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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

"Biological sex is a multidimensional variable with various components" - Thread 2

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/07/2025 18:33

The last thread ended with Tandora attempting to sidestep the question about what she would say if her daughter had been raped by a trans woman in a female only space and no longer believed that trans women should be in female only spaces as a consequence.

Her last reply was along the lines of, "The same thing I would say if she had been bullied by a green person at school and said she no longer wanted to go to school with green people."

@Tandora can we have a serious answer?

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WithSilverBells · 25/07/2025 11:08

Tandora · 25/07/2025 11:07

I am not advocating for anything that is incompatible with the SC ruling.

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Good. I will leave you to your pigeon chess then

BackToLurk · 25/07/2025 11:09

Tandora · 25/07/2025 10:53

Your argument, as I understand it, is that regardless of what being trans is or how it manifests, the reality is that trans women have a male karyotype and that therefore they are more prone to committing VAWG?

This implies that VAWG is driven by karyotype. I don't think it is. It's a social phenomenon driven by patriarchy.

Even if it were driven by karyotype it wouldn't be relevant to a conversation about toilets. Any man or trans woman who is driven to assault a women on account of his SRY genes can do so regardless of what the EA says about what toilets people should use.

The provisions about single sex spaces in the EA are not about preventing VAWG. This is not rational.

Firstly, I’m confused as to why if ‘Even if it were driven by karyotype it wouldn't be relevant to a conversation about toilets.’ you introduced them into a conversation about changing rooms.

That aside, I’m arguing that what we know is that, for whatever reason, there is a widely accepted pattern of male offending. You’re the one who’s suggested there is something called ‘transness’ which is biological (in a similar way to DSDs). I’m asking for the evidence that this changes make offending behaviour.

I also think it’s disingenuous to suggest safety is not considered in relation to single-sex spaces. If women feel unsafe because of the known behaviour of men as a class, then men can be excluded in order to deliver a service.That doesn’t mean safety is the only consideration.

Tandora · 25/07/2025 11:09

CorvusPurpureus · 25/07/2025 11:08

Here's a suggestion, @Tandora. You could type your notions up in a document & keep it handy.

Then when someone asks you a question you think you've answered before, you'll have your response at your fingertips.

I don't think you'd have any more success in convincing people, but it would save some of the circular ducking & diving, at least.

thanks for the suggestion. Next time I take the time to set out what it is to be trans on mumsnet I will save it as you suggest.

teksquad · 25/07/2025 11:10

Yes they tried that with the SP case, trying to muddy the waters with racism accusations. You have to be very, vert caredul with that as well, as you can't possibly know the race of anyone on an anonymous internet forum.

Also some conpelling stats on male pattern offending behaviour, that everyone including the government measures based on prison stats, here:

www.change.org/p/not-our-crimes-a-petition-for-accurate-data-reporting-in-criminal-statistics

Tandora · 25/07/2025 11:11

FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/07/2025 11:08

@Tandora

You seem to think that because something is "a social norm" that makes it somehow not a real problem for women (people of female karotype).

You are wrong.

The social norms are what lead the people of male karyotype to be "not nice".

That includes phsyical and sexual agression yes, but also the insidious socialisation that lead to entitlement and encrouchment on the male side, and deferment and accomodation on the female side that also does so much harm to the opportunities and enpowerment of people of female karotype.

So as long as those social norms exist, people of female karotype have entirely valid reasons to need some phsyical and cultural spaces and rights that exclude people of male karyotype regardless of how those male people may feel about themselves.

I'm more than happy to work with you towards a world where the social norms have changed to the point that the body in which one was born truly does not determine ones social risks and challanges, but until that day, the protections for female people must stay even if you (like all reasonable people) wish they were not needed.

If you disagree please explain why, not just from the perspective of the male people involved but also considering the experiences and impact on the femle people.

You seem to think that because something is "a social norm" that makes it somehow not a real problem for women

Absolutely not.

Of course it's a real problem. A problem I care deeply about.

It's not a problem that is in any way helped/ improved, however, by insisting that trans people must be treated according to their birth sex in all aspects of public life.

DialSquare · 25/07/2025 11:14

Tandora · 25/07/2025 10:48

That's a fair and interesting point. I am not an expert in animal behaviour and hierarchies - I suppose each species has their own social systems and behaviours.

With regard to human beings - I do not believe that male violence is a inevitable reality that is imprinted by the presence of a male chromosome.
If that were the case, would a criminal justice response even be fair? If it were purely instinctively, biologically driven behaviour?
Shouldn't we be looking for a medical cure?
I believe that human beings have control and decision making power in decided how to act in violent ways or otherwise. There is a patter of male violence against women and girls because of misogyny and patriarchy.

I think testosterone plays a massive part. My brother did ten years in prison for armed robbery. He had the same upbringing as me yet we couldn’t have been more different regarding working versus criminal behaviour. He started small but very young. He definitely deserved to go to prison for what he did. I’m not saying that his behaviour was due purely to being male but his male aggression was definitely part of it.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2025 11:14

Tandora · 25/07/2025 10:58

You cannot extrapolate from prison data to the general population - it's not representative in any way shape or form. It's really, really important people understand this.

If you thought that it were representative and you could extrapolate in this way, you would also generate some very racist conclusions from prison data.

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It's representative of people who have been convicted of serious offences.

Why do you think that trans identifying males are, on a per capita basis, more likely to be convicted of a sex offence than other males?

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2025 11:16

Tandora · 25/07/2025 11:11

You seem to think that because something is "a social norm" that makes it somehow not a real problem for women

Absolutely not.

Of course it's a real problem. A problem I care deeply about.

It's not a problem that is in any way helped/ improved, however, by insisting that trans people must be treated according to their birth sex in all aspects of public life.

They should be treated as their birth sex in all aspects of public life where sex is relevant.

Like all other people.

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Tandora · 25/07/2025 11:16

DialSquare · 25/07/2025 11:14

I think testosterone plays a massive part. My brother did ten years in prison for armed robbery. He had the same upbringing as me yet we couldn’t have been more different regarding working versus criminal behaviour. He started small but very young. He definitely deserved to go to prison for what he did. I’m not saying that his behaviour was due purely to being male but his male aggression was definitely part of it.

I do agree that there is a physiological relationship between testosterone and aggression.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2025 11:16

Tandora · 25/07/2025 11:09

thanks for the suggestion. Next time I take the time to set out what it is to be trans on mumsnet I will save it as you suggest.

If you have a dictionary length definition of a trans person you could just type it here. It would only take you a few seconds.

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teksquad · 25/07/2025 11:18

Phew! Something we can all agree on!

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2025 11:18

Tandora · 25/07/2025 11:07

I am not advocating for anything that is incompatible with the SC ruling.

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You have demonstrated on multiple occasions that you do not understand what is compatible with the Supreme Court ruling and what isn't.

You still appear to think a "women plus trans identifying males" space is compatible with it.

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FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/07/2025 11:19

Tandora · 25/07/2025 08:35

What is you evidence that trans identifying men are any less of a threat than other men?

Violence against women and girls is not a natural phenomenon driven by chromosomes.

Violence against women and girls is a social problem, rooted in inequality, power, misogyny and patriarchy.

Yes, and?

Does violence against women and girls only count if it's driven by chromosomes?

If one group of people is through Patriachy significantly more likely to socialised to be more violent, sexually aggressive and entitled because of their outward appearance of sex at birth than another group of people, and we do not know before it happens which members of that group this might apply to, why would we not take sex at birth into account when considering how to protect the other group of people?

And having made that decision, if a subgroup of the first group claimed they are safe to be treated as a special case despite at least some of them being proved to not be, why would we not expect some evidence of this before treating them as safe?

Tandora · 25/07/2025 11:20

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2025 11:14

It's representative of people who have been convicted of serious offences.

Why do you think that trans identifying males are, on a per capita basis, more likely to be convicted of a sex offence than other males?

You cannot take prison statistics, and generalise about behaviour within the broader population.

If you believe you can do this - use prison statistics in this way - you will come to some very wrong and very harmful and discriminatory conclusions - on many matters - especially race.

Criminal justice systems data is heavily biased and not representative of the broader population.

Luckily everyone who knows anything about statistics knows this.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2025 11:23

Tandora · 25/07/2025 11:20

You cannot take prison statistics, and generalise about behaviour within the broader population.

If you believe you can do this - use prison statistics in this way - you will come to some very wrong and very harmful and discriminatory conclusions - on many matters - especially race.

Criminal justice systems data is heavily biased and not representative of the broader population.

Luckily everyone who knows anything about statistics knows this.

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OK, let's try again.

Do you acknowledge that there are trans identifying males in the prison population who have been convicted of violent sexual offences against women and girls?

Assuming yes, what is your reason for suggesting that trans identifying males as a group are not at risk of committing violent sexual offences against women and girls?

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Tandora · 25/07/2025 11:24

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2025 11:23

OK, let's try again.

Do you acknowledge that there are trans identifying males in the prison population who have been convicted of violent sexual offences against women and girls?

Assuming yes, what is your reason for suggesting that trans identifying males as a group are not at risk of committing violent sexual offences against women and girls?

"Do you acknowledge that there are 'green people' in the prison population who have been convicted of violent sexual offences against women and girls?

Assuming yes, what is your reason for suggesting that 'green people' as a group are not at risk of committing violent sexual offences against women and girls?"

How would you answer this question if someone asked it you?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2025 11:24

Tandora · 25/07/2025 11:24

"Do you acknowledge that there are 'green people' in the prison population who have been convicted of violent sexual offences against women and girls?

Assuming yes, what is your reason for suggesting that 'green people' as a group are not at risk of committing violent sexual offences against women and girls?"

How would you answer this question if someone asked it you?

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I would say there is no such thing as green people.

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Tandora · 25/07/2025 11:24

Right guys I have to sign off and do some work on my day job.

teksquad · 25/07/2025 11:25

Again, I disagree with you.

If vastly more men and up in the prison system then women, then I am most certainly concluding that men are generally more likely to engage in criminal behaviour, irrespective of race, than women. As you said, likely mediated by testosterone and a male puberty.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 25/07/2025 11:27

Let's talk about black people, who actually exist, rather than green people, who don't.

Q1. Do black people commit over 98% of all sexual offences and 100% of all rapes?

Answer: no.

Q2. Do male people commit over 98% of all sexual offences and 100% of all rapes?

Answer: yes.

This is why your analogy doesn't work.

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FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/07/2025 11:34

Tandora · 25/07/2025 11:11

You seem to think that because something is "a social norm" that makes it somehow not a real problem for women

Absolutely not.

Of course it's a real problem. A problem I care deeply about.

It's not a problem that is in any way helped/ improved, however, by insisting that trans people must be treated according to their birth sex in all aspects of public life.

It's not a problem that is in any way helped/ improved, however, by insisting that trans people must be treated according to their birth sex in all aspects of public life.

That is true. That just maintains the status quo.

However unless you can show that trans women always act aligned to female social norms rather than male, treating trans women as women actively increases the negative impact of these social norms on women and girls, not because trans women are some greater theat but simply because they have been allowed where no other male people are, within the protections that are supposed to exclude people of their socialisation.

And you cannot show that trans women always act aligned to female social norms rather than male, because there is are far too many undisputable instances of trans women behaving exactly along male-socialiased norms.

And ironically, treating trans women as women also actively increases the negative impact of these social norms on women and girls by giving credence to the idea that male and female behaviours are something we are born into not socialised into, differences of the mind and not the body.

And making something worse is worse than just maintaining the status quo.

(You might at first object that those two statements are mutally contradictory. I hope you do. Because if you see that, you see the fundamental issue that we are trying to highlight for you - that the belief that trans women are somehow more like women than other men (itself rooted in sexist ideas about male and female people being different innately not just through our bodies) is not backed up by trans women's actions and statements in the real world).

WarriorN · 25/07/2025 11:51

I’ve not read this thread.

But started to comment on the linked twin study on the last thread before it closed.

Autism rates are higher in twins, especially identical.

There are clear links to autism and being diagnosed with gender dysmorphia or referred to a gender identity clinic.

autism rates are slightly higher amongst premature babies too, twin / triplet + increase the risk of this also.

the study was in Australia where gender identity is a widely shared belief within health care settings and most likely education too.

FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/07/2025 11:52

Tandora · 25/07/2025 08:51

I think prisons is an exceptional case. We don't build general rules about society around prison security systems.

I do not think a person who has been jailed for sexual assault should be jailed in a place where they have access to people who they can further assault.

By the way, men and boys can also be victims of sexual assault and rape.

My understanding about the way prisons work - although I don't know a huge amount about prison security - is that an individual risk assessment is conducted on an individual basis as to where they should be placed for the sake of everybody's security. I think this is exactly appropriate.

So you advocate for entirely mixed sex prisons and mixed sex cells, with individual prisoners assessed and if necessary segregated?

GIven the incredibly high statistically correlation between (boring observed) sex and certain behaviours, it seems a very expensive way to get to roughly the same place that simple sex segregation gets us already.

And as with so much "gender neutral" progress, what you are actually advocating for is to degrade the provisions for women (boring observed by sex type) to bring them to the level of provisions based around the socially normalised worse behaviour of men.

Here's an idea - how about we bring men's social norms up to the same standard as women's before we mix the sexes in all things?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/07/2025 12:00

Tandora · 25/07/2025 09:11

SP's actions were (in my view obviously - as I was accused of libel for expressing opinions about this on another thread) driven by transphobia.

Her behaviour was unacceptable and constituted harassment. If she had genuine concerns she would have handled the situation in an entirely different way.

DU also has the right to be comfortable at work.

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You do know SP initially spoke to her manager and was advised by her to speak to DU directly, right?

FlirtsWithRhinos · 25/07/2025 12:03

Tandora · 25/07/2025 09:13

I don't accept that accepting and including trans people is "riding roughshod over the comfort of women". Maybe some racist women would be more comfortable with segregation of 'green' people. I wouldn't support that either.

Again, why does a male karyotype person's inner sense that he is/should have been of female karyotype more meaningful to the women he shares a space with than the fact that he is in fact exactly the same physically and as far as she knows socially than all the people of male male karyotype who are excluded?

Why should his inner identity, something subjective that only he experiences, change her objective experience of him?

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