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Sara Morrison v BFF thread 4

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MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 14:41

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OpheliaWitchoftheWoods · 17/11/2025 16:15

BlueBarnOwl · 17/11/2025 16:10

"It's complex" - 10 points
"Do I have to" - 20 points

Thank God its not a drinking game. We'd all be completely sozzled.

ProfessorMyrtleLion · 17/11/2025 16:16

Right! I am going to watch crappy TV.

I'm sure you'll all talk amongst yourselves, but I might not read it.

ProfLargofesse · 17/11/2025 16:18

This is the Outburst email for reference

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ickky · 17/11/2025 16:18

Thanks @ProfessorMyrtleLion for your duty today.

Can I just say, when I put prof after the @ so many Profs came up. I think we are nearly a whole University with this may profs. 😂

CarefulN0w · 17/11/2025 16:21

TheRevDocProfKittyWilkinsonTSB · 17/11/2025 16:10

I bet MD was reporting Sara's crowd funder trying to get it taken down for calling MD a bastard and being mean.
Was it FWS crowd funder where it was frozen for a while and then comments were not allowed or was it someone else?

I’m thinking it might have been Maya or possibly Allison, but I’m not very sure. I do remember a bunch of us using the comments box to make a point about something or other which led to a funder being taken down and then only replaced without comments.

Sorry - as helpful as a fake professor, I know.

tartyflette · 17/11/2025 16:22

Ooh, mine was 'I promise to do my best, to do my duty to God and the Queen, and help others every day, especially those at home.'
(I think that might have been a local variation by Brown Owl, who clearly had an agenda.)
I was a lumpy not-so-sprightly Sprite.

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 17/11/2025 16:22

I spy thingy (i must go Google i spy)

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MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 16:25

NebulousProfessorSupportPostcard · 17/11/2025 16:14

I think the partner was brought into it to offer a reason for MD to have had no contact with that group since 2011 until early July 2023 when MD needed anti-Sara allies more than she needed to avoid her partner's ex?

Hmmm.... look, I've had some pretty messy break-ups in 'complex' situations myself, but after 14 flipping years, we'd all have well and truly got over it and it wouldn't be impacting on my professional life.

I'm not sure we needed to know about MD's 'complexities' with one organisation out of many, in 2011.

Some of these time-lapses are problematic for me - events in MD's love-life in 2011, McK's Union membership ending in 2018, DB's possible links at one or two removes with a pro-trans women's group in... 2015 was it?

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ProfLargofesse · 17/11/2025 16:30

ProfLargofesse · 17/11/2025 16:18

This is the Outburst email for reference

Basically, NC has made it possible to infer that MD colluded with Ruth from Outburst before she sent out her email because why else would Outburst be so quick off the mark to respond given how long it is since they collaborated and that there is good reason they avoid such.

It might be reasonable to infer that MD was shown it before it was sent.

That MD consipired, in effect, with Outburst and two others to engineer a useful trail of complaints to meet employment law requirements for an investigation.

This is why her response to questioning about the tee-shirt, whilst it might seem on the surface to MD as a stretch, she revealed something without realising it.

When asked if she should have been investigated her immediate reply was 'there were no complaints.' Why would that be the first thought in response? You would see that NC is trying to create a parallel and if you weren't up to your neck in BS your answer would be more likely to be: but I didn't name specific groups and attack their intergrity in public, for example

It is easy to infer that at the forefront of her mind is the advice she got re investigations that they are only really justifiable if there had been complaints.

So she go got them.

weegielass · 17/11/2025 16:30

vearing slightly off topic but how many fkn 'michael mckeowns' are there in the wee town/village of newbry in NI? I mean....jeezo

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 17/11/2025 16:31

MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 16:25

Hmmm.... look, I've had some pretty messy break-ups in 'complex' situations myself, but after 14 flipping years, we'd all have well and truly got over it and it wouldn't be impacting on my professional life.

I'm not sure we needed to know about MD's 'complexities' with one organisation out of many, in 2011.

Some of these time-lapses are problematic for me - events in MD's love-life in 2011, McK's Union membership ending in 2018, DB's possible links at one or two removes with a pro-trans women's group in... 2015 was it?

I guess it may be useful to underline the very tenuous relationship BFF has witb Outburst ie they did not collaborate for 10+ years (NC stages this is for personal rather than professional/commercial reasons) and then, with one email MD is expected and does view their objection far more favourably and with a greater degree of care than for her employee that she's worked closely with for years.

ProfLargofesse · 17/11/2025 16:33

MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 16:25

Hmmm.... look, I've had some pretty messy break-ups in 'complex' situations myself, but after 14 flipping years, we'd all have well and truly got over it and it wouldn't be impacting on my professional life.

I'm not sure we needed to know about MD's 'complexities' with one organisation out of many, in 2011.

Some of these time-lapses are problematic for me - events in MD's love-life in 2011, McK's Union membership ending in 2018, DB's possible links at one or two removes with a pro-trans women's group in... 2015 was it?

I think the point was to demonstrate the likelihood of MD having colluded with Outburst to send that email because given the absence of collaboration over such a long time and the likely explanation for that even though they are both directors (so why wouldn't they be collaborating all the time) why would Ruth from Outburst even bother to reply? It is extremely odd in that context and reasonable to infer some other motivation ie collusion.

Cailleach1 · 17/11/2025 16:34

One could almost imagine that the email to all the groups was sent so they could all make their complaints. One could almost imagine they may have been aware of that, giving them a platform to condemn SM. This amassing of complaints (completely out of the blue) could then be used with plausible deniability of any encouragement by the upright MD and Co. Not saying that is what happened. One can never know for sure unless someone honest pipes up. Then again (in my opinion) someone like that wouldn’t have engaged in such a fit up in the first place.

Maybe it is just me that would be suspicious of a stitch up. I have no doubt that these people are exemplary professionals whose behaviour is imbued with great integrity, despite how they strike one in the ET.

CriticalCondition · 17/11/2025 16:36

I wouldn't be surprised if the partner/ex/Outburst jigsaw pieces which Naomi put together form part of a bigger picture we only get to see later.

MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 16:42

ProfessorOfAllTheThings · 17/11/2025 16:31

I guess it may be useful to underline the very tenuous relationship BFF has witb Outburst ie they did not collaborate for 10+ years (NC stages this is for personal rather than professional/commercial reasons) and then, with one email MD is expected and does view their objection far more favourably and with a greater degree of care than for her employee that she's worked closely with for years.

I see what you mean, and take your point and all that, but there's plenty of other evidence that MD manufactured the reaction. I'm not sure that a reference to MD's private life in 2011 is warranted.

Is the suggestion that her horror at SM's terfitude was such that it even enabled her to talk to with her partner's ex after 14 years of avoiding each other....in Belfast? where everybody knows everybody, even moreso in the L&G community I'm not convinced.
But NC is usually 'dead-on' so it may be shown to be very relevant and totally warranted.Smile

If I was MD I'd be even more hacked off at NC now, that's for sure!

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PrettyDamnCosmic · 17/11/2025 16:45

MarieDeGournay · 17/11/2025 16:25

Hmmm.... look, I've had some pretty messy break-ups in 'complex' situations myself, but after 14 flipping years, we'd all have well and truly got over it and it wouldn't be impacting on my professional life.

I'm not sure we needed to know about MD's 'complexities' with one organisation out of many, in 2011.

Some of these time-lapses are problematic for me - events in MD's love-life in 2011, McK's Union membership ending in 2018, DB's possible links at one or two removes with a pro-trans women's group in... 2015 was it?

I suspect that Naomi took this line of questioning to discomfort MD by letting her know that she had been deeply researched & that the Claimant's side had the receipts.

ProfLargofesse · 17/11/2025 16:46

Cailleach1 · 17/11/2025 16:34

One could almost imagine that the email to all the groups was sent so they could all make their complaints. One could almost imagine they may have been aware of that, giving them a platform to condemn SM. This amassing of complaints (completely out of the blue) could then be used with plausible deniability of any encouragement by the upright MD and Co. Not saying that is what happened. One can never know for sure unless someone honest pipes up. Then again (in my opinion) someone like that wouldn’t have engaged in such a fit up in the first place.

Maybe it is just me that would be suspicious of a stitch up. I have no doubt that these people are exemplary professionals whose behaviour is imbued with great integrity, despite how they strike one in the ET.

I think in ETs and trials the panel are allowed to infer things because people will lie. I don't think, unlike USA courtroom dramas, it is necessary for someone to make a confession in the stress of the moment.

But if something useful is entered into evidence through testimony NC can invite the panel to infer something from what is present. This inference will depend in large part on the panel's view of the witness's credibility.

If MD had been calm and consistant she would be more credible. I think ET judges allow some room for the stress of being giving evidence.

It is quite clear to me that when MD was being asked if she should be investigated in the same way they planned to investigate SM for wearing that trans inclusive feminist tee out at a public event and instead of replying with something credible ie I didn't attack treasured members by name, she went completely off piste 'I welcome investigation...called a bastard' which was an attempt at misdirection before saying 'There were no complaints'

And by making that assertion making it clear that she knew an investigation required something more to be feasible within Employment Law settings, and what would justify it was complaints.

And so she went and engineered complaints because for all the twitter stuff no one had actually complained. To ensure that she got complaints it is possible to infer from the cc action and the next day responses, all quite similar and only three (and the exclusion of two positive emails which MD did not include in her WS) and one from an organisation that hasn't worked with BFF in any capacity for over a decade it is reasonable to infer collusion.

And if you infer that the complaints were engineered to satisfy the process it is reasonable to infer that the investigation was being forced into being in order to sack SM.

And there you have constructive dismissal, hostile working environment and harassment.

Negroany · 17/11/2025 16:47

TheRevDocProfKittyWilkinsonTSB · 17/11/2025 15:31

Doesn't NIPSA have a retired members branch?
Odd that the Judge says MM is no longer a member, yet he is on the panel for the trade union side?
Most unions have a branch for retired members. Yet he is claiming not to have anything to do with unions these days? I suppose it tops up his pensions nicely. Another grifter.

You can apply to be a tribunal panel member no matter what your background, and when you apply you are asked if you would be "employer" or "employee" side. The latter tends to be union staff, either current, or ex. They don't have to be from a union and they certainly don't have to be current staff, reps or even members.

Er side can be anyone too, usually people who have had management experience.

When I say "you can apply....", they are currently recruiting and it's the first time for fifteen years, and you've missed the deadline, so you can't....but one was able to!

busybusybusy2015 · 17/11/2025 16:50

I Spy books were wonderful. Kept children quiet in the car for hours. I think they cost sixpence. There was even a (cough) "Big Chief I Spy" who sent you a badge if you wrote to him. Still got mine somewhere!

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Shortshriftandlethal · 17/11/2025 16:53

SqueakyDinosaur · 17/11/2025 16:03

MD is coming across to me as extremely truculent and really not nice. I'm all in favour of women not feeling obliged to be nice, but I'm not sure she's doing herself (or BFF) any favours here.

It's almost as if she assumes the judge will be sympathetic to her attitude; otherwise you'd think she'd be more respectful in court.

SexRealistic · 17/11/2025 16:56

@ProfessorMyrtleLion I actually cannot deal with the name changes 🤣

busybusybusy2015 · 17/11/2025 16:57

On a serious note, thank you to everybody here for the most extraordinary reporting skills and insights. I am in awe.

moto748e · 17/11/2025 16:57

busybusybusy2015 · 17/11/2025 16:50

I Spy books were wonderful. Kept children quiet in the car for hours. I think they cost sixpence. There was even a (cough) "Big Chief I Spy" who sent you a badge if you wrote to him. Still got mine somewhere!

Do they still exist? I had loads.

SexRealistic · 17/11/2025 16:58

ickky · 17/11/2025 15:01

<Shoulders her way to the front of the bragging queue>

I got a certificate for swimming one mile in a swimming pool gala.

I think and I'm sure you will all agree, that it means I can now claim to have swum the Atlantic in February in record time with nary a break. 😁

One quick verification question:

What size if your screen? 📺

ProfessorBoiledbeetle · 17/11/2025 17:02

busybusybusy2015 · 17/11/2025 16:50

I Spy books were wonderful. Kept children quiet in the car for hours. I think they cost sixpence. There was even a (cough) "Big Chief I Spy" who sent you a badge if you wrote to him. Still got mine somewhere!

We didn't have a car growing up

Sad times

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