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"Biological sex is a multidimensional variable with various components" - Discuss

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dunBle · 23/07/2025 00:12

To save further derailment of the Sandie Peggie tribunal threads with people debating Tandora's statements on the above theme, I've started this thread to point them to instead.

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PillowQuilt · 23/07/2025 09:12

Tandora · 23/07/2025 08:35

They are part of this conversation- they are directly harmed by the dogma of peoples beliefs about sex development and biology. Your claims are manipulative and designed to shut down honest sharing of scientific truths about sex development which are vital to any conversation about sexual, gender and how we should organise society around these categories.

This was my question - how SHOULD we organise society around these categories?

Does a multidimensional view of sex mean that Sandie Peggie and Dr Beth Upton have equal right to use a female changing room, or should there not be any changing room marked female at all?

YouCantProveIt · 23/07/2025 09:16

@Tandora you are not engaging with me. Is it because of my protected characteristic of sex or protected belief of gender realism?

Sad times.

You’re hurting my feelings I might have to cry to a Doctor.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/07/2025 09:17

PillowQuilt · 23/07/2025 09:12

This was my question - how SHOULD we organise society around these categories?

Does a multidimensional view of sex mean that Sandie Peggie and Dr Beth Upton have equal right to use a female changing room, or should there not be any changing room marked female at all?

As far as I can tell, the question of which category people with DSDs should be in only ever appears to be an issue in elite sport (e.g. Caster Semenya).

NextRinny · 23/07/2025 09:17

Igneococcus · 23/07/2025 08:56

And some people, me included, asked about specifically which field.
I'm a biologist but I know fuck all about the ecology of termites for example. It's a large subject, it's fair to ask what Tandora's specialty is.

Please let it be clownish!

Tandora · 23/07/2025 09:18

I'm trying to find the post about how most people don't have a 'gender identity' - I've lost it.

Almost all people have a 'gender identity' - the terminology is a distraction and I wouldn't use it - I think we need a better term to describe what we mean.

BUT regardless of the terminology, 'gender identity' is so ubiquitous that it is (or used to be until very recently - I haven't checked since around 2021 so may have changed) part of the ASQ assessment age 36 months - 'if you ask your child if they are a boy or girl do they respond 'correctly''. This is all 'gender identity' is.

There's plenty of psychological literature on the psychological/ cognitive development of this awareness - although the older literatures tend to be written from a starting assumption that these will naturally follow from sex at birth, however, more recent literatures acknowledge that this pathway of cognitive development cannot always be assumed.

NextRinny · 23/07/2025 09:18

Clownfish! 😮

MarvellousMonsters · 23/07/2025 09:19

Tandora · 23/07/2025 00:40

There are absolutely female people with Y chromosomes. One classic example (that people on mumsnet get really angry if you talk about) are women with CAIS. They have a y chromosome but their body is insensitive to androgens so doesn’t masculinise in the typical manner. People with CAIS are almost always assigned female at birth, so they would fit the SC definition of biological female/ woman as well as medically . They tend to have typical looking female genitalia externally, but what is known as a “blind vagina” and they do not have ovaries or a uterus.

And how common is CIAS exactly @Tandora? I doubt it goes unnoticed, surely the lack of menstruation is investigated and then the condition is diagnosed, so I’m guessing there are figures.

Please stop using rare syndromes as TRA evidence. We are not trying to exclude people like this, we are trying to keep Nigel in a wig (and a fully functioning penis) out of single sex female only spaces. It’s completely different.

(also, any ‘there’s huge variance in sex’ argument that involves fruit flies or lizards or fish or any animal that’s not human, or at least a primate, is irrelevant)

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/07/2025 09:19

Tandora · 23/07/2025 09:18

I'm trying to find the post about how most people don't have a 'gender identity' - I've lost it.

Almost all people have a 'gender identity' - the terminology is a distraction and I wouldn't use it - I think we need a better term to describe what we mean.

BUT regardless of the terminology, 'gender identity' is so ubiquitous that it is (or used to be until very recently - I haven't checked since around 2021 so may have changed) part of the ASQ assessment age 36 months - 'if you ask your child if they are a boy or girl do they respond 'correctly''. This is all 'gender identity' is.

There's plenty of psychological literature on the psychological/ cognitive development of this awareness - although the older literatures tend to be written from a starting assumption that these will naturally follow from sex at birth, however, more recent literatures acknowledge that this pathway of cognitive development cannot always be assumed.

I just asked my four year old whether his little sister is a boy or a girl. He said she's a girl. Then I asked him why she is a girl and he said because she doesn't have a willy like me.

NextRinny · 23/07/2025 09:19

I've got lost trying to catch up on the thread. Is gender identity an identifiable entity now?

Or is it one of the parameters of biological sex?

crazysnakess · 23/07/2025 09:20

Tandora · 23/07/2025 09:18

I'm trying to find the post about how most people don't have a 'gender identity' - I've lost it.

Almost all people have a 'gender identity' - the terminology is a distraction and I wouldn't use it - I think we need a better term to describe what we mean.

BUT regardless of the terminology, 'gender identity' is so ubiquitous that it is (or used to be until very recently - I haven't checked since around 2021 so may have changed) part of the ASQ assessment age 36 months - 'if you ask your child if they are a boy or girl do they respond 'correctly''. This is all 'gender identity' is.

There's plenty of psychological literature on the psychological/ cognitive development of this awareness - although the older literatures tend to be written from a starting assumption that these will naturally follow from sex at birth, however, more recent literatures acknowledge that this pathway of cognitive development cannot always be assumed.

But asking a very young child is not a reliable indicator. A 3yo boy who has been repeatedly told by his parents that he is a girl will say he is a girl.

cloudyblueglass · 23/07/2025 09:20

Tandora · 23/07/2025 08:31

Someone with CAIS who would be said to have a DSD is male.

So you are claiming that women with CAIS are objectively male?

The vast majority of people with CAIS are (very appropriately) assigned female at birth. They would fulfil the SC definition of “biologically female” for the purposes of understanding protections from discrimination related to sex in the EA 2010

Whils they are male they have been unable to develop male secondary sex characteristics because they are effectively immune to testosterone - therefore their body’s develop with female characteristics. Which is the default pathway unless it’s disrupted by functioning sry gene.

Are CAIS women able to reproduce? No. This is because their reproductive system is unable to operate as would be expected. They have testes, not ovaries and those testes don’t function.

It really is quite despicable that you are using peopld with DSDs to try to assert that men can be women at will, and vice versa.

Tandora · 23/07/2025 09:21

YouCantProveIt · 23/07/2025 09:16

@Tandora you are not engaging with me. Is it because of my protected characteristic of sex or protected belief of gender realism?

Sad times.

You’re hurting my feelings I might have to cry to a Doctor.

I think that these are legitimate questions and there is a legitimate debate to be had about how to organise society/ arrange policy. But it absolutely cannot take place on reasonable terms before we resolve misunderstandings about sex, gender, DSDs, transness and what being 'male' or 'female' actually means scientifically.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/07/2025 09:22

crazysnakess · 23/07/2025 09:20

But asking a very young child is not a reliable indicator. A 3yo boy who has been repeatedly told by his parents that he is a girl will say he is a girl.

Also, surely "responding correctly" means a child with a penis responding that he is a boy and a child with a vulva responding that she is a girl.

The very fact that we consider there to be one correct response and (at least) one incorrect response is proof that when we say boy we mean male child and when we say girl we mean female child.

If the question were about gender identity there would be no incorrect responses.

myplace · 23/07/2025 09:24

At the risk of derailing this thread- and I don’t want to do that- I’m going to relate this conversation to the NHSF situation.

The doctors on the stand do not agree with you, Tandora, despite their support for DU.

If they did, they would be saying so in their emails, in their evidence, they would be disclosing those emails, rather than hiding evidence and conspiring against SP.

Keeptoiletssafe · 23/07/2025 09:25

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WarriorN · 23/07/2025 09:26

Tandora · 23/07/2025 00:42

Oh my goodness are you for real? Thank you 🙏🏻 ❤️

the terms man and woman are simply male and female.

Upon which human and mammal reproduction is based.

upon which laws are based as the males tend to sexually assault the females, and the females can become pregnant and have certain medical maternity and postnatal/ motherhood needs.

there’s so much variation between individuals in terms of hormones, behaviour, looks etc that we’d need a category per individual person.

the very few people who have disorders of sexual development (and have survived being born as some die pre term) are still either male and female, but would possibly need specific medical care due to the health issues and sometimes cognitive issues associated with the chromosomal difference.

once again their diagnosis is being used by people who want to be gender non conforming and special but are in reality either male or female.

Tandora · 23/07/2025 09:27

crazysnakess · 23/07/2025 09:20

But asking a very young child is not a reliable indicator. A 3yo boy who has been repeatedly told by his parents that he is a girl will say he is a girl.

Possibly. Especially at 3. But not necessarily.
There are a minority of children who, no matter how many times you say they are a girl, they will tell you they are a boy, and vice versa. There is also evidence that where sex assignment for people with DSDs has been decided on the basis of convenience (rather than appropriate medical consideration) as historically was often the case, individuals will 'transition' later in life.

crazysnakess · 23/07/2025 09:27

Tandora · 23/07/2025 09:21

I think that these are legitimate questions and there is a legitimate debate to be had about how to organise society/ arrange policy. But it absolutely cannot take place on reasonable terms before we resolve misunderstandings about sex, gender, DSDs, transness and what being 'male' or 'female' actually means scientifically.

Edited

What is the misunderstanding, exactly, that means that it's not appropriate to keep males, who can and do impregnate females against their will, separate from females in situations which make females more vulnerable to forced impregnation?

Slightyamusedandsilly · 23/07/2025 09:28

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/07/2025 08:41

"the GC"

You realise that this discussion has nothing to do with being gender critical, right?

We are discussing sex on this thread, not gender.

There are many trans people who would agree that Tandora's arguments about sex are fatally flawed.

Are there any on here?

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/07/2025 09:29

Slightyamusedandsilly · 23/07/2025 09:28

Are there any on here?

There are at least two trans men on here who understand and accept biological reality.

drspouse · 23/07/2025 09:29

Tandora · 23/07/2025 09:18

I'm trying to find the post about how most people don't have a 'gender identity' - I've lost it.

Almost all people have a 'gender identity' - the terminology is a distraction and I wouldn't use it - I think we need a better term to describe what we mean.

BUT regardless of the terminology, 'gender identity' is so ubiquitous that it is (or used to be until very recently - I haven't checked since around 2021 so may have changed) part of the ASQ assessment age 36 months - 'if you ask your child if they are a boy or girl do they respond 'correctly''. This is all 'gender identity' is.

There's plenty of psychological literature on the psychological/ cognitive development of this awareness - although the older literatures tend to be written from a starting assumption that these will naturally follow from sex at birth, however, more recent literatures acknowledge that this pathway of cognitive development cannot always be assumed.

That question doesn't get at gender identity. It gets at self-identification of sex.
We know very little about how this actually develops - after all, until they are quite a bit older, children think they can turn into the opposite sex by putting on clothing of the opposite sex, or just by growing older a boy thinks he will breastfeed.
It's rather like asking them how many fingers they have and instead of saying "OK we know they can count" saying children have a "finger identity" which might differ from their actual number of fingers.

Tandora · 23/07/2025 09:30

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 23/07/2025 09:22

Also, surely "responding correctly" means a child with a penis responding that he is a boy and a child with a vulva responding that she is a girl.

The very fact that we consider there to be one correct response and (at least) one incorrect response is proof that when we say boy we mean male child and when we say girl we mean female child.

If the question were about gender identity there would be no incorrect responses.

If the question were about gender identity there would be no incorrect responses

But the question is about gender identity. This is what gender identity is - cognitive awareness/ knowledge of sex. Only there has been a historical assumption that this awareness/ knowledge will directly follow from birth observed sex/ sex of rearing. Usually it does, but something it doesn't.

crazysnakess · 23/07/2025 09:30

Tandora · 23/07/2025 09:27

Possibly. Especially at 3. But not necessarily.
There are a minority of children who, no matter how many times you say they are a girl, they will tell you they are a boy, and vice versa. There is also evidence that where sex assignment for people with DSDs has been decided on the basis of convenience (rather than appropriate medical consideration) as historically was often the case, individuals will 'transition' later in life.

Why does this mean that the desire of a adult man to use the same open plan changing room as teenage girls makes him female?

tedlassoforprimeminister · 23/07/2025 09:30

PrettyDamnCosmic · 23/07/2025 09:11

There are about 600,000 babies born in the UK every year half of them male. A 1:20,000 incidence means 15 born every year with CAIS.

That’s the highest estimate. But these individuals are absolutely nothing to do with the idea of trans women, and none of them would consider themselves transgender. They would all be classified as having a DSD. They do not change their gender, their development has not correctly followed the pathway for their sex.
Completely different to all of the individuals who claim they want to be, or are in fact, the other sex and many individuals with a DSD find it offensive (and rightly so) that the trans lobby wish to include them as a gotcha.

Tandora · 23/07/2025 09:31

Right I have to go back to my actual job x

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