I had a Google but couldn’t spot any evidence so it couldn’t have been a prominent campaign... Stonewall on the other hand did actively campaign for marriage equality. Wierd how Google doesn’t offer up lots of links to show this big trans community campaign for that issue..
I can’t imagine how these GRC holding trans campaigners back in the day would have been viewing their own same-sex (biologically) marriages, as such.? Surely they felt they’d now ‘changed sex’ as they’d been legally promised, via their long awaited GRC? They were then having a straight wedding, so nothing to see here. That was the social framing that had allowed them to marry at all.
Being individually now (legally, anyway), of the opposite sex. standard straight marriage was now open to them just like any other heterosexual couple. Putting a bright line legally between them, and the (derogatory school meaning of queer) lesbians and gay men who wanted to marry their same sex partners.
That was the whole point of the GRA, to solve a marriage problem that the ECHR had picked up on and had asked the UK gov to do something about. The gov chose not to bring in same sex marriage because they didn’t want to upset most church leaders and many of the church goers. The country was still very homophobic. Conforming people instead to an appearance of heteronormativity was literally how GRA got through. Which seems wild by today’s standards( but this is recent history, so homophobic is our history in the UK.
So from 2004, after the GRA came in, it seems pretty counterintuitive that transgender campaigners would have been calling for LGB people, (who didn’t necessarily seek heteronormativity despite the heavy, overt and legally sanctioned homophobia of the time), to get the same access to same sex marriage that GRC holders had been given.
Meanwhile the governments of the day were busy saying pretty much that the point of creating the GRA was so that a marriage including a transexual person was straight marriage. Thereby keeping the church leaders happy by telling them officially that the government was not at all introducing same sex marriage in the UK. Lots of consequent gov handwaving away of concerns by saying how few people would probably transition via a GRC anyway (… a red flag for a bad law if the lawmaker sells it on how few people will use it…)
I’d be interested to see any links to show how the campaigners for marriage equality for transsexuals were also making their arguments for same sex marriage.
The evidence of campaigning on marriage equality from these campaigners, is specifically for their own trans community’s interests. in the early days of GRCs there was a much greater proportion of older and midlife, often married, men transitioning, than there is proportionally now..
They didn’t want to have to pay for a divorce, and maybe a divorce felt a bit too public, or drew too much attention to the fact of transition, or maybe they had religious views against divorce, or their spouse didn’t want divorce, anyway many they didn’t want to have to get divorced in order to get their GRC. (Side note: I saw online during googling this that it’s still in the Lib Dem’s manifesto of 2024 that they want to remove the spousal veto
.). It’s set out on Wikipedia, that the trans community campaigning was for that issue, one that only affected themselves:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gender_Recognition_Act_2004
‘Concerns regarding marriages and civil partnerships
Concerns about the act were raised by supporters of transgender rights, particularly regarding marriages and civil partnerships.[20][21] Due to marriage then being restricted in UK law to opposite-sex couples and the then lack of availability of civil partnerships to opposite-sex couples, the act required people who are married to divorce or annul their marriage in order for them to be issued with a Gender Recognition Certificate.
This requirement was abolished in December 2014, nine months after the Marriage (Same Sex Couples) Act 2013 permitted same-sex marriages.[22] In England, Scotland, and Wales, such an application from a married person requires written consent from the spouse – the so-called spousal veto.
Applicants in Scotland benefit from a workaround, where it is possible for applicants in Scotland to apply to the sheriff court to have their interim GRC replaced with a full GRC, bypassing the "spousal veto". Some parliamentarians, such as Evan Harris, viewed the original requirement as inhumane and destructive of the family.[23] MP Hugh Bayley said in the Commons debate "I can think of no other circumstance in which the state tells a couple who are married and who wish to remain married that they must get divorced".[24][25]
Despite this opposition, the government chose to retain this requirement of the Bill. Parliamentary Under-Secretary for Constitutional Affairs, David Lammy, speaking for the Government, said "it is the Government's firm view that we cannot allow a small category of same-sex marriages".[26] It was suggested in the debates that the number of transgender people who have undertaken gender reassignment and who are currently living in a marriage was no more than 200.[27]
Although the Civil Partnership Act 2004allows the creation of civil partnerships between same sex couples, before 2013, a married couple that included a transgender partner could not simply re-register their new status. They had to have their marriage dissolved, gain legal recognition of the new gender and then register for a civil partnership. This is like any divorce with the associated paperwork and costs. Once the annulment was declared final and the GRC issued, the couple could then make arrangements with the local registrar to have the civil partnership ceremony. The marriage was ended and a completely new arrangement brought into being which did not in all circumstances (such as wills) necessarily follow on seamlessly. This is also true for civil partnerships that
included a transgender partner: the existing civil partnership needed to be dissolved and the couple could then enter into a marriage afterward. For a couple in a marriage or civil partnership where both partners are transgender, they could have their gender recognition applications considered at the same time; however, they were required to dissolve their existing marriage/civil partnership and then re-register their marriage/civil partnership with their new genders.
Tamara Wilding of the Beaumont Societypressure group said that it was "not fair that people in this situation should have to annul their marriage and then enter a civil partnership. The law needs tidying up. It would be easy to put an amendment in the civil partnership law to allow people who have gone through gender-reassignment, and want that to be recognised, to have the status of their relationship continued."[28] The emotional stress caused is immeasurable as in the case of a Scottish couple’.[29]