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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

"Biological sex is a multidimensional variable with various components" - Thread 2

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MissScarletInTheBallroom · 24/07/2025 18:33

The last thread ended with Tandora attempting to sidestep the question about what she would say if her daughter had been raped by a trans woman in a female only space and no longer believed that trans women should be in female only spaces as a consequence.

Her last reply was along the lines of, "The same thing I would say if she had been bullied by a green person at school and said she no longer wanted to go to school with green people."

@Tandora can we have a serious answer?

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BackToLurk · 26/07/2025 13:48

TheKeatingFive · 26/07/2025 13:46

Now that I think of it, I'd heard of a transabled before I ever heard of a transgender person and yes, the transabled are known to the health service.

Some have even persuaded doctors to cut off their healthy limbs. I'm not sure about the uk, but elsewhere

Yes it’s pretty widely accepted as existing. Body integrity identity disorder

Tandora · 26/07/2025 13:49

TheKeatingFive · 26/07/2025 13:43

It makes me feel like I am going insane, when you act like this hasn't been directly asked and directly answered multiple times already on this thread.

No you haven't, beyond 'I say so'

And you haven't answered my question. How many do I have to have heard of for these to be 'identities'?

Ive heard of at least as many of each as I'd heard of 'transgender' people in 2005.

So what does that tell me. Transgender identities weren't valid then either? Or that there's a cut off point at a particular year? When is that?

I'm not why you think the lawsuit point is relevant. For people to exist they have to be involved in lawsuits? Is that it?

Ive heard of at least as many of each as I'd heard of 'transgender' people in 2005

Just because you hadn't heard of trans people in 2005, doesn't mean they didn't exist.
The health service was already busy providing lots of services to trans people in 2005. We also already had the Gender Recognition Act, which officially recognised trans people in law.

Not so, your other imaginary groups of people.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 26/07/2025 13:49

BackToLurk · 26/07/2025 13:48

Yes it’s pretty widely accepted as existing. Body integrity identity disorder

Have there been any lawsuits though? Seeing as it’s based on those now…

Awiltu · 26/07/2025 13:49

suggestionsplease1 · 26/07/2025 13:47

If you're implying what I think you're implying, you should be aware that transwomen score poorly across all measures examined in those studies, so if transwomen are recorded as women in data points they will bring the average score for women down. This, of course, makes it even more impressive those countries stay at the tops of international tables for womens wellbeing, safety and equality.

If that is correct (you don't quote sources directly so I can't check), and (as you say) transwomen are women, then these countries can't be that great at womens' wellbeing, can they?

Awiltu · 26/07/2025 13:50

*women's

Apologies, rogue apostrophe.

Tandora · 26/07/2025 13:51

BackToLurk · 26/07/2025 13:48

Yes it’s pretty widely accepted as existing. Body integrity identity disorder

Body integrity identity disorder also exists, and your point is what?

TheKeatingFive · 26/07/2025 13:52

Tandora · 26/07/2025 13:49

Ive heard of at least as many of each as I'd heard of 'transgender' people in 2005

Just because you hadn't heard of trans people in 2005, doesn't mean they didn't exist.
The health service was already busy providing lots of services to trans people in 2005. We also already had the Gender Recognition Act, which officially recognised trans people in law.

Not so, your other imaginary groups of people.

Just because you hadn't heard of trans people in 2005, doesn't mean they didn't exist.

Back at ya for the other groups I mentioned.

Tandora · 26/07/2025 13:53

TheKeatingFive · 26/07/2025 13:52

Just because you hadn't heard of trans people in 2005, doesn't mean they didn't exist.

Back at ya for the other groups I mentioned.

They don't though.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/07/2025 13:53

suggestionsplease1 · 26/07/2025 13:03

O yeah, what are the exactly? Have you read the methodologies of the internationally respected Women, Peace and Security Index, or the Global Gender Gap Report?

These are cited by governments, national health bodies and women's rights groups worldwide. It's a shame you don't like what they have to say, isn't it? Doesn't seem very feminist of you.

Perhaps you could post alternative international studies of women's wellbeing and equality, and we could look at how those countries perform in terms of gender self-ID?

"Gender pay gap" statistics are fairly meaningless in a country where a man or a woman is anyone who says they are one.

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suggestionsplease1 · 26/07/2025 13:54

Awiltu · 26/07/2025 13:49

If that is correct (you don't quote sources directly so I can't check), and (as you say) transwomen are women, then these countries can't be that great at womens' wellbeing, can they?

Well there's a lot that is wrong with this post, incorrect attribution of statement, and invalid conclusion.

Fidgetbreak · 26/07/2025 13:55

Fidgetbreak · 26/07/2025 04:20

@Tandora
I see the subject of defining sex is still going. Would like to finish the conversation where we left off in the last part of this thread. I've copied the conversation chain below.

We covered one context of a doctor assuming sex, and there was mention that it could result in a mistake, but there wasn't any clarification as to how sex would be verified after a mistake. You can see how the conversation ended abruptly.

How would sex be verified after an incorrect assumption?

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Fidgetbreak:
Hi Tandora , Forgive me for not having read every post yet, it's a very long thread. Also a very interesting one. I'm genuinely curious about your perspective. Have a small question that might help me understand things better. How would you determine if a person is male or female?

Tandora:
sorry I did miss this.
How would we determine whether someone is male or female? Well firstly it would depend on the context - in which context were you thinking?

Fidgetbreak:
I was thinking generally. To pick something more specific, perhaps, in the context of seeing a doctor? Maybe you could mention some contexts where it could differ as well?

Tandora:
In the context of seeing a doctor, the doctor would assume the sex of the person by looking at them. There would be social cues - how they were dressed, their name, as well as cues related to physiological features associated with either sex. There is usually also a market on the medical record designating whether the person is 'f' or 'm'.

crazysnakess:
How does a doctor decide what contraception to suggest?

Tandora:
Based on what reproductive anatomy the person had, which they would deduce based on their perception of the person's sex.

crazysnakess:
But how does the doctor know? How do they know what sex it is that they are perceiving?

Tandora:
I answered that above. Sometimes they may be wrong of course which would involve a conversation between the doctor and the patient.

BackToLurk:
So if a transwoman, whose ‘transness’ was based on how they felt, but whose reproductive anatomy was entirely male, went to the GP what type of contraception would be appropriate?

Tandora:
They would require condoms or a vasectomy.

cloudyblueglass:
Because….?

Tandora:
Because they have a penis and testes.

cloudyblueglass:
And they are objectively….,what sex?

Tandora:
It depends what you mean by "sex". And that's what this thread was about.

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@Tandora
Sorry to quote such a long post again, but I am interested in learning more about this.

Maybe I could move the conversation along by referencing something you said. You will see that when asked about a person 'whose reproductive anatomy was entirely male' you understood it as a person who has 'a penis and testes'.

Would it be fair to deduce from this that part of your theory of sex includes that a penis and testes is a component of the male sex?

suggestionsplease1 · 26/07/2025 13:55

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/07/2025 13:53

"Gender pay gap" statistics are fairly meaningless in a country where a man or a woman is anyone who says they are one.

These are not pay gap studies.

illinivich · 26/07/2025 13:56

People have crossed dressed for a variety of reasons for a long time. The diagnosis of gender dysphoria has been around for a while.

These fact dont mean that sex is undefinable, complicated or up to the individual to determine.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/07/2025 13:57

suggestionsplease1 · 26/07/2025 13:36

See, all the time here people say they only deal in the facts, but they certainly don't like the international data facts that show women's wellbeing and trans people's wellbeing go hand in hand together.

The countries doing the best for women are also those doing the best for trans people and protecting their rights.

It seems very anti feminist to try to ridicule all these hugely respected international indices.

That's because they're all fucking meaningless if none of them are using a coherent definition of what a woman is.

If we can't trust the most basic input, how can we trust any of the other inputs?

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TheKeatingFive · 26/07/2025 13:58

Tandora · 26/07/2025 13:53

They don't though.

Tandora I feel we have located the heart of the problem here.

You have decided that only your perception of the world matters.

That is not the case.

BackToLurk · 26/07/2025 13:58

Non binary people @Tandora. What sex?
Desistors. What sex?

Tandora · 26/07/2025 13:58

Fidgetbreak · 26/07/2025 13:55

@Tandora
Sorry to quote such a long post again, but I am interested in learning more about this.

Maybe I could move the conversation along by referencing something you said. You will see that when asked about a person 'whose reproductive anatomy was entirely male' you understood it as a person who has 'a penis and testes'.

Would it be fair to deduce from this that part of your theory of sex includes that a penis and testes is a component of the male sex?

Would it be fair to deduce from this that part of your theory of sex includes that a penis and testes is a component of the male sex?

Yes.

Tandora · 26/07/2025 14:02

TheKeatingFive · 26/07/2025 13:58

Tandora I feel we have located the heart of the problem here.

You have decided that only your perception of the world matters.

That is not the case.

No, I've that decided that facts and evidence matter; that what can actually be observed in the empirical world matters.

You have decided only your perceptions of the world matter, and that's why you refuse to accept that the existence of trans people could reflect a real, legitimate, natural, stable form of human diversity, despite a mountain of evidence of this. In your world transness is an imaginary and elusive identity. And no matter what anyone says you will never for a second take a moment to reconsider this perspective.

Awiltu · 26/07/2025 14:02

suggestionsplease1 · 26/07/2025 13:54

Well there's a lot that is wrong with this post, incorrect attribution of statement, and invalid conclusion.

Please do entertain us by spelling out the "lot" that is wrong...

suggestionsplease1 · 26/07/2025 14:03

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/07/2025 13:57

That's because they're all fucking meaningless if none of them are using a coherent definition of what a woman is.

If we can't trust the most basic input, how can we trust any of the other inputs?

I mean these are fairly sensible countries at the top of these tables aren't they? Are you somehow imagining that large swathes of their populations who have M on their birth certificates are, for shits and giggles, randomly putting that they are F for data at work, tax, criminal records or for medical records?

What fanciful imagination you must have!

Trans populations seem to be stabilizing around the 1% or lower mark, so the figures will be in this region. Or lower, as plenty trans people will record their birth-assigned sex.

TheKeatingFive · 26/07/2025 14:04

Tandora · 26/07/2025 14:02

No, I've that decided that facts and evidence matter; that what can actually be observed in the empirical world matters.

You have decided only your perceptions of the world matter, and that's why you refuse to accept that the existence of trans people could reflect a real, legitimate, natural, stable form of human diversity, despite a mountain of evidence of this. In your world transness is an imaginary and elusive identity. And no matter what anyone says you will never for a second take a moment to reconsider this perspective.

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No, I've decided facts and evidence matter. What you can observe in the empirical world.

Wow. This is actually hilarious.

I didn't realise you were this deluded.

Tandora · 26/07/2025 14:04

BackToLurk · 26/07/2025 13:58

Non binary people @Tandora. What sex?
Desistors. What sex?

I've already answered r.e. disistence.

Non-binary people are non-binary. I don't see why you think I would fail to recognise non-binary people, when this whole thread is about me trying to explain how and why biological sex development is not always strictly binary?

Igneococcus · 26/07/2025 14:07

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 26/07/2025 13:57

That's because they're all fucking meaningless if none of them are using a coherent definition of what a woman is.

If we can't trust the most basic input, how can we trust any of the other inputs?

I assume all it shows is that countries that have made some progress in equality between the sexes (and I'm also not too sure about NZ, I have lived there and my children and dp are NZ citizens) have fallen hard for gender ideology as the next frontier in progressivism. Causation and correlation might be quite hard to separate here.

suggestionsplease1 · 26/07/2025 14:07

First part ok.

Then "(as you say) transwomen are women?"- where have you taken that from in my post? False attribution from information you have available to you.

Then "then these countries can't be that great at womens' wellbeing, can they?" Conclusion does not logically follow from premises.

suggestionsplease1 · 26/07/2025 14:08

Awiltu · 26/07/2025 14:02

Please do entertain us by spelling out the "lot" that is wrong...

Sorry, meant to quote this

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