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Good Law Project's latest claim - fact check?

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teawamutu · 17/06/2025 18:14

I'm sure there must be some arrant bollocks in here somewhere, because Jolyon.

But is there anything worrying in this?

goodlawproject.org/ehrc-backs-down-on-single-sex-toilets/

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Tandora · 18/06/2025 09:07

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/06/2025 09:01

Indeed.

If it's unproblematic for women to share toilet facilities with male people when they would rather not do so, it's also unproblematic for trans women to share toilet facilities with other male people when they would rather not do so.

If you think it's OK to upset female women but not OK to upset male women, you obviously do see them as men and believe men are superior. Which means you are lying when you say trans women are women and lying when you say you are a feminist.

*If you think it's OK to upset female women but not OK to upset male women, you obviously do see them as men and believe men are superior. Which means you are lying when you say trans women are women.

Hahahahhaha this is new feats of twisted and diabolical brilliance in GC circular logic. Hats off to you 😂😂. Will be bookmarking this one.

Keeptoiletssafe · 18/06/2025 09:07

Tandora · 18/06/2025 08:48

It’s my prediction that there will be fewer women’s spaces as a result of a general rule mandating restriction of single sex spaces by “birth sex”. Employers and others will move to a gender neutral model to avoid inevitable resulting difficulties and there will be fewer services for women.

this is the fault of the people advocating for such an unreasonable and untenable rule because of their obsession with and hatred of trans people.

There are building regs to stop this happening. I do agree we need to be careful that more universal provision isn’t added. It’s dangerous. Most single sex toilets are safer by design.
I have been campaigning for safe toilets for everyone. Everyone is safer going to single sex toilets that aren’t fully enclosed. For that, people need to go to the toilet of their sex. If there’s any ambiguity, even single sex designs go enclosed.
’Gender neutral’ designs are dirtier, less hygienic and dangerous for the occupier.

Shortshriftandlethal · 18/06/2025 09:08

Tandora · 18/06/2025 08:50

Nope. I am blaming unreasonable and transphobic people for their lack of reason and transphobia and the resulting consequences (which will be worse for women).

These accusations have lost their impact. You are fighting a losing game.

Best just to accept reality then get on with your life; respecting that others have established rights and protections too.

Shortshriftandlethal · 18/06/2025 09:09

Tandora · 18/06/2025 09:07

*If you think it's OK to upset female women but not OK to upset male women, you obviously do see them as men and believe men are superior. Which means you are lying when you say trans women are women.

Hahahahhaha this is new feats of twisted and diabolical brilliance in GC circular logic. Hats off to you 😂😂. Will be bookmarking this one.

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Maybe one day you will also understand its relevence.

Merrymouse · 18/06/2025 09:10

Tandora · 18/06/2025 08:55

They are not going to get over it because their fundamental being is at stake. To the contrary you will have to get over this because sharing some spaces with a few trans women hardly affects your life at all. If you don’t get over it the result will be fewer services for women, which will affect your life somewhat, although not as much as the current proposals will affect trans people.

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How is their fundamental being at stake?

I’m not clear what argument you are making.

If you are suggesting that acknowledging their sex is traumatic because of dysphoria, there is certainly an argument for reasonable accommodation and that is unisex facilities.

Keeptoiletssafe · 18/06/2025 09:11

Tandora · 18/06/2025 08:55

They are not going to get over it because their fundamental being is at stake. To the contrary you will have to get over this because sharing some spaces with a few trans women hardly affects your life at all. If you don’t get over it the result will be fewer services for women, which will affect your life somewhat, although not as much as the current proposals will affect trans people.

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You are wrong. Toilet design changes when there’s ambiguity which creates dangerous situations for everyone.

What’s at stake is life - literally. So yes, it does affect a lot of people.

The Supreme Court ruling has the ability to save lives.

titchy · 18/06/2025 09:12

Tandora · 18/06/2025 08:36

Right so I guess employers will be doing that bare minimum

The bare minimum provision is fine - why wouldn’t it be. Employers aren’t going to suddenly spend money where they don’t need do. And most employers have the required number of male and female loos.

borntobequiet · 18/06/2025 09:12

Tandora · 18/06/2025 08:10

You need to read my post - I didn’t say there was a change of law.

I said it was a clarification of this wording from the guidance that was already being interpreted by employers with real world consequences for trans people:

“In workplaces, it is compulsory to provide sufficient single-sex toilets….”

They have clarified that workplaces don’t need to provide single sex toilets, they just need to provide toilets with private cubicles.
Which has indeed always been the law.

Most feminists absolutely say “cis”. You don’t own feminism and thank god for that

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Most feminists absolutely say “cis”. You don’t own feminism and thank god for that

Those will be the sort of “feminists” you know, not the ones that the vast majority of us know, who prefer to use language that isn’t deliberately made elaborate, obscure and misleading.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/06/2025 09:13

borntobequiet · 18/06/2025 09:12

Most feminists absolutely say “cis”. You don’t own feminism and thank god for that

Those will be the sort of “feminists” you know, not the ones that the vast majority of us know, who prefer to use language that isn’t deliberately made elaborate, obscure and misleading.

They'll be the kind of feminists who have sat around bleating helplessly whilst women's rights have been rolled back in America.

Cornishpotato · 18/06/2025 09:14

Igneococcus · 18/06/2025 08:58

They are not going to get over it because their fundamental being is at stake. You will have to get over this because it actually hardly affects your life at all.

Men not allowed into women's spaces: their fundamental being is at stake.
Women not allowed to keep men out of their spaces: hardly affects their life.
Really?

The law is clear, we don't have to get over anything at all because it's not changing anytime soon.

Men fundamentally aren't women and women fundamentally aren't less equal to men. This is all in the Equality Act 2010.

Get over it.

Shortshriftandlethal · 18/06/2025 09:15

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/06/2025 09:13

They'll be the kind of feminists who have sat around bleating helplessly whilst women's rights have been rolled back in America.

A feminist is a woman who centres and/or prioritises female people in their thinking. Their wider political ideology, if they have one, is not as important.

KnottyAuty · 18/06/2025 09:16

Tandora · 18/06/2025 08:53

whatever words you insist on using it doesn’t change the substantive point that there will be fewer facilities designated specifically for women

Possibly but possibly not. I agree that to avoid controversy women only services will be cut/not offered in the short term.

But over time the market will return because in the end there is a need there and businesses need turnover.

The Building Regs were altered last year and they include familiar single sex banks of loos still. Unisex are much much more expensive and they take up much more space. People commissioning buildings will provide minimal unisex due to cost unless theyre ideologically driven to focus budget on loos.

So I predict in the short term there will be less stuff/fewer spaces & services for women. Then over time there will be extra small third unisex spaces added and more women only stuff will return. It won’t happen overnight because this all took 15 years or more to creep in.

It will eventually get balanced out to a sensible position but sadly women will never trust “the authorities” again and will have to remain weirdly hypervigilant about all future legislation. Because clearly the law and policy makers think we aren’t worth bothering about. That’s the real discrimination in all of this. Profoundly depressing

Merrymouse · 18/06/2025 09:16

I just want to know how you tell that a stranger is ‘cis’.

WithSilverBells · 18/06/2025 09:16

Tandora · 18/06/2025 09:07

*If you think it's OK to upset female women but not OK to upset male women, you obviously do see them as men and believe men are superior. Which means you are lying when you say trans women are women.

Hahahahhaha this is new feats of twisted and diabolical brilliance in GC circular logic. Hats off to you 😂😂. Will be bookmarking this one.

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Translation: shit, that's a great point and I don't know how to refute it

Anzena · 18/06/2025 09:17

We shall have overcome. Free at last. Free at last. Thank god almighty we're free at last.

Shortshriftandlethal · 18/06/2025 09:17

Merrymouse · 18/06/2025 09:16

I just want to know how you tell that a stranger is ‘cis’.

They are usually wearing a rainbow lanyard, a big badge, a shemag, and at weekends a face mask.

Merrymouse · 18/06/2025 09:22

Tandora · 18/06/2025 08:53

whatever words you insist on using it doesn’t change the substantive point that there will be fewer facilities designated specifically for women

I’m still confused.

You have said that you don’t want to share toilets with a cis man, but that you are happy to share toilets with some male people.

You haven’t explained how you tell the difference between these male people.

Tandora · 18/06/2025 09:23

KnottyAuty · 18/06/2025 09:16

Possibly but possibly not. I agree that to avoid controversy women only services will be cut/not offered in the short term.

But over time the market will return because in the end there is a need there and businesses need turnover.

The Building Regs were altered last year and they include familiar single sex banks of loos still. Unisex are much much more expensive and they take up much more space. People commissioning buildings will provide minimal unisex due to cost unless theyre ideologically driven to focus budget on loos.

So I predict in the short term there will be less stuff/fewer spaces & services for women. Then over time there will be extra small third unisex spaces added and more women only stuff will return. It won’t happen overnight because this all took 15 years or more to creep in.

It will eventually get balanced out to a sensible position but sadly women will never trust “the authorities” again and will have to remain weirdly hypervigilant about all future legislation. Because clearly the law and policy makers think we aren’t worth bothering about. That’s the real discrimination in all of this. Profoundly depressing

Thanks for a reasonable response/ discussion of the actual point.

I agree unisex are much more expensive and take up more space, which is why I believe that there will not only be fewer services designated specifically for women, but also fewer facilities over all.

I disagree with your long term predictions, if the current climate/ 'rules' stay as they are. However, it is my prediction that we will ultimately move past this, when there is greater levels of understanding and acceptance of being trans.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/06/2025 09:25

Shortshriftandlethal · 18/06/2025 09:15

A feminist is a woman who centres and/or prioritises female people in their thinking. Their wider political ideology, if they have one, is not as important.

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That's my point. If feminists in America spent less time fannying about with pronouns and including trans women, and more time focusing on the actual sex based needs of actual female people, they wouldn't be one of the only countries in the developed world without reliable access to abortions and the only country in the developed world without paid maternity leave.

Feminists in America should have zero spare bandwidth for trans women right now.

WithSilverBells · 18/06/2025 09:27

However, it is my prediction that we will move past this, when there is greater levels of understanding and acceptance of being trans.

Polls show that the more the public understand the demands of those under the 'trans umbrella' the less they like it.

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/06/2025 09:29

Tandora · 18/06/2025 09:23

Thanks for a reasonable response/ discussion of the actual point.

I agree unisex are much more expensive and take up more space, which is why I believe that there will not only be fewer services designated specifically for women, but also fewer facilities over all.

I disagree with your long term predictions, if the current climate/ 'rules' stay as they are. However, it is my prediction that we will ultimately move past this, when there is greater levels of understanding and acceptance of being trans.

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If you think women are going to "move past" their silly obsession with being allowed to exist in law and have sex based rights and a few small places in the world which are just for us, you're very wrong.

The more understanding there is of trans people, the less acceptance there will be. Because people will understand that their demands are not reasonable, and their identities shouldn't trump everyone else's needs.

Tandora · 18/06/2025 09:29

WithSilverBells · 18/06/2025 09:27

However, it is my prediction that we will move past this, when there is greater levels of understanding and acceptance of being trans.

Polls show that the more the public understand the demands of those under the 'trans umbrella' the less they like it.

They see trans people making "demands" because they don't understand what it is to be trans.

Tandora · 18/06/2025 09:30

MissScarletInTheBallroom · 18/06/2025 09:29

If you think women are going to "move past" their silly obsession with being allowed to exist in law and have sex based rights and a few small places in the world which are just for us, you're very wrong.

The more understanding there is of trans people, the less acceptance there will be. Because people will understand that their demands are not reasonable, and their identities shouldn't trump everyone else's needs.

There is no threat whatsoever to women's existence in law. The threat is to the existence of trans people in law.

GallantKumquat · 18/06/2025 09:30

@Tandora They have clarified that workplaces don’t need to provide single sex toilets, if they provide private toilets with a lockable door . Which has indeed always been the law.

Since this is the topic of the thread, it's worth pointing out emphatically that this is not true. In fact the GLP misunderstood the interim update, intentionally or through neglect.

In the interim update document are found the following two statements:

  • "In workplaces, it is compulsory to provide sufficient single-sex toilets, as well as sufficient single-sex changing and washing facilities where these facilities are needed."
and
  • "where toilet, washing or changing facilities are in lockable rooms (not cubicles) which are intended for the use of one person at a time, they can be used by either women or men"

The second statement is one of a list of statements that elaborates on the first. The meaning is clear: single-sex toilets are compulsory, one-person-at-a-time lockable rooms satisfy that requirement.

The EHRC's response gives that observation precise legal form:

Above the bullet points, the summary observation is made that “in workplaces, it is compulsory to provide sufficient single-sex toilets, as well as sufficient single-sex changing and washing facilities where these facilities are needed” (bold in original). While your concern relates to toilets, this observation concerned changing and washing facilities as well. This falls to be read with the last of the bullet points which states that “where toilet, washing or changing facilities are in lockable rooms (not cubicles) which are intended for the use of one person at a time, they can be used by either women or men”

The sufficiency of the interim update in this respect is confirmed by the fact that there was no need to update the document as a result of the the GLP's letter. The fact that the GLP is trying to declare this as a victory is a shameful misrepresentation of their action and the results it achieved, apparently playing on the partisan driven credulity of its supporters. Though, in the spirit of comity, that's disposition I wouldn't attribute to any of the posters on this thread.

https://goodlawproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/2025.06.13-REDACTED-Response-to-Letter-of-Claim-1.pdf

WithSilverBells · 18/06/2025 09:31

Tandora · 18/06/2025 09:29

They see trans people making "demands" because they don't understand what it is to be trans.

No one seems to understand what it is to be trans, including trans people and their allies. That is one of the many problems

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