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Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Compelled speech - Croydon pride

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Cheeseandtomato72 · 15/07/2025 15:49

Croydon pride will only accept applications from stall vendors who agree to state they believe:

trans women are women. Trans men are men and non binary identities are valid.

vendor applicants need to ‘join in a public display of support’ affirming these principles.

This is discrimination against anyone who does not accept biological males as women. Total disregard for the Supreme Court judgment.

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Unilever - https://www.unilever.co.uk/contact/

superdrug [email protected]

London Southbank University - no complaints email for non students but you can call this number to find out who to report activity to tel:+44 (0)20 7815 7500 +44 (0)20 7815 7500

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AnSolas · 17/07/2025 09:06

PencilsInSpace · 17/07/2025 00:41

Oh look, they're a charity 😬

https://register-of-charities.charitycommission.gov.uk/en/charity-search/-/charity-details/5096130/charity-overview

I don't know whether they would have any direct duty under the EA towards stall holders - whether they would count as beneficiaries or service users, but if not surely they fall foul of Section 111 - instructing, causing or inducing contraventions

https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2010/15/section/111

That's the one Allison Bailey is using in her claim against Stonewall.

The charity is 20k the company 10555864 is where the money is collected

RantzNotBantz · 17/07/2025 09:20

Bobbymoore123 · 16/07/2025 15:33

None of you have ever been to Croydon Pride, none of you were ever going to go to Croydon Pride and nobody ever asked your opinion on Croydon Pride. This may be a public event but Croydon pride is an independent organisation and is allowed to make its own rules.

Croydon pride is, and has always been, trans inclusive.

LGBT people existed and built communities before it was legal, if you succeed in snuffing out all legal routes through your billionaire funded lawsuits then LGBT people will still continue to exist and will continue to build supportive communities like Croydon Pride.

I HAVE been to Croydon Pride!

And I have no problem with Croydon Pride being Trans Inclusive - their choice and I am not anti Trans people.

But as a Croydon resident, who uses Wandle Park and other public parks, I am interested in keeping our parks open and free to all, and do not want to see any group demanding allegiance to any belief in order to take part in or trade at a public event in public parks. It seems to me to be very anti-democratic to demand allegiance to thoughts and beliefs for an event in a public park.

Another local park is used for big public Eid prayers. The mosque asks attendants to fast beforehand, wear clothes considered appropriate for their prayers - but makes no demands or suggestions to anyone else using the park at the same time.

I have no issue with respectful behaviour being requirement in parks, same as anywhere else. Hate speech, assault, discrimination - not acceptable.

But asking for public alignment of thought is Orwellian, whatever the thought in question.

I simply want to know if it is legal. What is the matter with that?

RantzNotBantz · 17/07/2025 09:21

P.S and this is what pisses me off.
Makes me absolutely fucking furious.

We are closed down from debate, looking at wider issues, asking questions...by the fear of someone yelling 'transphobia'.

Democracy is important and a group asking for public display of allegiance to a belief is co-ercion.

RantzNotBantz · 17/07/2025 09:34

@Bobbymoore123 While you (wrongly) say people have not been to Croydon Pride are you a Croydon resident? Are you paying Council Tax towards the upkeep of this park as a public space? Are you concerned about our democratic rights as council tax paying residents?

If not - go back to your own damn borough and let them trample on your rights to think and believe what you like and stop telling us Croydon residents that we should give up our freedoms.

PleaseStopMeowing · 17/07/2025 09:47

myplace · 17/07/2025 06:13

It’s an old well rehearsed argument and contains some built in shortcuts. When feminists are accused of being trans exclusionary, the accusation refers to excluding transwomen from the category woman.
No one was ever asking us to be inclusive of transmen. Partly because that would require telling men off rather than women, and partly because they never have a shiny shit about transmen (women, innit?).
It’s been clear from the get go that this is a men’s rights issue. They want ours as well as their own.

Yep you're right there. Trans men are never even thought about by them because they're female. It's a shit show. I would think a good proportion of trans men were lesbians and now with female partners so all the more reason to ignore them.

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 17/07/2025 09:57

RantzNotBantz · 17/07/2025 09:20

I HAVE been to Croydon Pride!

And I have no problem with Croydon Pride being Trans Inclusive - their choice and I am not anti Trans people.

But as a Croydon resident, who uses Wandle Park and other public parks, I am interested in keeping our parks open and free to all, and do not want to see any group demanding allegiance to any belief in order to take part in or trade at a public event in public parks. It seems to me to be very anti-democratic to demand allegiance to thoughts and beliefs for an event in a public park.

Another local park is used for big public Eid prayers. The mosque asks attendants to fast beforehand, wear clothes considered appropriate for their prayers - but makes no demands or suggestions to anyone else using the park at the same time.

I have no issue with respectful behaviour being requirement in parks, same as anywhere else. Hate speech, assault, discrimination - not acceptable.

But asking for public alignment of thought is Orwellian, whatever the thought in question.

I simply want to know if it is legal. What is the matter with that?

If these declarations of allegiance are only for stallholders at Pride who want to use the Pride branding, and not for attenders or the general public, then that's not so different from the Eid rules?

Not a lawyer but... legality might depend on whether local traders like an ice-cream van or burger stall or craft stall who have a licence to trade in the park can carry on as usual or if they have to sign up to these declarations as well. And whether a trader can still have a stall in the park that isn't part of Pride. It's a bit complicated because Pride might be paying extra for cleanup etc so traders would be getting the benefit of the crowd without contributing. If the usual rules for stallholders are being suspended for Pride and ideological commitments are required to trade then that could be discriminatory. Hm.

PleaseStopMeowing · 17/07/2025 10:06

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 17/07/2025 09:57

If these declarations of allegiance are only for stallholders at Pride who want to use the Pride branding, and not for attenders or the general public, then that's not so different from the Eid rules?

Not a lawyer but... legality might depend on whether local traders like an ice-cream van or burger stall or craft stall who have a licence to trade in the park can carry on as usual or if they have to sign up to these declarations as well. And whether a trader can still have a stall in the park that isn't part of Pride. It's a bit complicated because Pride might be paying extra for cleanup etc so traders would be getting the benefit of the crowd without contributing. If the usual rules for stallholders are being suspended for Pride and ideological commitments are required to trade then that could be discriminatory. Hm.

I don't see how it can be legally or morally right to expect regular traders, not part of Pride to agree to these terms. Yes they might benefit but tough, if this is their regular patch then they shouldn't have to agree to any of this nonsense.

AnSolas · 17/07/2025 11:49

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 17/07/2025 09:57

If these declarations of allegiance are only for stallholders at Pride who want to use the Pride branding, and not for attenders or the general public, then that's not so different from the Eid rules?

Not a lawyer but... legality might depend on whether local traders like an ice-cream van or burger stall or craft stall who have a licence to trade in the park can carry on as usual or if they have to sign up to these declarations as well. And whether a trader can still have a stall in the park that isn't part of Pride. It's a bit complicated because Pride might be paying extra for cleanup etc so traders would be getting the benefit of the crowd without contributing. If the usual rules for stallholders are being suspended for Pride and ideological commitments are required to trade then that could be discriminatory. Hm.

Check out the post :
Cheeseandtomato72 · Yesterday 11:54

Under section 3 where it says its anyone who "works with"

Plus there is no permission for use of the pride branding.

Rather that the person paying for a stall or working with (LA, police contractors being paid for work etc ) must per rule 3 make a statement against non-believers using their own brand.

So works with

The police if not billing for the extra cost of policing is working with.

The LA by providing space on its own with no sponsorship is working with.
As you say LA is closing roads or public property and allowing a business to be carried out on part of it is depriving others access

The LA cant really justify charging an independent business extra due to the business being in close proximity to additional footfall

So the problem is the use of public funds and assets.

But they are running the money through a company so refusing to do business.

PencilsInSpace · 17/07/2025 12:34

AnSolas · 17/07/2025 09:06

The charity is 20k the company 10555864 is where the money is collected

The charity and the company are not separate. It's normal for a charity to also form itself as a company limited by guarantee, otherwise the trustees are personally liable for the charity's debts.

Running pride, including hiring out stalls, is part of their charitable activities:

  1. STAGING AND PROMOTING LGBT EVENTS AND IN PARTICULAR AN ANNUAL LGBT FESTIVAL;

The money they spend and the income generated on 'Croydon Pridefest' forms part of the charity's accounts.

Speaking of which, there's something a bit strange going on - why would they be 'not required' to submit accounts and an annual report for 2004? I also note they have six trustees but no chair.

Fimofriend · 17/07/2025 12:52

Christinapple · 15/07/2025 21:24

"I’ve added their complaints email. You know what to do Mumsnet "

I'll give them a tip off so if any threats are received they'll know where to start the police investigation.

You do realize that most of momsnetters are women, right? The kinds of threats that you can report to the police are from the men.

Also, I don't appreciate the hostile tone you are using towards us.

AnSolas · 17/07/2025 13:08

PencilsInSpace · 17/07/2025 12:34

The charity and the company are not separate. It's normal for a charity to also form itself as a company limited by guarantee, otherwise the trustees are personally liable for the charity's debts.

Running pride, including hiring out stalls, is part of their charitable activities:

  1. STAGING AND PROMOTING LGBT EVENTS AND IN PARTICULAR AN ANNUAL LGBT FESTIVAL;

The money they spend and the income generated on 'Croydon Pridefest' forms part of the charity's accounts.

Speaking of which, there's something a bit strange going on - why would they be 'not required' to submit accounts and an annual report for 2004? I also note they have six trustees but no chair.

Thanks i was looking at this on the charity page

Income and expenditure
Data for financial year ending 31 August 2024
Total income: £19,303
Total expenditure: £18,730

and the accounts via a different page.

Activities - how the charity spends its money
Staging and promoting LGBTQIA events including the annual Croydon PrideFest. Raising awareness with regard to all aspects of discrimination in society affecting the lives of LGBTQIA people in Croydon. We also supports Croydon's diverse LGBTQIA organisations to develop and maximise the effectiveness of voluntary organisations run by and for LGBTQIA people in Croydon.

I notice the mission creep from LGBT to adding Q and I and A and then a + on the application form

JeremiahBullfrog · 18/07/2025 12:18

I can't say I have a problem with this, much as I disagree with the views of the organisation in question. I imagine OP would not be complaining if they kicked out vendors who are morally opposed to homosexuality or who support the Taliban! This is no different, in my view, to a Christian festival requiring stall holders to be Christians, or a socialist gathering requiring stall holders to be socialists.

CassOle · 18/07/2025 12:39

No, it's more like having a Christian festival and then making all the stallholders sign that they support a specific, contested and extreme belief that some Christians hold, but not all Christians hold.

Thelnebriati · 18/07/2025 12:40

Sex is a protected characteristic as is belief, and the organisers cannot rewrite equality laws to suit themselves. They cannot lawfully demand others agree with their new interpretation, its a contravention of The Equality Act.

Demanding people agree that 'trans women are women' discriminates against lesbians and gay men who are same sex attracted. I'm astonished people still need to have the homophobia pointed out to them.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 18/07/2025 14:29

AmaryllisNightAndDay · 17/07/2025 09:57

If these declarations of allegiance are only for stallholders at Pride who want to use the Pride branding, and not for attenders or the general public, then that's not so different from the Eid rules?

Not a lawyer but... legality might depend on whether local traders like an ice-cream van or burger stall or craft stall who have a licence to trade in the park can carry on as usual or if they have to sign up to these declarations as well. And whether a trader can still have a stall in the park that isn't part of Pride. It's a bit complicated because Pride might be paying extra for cleanup etc so traders would be getting the benefit of the crowd without contributing. If the usual rules for stallholders are being suspended for Pride and ideological commitments are required to trade then that could be discriminatory. Hm.

It's unlikely to be a problem when the beer tents are run by the Green Party person in the context of their day job as publican and the sound/tech/everything else is from their ex's company, tbh.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/07/2025 14:30

Thelnebriati · 18/07/2025 12:40

Sex is a protected characteristic as is belief, and the organisers cannot rewrite equality laws to suit themselves. They cannot lawfully demand others agree with their new interpretation, its a contravention of The Equality Act.

Demanding people agree that 'trans women are women' discriminates against lesbians and gay men who are same sex attracted. I'm astonished people still need to have the homophobia pointed out to them.

This.

GeneralPeter · 19/07/2025 05:01

CassOle · 18/07/2025 12:39

No, it's more like having a Christian festival and then making all the stallholders sign that they support a specific, contested and extreme belief that some Christians hold, but not all Christians hold.

I have to say that I think religious groups should be allowed to do this. Policies against supposedly ‘hateful’ or extreme beliefs have been used to obstruct GC events for a decade. I don’t think the answer is to endorse the weapon but aim to wield it at the other side instead.

(I think Croydon Pride is an edge case, given the fact it’s effectively a town event. But I don’t think it’s straightforward, if we want to preserve the freedom to associate around contested beliefs, which we must.)

AnSolas · 19/07/2025 06:54

GeneralPeter · 19/07/2025 05:01

I have to say that I think religious groups should be allowed to do this. Policies against supposedly ‘hateful’ or extreme beliefs have been used to obstruct GC events for a decade. I don’t think the answer is to endorse the weapon but aim to wield it at the other side instead.

(I think Croydon Pride is an edge case, given the fact it’s effectively a town event. But I don’t think it’s straightforward, if we want to preserve the freedom to associate around contested beliefs, which we must.)

Thats fine if the Faith involved is only using the Faiths resources ( property and money etc ) to do whatever they are doing as that is then part of their faith pratice of living "in" their faith.
However what can not happen is the Faith are (at a detriment to others) allowed to use the wider communities resources and then (or by default) demanding the LA etc class all who will not worship as heretic.

MarieDeGournay · 19/07/2025 10:37

For me, the important takeaway from all this is that Croydon Pride, as elsewhere, is not LGBT Pride it is T pride.

Once upon a time it would have been Gay Pride. Then it started staging 'LGBT events', then by 2024 it was 'LGBTQIA events', and now, by introducing this Oath of Allegiance to those seeking to actively participate by having a stall, it is clearly staging a 'T' or 'TQ++' event.

Good luck to them. Have a lovely time. But stop pretending that these events are LGB events.
LGB ✂T

MarieDeGournay · 19/07/2025 11:17

Continuing the religious event analogy: if it was accurately named 'Croydon Trans Pride' and they wanted to make sure that stalls were all in accordance with trans ideology, I don't think I'd have a problem, just as I wouldn't expect an event clearly IDed as Methodist to have Jehovah's Witness stands, or vice versa
I don't mind groups and communities having their own days, their own cultural or social events; I don't feel threatened if an event is not for me.

I just want events to be accurately described; I wouldn't want to enthusiastically turn up at something that advertised itself under the broad ID of 'Christian' and find it didn't let Catholics have a stall because they are the wrong kind of Christian.

So next year they should name it 'Croydon Trans Pride', and then we'd all know where we stand.

RantzNotBantz · 19/07/2025 11:44

The whole thing about the Eid prayers is that they just ask / remind participants to be respectful of the protocols within that religion.

They don't ask for a public declaration of compliance before entry or to take part in the prayers, they leave it up to the individual, and they don't make any requests or anything at all about anyone else using the public park at the same time.

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