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The Bluestocking - Invoking Split Pea Annexe B

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Magpiecomplex · 01/07/2025 08:01

Welcome all, pull up a gerbil and make yourself comfortable!

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Chersfrozenface · 16/07/2025 18:38

Thank you @NasturtiumsAreUnderrated. I'm pretty sure that the local health board's policy is to avoid general anaesthetic wherever possible so I think it would be a local anaesthetic, if I have to go to the dental hospital. But crossed fingers it'll just be a dental surgery job.

NasturtiumsAreUnderrated · 16/07/2025 18:41

Interesting that this morning's Beeb story managed to find a flattering picture of Sandie Peggie for a change, instead of the ones they were using in R1, which managed to make her look 'hard'. OTOH the previously fragrant, fragile Dr U is more obviously male in the R2 images. The media never select images by accident.

NasturtiumsAreUnderrated · 16/07/2025 18:45

@Chersfrozenface
LA is safer, cheaper (much cheaper) to administer and recovery times are reduced. Better all round. Even hip replacement only warrants sedation these days.

Chersfrozenface · 16/07/2025 18:49

NasturtiumsAreUnderrated · 16/07/2025 18:45

@Chersfrozenface
LA is safer, cheaper (much cheaper) to administer and recovery times are reduced. Better all round. Even hip replacement only warrants sedation these days.

I've had both hips replaced - with spinal anaesthetic and sedation. Didn't know a thing about it

DeanElderberry · 16/07/2025 18:53

Irish dentists again, but I was told NOT to take aspirin after extraction because of the clotting issue.

Ask your pharmacist about the best was to combine the ibuprofen and paracetamol - taking them together can give you a stronger effect than staggering them - but since the usual dose is maximum 8 x paracetamol per day and max 6 x ibuprofen you'll need to dodge them round a bit. Oil of cloves would help your gums, or the pharmacy might recommend something else.

AlexandraLeaving · 16/07/2025 19:00

CautiousLurker01 · 15/07/2025 23:35

@MyrtleLion the life admin is so misunderstood. I needed a travel letter for DCs ADHD meds - over 3 weeks it took 6 phonecalls, 4 emails, an online consult and receiving/responding to 9 NHS texts… and then paying the bloody invoice. DH thought it just happened as a result of an online request. I’d never slate the NHS as have so many friends who work for them, but when you are trying to be seen it just adds to the underlying stress, doesn’t it? Fingers crossed you have some luck on getting an earlier appointment tomorrow!

@CautiousLurker01 what form of travel is this? You have just dangled the prospect of yet more life admin coming my way.

@MyrtleLion sorry for your ongoing troubles, and the frustration over the fake appointment. I’m with your husband - either there is an appointment slot or there isn’t but they can’t use a fake one to “meet their two week targets” while not actually seeing you.

AlexandraLeaving · 16/07/2025 19:12

Sorry, I posted prematurely before realising that half of the BlueStocking regulars are sick. Get well all afflicted. Here is a medical gerbil (presumably Germolene?) and a consultant badger to help tend you back to full strength.

The Bluestocking - Invoking Split Pea Annexe B
MarieDeGournay · 16/07/2025 19:14

Hello NasturtiumsAreUnderrated, you seem to know a lot, could you do a weekly drop-in clinic at the Bluestocking? You and Doc Quok treating all our ailments would be great😁

Long before they invented Panadol 'Extra' i.e. paracetamol + caffeine, a doctor told me that if you take an espresso with your paracetamol it'll work quicker. More quickly. Sorry, Pedantry Corner😧

I think Deano mentioned Arnica a while ago? I always use arnica ointment on the cheek at the site of the filling or whatever, before as well as after.
Possibly pure placebo, but I think it's beneficial. Therefore it is beneficial, that's the good thing about the placebo effect😀

Boiledbeetle · 16/07/2025 19:15

NasturtiumsAreUnderrated · 16/07/2025 18:31

Aspirin's fine. If concerned make paracetamol the first painkiller, but there's no need to worry. The things to avoid are nicotine products and alcohol. I doubt any smoker ever manages to, but abstaining in advance would be a good idea.

Edited

I do I do! I'm a smoker but religiously follow the rules when having an extraction. Still end up with dry socket and a course or 3 of antibiotics that I do wonder why I torture myself with the no smoking, no sucking anything, no sipping, no joy!

JanesLittleGirl · 16/07/2025 19:20

@Chersfrozenface You could try Cocodamol (codeine and paracetamol). You mustn't drive or drink alcohol but you will be in no pain.

Chersfrozenface · 16/07/2025 19:29

JanesLittleGirl · 16/07/2025 19:20

@Chersfrozenface You could try Cocodamol (codeine and paracetamol). You mustn't drive or drink alcohol but you will be in no pain.

Ooh, I've got a pile of those I didn't take after my latest hip op.

And at least I'm not having a wisdom tooth extracted - because I don't have any!

Boiledbeetle · 16/07/2025 19:31

I've been working on 3 documents all day whilst watching the Tribunal.

I've printed them off and got my red pen out...

I need another red pen.

I've only got to the end of the first document and the amount of cock ups is spectacular.

FuzzyPuffling · 16/07/2025 19:59

Please can someone exchange my rheumatologist with Consultant Badger? She has just the right facial expression of concern.

MyrtleLion · 16/07/2025 20:08

AlexandraLeaving · 16/07/2025 19:00

@CautiousLurker01 what form of travel is this? You have just dangled the prospect of yet more life admin coming my way.

@MyrtleLion sorry for your ongoing troubles, and the frustration over the fake appointment. I’m with your husband - either there is an appointment slot or there isn’t but they can’t use a fake one to “meet their two week targets” while not actually seeing you.

I spoke to her again today and she said she gave me a slot that someone already had as a way of opening the later list. Apparently they can doublebook an appointment, book a second appointment then cancel the first one to get around the list not opening up sooner.

Personally I think it's defeating the system. Surely it should be that everyone gets booked within two weeks and if the appointments are full then an alert should be raised saying they are at capacity/flagging a waiting list issue or something else...

By subverting the system, the data may not reflect the reality of the capacity issue.

Equally, why not give me the 2 August appointment when I called yesterday?

DeanElderberry · 16/07/2025 20:12

Consultant Badger looks so wise.

I had the usual battles with Oscar in the days after his visit to the vet when I tried to give him his laxative. Running away and hiding, hissing, even scratching. But then suddenly he decided he likes it, and sits after his tea gazing up with big pleading eyes, waiting for his treat. And then Rosy decided that if that's something cats like, she wants some too.

I think you're only meant to administer it once a week after the initial emergency (hairballs) is passed.

Bloody darling angel cats.

ErrolTheDragon · 16/07/2025 20:20

In better medical news, DH had an appointment with his consultant re eye problem, which seems to be settling down and probably due to one of the less scary possibilities so he’s not going to have to do oral steroids which might be a bad idea with his existing hypertension etc. The appointment was meant to be at 3:15 and he didn’t get seen till after 6pm but I think that was because the consultant knew he’d want a good discussion and also wanted to calibrate DHs home tonometer (eye pressure measuring device) … he’s a really good chap. I was loitering in a nearby park , somehow going into an eye clinic with one of my eyes looking dodgy didn’t seem like a good idea. Nice afternoon and I had an icecream. When we got home DH decreed the news sufficiently good to break out a bottle of champagne that’s been sitting in the fridge since we didn’t get round to having it at Xmas and then it escaped again when I didn’t retire in March because of his eye issue.

CautiousLurker01 · 16/07/2025 20:21

AlexandraLeaving · 16/07/2025 19:00

@CautiousLurker01 what form of travel is this? You have just dangled the prospect of yet more life admin coming my way.

@MyrtleLion sorry for your ongoing troubles, and the frustration over the fake appointment. I’m with your husband - either there is an appointment slot or there isn’t but they can’t use a fake one to “meet their two week targets” while not actually seeing you.

Many ADHD meds are class B drugs so require a bloody ridiculous level of ID even in Boots… but they are completely banned in many countries (thankfully never planning on Dubai) without medical evidence! Actually after the last three days Bognor is out too. Never taking DD on holiday again. Love her but …

MyrtleLion · 16/07/2025 20:35

FuzzyPuffling · 16/07/2025 19:59

Please can someone exchange my rheumatologist with Consultant Badger? She has just the right facial expression of concern.

Bessie and I just had a chat about how she became such a wise consultant.

In the dappled woods just beyond the Wiggly Brook, where sunlight danced on moss and mushrooms and the air always smelled faintly of lavender and disinfectant, there worked a most extraordinary doctor: Bessie the Consultant Badger.

With her perfectly pressed blue scrubs, polished stethoscope, and a facial expression best described as deeply concerned but in complete control, Bessie was the woodland's most trusted specialist. Her patients called her “the one who actually listens.” Her critics, (rare and mostly insecure), called her “a bit much.” They were wrong.

Now, Bessie hadn’t always been a doctor. In her youth, she was a passionate spore librarian, cataloguing lichen and giving public talks on the ethical uses of nettle. But all that changed one spring when a disoriented vole tripped over a dew-wet toadstool and landed in her archive. With a calm paw and a well-folded mushroom chart, Bessie splinted Vera's leg and brewed up a dandelion tonic for the shock. Word spread. Purpose called.

She retrained at the Burrowford Institute of Woodland Medicine and graduated top of her class despite arguing with half the syllabus, before opening a quiet little practice with her trusted assistant: Geraldine the Medical Gerbil.

Geraldine, a tiny dynamo in sensible shoes, was once a pioneering dental researcher, but after discovering that molars bored her rigid, she pivoted to general practice. She now runs Bessie’s clinic like a ship: efficient, warm, slightly minty from all the eucalyptus she keeps in her sleeve pockets.

Together, Bessie and Geraldine treat every ailment from bluebell burnout and chronic sap fatigue to the all-too-common existential dizziness brought on by owl lectures. But Bessie’s true gift lies in the complex cases: the mystery symptoms that leave other doctors shrugging into the hedgerow.

And that’s how FuzzyPuffling came to their door.

A baby puffin with chronic aches, stiff wings, and the sinking suspicion that her rheumatologist thought she was just "emotional," FuzzyPuffling had nearly given up. “It's probably growing pains,” they’d said. “Try sardines.” But pain is pain, and puffins are not made to suffer silently.

From the moment she waddled into the clinic, Bessie’s eyes narrowed in focused sympathy. She placed a gentle paw on Fuzzy’s wing and said, “Tell me everything. Start with what they dismissed.”

Geraldine handed over a lavender compress and took detailed notes with the same pen she’d once used to correct a journal article on the underdiagnosis of tendon fog. Bessie listened for a full hour, nodding solemnly, occasionally exhaling with such compassion that several dandelions outside spontaneously fluffed.

By the end of the appointment, FuzzyPuffling had a personalised care plan, a tiny ergonomic perch for flare-ups, and strict instructions to ignore anyone who called her brave when what she needed was rest. Bessie gave her a parsnip muffin and a promise: “We’ll take this seriously, and you’ll never be brushed off again.”

Today, the clinic in the glade remains a sanctuary of competence and calm. Bessie consults, Geraldine administrates, and patients leave feeling taller, lighter, and slightly better moisturised.

Somewhere out in the hedgerow, creatures whisper to each other:

"Ask Bessie."

She’s the consultant badger with answers, the wise healer with furrowed brows, and without question, vastly better than FuzzyPuffling’s old rheumatologist.

FuzzyPuffling · 16/07/2025 20:38

Myrtle, that's bloody amazing. X
I might just send that for my next e-consult!

NasturtiumsAreUnderrated · 16/07/2025 22:00

@MarieDeGournay
I'm a very part-time MNer, because most of the time it exasperates me. I'm too knackered for my usual summer pursuits so I thought I'd drop by FWR and scratch a persistent semantic itch.

lcakethereforeIam · 16/07/2025 22:21

❤️s to everyone feeling poorly.

I've done a marathon catching up on the Peggie threads having been out all day. I had a reminder about sss's too. Managed to get bird poop all over the seat of my pants. Knowing fella wouldn't want it in his car and just...yuck I went to the ladies and was able to scrub it off in the sink. I then had to walk out through the cafe wearing soaking wet trousers, possibly leaving a dripping trail behind me, I kept my head high and didn't look. Dried in no time, as trousers fortunately and coincidentally bought for those occasions when you absolutely have to paddle.

Loved the Bessie Badger backstop. Reminded me of the Bill Badger books by 'BB', although it's been years since i read one.

When I was small we once drove past a beautiful thatched, Tudor-esque cottage in the middle of the countryside that had BB on a sign by the door. I was utterly convinced, for years, that must be where the author lived.

MyrtleLion · 16/07/2025 23:30

FuzzyPuffling · 16/07/2025 20:38

Myrtle, that's bloody amazing. X
I might just send that for my next e-consult!

I may have had help...

MarieDeGournay · 16/07/2025 23:40

NasturtiumsAreUnderrated · 16/07/2025 22:00

@MarieDeGournay
I'm a very part-time MNer, because most of the time it exasperates me. I'm too knackered for my usual summer pursuits so I thought I'd drop by FWR and scratch a persistent semantic itch.

Fair 'nuff. Nice to meet you, and good of you to pop in to the Bluestocking with helpful advice.
It looks like Bessie the Consultant Badger and Geraldine the Gerbil - 'a tiny dynamo in sensible shoes,', in Myrtle's wonderful tale - can handle the weekly clinic, so just call in for a drink and a persistent-semantic-itch-scratch [Bessie and Geraldine may have something for that]whenever you feel like itSmile

AlexandraLeaving · 17/07/2025 06:00

MyrtleLion · 16/07/2025 20:08

I spoke to her again today and she said she gave me a slot that someone already had as a way of opening the later list. Apparently they can doublebook an appointment, book a second appointment then cancel the first one to get around the list not opening up sooner.

Personally I think it's defeating the system. Surely it should be that everyone gets booked within two weeks and if the appointments are full then an alert should be raised saying they are at capacity/flagging a waiting list issue or something else...

By subverting the system, the data may not reflect the reality of the capacity issue.

Equally, why not give me the 2 August appointment when I called yesterday?

I think there is a fair bit of evidence from the Peggie case the NHS has stopped dealing in reality…

Edited to add… Consultant Bessie Badger is delighted with her backstory.

EdithStourton · 17/07/2025 07:01

I'm having a busy week so just popping in for a quick croissant and to wish all those Stockingers enduring health, job application or general life struggles a speedy improvement in their circumstances.

Batshit has volunteered to cuddle up next to anyone who wants a quiet sit on a sofa with a nice dog. She doesnt nag or fidget, she just likes being close to a human, and she's very sweet (though goes from 0 to 60 in 0.05 of a second if a walk is in the offing).

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