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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions
Cerialkiller · 29/08/2025 09:34

Some of those responses are pretty remarkable and clear eyed....except making that final step in logic...soooo very very close.

Tempting to ask each of them immediately after making those statements. 'so am I a bigot for not wanting a transwomen in a changing room with me?' I suspect that the answer would still be a reflective 'yes', but with a long pause afterwards. Some of these more introspective men might actually get it.

DrBlackbird · 29/08/2025 09:35

EsmaCannonball · 29/08/2025 06:56

Women have been vilified and cancelled by transactivists for objecting to male serial killers, serial rapists, paedophilic murderers and, IIRC, a man who beheaded a woman being placed in women's prisons. Most of them transitioned after arrest or imprisonment. There is literally nothing these men could do that would make the risk they pose to women objectionable to the TRA lobby. Despite the level of men transitioning once in the criminal justice system, the activists and the captured institutions jackboot a kind of suicidal naivety onto the proceedings whereby only vicious, bigoted possible Nazis would ever assume a man would identify as a woman just to get an easier time of it in prison, or to gain access to future victims or just to be fucking awkward and play power-games. The enforced gullibility is one of the most loathsome things about all this.

The enforced gullibility is one of the most loathsome things about all this.

Agree with the post and the loathsomeness of forcing vulnerable women to share prison with these dangerous men. But I’m not sure it’s based on gullibility per se (maybe for some naive bekinders). More, that such a perspective highlights the utter disdain or disregard for women. Even by other women.

Here, the slippery slope that TRAs cannot admit is that if some -not so very nice- men only pretend to be ‘trans’, then they’d have no basis to defend their belligerent gaslighting tactics against women who make this exact point made repeatedly on FWR. That, putting aside every other argument about material reality, if women cannot tell the ‘real’ from the ‘fake’ trans, then no TW should ever be in female spaces.

user1471471849 · 29/08/2025 09:36

I'm just gobsmacked at this. Maybe people will finally wake up and realise what's going on after reading this. I bet it's not even in most papers though. I do feel we're reaching a turning point of truth telling and people might start to listen to the GC side and think, actually hang on, maybe all those women were right all along!! Is it really so difficult to understand why we need to keep men out of women's spaces! Because predatory dangerous men like this exist and unfortunately they don't come with a warning!

SionnachRuadh · 29/08/2025 09:49

My guess about the demographics of the Trans UK subreddit, from occasionally keeping an eye on it, is that it's got a majority of young, sometimes very young TIFs with extremely poor mental health - you know because they never stop talking about it - and a minority of creepy uncle TIMs who show classic male pattern behaviour and dominate the conversation.

There have been a few discussions recently about Prison Onset Gender Dysphoria. I suspect it might be some of the young TIFs who are coming close to peaking.

DrBlackbird · 29/08/2025 10:04

WarriorN · 29/08/2025 08:58

More interesting comments from that thread on Reddit today

In what way is the BBCs reporting ‘vitriolic’ as per the final sentence of that one poster? It was odd given how most of their post was acknowledging the reality of the case.

theDudesmummy · 29/08/2025 11:16

"Identifies as" is meaningless nonsense. It should be "pretending to be".

ZoeCM · 29/08/2025 11:54

DrBlackbird · 29/08/2025 10:04

In what way is the BBCs reporting ‘vitriolic’ as per the final sentence of that one poster? It was odd given how most of their post was acknowledging the reality of the case.

At this point, complaining that the media is transphobic is the trans community's default position. They do it instinctively, regardless of what was actually said.

NotAtMyAge · 29/08/2025 13:33

FuzzyPuffling · 28/08/2025 18:28

Gwyn is a man's name, isn't it?

Not always. In Welsh it can be used for both men and women. I knew a lovely elderly woman whose name was Gwyn.

Periperi2025 · 29/08/2025 13:39

I find it interesting and very telling that when he transitioned, of all the thousands of names he could choose he chose 'Gwyn' which is a male name and 'Samuel' another classic male name!!

5birdsonroof · 29/08/2025 13:47

potpourree · 28/08/2025 19:32

James Bubb, who now identifies as a woman named Gwyn Samuels

That text is really odd! As if there is some woman called Gwyn Samuels and he's copying her life.

I suspect it's because he's chosen a man's name as his 'female' name and the wording makes it clearer that he is trying to claim he's now female (and also that he's stupid and didn't check which sex is indicated by Gwyn rather than Gwen).

He's clearly done that to try to get into a women's prison and avoid being attacked in the male estate as not only a child rapist but also as a police officer. Thankfully the court seems to be having none of his nonsense.

SionnachRuadh · 29/08/2025 13:49

There's a definite thing where TIMs choose "female" names that make them sound like characters from Shannon Tweed soft porn movies (Veronica Ivy springs to mind)

The odder thing to me is when TIFs insist on calling themselves things like "Cameron" or "Felix" rather than Jim or Bob or Arthur - it's almost as if they still want to be androgynous.

ThatBlackCat · 29/08/2025 13:52

There's Gwyneth Paltrow.

Periperi2025 · 29/08/2025 14:01

ThatBlackCat · 29/08/2025 13:52

There's Gwyneth Paltrow.

That's a female variation on the word/name gwyn meaning white, 'Gwyn' is the male form. Gwen, Gwynne, Gwyneth are female forms.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 29/08/2025 14:10

ZoeCM · 29/08/2025 00:37

Jesus Christ.

Yesterday Bubb appeared in the witness box dressed in a blue-and-white patterned dress and a black cardigan. During evidence the officer suggested that the child could "flip the switch" and make disparaging remarks about the defendant's gender identity. On one occasion the child said: "[You're] always going to be a man in a dress."
The officer added: "That's not something a caring person would do."
Richard Milne, for the prosecution, asked: "Are you seriously suggesting you were being abused by [the child]?"
The defendant replied: "That was the crux ... I struggled to come forward. I was a serving police officer who worked with domestic abuse officers in the Met. I was older than the person who was abusing me ... Yes, I am saying the child abused me. It's so hard to admit that."

Wait a minute, so he's whining that he was misgendered (literal violence of course) by the child he was raping? Are you fucking kidding me?
Throw away the key.
I'm so angry right now that if this douchebag was in front of me I wouldn't be responsible.

WarriorN · 29/08/2025 14:16

DrBlackbird · 29/08/2025 10:04

In what way is the BBCs reporting ‘vitriolic’ as per the final sentence of that one poster? It was odd given how most of their post was acknowledging the reality of the case.

I can’t remember what that was referring to- there was discussion of the shooter in the us too, and how other trans identified males were referred to by bbc

WarriorN · 29/08/2025 14:28

Went back try to understand that comment and couldn’t - I think the jist was they’d rather the trans status wasn’t referred to at all 🤷🏻‍♀️

ZoeCM · 29/08/2025 15:08

SionnachRuadh · 29/08/2025 13:49

There's a definite thing where TIMs choose "female" names that make them sound like characters from Shannon Tweed soft porn movies (Veronica Ivy springs to mind)

The odder thing to me is when TIFs insist on calling themselves things like "Cameron" or "Felix" rather than Jim or Bob or Arthur - it's almost as if they still want to be androgynous.

TIFs tend to give themselves the kind of slightly poetic-sounding boy's names that mums usually like better than dads, such as Finn or Ash.

SionnachRuadh · 29/08/2025 15:38

ZoeCM · 29/08/2025 15:08

TIFs tend to give themselves the kind of slightly poetic-sounding boy's names that mums usually like better than dads, such as Finn or Ash.

I've never know a Finn in real life.

I used to know a Finbar, but I've never seen that in TIF spaces.

ZoeCM · 30/08/2025 12:00

Why is reddit so aggressively pro-trans? I can honestly say that the mods over there seem more concerned that this shooting will impact negatively on the trans community than about the fact that two children were killed.

On several threads, there are stickies warning people not to misgender the shooter. Why the hell is that a priority? On the Minneapolis sub, within hours of the shooting, there was a thread from a trans person begging posters not to blame the trans community for this. Several of the threads are dominated by posts about how the media are going to use this to demonise trans people. On one thread about the shooting, one poster actually said, "To my trans homies: now is the time to arm yourselves." How the fuck can anyone think that's an appropriate thing to say after a trans "woman" has just killed two kids?

ItsCoolForCats · 30/08/2025 12:08

Do you think Nicola.Sturgeon, or any of the other self ID zealots, ever see cases like this (which occur on a weekly basis), and think, "you know what, maybe it's a good thing that Westminster blocked the gender recognition reform bill"? Or does their cognitive dissonance run too deep?

Do they continue to bat away concerns by saying "oh there are bad apples in every community", without making the logical leap that giving these bad apples easier access to vulnerable women and children is a terrible idea? I would love to understand their thought processes.

TheKeatingFive · 30/08/2025 12:08

ZoeCM · 30/08/2025 12:00

Why is reddit so aggressively pro-trans? I can honestly say that the mods over there seem more concerned that this shooting will impact negatively on the trans community than about the fact that two children were killed.

On several threads, there are stickies warning people not to misgender the shooter. Why the hell is that a priority? On the Minneapolis sub, within hours of the shooting, there was a thread from a trans person begging posters not to blame the trans community for this. Several of the threads are dominated by posts about how the media are going to use this to demonise trans people. On one thread about the shooting, one poster actually said, "To my trans homies: now is the time to arm yourselves." How the fuck can anyone think that's an appropriate thing to say after a trans "woman" has just killed two kids?

Because Reddit has always been a male, left leaning environment
and left leaning males have leapt on the trans issue as an acceptable way to express their misogyny.

TheKeatingFive · 30/08/2025 12:11

ItsCoolForCats · 30/08/2025 12:08

Do you think Nicola.Sturgeon, or any of the other self ID zealots, ever see cases like this (which occur on a weekly basis), and think, "you know what, maybe it's a good thing that Westminster blocked the gender recognition reform bill"? Or does their cognitive dissonance run too deep?

Do they continue to bat away concerns by saying "oh there are bad apples in every community", without making the logical leap that giving these bad apples easier access to vulnerable women and children is a terrible idea? I would love to understand their thought processes.

I'm not sure Nicola has a conscience like a normal person. She knows she can't politically admit to any doubts, so she doesn't.

ItsCoolForCats · 30/08/2025 12:25

TheKeatingFive · 30/08/2025 12:11

I'm not sure Nicola has a conscience like a normal person. She knows she can't politically admit to any doubts, so she doesn't.

She must have doubts though. Nadia Whittome and Zarah Sultana too. When they post contradictory nonsense on X, surely they must see the flaws in it? It's there unwillingness to ever concede that there are issues with Self ID, that women (the real kind) are vulnerable too that baffles me. NW and ZS never respond to any of the well reasoned arguments people make in response to their posts. I would genuinely like to know whether they truly believe everything they say or whether they have niggling doubts. Or perhaps they know full what what the issues are but they are just pandering to their voter base.

LupaMoonhowl · 30/08/2025 12:30

TheUsualChaos · 28/08/2025 19:42

More seriously, I think the BBC follow the court's guidance re pronouns, hence the apparent inconsistency across different cases.

I thought exactly the same. Not sure I see this as much progress as such. BBC just following the courts lead here.

They haven't used male pronouns for the Minnesota killer who "identifies as female" since 2020 (quoted from Minnesota court records).

Precisely!

WimbledonWhites · 30/08/2025 12:35

Hang on - they’re using male pronouns because he identified as male when the offences took place, but the victim knew he was transitioning? Or perhaps he wasn’t out publicly at that point? Does anyone have more detail?

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