"But by having gender reassignment surgery most of these people are making themselves less attractive to the opposite sex, and completely redundant in terms of reproduction by basing their gender presentation on the sex they need to be copulating with in order to reproduce. That’s not to mention sterility or hormonal problems caused by taking cross sex hormones."
While that might be true, that doesn't change the underlying inclination towards gender expression. Repressing a drive that's inherently part of you usually doesn't end well in terms of psychological health.
"I don’t see many TW desperately trying to take on their share of mundane child rearing and domestic tasks. Yes some of them want to be able to chest feed a newborn baby <shudder> but that’s not the same as the drudge of being biologically responsible for birthing a child and the reduced opportunities in the rest of life due to time out of work, expectations of being the primary carer, physical and mental health impacts on women from motherhood etc."
There are other ways of being nurturing other than motherhood & given trans women can't give birth they don't really have that option. In terms of trans women having the same experiences as mothers, well you could say the same about millions of women who aren't.
"We see plenty of aggression from TWs and them trying to procure OUR resources but women are trying to protect each other by campaigning against this nonsense."
You could say the same about The Suffragettes.
"Again, where is the evidence of TWs or TMs trying to build communities and rear children?"
Evolved behaviours were based on millions of years of environmental & social limitations. The point is as our environmental & social pressures have changed we have adapted these behaviours to them. Cooperation, reciprocity, nurturing, agreeability & sensitivities aren't just confined to ancient tribal living. Women in particular have been a driving force in civil rights & social cohesion that many illiberal types refer to to The Feminsation of Society. The point being typical female behavioural traits aren't limited to their traditional roles.
"Please make any of this make sense?! All I see is men acting like men, being aggressive, demanding women shove over and make room, do their emotional labour for them and tiptoe around them trying not to make them angry. The only difference is they are doing it in a bad wig and party frock."
It's amazing how aggressive shrinking violets can get when their rights are on the line. Ring any bells?