for him. This has no ambiguity to it, it’s a cheap, misogynistic ‘win’ in his own mind.

WowFantastic · 10/01/2026 16:48

thirdfiddle · 10/01/2026 09:42

People make mistakes. Glinner has made tactless comments before and deleted them, I hope he will delete this one particularly if solid evidence emerges that the description of the event he was agreeing with was inaccurate. Even if he doesn't, people can be wrong about one thing and right about another, they do it all the time. There's pretty much nobody I'd trust to represent my position on all issues all the time.

As for the attempts to condemn GC views on the basis of anything GL does, it's just bizarre. He's not even a woman. I thank him for what he's done in support of the GC cause and I think he screwed up badly here taking the wrong person's word for what happened.

IF it had been the case that someone was deliberately driving a car at a pedestrian, it would be reasonable to agree with armed police action against them if still unfortunate that the outcome was a death.

He’s way beyond tactless. Take a look at the tweets he’s been posting and reposting recently, they’re hideous.

nicepotoftea · 10/01/2026 16:50

TempestTost · 10/01/2026 16:28

You know, there are times when there have been armed checkpoints in the UK. Even recently. You could certainly encounter them in parts of Europe. You can make all kinds of points or ask questions about whether they are justified or not.

That includes police checkpoints. And while police in the UK are often unarmed that's pretty unusual, it's not just an American thing. Have you ever travelled in Spain? They are quite common there. You can find these kinds of things in liberal democracies.

But if the state has decided to have such a thing, there are certain things that are the case and a huge one is that people are expected to comply with their legal direction to stop your vehicle, show your papers, get out of the car, etc. If the encounter is emotionally fraught good soldiers or officers will typically try to deescalate (and will have attempted to keep things calm in the first place), and this is where the lack of experience American officers have often shows in police encounters all over the country.

But that all stops once a car just drives off. You can't deescalate that, and you can't just let it go. Maybe they can chase the car with other vehicles or stop it that way if it just seems to be trying to escape. But if they drive at one of the soldiers or officers, the chance of an armed response is going to be very high no matter where you are, even in countries where they have really good training. Even in the UK.

It's a little ironic to be called naive when people seem to be talking from a really privileged position of never having worked in or had to be subject to this kind of check. Although its a bit surprising really that people in the UK would be so isolated from any memory of this.

My understanding was that the dispute happened because the car blocked the road. I didn’t think there was a checkpoint.

Are checkpoints now common in the US?

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 10/01/2026 16:52

UtopiaPlanitia · 10/01/2026 04:01

Bang on 👍

The childhood of a Gen Xer from Norn Iron is an interesting one to compare with people from other parts of ROI and GB 🤔

Even in the parts of the UK that had sectarianism (Glasgow, Liverpool, South Tyneside), we never had roadblocks. I'm glad all that seems to be over, touch wood.

I'm ignoring the bunfight that is the rest of this thread.

WowFantastic · 10/01/2026 16:54

TempestTost · 10/01/2026 15:23

I've done some training on working at checkpoints in the military. It's not anything I've ever done, not my wheelhouse, but it would be pretty much the same as the training police would get.

And no, shooting the tyres out would not be a thing. Nor is shooting someone in a limb. If you are shooting someone, you shoot as if they are a threat to life and you shoot to kill and you aim for the centre of mass.

I'm not crazy about sending these kinds of armed groups for this work, through I haven't dug into how they make their decisions about deploying them. But if you have a checkpoint, and someone drives off, you are then past the point of trying to defuse or deescalate. And the guys working the checkpoint frankly have no idea what the intentions or background of the person in the car is. Maybe she is a gobby idiot. Maybe she is intending to escape. Maybe she has drugs in the vehicle, or a bomb, or someone in her trunk. Maybe she is trying to use the car as a weapon. There is literally no way to know and the fact that it's a woman, or a lesbian, or a young person, or an old geezer, doesn't really tell you much.

Trying to drive through an armed police checkpoint seems mad to me and tbh that would be the case whether I was in the US or the UK or Spain or Japan.

What checkpoint? There was no checkpoint in this week’s event.

HopeSpringsEternally · 10/01/2026 17:13

RoyalCorgi · 10/01/2026 16:22

I think what's depressing for me is the lack of basic humanity. A 37-year old woman, a mum of three who was apparently well-loved and who wasn't doing anything wrong by normal standards, is brutally shot dead, and people can't even bring themselves to say that it's tragic or to feel sad for the three children and a wife she's left behind. What is wrong with people, seriously?

I don't even know how you argue with these people because if you don't even have a shared moral understanding that a woman's violent death is a tragedy to be mourned, then what is there even to argue about?

I think most people on here recognize this was a tragedy for the woman who was shot and her family but especially for her children - two of whom live with their father, her first husband. Her second husband and father of her youngest child passed away 2 years ago, so he is now an orphan at just six years of age.

This appears to be a protest gone wrong.
Good appears to have deliberately stopped her SUV perpendicular to traffic on a one-way street in an attempt to block armed ICE officers going about their business.

Her partner then got out of the car and started filming and taunting the ICE officers - not a smart move by any standard. Then an ICE agent ordered Good to get out of the car and tried to open the door but it was locked. She refused to do as instructed by law enforcement and her partner shouted at her to "drive baby drive" - the worst possible advice anyone could have given her in that moment. Good then reversed her car so that she could drive forward on a one-way street and into the path of another ICE officer who pulled out his gun and shot her.

Should he have shot her? No.
Did he think she would run him over? Possibly.
Someone else did six months ago which almost certainly resulted in his split-second decision to shoot.

It doesn't make it right but this is not the first time someone in the US has been shot for failing to obey an armed officer.

I was stopped by an armed officer in the US years ago for speeding while driving through a pitch-black nature reserve while trying to make my way back to the hotel after a day trip. I stopped as soon as I heard the siren and did exactly what the officer told me to because anything else would have been courting danger.

UtopiaPlanitia · 10/01/2026 17:15

WowFantastic · 10/01/2026 16:54

What checkpoint? There was no checkpoint in this week’s event.

In situations like this when you or your car is surrounded by armed men, and they feel you aren’t co-operating, you’ll be asked for your driving license/ID, they’ll run your numberplate through databases, they’ll ask you questions about who you are, where you’re going, what you’re doing. They’ll want you to get out of the vehicle to search it and search you. It’s effectively an ad hoc checkpoint. And it’s very intimidating and unpleasant.

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 10/01/2026 17:15

LimpysGotCancer · 10/01/2026 15:50

I'm not the one urging people to see things from their perspective, or writing about their carmaradarie as if there were bravely carrying on a noble struggle behind enemy lines.

These people aren't your everyday law enforcement officers with legitimacy, they are armed thugs who are terrorising US citizens in their own country. Many of them are literally convicted domestic terrorists. The latest video (of many) I've seen shows a gang of them storming up to an uninvolved bystander, abusing him and threatening to arrest him while shouting out completely fictional laws. This woman has every right to "mouth off" in fact I'd say it's every American's duty.

I'm m sorry if I've hit a nerve but if you "both sides" this kind of thing on a public forum, you can expect some pretty robust pushback.

These people aren't your everyday law enforcement officers with legitimacy, they are armed thugs who are terrorising US citizens in their own country.

From the perspective of republicans living in Northern Ireland:

The Royal Ulster Constabulary and British Army aren't your everyday law enforcement officers with legitimacy, they are an occupying force composed of armed thugs who are terrorising Irish citizens in their own country.

And they don't reliably know the difference between unionists and republicans, so the people from both factions were at risk of being shot at by the RUC and British Army.

That is what @UtopiaPlanitia grew up with, in what was a de facto war zone. Stop dismissing her experiences as somehow irrelevant and stop misrepresenting her as sympathising with ICE. She is describing a pragmatic approach to surviving an encounter with armed men who have the State's backing.

thatsthewayitis · 10/01/2026 17:16

BalladOfBarryAndFreda · 10/01/2026 15:23

Re the Washington DC murder rate and the National Guard. DC murder rates were on a downward trend before Trump called in the National Guard. The figures he used to justify the use of force were false (41 per 100,000). The highest they'd been in recent years was 39.4/100,000 in 2023 but had fallen consistently since then (27.3/100,000 in 2024). They fell again in the first half of 2025 (latest data) but not by the same proportion seen between 2023-2024. There's no evidence that the National Guard has made any impact on murder rates in DC. For a lawyer, you might want to examine your facts a little more closely.

https://counciloncj.org/crime-in-washington-dc-what-you-need-to-know/

Edited to add that the national guard were deployed to DC in August 2025 - so in fact there is no current official data on the impact on murder rates in DC

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This lawyer knows the DC police Chief was brought before Congress for manipulating crime data.
https://oversight.house.gov/release/oversight-committee-releases-bombshell-report-revealing-d-c-s-police-chief-deliberately-manipulated-crime-data/
And yes the DC murder rate is down
https://www.city-journal.org/article/new-york-times-trump-crime-national-guard
I saw plenty of black DC residents on x thrilled
and thanking the Guard.

Oversight Committee Releases Bombshell Report Revealing D.C.’s Police Chief Deliberately Manipulated Crime Data - United States House Committee on Oversight and Government Reform

United States House Committee on Oversight and Government Reform

https://oversight.house.gov/release/oversight-committee-releases-bombshell-report-revealing-d-c-s-police-chief-deliberately-manipulated-crime-data/

TempestTost · 10/01/2026 17:25

nicepotoftea · 10/01/2026 16:50

My understanding was that the dispute happened because the car blocked the road. I didn’t think there was a checkpoint.

Are checkpoints now common in the US?

I've heard some conflicting things about the car blocking the road. I've heard that it was an informal checkpoint, in the sense of it was set up temporarily not permanently.

However, if she had set up her car to block the road and the officers approached her then, it comes to the same thing in terms of managing the scene. The main difference would be that instead of thinking she was probably just a nice lady on her way somewhere, she was in fact a political protester. Who might be harmless, but also could be looking to do something more extreme. It weighs the calculation more towards it being a risky situation.

I don't know if checkpoints are common in the US, aside from border areas where they are set up permanently.

persephonia · 10/01/2026 17:27

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 10/01/2026 17:15

These people aren't your everyday law enforcement officers with legitimacy, they are armed thugs who are terrorising US citizens in their own country.

From the perspective of republicans living in Northern Ireland:

The Royal Ulster Constabulary and British Army aren't your everyday law enforcement officers with legitimacy, they are an occupying force composed of armed thugs who are terrorising Irish citizens in their own country.

And they don't reliably know the difference between unionists and republicans, so the people from both factions were at risk of being shot at by the RUC and British Army.

That is what @UtopiaPlanitia grew up with, in what was a de facto war zone. Stop dismissing her experiences as somehow irrelevant and stop misrepresenting her as sympathising with ICE. She is describing a pragmatic approach to surviving an encounter with armed men who have the State's backing.

But presumably the women who died didn't grow up in those conditions either. And if it's comparable then ICE officers are also
an occupying force composed of armed thugs who are terrorising Irish citizens in their own country

Surely that means the public outcry should be worse? And makes the people excusing the officers actions by trying to smear her or suggesting she was at fault for not acting like the men with guns were a hostile occupying force worse. It makes people spreading smears about her worse not better.

TempestTost · 10/01/2026 17:33

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 10/01/2026 17:15

These people aren't your everyday law enforcement officers with legitimacy, they are armed thugs who are terrorising US citizens in their own country.

From the perspective of republicans living in Northern Ireland:

The Royal Ulster Constabulary and British Army aren't your everyday law enforcement officers with legitimacy, they are an occupying force composed of armed thugs who are terrorising Irish citizens in their own country.

And they don't reliably know the difference between unionists and republicans, so the people from both factions were at risk of being shot at by the RUC and British Army.

That is what @UtopiaPlanitia grew up with, in what was a de facto war zone. Stop dismissing her experiences as somehow irrelevant and stop misrepresenting her as sympathising with ICE. She is describing a pragmatic approach to surviving an encounter with armed men who have the State's backing.

This.

It doesn't matter if people think there is some kind of philosophic legitimacy to the government sending out ICE groups. They have the legal authority to ask people to do things.

aberamagold · 10/01/2026 17:34

HopeSpringsEternally · 10/01/2026 16:30

I'm not on X so can't read what he wrote about this incident.
If you are accusing him of something, you should include a quote from him so we can see what you are referring to at the very least.

Edited

This.

TempestTost · 10/01/2026 17:34

persephonia · 10/01/2026 17:27

But presumably the women who died didn't grow up in those conditions either. And if it's comparable then ICE officers are also
an occupying force composed of armed thugs who are terrorising Irish citizens in their own country

Surely that means the public outcry should be worse? And makes the people excusing the officers actions by trying to smear her or suggesting she was at fault for not acting like the men with guns were a hostile occupying force worse. It makes people spreading smears about her worse not better.

I think maybe the point was the British were not in fact an illegal occupying force...

MyAmpleSheep · 10/01/2026 17:41

I'm still confused why the conversation has turned to checkpoints. Was this a checkpoint? Were they stopping all traffic? Were the people in the car under investigation for something? Suspects in a crime?

HopeSpringsEternally · 10/01/2026 17:49

MyAmpleSheep · 10/01/2026 17:41

I'm still confused why the conversation has turned to checkpoints. Was this a checkpoint? Were they stopping all traffic? Were the people in the car under investigation for something? Suspects in a crime?

The two women used their vehicle to block a one-way street where ICE officers were carrying out their duties. Good's new partner, Becca Good, said that they had whistles which suggests that they were using them to alert whoever the ICE agents were looking to arrest so that they could get away presumably.
Based on anything I've read, the pair appeared to be obstructing ICE officers doing their job in the belief that they had the moral high-ground.

Good's son attended a "social justice kindergarten" where the school administration actively encouraged staff to inform them of any ICE interventions.
That sounds like they were activists to me at least - I've never heard of a "social justice kindergarten" and I would never send a child to one.

UtopiaPlanitia · 10/01/2026 17:55

persephonia · 10/01/2026 17:27

But presumably the women who died didn't grow up in those conditions either. And if it's comparable then ICE officers are also
an occupying force composed of armed thugs who are terrorising Irish citizens in their own country

Surely that means the public outcry should be worse? And makes the people excusing the officers actions by trying to smear her or suggesting she was at fault for not acting like the men with guns were a hostile occupying force worse. It makes people spreading smears about her worse not better.

What happened to that woman was horrific and an almost inevitable consequence of the state giving its agents the ability to use lethal force. Something always goes wrong in these types of situations, so reducing the ways that state agents can harm citizens is sensible - I think policing by consent, by police who can’t deploy lethal force is the ideal.

When you are surrounded by men with guns, no matter how much you loathe them or vehemently disagree with them or consider them to be an imposition on your rights as a citizen or you hate them for terrifying you, you are more likely to get out of the situation alive and intact if you comply with their orders. They have all the power in that situation and they WILL use it against if you give them cause to claim they had no other choice open to them.

This has been my experience in interactions with both armed police officers, with armed soldiers and with armed paramilitaries.

nameychangey99 · 10/01/2026 18:00

UtopiaPlanitia · 10/01/2026 17:55

What happened to that woman was horrific and an almost inevitable consequence of the state giving its agents the ability to use lethal force. Something always goes wrong in these types of situations, so reducing the ways that state agents can harm citizens is sensible - I think policing by consent, by police who can’t deploy lethal force is the ideal.

When you are surrounded by men with guns, no matter how much you loathe them or vehemently disagree with them or consider them to be an imposition on your rights as a citizen or you hate them for terrifying you, you are more likely to get out of the situation alive and intact if you comply with their orders. They have all the power in that situation and they WILL use it against if you give them cause to claim they had no other choice open to them.

This has been my experience in interactions with both armed police officers, with armed soldiers and with armed paramilitaries.

My DS1 married an American and went to live in the US. The first thing his new FIL told him, to help him settle in to his new life, was 'If law enforcement pull you over: 1. turn off the engine 2. put your hands on the steering wheel where they can see them'.

He knew DS1 was at a dangerous disadvantage by not having been born into the US gun culture.

This event is a tragedy for everyone involved.

persephonia · 10/01/2026 18:13

nameychangey99 · 10/01/2026 18:00

My DS1 married an American and went to live in the US. The first thing his new FIL told him, to help him settle in to his new life, was 'If law enforcement pull you over: 1. turn off the engine 2. put your hands on the steering wheel where they can see them'.

He knew DS1 was at a dangerous disadvantage by not having been born into the US gun culture.

This event is a tragedy for everyone involved.

Back when I travelled for my job I had "security" training which involved, among other things, the correct way to interact with armed guards/soldiers/rebels at checkpoints and other situations. It was very useful and I absolutely agree it's good to know how to stay safe. But it's also very sad that the techniques I was advised to use when travelling to "bad" countries also apparently applies to American citizens in her own country. I actually think "speak respectfully to armed men and never get involved in any protests" is a good idea when travelling especially in dangerous or politically unstable countries. It's quite dangerous when politicians start saying that about their own countries because getting involved in protests for example is an important right, you lose that right if it excuses violent actions against you.

Plus, while I know the hands on the wheel advice is standard, presumably that doesn't apply anymore. Since having your hands on the wheel can also be a threat of violence.

nameychangey99 · 10/01/2026 18:19

Plus, while I know the hands on the wheel advice is standard, presumably that doesn't apply anymore. Since having your hands on the wheel can also be a threat of violence.

That's why #1 is Turn the Engine off

selffellatingouroborosofhate · 10/01/2026 18:22

persephonia · 10/01/2026 17:27

But presumably the women who died didn't grow up in those conditions either. And if it's comparable then ICE officers are also
an occupying force composed of armed thugs who are terrorising Irish citizens in their own country

Surely that means the public outcry should be worse? And makes the people excusing the officers actions by trying to smear her or suggesting she was at fault for not acting like the men with guns were a hostile occupying force worse. It makes people spreading smears about her worse not better.

That wooshing noise you heard over your head was my point.

When the State arms men and gives them a licence to shoot people, you do not do not do not provoke those men. Whether or not ICE agents are "everyday law enforcement officers with legitimacy" in your opinion or not, the State has given them guns and said they can use them. I raised the example of the RUC in NI, and how republicans regard them as an illegitimate occupying force, to try to illustrate how whether you agree with their legitimacy is completely irrelevant. If they feel like it, they can still kill you with near-impunity because it will probably be covered up.

Utopia has lived experience of this. So do all Americans, because their police are armed.

You don't challenge them to make a point. Defiance will get you killed. If you want to fight back, do it through the courts.

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