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What my NHS Trust have said about the Supreme Court verdict

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Opinionpolecat · 18/04/2025 07:28

The NHS Trust I work at sent an e-mail to all staff yesterday talking about the Supreme Court ruling. They stated that the judges have said that “woman” in UK law is based on biological sex. They go on to say that they want to be clear the ruling does not change the fact that everyone is welcome in the Trust and that they are an inclusive organisation. They say everyone deserves respect and understanding including staff, patients and families. They understand that some staff members may feel they need support at this time and recommend the LGBT+ staff network where LGBT+ staff and allies can find support and advice.

It struck me that they think only LGBT+ plus staff and allies will need support and advice, and the reassurance that the trust is such an inclusive organisation. They say nothing about the fact their policies have discriminated against female staff and patients for many years. They don't even admit to it but say this wasn't their fault, it was due to NHS wide guidance and they offer no apology to female staff, patients and their allies about these years of discrimination. They say nothing about the fact that for many years some female staff and patients may not have felt welcome or included within the Trust. Have any other NHS staff had similar messages?

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Shortshriftandlethal · 18/04/2025 10:18

ErrolTheDragon · 18/04/2025 10:16

Bloody hell. So the taxpayer is going to have to foot the bill to sort out his illegal mess?

I certainly hope he is held accountable. He implemented this in spite of complaints by parents, and in spite of the girls not liking it.

Skyellaskerry · 18/04/2025 10:24

RedToothBrush · 18/04/2025 07:45

It's all about maintaining the hostile environment for women to keep complaints about how women's rights have been violated to a minimum. They certainly are not going to admit liability cos £££.

They should be saying "We understand that the ruling has caused distress to some and is an acknowledgement that the rights of others have not always been upheld as they should have within the law. We stress the law has not changed; we remain committed to equality for all and will work with all parties to uphold equality of all staff. If you have any concerns or feel this has affected you in anyway please speak to HR. All concerns will be dealt with discreetly. We understand that this affects a large number of people in different ways. The trust understands that the privacy and dignity of all staff and patients remains paramount. Going forward our focus is on providing high quality standards of care for patients and ensuring all staff feel safe in their work environment. We expect all staff to remain professional and to treat others with respect and be sensitive to all surrounding this subject. We will issue updated guidance as soon as possible".

It should be neutral not dick pandering. It's ok to acknowledge some don't like and need reassurance but equally you need to stress that others have been let down and not had their rights upheld as they should be. And it should stress professionalism and respect but in no particular direction.

I completely agree. And your text is perfectly written!

Employers need to act like the grown ups here, be factual, neutral, and avoid emotion. Ideally they should acknowledge - or better apologise - for having interpreted the law differently to the judgment and affected so many staff and patients through this but they won’t.

DuesToTheDirt · 18/04/2025 10:25

Micaela64 · 18/04/2025 08:43

No, they don't need apologies for being too closed minded to be in the same spaces as trans women, most of which are nice people if you'd actually take the time to get to know some instead of just letting the Daily Mail tell you what to think (as someone with trans friends)

Trans women are men. I don't care if they are in the "same spaces" as me, same as I don't care if other men are in the "same spaces", but none of them should be in women's single-sex spaces. End of.

And yes, I do know some trans women. And I know they're not women.

As for the Daily Mail telling me what to think? Is that what you do, letting other people tell you what to think? I've got a brain of my own, thank you very much.

KnottyAuty · 18/04/2025 10:36

MissSmith80 · 18/04/2025 10:00

i just went back and read the email from my Trust yesterday - sounds almost identical. Sent on behalf of the LBGTQ network and shared by the womens network but as others have said, focussed on the impact on the feelings of the trans community.

We are either at the same trust or the same message being shared across many. I suspect the latter.

Would people be prepared to share the letters somehow? Redacted obvs to remove personal details

identical letters across all trusts - if they’re not particularly neutral is potentially newsworthy…

Upload screenshots here?

shrinkingthiswinter · 18/04/2025 10:52

Those messages are on pretty dodgy legal ground. Trusts have been misapplying the law to the disadvantage of their female staff. If they are now sending messages which create a hostile environment for women who are upset by the discriminatory behaviour… well, sounds like more work for Tribunal Tweets.

Skyellaskerry · 18/04/2025 10:54

Assistantarchibald · 18/04/2025 09:50

Except that as an employer they’re bound by the 1992 H&S Regulations that confer a legal requirement to provide single sex spaces. So for employees at least that’s a legal requirement.

Would they make all of the public toilets mixed sex? They’d have to still abide by building regs in that case where toilets have a wash basin within a fully enclosed toilet if mixed sex. Would be an expense to change all toilets to meet these requirements, can’t just change the door.

The 1992 H&S regulations have been conveniently ignored especially as they refer to needing separate facilities for men and women (unless fully self contained) but the judgment should mean this law can be properly applied again. Health and safety practitioners will, I’m sure, find this clarity valuable.

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 18/04/2025 11:00

KnottyAuty · 18/04/2025 10:36

Would people be prepared to share the letters somehow? Redacted obvs to remove personal details

identical letters across all trusts - if they’re not particularly neutral is potentially newsworthy…

Upload screenshots here?

I wondered about a jotform? Like for the auditors?

Gettingbysomehow · 18/04/2025 11:00

DuesToTheDirt · 18/04/2025 10:25

Trans women are men. I don't care if they are in the "same spaces" as me, same as I don't care if other men are in the "same spaces", but none of them should be in women's single-sex spaces. End of.

And yes, I do know some trans women. And I know they're not women.

As for the Daily Mail telling me what to think? Is that what you do, letting other people tell you what to think? I've got a brain of my own, thank you very much.

It cracks me up when people say you can't tell they are not women. There are several regulars in my town and they all look obviously like men.

Theuniversalshere1 · 18/04/2025 11:03

ItisntOver · 18/04/2025 09:29

Chest feeder. Birthing body or birthing parent (not mother). Cervix haver.

All used to replace familiar words like women, mother, breastfeeding etc. And the fully captured professions and organisations support it. See the recent La Leche stramash.

Well, hopefully it will put a stop to the madness now and can all get back to some normality with it sll.

I believe trans should have safe spaces and obviously have rights and not ne discriminated against, as a lesbian woman. but to change language so much is crazy to even insinuate it is bonkers imo.

Haulage · 18/04/2025 11:17

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 18/04/2025 08:58

Could I ask all of you who are getting these emails from NHS trusts to hold on to them? I’m trying to think of a way of collating them (anonymously for you all) for the audit…

One was sent out to all staff in my Trust yesterday, similar to the one in the OP. It felt very much like it was intended to make any GC staff feel excluded and maintain the hostile environment. I’ve kept a copy.

Bunpea · 18/04/2025 11:20

Shortshriftandlethal · 18/04/2025 09:26

I suspect some committed trusts may attempt to get around the ruling by providing only universal mixed sex spaces with full length doors. Sarah Montague, on Radio 4 yesterday suggested that all spaces could be named 'gendered' spaces rather than sex based spaces, for example, to get around the 'problem'.

You couldn't make this shit up. Astonishing!

Yes quite possibly. But those full height doors on unisex loos make them unsafe and are not a good solution. There’s an expert on MN who has posted about how dangerous they are - I’ll see if I can find the details. Basically, the issue is you can’t see if someone is on the floor.

People are ill and collapse in loos- epileptics, drug takers, diabetic hypos etc. As an example, most schools will have more than one epileptic or diabetic pupil.
Toilets are also where people tend to go to when they’re feeling ill - heart attacks etc.

Most paramedics are familiar with having to go in to toilets to help someone who has collapsed.

TorturedParentsDepartment · 18/04/2025 11:23

My Trust has said absolutely bloody nothing yet (well you can't expect senior management to be working over a long bank holiday weekend can you?)

I'm expecting a deluge of emails on Tuesday from the Disabled Staff people who are completely and totally captured and gender alphabet soup-itized reminding us all that gender feels totally overrule law of the land now, and no doubt a huge sad faced email when the Chief Exec Club get back from their break... especially since the Trust seemed to be determined to capture the whole gender identity specialist clinic niche previously so this puts a bit of a spanner in the works.

It's always been really hard for me as my client base are very... unfiltered... and see things in very simple views and aren't able to navigate the nuances of social politeness and pronoun dancing - and it's been trying to protect them in a trans-washed environment.

ErrolTheDragon · 18/04/2025 11:29

Bunpea · 18/04/2025 11:20

Yes quite possibly. But those full height doors on unisex loos make them unsafe and are not a good solution. There’s an expert on MN who has posted about how dangerous they are - I’ll see if I can find the details. Basically, the issue is you can’t see if someone is on the floor.

People are ill and collapse in loos- epileptics, drug takers, diabetic hypos etc. As an example, most schools will have more than one epileptic or diabetic pupil.
Toilets are also where people tend to go to when they’re feeling ill - heart attacks etc.

Most paramedics are familiar with having to go in to toilets to help someone who has collapsed.

Full length doors in a hospital would be a particularly bad idea, obviously. For goodness sakes if you’re in organisations who propose them as a solution raise the safety issues. It’s something too many people just don’t think about - I’m very grateful to @KeepToiletsSafefor raising awareness about this.

Myalternate · 18/04/2025 11:48

BeardofHagrid · 18/04/2025 08:04

A bit off topic, but does “NHS trust” mean a hospital?

The description ‘TRUST’ is clearly a misnomer.

Hairyesterdaygonetoday · 18/04/2025 12:30

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Do you really not understand that men can be dangerous to women, especially those who want to break women’s boundaries? Or that women have a right to privacy and to associate in single-sex groups?

Do you really not know that for years, women have had their rights and needs ignored in favour of men, even where the law was supposedly protecting women?
For example, gender self-ID has never been legalised in this country. But it has been widely practised even by state institutions such as the police and courts. To the detriment of women.

And do you really not understand that, as our rights have been trampled down for so long, we may face a lot of work to get them restored in reality?

Shortshriftandlethal · 18/04/2025 13:18

Bunpea · 18/04/2025 11:20

Yes quite possibly. But those full height doors on unisex loos make them unsafe and are not a good solution. There’s an expert on MN who has posted about how dangerous they are - I’ll see if I can find the details. Basically, the issue is you can’t see if someone is on the floor.

People are ill and collapse in loos- epileptics, drug takers, diabetic hypos etc. As an example, most schools will have more than one epileptic or diabetic pupil.
Toilets are also where people tend to go to when they’re feeling ill - heart attacks etc.

Most paramedics are familiar with having to go in to toilets to help someone who has collapsed.

I agree...but they are increasingly more common place

PonyPatter44 · 18/04/2025 13:24

HM Prison Service hasn't said anything about the ruling so far...but then everyone has been a tiny bit busy and distracted this week.

KnottyAuty · 18/04/2025 13:28

TwoLoonsAndASprout · 18/04/2025 11:00

I wondered about a jotform? Like for the auditors?

Ok here you go - if people upload them here I can pass them on to the journalist who has been looking into the NHS policies on single sex:
https://form.jotform.com/251073597264361

Noone will know who uploaded the file - including me

TwentyKittens · 18/04/2025 13:32

Rainbowpug · 18/04/2025 07:54

I love my social media,I'm on ticktok far to much ,I tend to avoid trans issues as it just winds me up
But since the ruling every second post is by a trans person,bleeting away .
Trans women almost threatening, "saying well let's see how all your husband's like being in the men's toilets with me ,let's see how that goes ,all those men having a party in the men's toilets with me ,see how you like that "...
What the hell is that about

They're men, so it's the same old male aggression when they don't get their own way bollocks.

CranfordScones · 18/04/2025 13:47

"We acknowledge that our legal interpretation (along with most HR departments) wasn't based on the stated law but on a narrow ideological strand of how a small but powerful minority would wish it to be. We further acknowledge that an entrenched groupthink led us to pursue an unjustified witch hunt against those brave enough to speak out. We did nothing to address the legitimate concerns of those women except to enable their bullies. We acknowledge our wrongdoing and unreservedly apologise to the courageous women and others who were wrongly victimised and made to feel excluded. We embrace diversity - including diversity of thought and opinion - and will do more to live up to those values in future."

There's a draft for any official body that's still confused.

surreygirlzz · 18/04/2025 13:48

Rainbowpug · 18/04/2025 07:54

I love my social media,I'm on ticktok far to much ,I tend to avoid trans issues as it just winds me up
But since the ruling every second post is by a trans person,bleeting away .
Trans women almost threatening, "saying well let's see how all your husband's like being in the men's toilets with me ,let's see how that goes ,all those men having a party in the men's toilets with me ,see how you like that "...
What the hell is that about

Ignore them they are just vacuous

Haulage · 18/04/2025 13:49

KnottyAuty · 18/04/2025 13:28

Ok here you go - if people upload them here I can pass them on to the journalist who has been looking into the NHS policies on single sex:
https://form.jotform.com/251073597264361

Noone will know who uploaded the file - including me

Thanks, I’ve requested access.

Merrymouse · 18/04/2025 13:49

CranfordScones · 18/04/2025 13:47

"We acknowledge that our legal interpretation (along with most HR departments) wasn't based on the stated law but on a narrow ideological strand of how a small but powerful minority would wish it to be. We further acknowledge that an entrenched groupthink led us to pursue an unjustified witch hunt against those brave enough to speak out. We did nothing to address the legitimate concerns of those women except to enable their bullies. We acknowledge our wrongdoing and unreservedly apologise to the courageous women and others who were wrongly victimised and made to feel excluded. We embrace diversity - including diversity of thought and opinion - and will do more to live up to those values in future."

There's a draft for any official body that's still confused.

Good - but would their lawyers allow such an admission of fault?

BlueLimes · 18/04/2025 13:51

KnottyAuty · 18/04/2025 10:36

Would people be prepared to share the letters somehow? Redacted obvs to remove personal details

identical letters across all trusts - if they’re not particularly neutral is potentially newsworthy…

Upload screenshots here?

Yes I would. Some of them are between groups ie women’s group to lgbt grouo but I’ll be able to get them, plus the executive team are in the emails. I’m not a member of either) but someone in my team showed me while 🙄

KnottyAuty · 18/04/2025 13:52

Haulage · 18/04/2025 13:49

Thanks, I’ve requested access.

Not sure what happened there - can you try again to access - should be open now

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