I love this article. I especially love that they take apart the “but what if the TIM passes?” argument, and point out that that makes it worse not better!
“Think about its power to undermine the certainty of an already traumatised woman that the woman she is dealing with at any given moment is truly a woman. If you’re not shocked by the sadistic, gas-lighting cruelty of that, you’re not doing the thinking bit right. Think harder. Think about it until you are shocked.”