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Muslim charity run

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Thomasina79 · 12/10/2025 08:10

Has banned women and girls over the age of 12 from participating. Thoughts?

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SpaceRaccoon · 12/10/2025 18:01

Exactly - so British culture - whatever you think that isa has survived all of those waves of immigration. Why are you worried now?

Tbf people would have been very worried at some of the other immigration waves as well - the Viking invasion can't have been much fun, for instance. Just because it happened doesn't mean that it was good at the time and an argument for more.

IdaGlossop · 12/10/2025 18:01

Livelovebehappy · 12/10/2025 17:53

Don’t be silly. Not everything is about ‘Muslims’. Yes, people are concerned about large numbers of men coming here from countries where they treat the women there badly, reflected in the way they speak to women and young girls when they’re out and about, in a way that suggests it’s normal for them to treat women in a derogatory manner. Thats not ‘anti Muslim’. It’s about saying we don’t want people like that living amongst us. We’ve fought for years for our right to be treated as equals, yet our government seems to be happy to allow men to come here, with a mindset that is trying to erode that, and who are trying to knock us back down. How long before women are told not to call these men out on this for the good of ‘multi culturism’.

Of course not everything is about Muslims. But the involvement of far right groups is. Unlike members of the community around each hotel, whose lives are being directly impacted and whose daughters are at risk, the people (mainly men) who target neighbourhoods are motivated by racism, in this case brieg anti-Muslim. The traits you describe are the traits of men brought up in muslim-majority countries where women are not respected.

Trendyname · 12/10/2025 18:01

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 09:02

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.bbc.com/news/magazine-38833804.amp

This is the lady I saw saying it..I am trying to find a direct quote. I saw her say it on telly years ago when she was talking about the issue and the presenter was like "one thing to clear up, you're not Muslim are you, and this still happened to you." And then she spoke about the caste system and that Hindus and Sikhs live with similar issues and inequality as Muslims but nobody cares.

Please don’t drag Hindus in your debate because you have an agenda. We don’t have that problem anymore, not to the degree it will be considered a Hindu problem, considering how many of us exist. Honestly you know nothing about us. Just posting opinion of one person or few people is not real data. What religion / background are you from?

Livelovebehappy · 12/10/2025 18:01

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 17:58

Totally different, and irrelevant. But you probably know that….

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 18:02

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 18:00

Like what?

The Test and corporation Acts of 1661 for example that required communion with the Church of England to hold public office - this was slowly chipped away at from around 1828.

Really you can do your own research.

DrBlackbird · 12/10/2025 18:03

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 16:47

The trouble is, men who are using Islam to oppress women in this country are excused because of “cultural and religious freedom” Islam was designed with certain goals. Embedded within its structure is the control of women.

Well, all the major religions are designed to cement a patriarchal structure to control women. I’d say it does become problematic when we are not allowed to criticise any religions. No group should become a sacred caste.

Can’t remember who posted the following, but I would agree that It is only by ensuring the separation of religion and state that we protect and affirm the hard worn rights of women and girls in this country. Took a long time to force Christianity out of English government. I wouldn’t want it to be replaced by any other religion or see secularism to be eroded one way or another.

Secularism is the only framework that protects diverse beliefs by refusing to privilege one over others. Multiculturalism becomes unworkable without shared secular values, without it pluralism devolves into tribalism and institutional capture. When religious values infiltrate governance, they fracture the rule of law, erode individual rights, and undermine social cohesion by creating competing moral orders.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 18:03

Livelovebehappy · 12/10/2025 18:01

Totally different, and irrelevant. But you probably know that….

Oh Merry Mouse has rocked up think ming she has a load of “gotcha” moments - all falling flat on their face

Allisnotlost1 · 12/10/2025 18:05

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 17:56

The multitude of laws regarding the place of Christianity in people’s lives and state.

Feel free to cite one, and explain to me why the majority of Britons - who are not Christian - should have their lives governed by it.

Bigpinksweater · 12/10/2025 18:06

intrepidpanda · 12/10/2025 17:43

I hope loads of women register as males and turn up identifying as a man.

Yes seeing as Humza etc are apparently so tolerant and supportive of trans rights, there should be zero issue

BernardBlacksMolluscs · 12/10/2025 18:07

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 14:09

You are not as liberal as you think trust me.
As we've seen with the comments about the "poor uneducated muslim women"

you seem confused

who is this 'you' you're addressing? I have said no such thing

Bigpinksweater · 12/10/2025 18:08

DrBlackbird · 12/10/2025 18:03

Well, all the major religions are designed to cement a patriarchal structure to control women. I’d say it does become problematic when we are not allowed to criticise any religions. No group should become a sacred caste.

Can’t remember who posted the following, but I would agree that It is only by ensuring the separation of religion and state that we protect and affirm the hard worn rights of women and girls in this country. Took a long time to force Christianity out of English government. I wouldn’t want it to be replaced by any other religion or see secularism to be eroded one way or another.

Secularism is the only framework that protects diverse beliefs by refusing to privilege one over others. Multiculturalism becomes unworkable without shared secular values, without it pluralism devolves into tribalism and institutional capture. When religious values infiltrate governance, they fracture the rule of law, erode individual rights, and undermine social cohesion by creating competing moral orders.

I would argue that secularism is the best framework but we also need to protect British culture because without it, we leave a vacuum which will naturally be filled by the biggest and most determined group - and in the cause of Middle Eastern culture, the culture goes hand in hand with the religion, so Islam is an inevitable consequence. You can’t fight against something if there is no alternative.

Allisnotlost1 · 12/10/2025 18:08

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 17:55

I very rarely eat in a vegan restaurant, I last ate in a fully vegan restaurant in spring 2024 in NY as it was a highly recommended restaurant. I would rather sit with my friends and family and mix with them. I feel no need to mix only with vegans or use my own philosophy to restrict a private choice like what to eat. Within western society restaurants typically serve a mixture of foods. I’m more than happy to go with the social norms and mix with a variety of people. Why would I only want to mix with Vegans? How utterly bizarre..

Buying a vegan cookery book is distinctly different thing. This is something I would use for me in the privacy of my own home and would have no bearing on others. If people cane for dinner who are meat I would probably cook them a spaghetti Bol or roast dinner or something

I hear you - if your choice is between eating alone in a vegan restaurant or eating with others somewhere else, of course you’d choose the latter. It’s a shame your friends/family don’t want to go to somewhere that has an abundance of choice for you though. I’ve eaten in vegan restaurants (I’m not vegan) because I enjoy trying different things.

Livelovebehappy · 12/10/2025 18:08

IdaGlossop · 12/10/2025 18:01

Of course not everything is about Muslims. But the involvement of far right groups is. Unlike members of the community around each hotel, whose lives are being directly impacted and whose daughters are at risk, the people (mainly men) who target neighbourhoods are motivated by racism, in this case brieg anti-Muslim. The traits you describe are the traits of men brought up in muslim-majority countries where women are not respected.

But these people protesting aren’t re-acting because the men in these centres are Muslims. They’re doing so because of the way they are disrespecting women, and disrespecting our values. It just so happens that most of the men are Muslims. And I don’t condone any group of people being attacked or threatened, but I do condone bad values and a low moral compass to be called out, to highlight the fact that these men do not belong here.

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 18:09

Livelovebehappy · 12/10/2025 18:01

Totally different, and irrelevant. But you probably know that….

The muslim running group that has been linked (not the fun run) seems to have been created to encourage participation, whereas I think this is more about Christianity, but apart from that the point is that it's not unusual to form a running group for people who share another interest.

I think that perhaps people haven't clicked through and read about the aims of the muslim running group, and that is fair enough, but as far as I can see it's designed to encourage integration.

Allisnotlost1 · 12/10/2025 18:10

SpaceRaccoon · 12/10/2025 18:01

Exactly - so British culture - whatever you think that isa has survived all of those waves of immigration. Why are you worried now?

Tbf people would have been very worried at some of the other immigration waves as well - the Viking invasion can't have been much fun, for instance. Just because it happened doesn't mean that it was good at the time and an argument for more.

True - and I agree to an extent. But we’re still ‘British’ right? And that seems to be what the pp is worried about.

wishitwasntme123 · 12/10/2025 18:11

RedToothBrush · 12/10/2025 08:22

Did you really just ask that question?

They aren't allowed, in case you don't know

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 18:11

DrBlackbird · 12/10/2025 18:03

Well, all the major religions are designed to cement a patriarchal structure to control women. I’d say it does become problematic when we are not allowed to criticise any religions. No group should become a sacred caste.

Can’t remember who posted the following, but I would agree that It is only by ensuring the separation of religion and state that we protect and affirm the hard worn rights of women and girls in this country. Took a long time to force Christianity out of English government. I wouldn’t want it to be replaced by any other religion or see secularism to be eroded one way or another.

Secularism is the only framework that protects diverse beliefs by refusing to privilege one over others. Multiculturalism becomes unworkable without shared secular values, without it pluralism devolves into tribalism and institutional capture. When religious values infiltrate governance, they fracture the rule of law, erode individual rights, and undermine social cohesion by creating competing moral orders.

I’m not quite sure you have understood the point. But multiculturalism doesn’t work at all, whether a country is secular or not. In order for a society to work it needs to have a dominant culture so its participants aspire to the same norms a values. Shared rituals and reference points are virtual for social cohesion. In Britain the culture has for over 1500 years been based on Christianity. Even if the country is “secular” Christianity is so embedded within our history, art, architecture, laws, language and our world view, it is the unifying culture of Britain.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 18:13

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 18:09

The muslim running group that has been linked (not the fun run) seems to have been created to encourage participation, whereas I think this is more about Christianity, but apart from that the point is that it's not unusual to form a running group for people who share another interest.

I think that perhaps people haven't clicked through and read about the aims of the muslim running group, and that is fair enough, but as far as I can see it's designed to encourage integration.

What by rejecting British values?

wishitwasntme123 · 12/10/2025 18:13

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Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 18:13

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 18:03

Oh Merry Mouse has rocked up think ming she has a load of “gotcha” moments - all falling flat on their face

Not gotchas, just trying to enable informed debate by giving examples of running clubs for people who share a particular interest. I understand why people are concerned about the fun run, but genuinely don't understand why some people are upset about a muslim running club that does encourage women to run and also welcomes non muslims.

wishitwasntme123 · 12/10/2025 18:15

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 18:13

Not gotchas, just trying to enable informed debate by giving examples of running clubs for people who share a particular interest. I understand why people are concerned about the fun run, but genuinely don't understand why some people are upset about a muslim running club that does encourage women to run and also welcomes non muslims.

Where are non Muslims encouraged?

wishitwasntme123 · 12/10/2025 18:18

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 18:15

Are we talking at cross purposes? I'm really unclear how https://activeinclusionnetwork.com is rejecting British values.

None of the Muslim runners have their faces or hair covered. You can be are they are the progressive Muslims that won't be blowing you up. That are the doctors and engineers, or children of legal immigrants. They aren't in receipt of benefits and in social housing (25% of Muslims are and 80% Muslim Pakistani women don't work).

IdaGlossop · 12/10/2025 18:18

Livelovebehappy · 12/10/2025 18:08

But these people protesting aren’t re-acting because the men in these centres are Muslims. They’re doing so because of the way they are disrespecting women, and disrespecting our values. It just so happens that most of the men are Muslims. And I don’t condone any group of people being attacked or threatened, but I do condone bad values and a low moral compass to be called out, to highlight the fact that these men do not belong here.

The disrespecting of women is directly tied to the men being Muslim. Alongside the protests in neighbourhoods not their own are the rantings of Tommy Robinson, tasteless jokes about bacon, and the parading of a pig on a lead down the street. If the men in the hotels were Jewish, there wouldn't be the protests because there wouldn't be the disrespectful behaviour towards women.

Typo

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 18:20

wishitwasntme123 · 12/10/2025 18:15

Where are non Muslims encouraged?

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