Oh yes.
When you're pushing against a strong social narrative, and are constantly
slammed for it, it's really easy to get defensive, and then a bit shirty, and finally properly cross.
With each move, the tinfoil hat becomes more evident to the 'kind', 'liberal', 'thoughtful' person you're talking too.
But I do am utterly boggled that so many people were so stupid, or so willing to go along with the cool, 'kind' crowd, that they chucked safeguarding out of the window.
I was never cool, so that probably helped me...