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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

The Bluestocking does a late night flit again

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Magpiecomplex · 07/08/2025 21:50

New thread, you know the drill!

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FuzzyPuffling · 11/08/2025 13:12

Britinme · 11/08/2025 12:55

I love Paul Simon for the poetry of the lyrics as well as the music. Ditto Joni Mitchell (though not so keen on the later jazz stuff). James Taylor also has good lyrics and so does Carol King. I’m giving my age away aren’t I?

All my favourites too.

Magpiecomplex · 11/08/2025 13:23

Chersfrozenface · 11/08/2025 10:38

I knew it was only a matter of time but I thought we had a few years yet. They'll be advertising directly in your dreams next. Mark my words.

Wasn't there a Black Mirror episode a bit like that?

There was definitely a Futurama episode about it. Lightspeed Briefs.

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Britinme · 11/08/2025 13:29

I kept having dreams last night about how I couldn’t find the documents relating to my immigration, and I’ve been an American citizen for nearly twenty years.

SionnachRuadh · 11/08/2025 13:31

I can appreciate songwriting poetry from different eras.

When I think about my long ago time in the political world, the lines that come to mind are

All the teachers in the pub
Passing round the ready rub

ifIwerenotanandroid · 11/08/2025 13:31

I'm amazed at how cheap those altar tablecloths are. I was once asked to help out a church (not mine) with producing such a cloth. They were 'clients from hell'. Someone in the congregation had left them money in her will to buy a new cloth, but they decided it was wicked to spend so much money on it when the money could be used for charitable purposes, so the congregation would make one instead.

But it couldn't be made out of any old rubbish, it had to be the right fabric, bought from an ecclesiastical supply place like this one. According to the Lady Who Had the Catalogue in those pre-internet days, that made it about as expensive as a ready-embroidered one. I never saw the figures, but it seemed depressingly pointless & the group couldn't agree on anything. The only thing we eventually agreed on was that it would be blue.

The next thing I was told was that the church leader declared that it would NOT be blue, so we were back to square one. He called a meeting about it & then cancelled the meeting at the last minute, & at that point I gave up.

The only worse religious cloth thing I've been involved with was a chuppah for a Jewish wedding (I'm still not Jewish), which those processional canopies reminded me of. The bride & groom told me they loved my textile work & wanted something just like it. So I gave them a date by which I had to have their design so that I'd have time to make it. That date came & went, & much too late, they gave me a design which was nothing like the work I did. I had no idea how to make it. Every time I came up with a possible method/product to use, they vetoed it - sometimes I'd even bought supplies & made samples. I gave up on it after they told me (again much too late) that the fabric couldn't be seamed but had to be in one piece - I sourced a fabric & was then told no, it could only be a specific type of fibre, which mine wasn't. I think they bought something ready-made in the end. I wish they'd done that in the beginning & spared me months of anxiety, because I loved the idea & would've been honoured to work on it, & felt guilty about letting them down.

People are a pain, & never accept commissions. Those are the lessons I took from those & other projects - even when the customer was happy, they'd always have thrown in odd demands which gave trouble, or not told me vital things, even if I asked about them. I thought I'd cracked it when I worked in a different medium & had framed images in an exhibition so people could just buy them straight off the wall - & someone asked me to change the frame colour of her chosen image!

FarriersGirl · 11/08/2025 13:35

I love Bob Dylan's lyrics - [not quite so keen on his singing]

My love she speaks like silence
Without ideals or violence
She doesn’t have to say she’s faithful
Yet she’s true, like ice, like fire
People carry roses
Make promises by the hours
My love she laughs like the flowers
Valentines can’t buy her

ifIwerenotanandroid · 11/08/2025 13:38

Anyway, what I meant to say was, good luck to Myrtle - I've looked back at Bluey threads & missed what she's actually having done. So I used Advanced Search, which felt a bit like stalking an old friend; but I still couldn't find it. I did note her dedication about going out for a drink, though! So all the best, old girl.

And commiserations on the BBQ/mother incident. I went NC in my thirties when I realised my parents would never change, so I know how it can be. At least your DH & SIL understood it & are on your side. Yeah, to hell with her 80th celebrations!

SionnachRuadh · 11/08/2025 13:48

Dylan's lyrics are great. Shelter From The Storm has got me through some difficult times.

I have a fondness for the late Sandy Pearlman's lyrics on early Blue Oyster Cult albums, but that leads into strange and esoteric territory that me, JKR, and about 15 other people in the world find interesting.

MyrtleLion · 11/08/2025 13:55

Thank you for all your lovely words. They've really helped. DM texted this morning to say she needs DH's number so she can ask him about my operation and when I come home. She seemed a bit startled when I said it could be the same day or the day after. She sent all her love, so no indication that she had hurt me or upset me or done anything wrong. I will still go to her 80th, but I'm usually the organiser and this year, I'm not doing it.

I am having a sub-talar fusion of the left ankle tomorrow. This removes any remaining cartilage between the talus (bone under the tibia) and the heel bone. This is then screwed together and fused. I lose side to side motion of the heel which stabilises on uneven ground, but I also lose the chronic pain and instability of the foot that I've had for nearly six years, following a nasty trimalleolar fracture of the ankle in 2019. Non weight bearing for at least six weeks.

I have completed the latest booknook. Cherry Blossom Alley. Not as satisfying as the others because you can't see very much of the alley itself.

The Bluestocking does a late night flit again
The Bluestocking does a late night flit again
The Bluestocking does a late night flit again
The Bluestocking does a late night flit again
DeanElderberry · 11/08/2025 14:53

Still nice though.

I hope the mind-reading advertising machine doesn't get on to me, it's been bad enough the last few nights dreaming about horrid murders without being offered stuff to commit them with.

Imagine of someone annoyed me and I had all the kit.

Britinme · 11/08/2025 14:58

Imagine if the police had access to everybody's algorithms and could take you aside for a quiet word if dodgy stuff cropped up on them.

lcakethereforeIam · 11/08/2025 15:01

Which reminds me, I found something for @Boiledbeetle It, I believe, is ice cream served in a cone shaped like a Croc. Just give it a sec., although the ice cream and the Croc might make MN censor it.

The Bluestocking does a late night flit again
Magpiecomplex · 11/08/2025 15:15

lcakethereforeIam · 11/08/2025 15:01

Which reminds me, I found something for @Boiledbeetle It, I believe, is ice cream served in a cone shaped like a Croc. Just give it a sec., although the ice cream and the Croc might make MN censor it.

😱😱😱

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FarriersGirl · 11/08/2025 15:25

Good luck with your op @MyrtleLion hopefully it will make a big difference. Love the Croc ice cream I could do with one right now, has the Bluey got anything like that?

lcakethereforeIam · 11/08/2025 15:31

Just ask a gerbil. They do an amazing knickerbocker glory. I'd be careful about asking for it in a Croc though. Unless you want them to make it snappy.

MarieDeGournay · 11/08/2025 15:32

FarriersGirl · 11/08/2025 15:25

Good luck with your op @MyrtleLion hopefully it will make a big difference. Love the Croc ice cream I could do with one right now, has the Bluey got anything like that?

Of course we have! Gerbil! One ice-in-a-croc for Ms Farriers over here, if you please! 😁

Myrtle, that sounds very ...I'm lost for words - challenging? complicated? daunting? but of course the surgeons are probably approaching it as a book-nook that they've made umpteen times before so it'll be a doddle for themSmile
And a much improved pain-free and more mobile future for you, that's the main thing.

FarriersGirl · 11/08/2025 16:17

Of course we have! Gerbil! One ice-in-a-croc for Ms Farriers over here, if you please! 😁

Half way through the ice cream I have just had an awful thought....where did the gerbils get the Croc from? Has it been worn....< hushed tone> is it one of @Boiledbeetle 's 😨

Magpiecomplex · 11/08/2025 16:19

Gemini didn't quite understand the ice-cream brief. Still, your ice-cream, @FarriersGirl!

The Bluestocking does a late night flit again
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FarriersGirl · 11/08/2025 16:41

At least the ice-cream is contained in a wafer. Think I'll leave that just in case...

Magpiecomplex · 11/08/2025 16:48

That's probably wise, Farrier.

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SionnachRuadh · 11/08/2025 17:06

In this weather, I would have been happy with a very simple ice cream float, but the gerbils have brought me something more elaborate.

I'm not complaining.

The Bluestocking does a late night flit again
ErrolTheDragon · 11/08/2025 17:23

lcakethereforeIam · 11/08/2025 15:01

Which reminds me, I found something for @Boiledbeetle It, I believe, is ice cream served in a cone shaped like a Croc. Just give it a sec., although the ice cream and the Croc might make MN censor it.

Are you sure that’s a wafer cone and not….
…..wait for it…
…Choux pastry?

The croc the gerbil is holding is the same colour as mine (bought for DD for camping but weirdly enough she didn’t want to take them to uni.)

Magpiecomplex · 11/08/2025 17:41

Choux pastry? Oh dear, Errol! 😂😂

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Chersfrozenface · 11/08/2025 17:48

Choux pastry! 😂

ifIwerenotanandroid · 11/08/2025 17:52

Chersfrozenface · 11/08/2025 17:48

Choux pastry! 😂

Nice one, Errol!

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