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Who‘s coming to FiLIA?

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lanadelgrey · 23/08/2025 10:33

I‘m starting to get excited.
Are there plans for a MN meetup?

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ParmaVioletTea · 03/10/2025 14:19

I went to a women’s liberation in education conference in 2023/4 (can’t recall) and it was bloody brilliant to be among so many interesting, clever women from all walks of life. I went alone and was ‘adopted’ for the day by a lesbian couple in their seventies who thought I looked lonely and fed me biscuits while we raged at each other about gender ideology in schools and tutted at the (small( group of (really quite silly) young men outside chanting ‘I would rather be a Nazi than a terf’.

I was at that conference. It was ACE!

And I think that's where the convicted & violent criminal "Sarah" Baker incited violence against feminists. There was some threatened & actual violence meted out on attendees around UCL, iirc.

Talkinpeace · 03/10/2025 15:04

I went to Cardiff and stayed on my own and walked to the conference alone and went to the party alone
and loved EVERY minute of it.
NOBODY is alone on an all female dance floor :-)

ArealAdultHumanFemale · 03/10/2025 17:44

RobinEllacotStrike · 03/10/2025 14:01

I'm staying in a hotel close to the venue & I have a 2m telescopic flagpole & a big suffragette flag I'm going to fly proudly as I walk to the venue!!

What great luck having the use of your friends flat @CornflakeGirlsClub

I think there are a few party tickets left if you are feeling brave - according to the ap there is a band and all so its not too late to change your mind re the party. I had a party ticket on my first FiLiA (in London) and I didn't go cause I was "alone" so I get it. But the party really is a great release of tensions, emotions & coming together with women to shake it all out.

You might want to read the rules of the Conference Centre, before taking your flag. Just saying ...

Talkinpeace · 03/10/2025 17:47

If the pole telescopes down into a proper sized bag then it should be fine.
Ditto the banner.

The rules page is the standard venue gigs one.

Lots of ladies will be carrying banners for the Saturday afternoon after all.

lanadelgrey · 03/10/2025 23:39

Not sure about the wisdom of a v big flag. I was down near the venue this evening. Almost got blown over. Worth checking the forecast. Am looking forward to checking in lots of wonderful women at the registration desk

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FiliaDebutante · 03/10/2025 23:56

Hello all. I'm going but don't know anyone else going. Hotel booked, will be there Saturday and Sunday. Excited!

N0Tfunny · 04/10/2025 16:58

I’m going and would like to meet up with any other Mners. I can’t see anything on the app, is there a meet up organised ?

FiliaDebutante · 04/10/2025 17:48

I can't see anything organised either! Keen for a meet-up!

fabricstash · 04/10/2025 18:06

I am keen to meet too - I have not looked at the app much yet

FiliaDebutante · 04/10/2025 18:13

The app doesn't seem to be hugely active - at least not by Mumsnet standards!

ZobiLaMouche · 04/10/2025 18:25

What time does it start on Saturday morning? So I can work out if I can get there in time, thanks.

ParmaVioletTea · 04/10/2025 18:29

Why not start a thread in the Discussion bit of the app to set up a MN meet up?

FiliaDebutante · 07/10/2025 22:56

ParmaVioletTea · 04/10/2025 18:29

Why not start a thread in the Discussion bit of the app to set up a MN meet up?

Is it realistic to set up a thread saying meet-up for MNetters only? It also isn't terribly active, lots of unanswered meet-up requests. I'd be worried about tumbleweed, at least I'm anonymous here but I'd have my big embarrassed face on show to all if nobody replied!

estellacandance · 07/10/2025 23:23

Just go for it.

It will busy up by Friday.

fabricstash · 08/10/2025 08:44

I had a look but could not work out how to start a discussion

Hermiaxx · 08/10/2025 09:19

@FiliaDebutante& @fabricstashi agree the app is a bit confusing 🫤!

Talkinpeace · 08/10/2025 10:04

The app is not good. I have to access it through a browser !

RobinEllacotStrike · 08/10/2025 10:36

fabricstash · 08/10/2025 08:44

I had a look but could not work out how to start a discussion

Go to the bottom of the "home" page and there is a button at the bottom that says "View all discussions". This takes you to the "discussions" part and you can see existing threads and comments & join in

RobinEllacotStrike · 08/10/2025 10:37

Talkinpeace · 08/10/2025 10:04

The app is not good. I have to access it through a browser !

oh no! I hope that it wworks ok for you in the browser.
Its ok on my iphone.

peachescariad · 08/10/2025 10:58

RobinEllacotStrike · 08/10/2025 10:36

Go to the bottom of the "home" page and there is a button at the bottom that says "View all discussions". This takes you to the "discussions" part and you can see existing threads and comments & join in

Ok great I can see that but no MN discussion been set up yet.
I'm going Saturday on my own so would love to meet up

Hermiaxx · 08/10/2025 11:55

I have emailed FiLiA and asked about setting up a specific chat and will report back.

I’ll be there from Friday but on my own! Hopefully if a chat group is set up some of you will respond 🫣🤞!

RobinEllacotStrike · 08/10/2025 12:27

In case you don't know the lyrics .....

I AM WOMEN – by HELEN REDDY lyrics

I am woman, hear me roar
In numbers too big to ignore
And I know too much to go back and pretend
'Cause I've heard it all before
And I've been down there on the floor
No one's ever gonna keep me down again

Whoa, yes, I am wise
But it's wisdom born of pain
Yes, I've paid the price
But look how much I gained
If I have to, I can do anything
I am strong (strong)
I am invincible (invincible)
I am woman (ooh)

You can bend, but never break me
'Cause it only serves to make me
More determined to achieve my final goal
And I come back even stronger
Not a novice any longer
'Cause you've deepened the conviction in my soul

Oh, yes, I am wise
But it's wisdom born of pain
Yes, I've paid the price
But look how much I gained
If I have to, I can do anything
I am strong (strong)
I am invincible (invincible)
I am woman (ooh)

I am woman, watch me grow
See me standing toe to toe
As I spread my lovin' arms across the land
But I'm still an embryo
With a long, long way to go
Until I make my brother understand
Whoa, yes, I am wise
But it's wisdom born of pain
Yes, I've paid the price
But look how much I gained
If I have to, I can face anything

I am strong (strong)
I am invincible (invincible)
I am woman
I am woman (I am woman)
I am invincible (I am woman), I am strong
I am woman (I am woman)
I am invincible (I am woman), I am strong
I am woman (I am woman)
I am woman (I am woman)

donkey86 · 08/10/2025 20:23

Could anyone tell me how to see the timings for Friday? I’m thinking of buying a last minute ticket but that’s the only day I can do and I can’t stay late. I’d like to know how much of it I’d be able to attend before committing to the ticket price. Would I be able to see details if I get the app (if so, what’s it called?) or is it only available after ticket purchase? I understand they need to keep it safe from protestors but £55 is a lot to spend blind.

Tootingbec · 08/10/2025 23:05

CornflakeGirlsClub · 03/10/2025 13:36

I was about to start a thread and then found you all. Yay! 🎉

I’ve got a Sat & Sun ticket. My first time (bought a ticket last year but then got the flu…boo).

Going down from London on the Friday night and staying in a friends flat while they’re away, but coming to the conference alone. Haven’t got party tickets as even though I’m fairly brave, I don’t want to be a billy no mates wall flower (and I stopped drinking a few years ago, so no Dutch courage for me!)

I’m excited! My DH and kids keep talking about mum being hyped for her ‘weekend feminist party’ 😀

I went to a women’s liberation in education conference in 2023/4 (can’t recall) and it was bloody brilliant to be among so many interesting, clever women from all walks of life. I went alone and was ‘adopted’ for the day by a lesbian couple in their seventies who thought I looked lonely and fed me biscuits while we raged at each other about gender ideology in schools and tutted at the (small( group of (really quite silly) young men outside chanting ‘I would rather be a Nazi than a terf’.

I’m a tall lass with a good death stare. I’ll happily walk to the venue with anyone feeling nervous. 🌷

Edited

I went to that women’s lib in education conference too - at Uni of London? I flipping loved it! So nice to be in a space where I could feel uninhibited in what I was saying.

Just loved being surrounded by so many diverse women and feeling like I had found my tribe as well.

My DH has also told the DC that “mum is off to some TERF conference” 😬

Will be there on my tod on Sunday as well so will check out the Mumsnet meet up app also

Thingybob · 08/10/2025 23:39

donkey86 · 08/10/2025 20:23

Could anyone tell me how to see the timings for Friday? I’m thinking of buying a last minute ticket but that’s the only day I can do and I can’t stay late. I’d like to know how much of it I’d be able to attend before committing to the ticket price. Would I be able to see details if I get the app (if so, what’s it called?) or is it only available after ticket purchase? I understand they need to keep it safe from protestors but £55 is a lot to spend blind.

I think you need to buy a ticket to get access to the app.

The main sessions run from 09:00 to 17:30 on Friday then there are a few events going on in the evening (poetry, music, a film)