I suppose, with equality having been more or less achieved, the normie gay men who just wanted to live their lives are just living their lives. Which means the "scene", Pride events etc come to be more dominated by the fetish and kink element, with their friends among the spicy straights.
I'd almost forgotten about that Queer As Folk storyline, which seemed brave at the time, but it gets me thinking. I'm cautious about mentioning the fetishisation of very young men or adolescent boys in some parts of gay male culture, but it's never gone away. Talk to middle aged gay men about their history and a surprising number will talk about their early experiences with much older men in an "it never did me any harm" way.
I want to be absolutely clear that ephebophilia is still a thing with straight men. It even exists with straight women, if we go by the number of female teachers who get into trouble for copping off with teenage boys. But I don't think it's respectable in the way that it is in certain gay male subcultures. I wonder if, even 30 years ago, a straight dramatist could have got away with showing a 30-year-old man in a sexual relationship with a 15-year-old girl and not being explicitly condemnatory about it.
Perhaps that's a generational thing - I have an impression young gay men are very hot on consent - but in the meantime we're left with some gay artists who get older and older but never grow out of their fascination with horny boys.
If society cuts more slack to gay artists on moral boundaries, I can see the historical reasons for it, but I feel that slack is diminishing.
And yes! Where were the witty and insightful lesbian dramas? It's almost as if, once a few gay men had their foot in the door, the "LGB" box was ticked and no women were required.