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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Muslim charity run

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Thomasina79 · 12/10/2025 08:10

Has banned women and girls over the age of 12 from participating. Thoughts?

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EsmaCannonball · 12/10/2025 10:32

As with free speech, I think the general principle here is more important than the specific instance. Privately organised single-sex spaces must be allowed, even if I find them personally objectionable.

My own thoughts on single-sex spaces depends on whether they are designed to exclude or include. If a charity run was about a specific issue that affects men or that men wanted to destigmatise I would fully support it being men-only. The charity run in the OP is more about women's presence being immodest and unacceptable. It's top-down exclusion.

What I find depressing is that if this was a non-religious women-only event it would be violently protested by transactivists until the authorities decided to cancel it for 'safety reasons.' Also depressing is that the kind of single-sex segregation imposed on women by religious men is never the kind of single-sex space targeted for trans right-of-entry. Funny that.

Driftingawaynow · 12/10/2025 10:32

This is 1 event. You actually don’t have to extrapolate this out as evidence that all Muslim men are monsters.

Personally, I don’t think it looks great but if the tables were turned I can easily see how women on here would say women are entitled to arrange women and kids only female events and if men want to do the same that’s up to them.

I noticed a lack of female Muslim voices in the reporting. I’d be keen to know a lot more about this story before jumping to outrage

The bigger story is the increase in hate crime against Muslims which we are being groomed to accept by the likes of the daily mail
and GB news

BundleBoogie · 12/10/2025 10:33

Brainworm · 12/10/2025 10:29

It’s a thorny issue that countries with increasing diversity are grappling with.

If a country/ wider community accepts and promotes equal rights for women, what should be done about a sub community that doesn’t. Is it a sign of tolerance or intolerance to condone the oppression of women in this context?

Many people believe that the rise in support for reform comes from people who are bigots coming out from the dark. Many others believe that calling people bigots for holding a different answer to the above question than their preferred one is leading non bigoted people to vote reform in the hope of less oppression!

If a country/ wider community accepts and promotes equal rights for women, what should be done about a sub community that doesn’t.

Yes. and not only that, parts of this sub community are seeking (and receiving) greater power and influence to impose their values on others.

How many times has this been raised over the years but the left just dismisses the people as bigots and racists?

Tessisme · 12/10/2025 10:33

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 10:31

I'm not sure it does fall foul because we already have womens only events in the uk.
Plenty.
Gyms,yoga classes,marathons,running clubs etc

Yes, but do they include boys under 12?

askmenow · 12/10/2025 10:34

Lobas · 12/10/2025 09:57

I’m appalled. This is the UK. Not Saudi bloody Arabia or wherever fucking segregation is the norm. We CANNOT start normalising the subjugation of women. It makes me sick to my stomach to be quite frank.

I’m of Indian origin (before accusations of racism start getting thrown) and DEEPLY concerned with what the fuck is happening in this country.

Women are treated like shit in the majority of places in this world. It cannot be tolerated here. I just hope this is not a slippery slope…

Edited

Read and weep….. in the UK projected to be majority Muslim by 2100.
I would be very afraid for my daughters given the current state of affairs and this negligent Government. A very slippery slope indeed.

Neemie · 12/10/2025 10:34

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 08:33

No i am not the organiser. I just don't think it is illegal or more noteworthy than what our British men are up to. If Muslim women are upset and require support to challenge this, then I am there with them. Doesn't seem like they mind unless you can point to Muslim women speaking about how problematic this is?

If not, I am sure they can join the thousands of organised running events we do have that welcome everyone.

These are British men using a public park. When does the exclusion of women and teenage girls become noteworthy in your mind?

whatwouldafeministdo · 12/10/2025 10:34

RedToothBrush · 12/10/2025 10:31

It's the legitimate aim that clearly missing that's the problem.

You have to demonstrate proportionality.

Including girls under 12 makes it particularly terrible as it's a reference to ability to sexually reproduce being the point at which you deliberately discriminate.

It's no ok, and yes it should be looked at and dealt with but I think government and equality watchdogs are too cowardly to do so

Which in turn serves to fuel anger and anti-islamic sentiments, so non intervention is not only weak but actually part of the problem of growing hostility.

This. Having just a men's run for prostate cancer or something = ok, hopefully with a similar women's only (truly women's only) alongside or at another time. Including under 12 girls and not over 12 is direct discrimination on the grounds of sex and reproductive capacity.

It is illegal, but I'm fast wondering what is the point of the EHRC and government in general if they never actually punish anyone for breaking the law.

Also, this is the first step to women losing rights as they've done in Iran and Afghanistan. Anyone who can't see that is dimwitted.

askmenow · 12/10/2025 10:35

The graph didn’t show but look up PEW graph of projected births.

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 10:35

Bumdrops · 12/10/2025 08:37

But some muslim women ARE calling it out, and getting radio silence from the mosque

many Muslim women will not call it out because that would be a risky thing to do - so we have to be more proactive as women than wait for / expect the oppressed to be able to fight that cause …..

Can you show me some examples of muslim women calling it out please because I've only heard british non muslim people men and women calling it out

TeaBiscuitsNaptime · 12/10/2025 10:36

KarminaBurana · 12/10/2025 10:23

Also, @TeaBiscuitsNaptime not when in means inherently protecting men's rights over that of women and girls.

Yes, absolutely. They have enough trouble fighting for their rights in their own country without it happening in the UK too. I wonder if it's up to the westernised Muslim women to fight it though. I never see them protesting actually

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 10:37

I can't believe that a group of non-Muslim women want to crash a race of a demographic that notoriously have low participation in sport without the women of said group leading the efforts.

Tiredofwhataboutery · 12/10/2025 10:38

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 10:31

I'm not sure it does fall foul because we already have womens only events in the uk.
Plenty.
Gyms,yoga classes,marathons,running clubs etc

They could have a men’s event without issue. We have a men’s shed and they do various fundraising events, mens mental health, prostrate cancer. This isn’t a male event though it includes girls up to 12, so what is the purpose of excluding females over 12 and is it proportionate to the aim.

ConstitutionHill · 12/10/2025 10:38

See also, many UK religious charities enjoy tax breaks while promoting misogyny - https://www.secularism.org.uk/uploads/mission-and-misogyny-read-the-full-report.pdf

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 10:38

TeaBiscuitsNaptime · 12/10/2025 10:36

Yes, absolutely. They have enough trouble fighting for their rights in their own country without it happening in the UK too. I wonder if it's up to the westernised Muslim women to fight it though. I never see them protesting actually

They protest all the time. Just about issues that they feel are relevant to their communities.

ChestInflection · 12/10/2025 10:40

Do all golf clubs provide equal competition opportunities to women as men?

Women and girls are 'welcomed to cheer' at men's rugby and football games every week but only get to take part in smaller stadiums and at far fewer clubs. Women and girls have to travel much further to access grassroots sports that are readily available to boys and men. Women's teams are poorly funded and even high ranking teams have other jobs in a way that men don't have to.

Sexism is everywhere. The patriarchy dominates.

We are so conditioned into some of the unfairness that we don't see it or question it or protest it at all.

Brainworm · 12/10/2025 10:40

BundleBoogie · 12/10/2025 10:33

If a country/ wider community accepts and promotes equal rights for women, what should be done about a sub community that doesn’t.

Yes. and not only that, parts of this sub community are seeking (and receiving) greater power and influence to impose their values on others.

How many times has this been raised over the years but the left just dismisses the people as bigots and racists?

I think ‘the left’ are pretty divided. I think there are plenty who are dismayed by the illiberal ‘progressives’ who operate something not dissimilar to witch trials whereby there is no disproving you are indeed a witch, racist, homophobe, transphobe…..

Farage is like the pied piper for the ‘witches’. He plays a tune that tells of an understanding that wanting decency and equality isn’t bigoted. It’s very soothing!

IDasIX · 12/10/2025 10:40

ThatSpryShaker · 12/10/2025 08:21

Are Muslim women allowed to take part in running competitions generally?

Even Saudi Arabia has (reluctantly, under pressure) started to allow women to compete at the Olympics, including in athletics.

AllTheTreesOfTheField · 12/10/2025 10:40

ChelseaBagger · 12/10/2025 10:23

I find it so interesting (read "bonkers") that we've got to a point where we have the "liberal left" falling over themselves to defend regressive, sexist, misogynistic views (there's obviously a very direct parallel here with trans rights).

The thing is, it's literally impossible to be smugly "tolerant" of everything. To be tolerant of this kind of exclusion and restriction is to condone it. I do not want to live in a society where girls are told they become an issue or a problem when they hit 12 years old.

It is astonishing to have realised how much of the 'liberal left' stance centres men in various ways.

MaturingCheeseball · 12/10/2025 10:40

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 10:35

Can you show me some examples of muslim women calling it out please because I've only heard british non muslim people men and women calling it out

Do you think the average slave in Alabama was “calling out” their master? The average serf in feudal Britain?

A) I’m sure most women wouldn’t bloody dare and b) have you heard of conditioning?

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 10:40

Screamingabdabz · 12/10/2025 08:43

This may fall foul of Charity law as well as the Equality Act.

It’s revolting that as soon as a girl turns 12 she’s considered fair game. So she’s not allowed to run in a park but the men who she needs protection from are allowed to do what the fuck they like. And what kind of God fearing men want to have sex with 12 olds? And what are this group of people modelling to their children about the value of women? It’s so depressing.

I’d like to be ‘tolerant’ but this sort of blatant and belligerent misogny is just accepted as normal. It’s reprehensible in the 21st century.

It’s revolting that as soon as a girl turns 12 she’s considered fair game

I don't think they necessarily see them as "fair game"

TheywontletmehavethenameIwant · 12/10/2025 10:41

BundleBoogie · 12/10/2025 10:24

Yes. That’s the current law.

The government are working hard to change the law to ensure that anyone who criticises Islam (or “expressions of Muslimness” from the APPG, are criminalised,

The Hindu Council UK are now getting in on the act

Hindu Council UK’s Warnings on legislating for Islamophobia – Hindu Council UK

The war between the Hindu's and Muslims playing out between India and Pakistan is coming to the streets of the UK because there's a lot of money being funnelled into the country by Modi's National Hindu party and by Pakistan/Saudi Arabia/Iran.

Mimph · 12/10/2025 10:41

I think the exclusion of girls and women over 12 is appalling as it is clearly against the UK values. Had their been women and mens races separately then that would have been ok - its the fact that this specifically relates to females over 12.

KarminaBurana · 12/10/2025 10:42

AllTheTreesOfTheField · 12/10/2025 10:40

It is astonishing to have realised how much of the 'liberal left' stance centres men in various ways.

Doesn't it just.

timesublimelysilencesthewhys · 12/10/2025 10:42

Maya Forstater has tweeted saying its legal because women could hold female only events and bring their children with them.

Good to see that she finally understands safeguarding...

FortheloveofPetethePlumber · 12/10/2025 10:42

Hadmysay · 12/10/2025 10:35

Can you show me some examples of muslim women calling it out please because I've only heard british non muslim people men and women calling it out

A British Muslim friend of mine certainly wouldn't risk drawing attention to herself in this way, it would not be safe for her to do so.

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