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Muslim charity run

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Thomasina79 · 12/10/2025 08:10

Has banned women and girls over the age of 12 from participating. Thoughts?

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Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 16:58

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 16:51

Why is there a need for Muslim runners groups, why not integrate and join a park run?

Perhaps people in this group also do park run?

The aim of the organisation is to support people from under represented communities to take part in outdoor activities.

Allisnotlost1 · 12/10/2025 16:58

JudgeJ · 12/10/2025 16:54

That would require the desire to integrate.

And a desire to welcome and respect others’ differences. Which isn’t always guaranteed. Surely you can see why people who are minorities seek out places where they feel safe?

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 16:59

BundleBoogie · 12/10/2025 16:55

So if this had ‘developed from a men’s scripture group’ as you suggest, why does that make it ok to specifically exclude women and girls of 12+ from this ‘family fun day’?

How many other UK events and groups do you think should be exempt from UK law and basic standards on how women are treated?

And why is there a men’s scripture group in the first place? What aims are there to make it proportionate for women to be excluded from it?

Bigpinksweater · 12/10/2025 16:59

IdaGlossop · 12/10/2025 16:48

I agree with all of this. The rape gang scandal is an example of state failure on a massive scale. To defend our own culture, we need to be much more aware of its Christian roots so we know what we are defending.

We defending sex equality, LGB equality, a country free from torture or public executions, where religion is not forced upon people, and where free speech is as abundant as practicable.

In terms of traditions we are defending our beautiful green countryside which is the food source and lungs of the country, a way of life that has been pretty universal for centuries - things you don’t have to participate in but equally should be protected and available for others - drinking alcohol (in the form of pubs and bars), local cuisine (not halal everything or relentless takeovers by ‘global’ food markets), events we consider traditional (Christmas, Easter, May Day for those who celebrate it etc - basically just prioritising these events in terms of Council funding where applicable), an understanding that any new building must be built in a style in keeping with the local area, and no translators at the beck and call of the non-English speaking public whenever they need something as basic as a GP appointment.

Public calls to prayer should be banned, and I am also in favour of keeping church bells reasonably muted and only tolling at convenient times aka not at night or right next to a hospital etc.

Our historical buildings should receive priority funding, and new places of worship should self fund using existing buildings. They should not make up more than 5% of the number of churches we have.

Essentially if you want to come to the UK and implement your culture you can do it privately and at your own expense, and it should be limited so as not to radically outweigh ours.

BundleBoogie · 12/10/2025 17:00

WeeGeeBored · 12/10/2025 14:17

No it isn’t. How offensive.

Apparently 85 sharia courts operating in the UK (the Mayor did not refute this number).

A million new Muslims in the country since 2011 bringing the total to approx 4 million. Thats a very fast rise.

I’d read up on this topic a bit more before you continue making so many incorrect statements.

www.london.gov.uk/who-we-are/what-london-assembly-does/questions-mayor/find-an-answer/sharia-courts

ClaredeBear · 12/10/2025 17:01

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 08:33

No i am not the organiser. I just don't think it is illegal or more noteworthy than what our British men are up to. If Muslim women are upset and require support to challenge this, then I am there with them. Doesn't seem like they mind unless you can point to Muslim women speaking about how problematic this is?

If not, I am sure they can join the thousands of organised running events we do have that welcome everyone.

I can see Muslim women on social media saying they’re are ashamed of this. A quick search on social media is all you need. Are you sure you’re not an organiser?

Livelovebehappy · 12/10/2025 17:05

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 16:51

Why is there a need for Muslim runners groups, why not integrate and join a park run?

Exactly. Not sure a ‘white British’ runners group would get off the starting block. We should not allow misogyny to seep into any part of our culture and society. The problem being that whilst it might be said that they are surpressing the rights of Muslim women, it goes much wider than that. I see it everyday in interactions I have in my job with Muslim men. I’m a white woman but Muslim men also treat me with disdain, trying to belittle and intimidate. It’s ingrained into them from birth to treat women as second class citizens. It affects all women, not just women from their own culture. So whilst some Muslim women might accept it as part of their culture, to allow it also invites that behaviour towards all women.

IdaGlossop · 12/10/2025 17:07

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 12/10/2025 16:57

I grew up in Rotherham. It’s a bit of a hot button topic for me.
The problem is so insidious there, and so normalised, and so excused.
I went to school with girls who were abused by these men. I went to school with children who were products of their mum’s abuse in the 80’s. I went to school with children who were spirited away to Pakistan while we were 13 and came back “married”, waiting for their spouse to arrive after we left school. I grew up with children who were forced by their families to starve themselves of food and water in the hottest summer days to prove their dedication to their religion. I grew up with girls not allowed to go to college once we left school because they had been married off to cousins years before. I grew up with boys who were beaten at Mosque and winced in pain when they sat for our maths lessons.
I grew up with the constant feeling of guilt because I thought all these things were wrong but everything I was told was that it was all ok, it was their culture and it was racist to think otherwise.

I read the Jay report when it was first published. Your post has brought back the shock I felt at the time. Even now, there seems to be little political will to address the many issues it raises. How awful for you to have witnessed what you did as a child.

Allisnotlost1 · 12/10/2025 17:09

Bigpinksweater · 12/10/2025 16:22

I agree completely.

I find it very hard that people have an inherent expectation that our small, distinct island should dismantle its heritage and become a multicultural smorgasbord to accommodate others, while their heritage is safely and vigorously defended in their country of origin.

Our small island is a smorgasbord of multiculturalism. It’s pointless to argue against hundreds of years of history.

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 17:11

Allisnotlost1 · 12/10/2025 16:58

And a desire to welcome and respect others’ differences. Which isn’t always guaranteed. Surely you can see why people who are minorities seek out places where they feel safe?

But they are running through a public park that they have graciously said women ( apparently including female children of 13+)are allowed in I can’t see how this will make anyone who feels threatened “safe” or is it strength in numbers?

BundleBoogie · 12/10/2025 17:11

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 14:34

What are these basic rights.
I would argue there are far more muslim women that have basic rights than the ones that don't.
Remember not every muslim country is afghanistan

Afghanistan 45 million
Pakistan 251 million
Iran 92 million
Iraq 47 million
Syria 26 million
Somalia 19 million
Turkey 87 million
Algeria 47 million

And that’s just the populations of a few of the majority Muslim countries. In these countries above women have either no rights or severely curtailed rights. That’s a lot of women.

Allisnotlost1 · 12/10/2025 17:13

MyHeartyCoralSnail · 12/10/2025 17:11

But they are running through a public park that they have graciously said women ( apparently including female children of 13+)are allowed in I can’t see how this will make anyone who feels threatened “safe” or is it strength in numbers?

Are you taking about the charity race now or the Muslim runners group?

Insanityisnotastrategy · 12/10/2025 17:16

Allisnotlost1 · 12/10/2025 16:53

Why is it depressing? People with different interests group together and interact. People out drinking aren’t going to be doing so with people whose religion forbids it are they? People will shop where they can buy the things they want and where they feel comfortable. Those places won’t always appeal to everyone. Instead both groups respect each others choices.

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I can't even be bothered to explain why this obviously depressing description of an atomised society coping by ignoring the multiple elephants in the room, is depressing.

Bigpinksweater · 12/10/2025 17:17

Allisnotlost1 · 12/10/2025 17:09

Our small island is a smorgasbord of multiculturalism. It’s pointless to argue against hundreds of years of history.

So is every country in the world if you go back 500, 1000 years. Should nobody be entitled to retain heritage in any way despite the wishes of the population?

Insanityisnotastrategy · 12/10/2025 17:18

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 15:00

Your community is inside my community

You dont have one

This little comment really is delightful too.

Rosscameasdoody · 12/10/2025 17:20

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 16:58

Perhaps people in this group also do park run?

The aim of the organisation is to support people from under represented communities to take part in outdoor activities.

Except if they’re female over the age of 12 ?

ChocolateCinderToffee · 12/10/2025 17:21

My thought is that you're stirring it, OP. HTH.

Bigpinksweater · 12/10/2025 17:22

ChocolateCinderToffee · 12/10/2025 17:21

My thought is that you're stirring it, OP. HTH.

I love the word ‘stirring’. Always used for pesky women revealing inconvenient truths.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 12/10/2025 17:22

IdaGlossop · 12/10/2025 17:07

I read the Jay report when it was first published. Your post has brought back the shock I felt at the time. Even now, there seems to be little political will to address the many issues it raises. How awful for you to have witnessed what you did as a child.

It’s still happening. People are still ignoring it.

They tend to target Roma girls now. Many of the Roma parents are complicit.

If you dare say anything, well, you’re being racially insensitive to two cultures!

The horrors these children are put through only to come out on the other side, hardened and eventually perpetrators themselves.

We left Rotherham to live in a small country village hours away. I’d rather my kids grow up in a nice place where they simply don’t believe these things happen than to know, for an absolute fact, that they do and no one cares.

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 17:23

Rosscameasdoody · 12/10/2025 17:20

Except if they’re female over the age of 12 ?

I'm talking about a different organisation

https://activeinclusionnetwork.com

The pictures show mixed groups and non-muslims are also encouraged to join.

Active Inclusion Network | Muslim Hikers | Muslim Runners

Active Inclusion Network is a trailblazing organization committed to promoting diversity, inclusivity, and accessibility in outdoor fitness.

https://activeinclusionnetwork.com

Rosscameasdoody · 12/10/2025 17:27

IdaGlossop · 12/10/2025 16:34

My view of the current volatility about British culture and immigration (which is actually about western culture as the same thing is happening across Europe) is that it's taken c.50 years to reach a tipping point. Multiculturalism is essentially about tolerance, which in turn is a key value of the west. In the 1980s, when the immigrant population was much lower, lots of people were interested to learn about other cultures. Now, the numbers are seen as are a threat and the spectacle of hundreds of people entering the UK irregularly is whipping up dissent, which has taken the place of tolerance.

Tolerance on whose part exactly ? Because it seems to me that tolerance at the moment is very one sided.

IdaGlossop · 12/10/2025 17:27

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 12/10/2025 17:22

It’s still happening. People are still ignoring it.

They tend to target Roma girls now. Many of the Roma parents are complicit.

If you dare say anything, well, you’re being racially insensitive to two cultures!

The horrors these children are put through only to come out on the other side, hardened and eventually perpetrators themselves.

We left Rotherham to live in a small country village hours away. I’d rather my kids grow up in a nice place where they simply don’t believe these things happen than to know, for an absolute fact, that they do and no one cares.

Apparently, the rape gangs and county lines are run in tandem. It's hard to credit that children are being used for profit just as they were in Victorian London. Very wise of you to move away from Rotherham.

BundleBoogie · 12/10/2025 17:27

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 15:14

😂 Most won't be killed.
Do you know how extremely rare it is for Muslim women to be killed for having struggles with her Islamic faith

I’d say 106 women either publicly flogged or stoned to death for ‘crimes’ like immoral relations or fleeing from home is 106 women too many though wouldn’t you?

That’s just one Muslim ruled country. There are some people, albeit a minority, that would like to introduce similar rules here. We need to stop those people gaining more power and influence.

KABUL, Afghanistan — Since its takeover of Afghanistan, Taliban has issued 37 stoning orders and publicly whipped 587 individuals, including 106 women, according to reports from the Taliban-run judicial system.
The Supreme Court of the Taliban has decreed these sentences, with 176 individuals charged with various allegations. Public flogging, which had ceased for two decades, was reintroduced by the Taliban on November 6, 2022.
A review of reports from the past three years by Amu reveals that between March 21, 2022, and March 21, 2024, 298 people were flogged. From March 21, 2023, to March 21, 2024, 44 people were lashed, and more than 240 have been flogged publicly in the current year so far.
Among those flogged between March 21, 2022, and March 21, 2023, were 73 women. The charges included alleged immoral relations, fleeing from home, and robbery, according to the Taliban’s Supreme Court. From March 21, 2023, to March 21, 2024, six women were among the 44 individuals flogged.

amu.tv/112543/

Rosscameasdoody · 12/10/2025 17:28

Merrymouse · 12/10/2025 17:23

I'm talking about a different organisation

https://activeinclusionnetwork.com

The pictures show mixed groups and non-muslims are also encouraged to join.

Apologies - mixed you up with another poster.

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/10/2025 17:29

Allisnotlost1 · 12/10/2025 17:09

Our small island is a smorgasbord of multiculturalism. It’s pointless to argue against hundreds of years of history.

Hundreds of years of history, not a few short decades. Our country is 2000 plus years in the making, it's 'smorgasbord of multiculturalism' had a chance to develop into it's own unique culture organically, by the people in it, not had the changes forced onto it from on high. Our history is also, steeped in blood, 2000 plus years of conflict, of death and destruction.

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