When I was the only woman working in an all-male environment - hang on, isn't that tautology or something, if I was the only woman, it was by definition a all-male..
I'll just get on with the story, shall I?
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if somebody I didn't know asked me 'Can I borrow your snips there, mate?' without looking up, and then clocked that I was a woman, I'd usually get a very flustered 'Oh I'm very sorry love!' as if calling me 'mate' was A Bad Thing.
Misgendering, years before it was invented.
However, when I lived in the East End of London, I found that women called each other 'mate' all the time.
On your other point, I agree that it's bad that children are being denied the opportunity to acquire resilience. It's not doing them any good, is it?🙄
It's good we lost some things from the past, e.g. so much deference to authority figures that they could do anything to you and you couldn't speak up; a stick or a strap in the corner as a threat; a clip around the ears; cod liver oil....😝
but society seems to swing to extremes, doesn't it?
Subjecting children to too much discipline swings to teaching children self-regulation is oppressive and cruel..
BTW I've just noticed your username and I'd like to assure you that I am 100% in agreement with anything you say, ever 😱
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