There needs to be an association of behavioural/psychological/ cultural with that preference remember?
Not the way you’ve been answering so far there doesn’t. You’ve defined gender in a way that depends on traits+culture. ie, not preference.
I gave you an example remember? Butch biological female, wants to identified as female because she believes her reproductive traits define her.
It’s a matter of their behaviour and psychology. There are lots of TW who behave and think in ways that are strikingly male-associated. Their gender is male, per you.
You may not be privy to all their personality traits.
You’ve then said that someone can have a certain gender but prefer to be called something else and the BBC should go with preference (not gender and not sex, if preference differs from these).
No. re read the comments. They can go with either sex or gender depends their associations & subjective values.
At that point, I really can’t see why consistency doesn’t demand that the BBC also call the nurse a doctor, if that’s what they prefer.
That's because you are missing the link of associations either way being necessary + subjective preference.
You may think such examples are rare, but I’d say it’s very common that someone prefers to be portrayed in a certain way in the media that the facts don’t support.
You don't know them personally so I doubt you could really make that judgement.
But even if you think it’s an edge case, let’s look at such edge cases. Should the BBC refer to Rachel Dolezal as an African-American, or that Korean-plastic-surgery chap as a Korean? Why not? The rule you propose says they should, if you generalise it.
Apples & oranges. Because these examples don't hold duel possibilities like sex & gender do.