Yes, it really is heartbreaking to think of the irreversible damage that some young adults have done to their bodies @HagsRule 😔
As an addendum to my post when I pulled myself up on the use of "young people" instead of "young adults", it's obfuscatory language like this which creates blurred boundaries. On a personal note, I have found it increasingly difficult to protect my daughter from gender identity belief becoming conflated with her autism-related puberty distress since she turned 16. Both the education and medical systems seem to forget that she is a child and I'm increasingly being told that at 16 she can determine her own pathway.
Last week there was a particularly shocking example where a CAMHS psychiatrist who we had not met before was doing a routine review of my daughter's anti-anxiety meds. During the appointment she asked my daughter her pronouns, referred to the subject of gender identity and on multiple occasions asked my daughter if she wanted her dad to leave the room - she was told by the psychiatrist that at 16 she could make her own choices about her care. At the start of the appointment, my daughter was asked if she wanted her dad to accompany her to the appointment and she said yes. Given the sole purpose of the appointment was the medication review, the psychiatrist acted completely inappropriately and I can only assume that she wanted my husband out of the room so she could explore the topic of gender identity more with my daughter. There was no good reason whatsoever for her to introduce this topic in the appointment. I have complained and asked for this psychiatrist to be removed from my daughter's care team - she's an outlier in what otherwise has been a good experience once my daughter entered CAMHS' care. We were nearing the end of the period where CAMHS oversees the meds anyway, as prescribing is now done by her GP, so in parallel I've contacted the GP and asked how my daughter can complete the full transfer of care to him.
She's in a school which actively coerces children to believe in gender identity - they tell children that it's "respectful" and "kind" to use preferred pronouns, whilst at the same time they refuse to follow the paragraphs in the KCSIE guidance which recognise that there may be underlying reasons (such as autism) why a child has become gender questioning. Should she end up being pulled into the world of gender identity belief that the school seems determined to foster, and should she encounter more medical professionals like the one last week, at 16 she would be able to access cross-sex hormones without the need for parental involvement in any discussions.
Another example of blurred boundaries is youth groups which bring children and adults together as "young people" e.g. with age ranges from 14-25.
To pull this back to the theme of the thread**, the phrase "young people" is as unhelpful as "pregnant people" on Martine Croxall's autocue. The BBC should be praising her for correcting an unhelpful bias on the autocue and upholding the importance of clear language, not punishing her for supposed wrongthink.
** Apologies for the derail but I wanted to share why Martine Croxall's treatment for upholding clear, meaningful language had struck such a personal chord.